Zi Chen Soul Fragrant Woman 2022-08-26 15:02 Posted in Anhui
Xiaoyi Book Club, like 516 ▲ Click to follow the video number @ Xiaoyi Book Club Nowadays, the four words of "timely stop loss" seem to be the standard answer to the marriage and love problem. But there are always people who don't take the usual path. TVB has a magical old melon that is taken out and eaten every once in a while, and then falls silent until the next time.
Not long ago, "Chen Ziyao Wang Haoxin Divorce" rushed to the top of the hot search list, but soon the two of them debunked their own rumors. Man: Everything is fine, thank you for your concern. Woman: I will not respond to today's reports that are not facts, thank you for your concern.
Full of polite indifference.
This entanglement involves three people: the female protagonist Chen Ziyao, the male protagonist Wang Haoxin, and the third party Cai Sibei. These three people are not very famous, and they have appeared in the mainland for two famous scenes. First, in January last year, at the Awards Ceremony, Wang Haoxin was delighted to be the Emperor of Television and stood on the podium to deliver a routine speech: Thank you TVB, thank you to my family Yoyo for taking good care of my daughter. The camera turned, giving Chen Ziyao a close-up of the face of the stage, but she was unexpectedly indifferent, in the words of the president Wen, it was three points cool and thin, three points of ridicule and four points of carelessness.
The media described her as "blackface", saying the couple had completed a tearing scene with just one expression. The other time was last November when TVB walked the red carpet. Wang Haoxin cheated on Cai Sibei, and the false reality has been passed on for 6 years, who expected that this time the two were openly arranged to appear arm in arm. The male protagonist does not squint at the strict (heart) su (virtual), but Cai Sibei tightens his boyfriend and is full of pride.
Ming's provocation offended the melon-eating masses, and netizens' sense of justice broke out, scolding the couple not to face. Chen Ziyao was calm and idle after walking the red carpet alone, anxious for netizens to shout and persuade him to leave, "Sister Is beautiful! ”
The audience is still too serious. TVB's arrangement is deliberate, one is that there has always been a tradition of holding hands and walking the red carpet after seeing the emperor, and the other is that TVB often handles cheating artists, and does not snow hide the two forcibly separate, and the employees want to show their love in a high-profile manner, and there is no permission from the top level and no courage.
TVB uses the audience's emotions to push the boat along the water with the tag topic, the traffic is not coming, the hot search is not explosive. The three people are all social animals, do you dare not cooperate with the company's exposure? Hype, TVB is professional. Follow the timeline to pick up this boiling extramarital affair. The scandal between Cai Sibei and Wang Haoxin first appeared during the promotion and broadcast period of "Blind Man", that is, in 2016. But soon, girls have new gossip objects. Until 2018, when Wang Haoxin won the Emperor of Vision, Cai Sibei rushed to the front of the stage to see him receive the award, and was ridiculed by the media like a Wangfu stone, and the relationship was stamped.
The actual situation was that there were a large number of people around the stage at that time, and the photo only cut her:
Later, it was rumored that the two of them secretly hid in the VIP room for a few minutes of dating, and Wang Haoxin repeatedly shouted injustice, saying that it was a group of colleagues who ate hot pot and had never been alone together. During the time when he made a scandal, the relationship between the two sons also seemed to be quite good, and they came out together for interviews many times. After a while, Chen Ziyao's attitude changed, mentioning Wang Haoxin's cold face, when the media reported that "Wang Haoxin bought a house and did not write his wife's name", hahaha. Cai Sibei's story has always been many, Wang Haoxin passed through her world, but it may not be the protagonist, that is, a soy sauce maker. Abide by male morality? He didn't. Over the years, in addition to Cai Sibei, Wang Haoxin's gossip objects also include Jiang Jiamin, Huang Xinying, and even during Chen Ziyao's pregnancy, he also spread rotten peach blossoms with female model Xie Zhihui.
▲And so on, did Chen Ziyao and Wang Haoxin break up? Not necessarily. On her fortieth birthday, she posted a photo of a person, "never spent with her husband" and appeared on entertainment news. But three days later, on their friend's birthday, the two happily participated together. The media asked about her husband's recent situation, she refused to answer, but quietly liked his post with her backhand. Shortly before the red carpet incident, the two also took their children to Disney together. The couple ran together and were also met by fans. Can only sigh, the tvB under the river is still using this kind of gossip as a means of marketing, too outdated, too old.
▲ It's really outdated...
Chen Ziyao had a hated first half of his life in the workplace. Since entering TVB, she has acted in more than 60 works and has always been a supporting role, either a concubine in a costume drama or a little three in a modern drama. Nasty negative characters seriously drag down her development.
"These characters were originally vicious, there were not so many social platforms at that time, the audience could not see my real side, they would use the role to measure me, I think Chen Ziyao is such a person, netizens left messages saying that I look unflattering, do not like me, and so on negative comments, I am very unhappy." 」 After turning over this year, she finally complained to the Nandu reporter - this is the last word. The Hong Kong entertainment industry has always held a strong misogynistic value, and can't help but use indecent words such as "several big swings" to evaluate girls. Chen Ziyao, who played more negative roles and was not popular, was seriously marginalized, and there were rumors that she was les. Everyone has a bottleneck in development, Chen Ziyao is particularly unlucky, this "bottle" is particularly large, and this "neck" is particularly long.
▲ At first, Chen Ziyao took a good card, debuted as a draft champion in 2000, became an advertising model, was a Microsoft spokesperson at that time, and was gradually marginalized after signing with TVB
Her career has been suppressed for a long time, she has become inferior, and marriage is more like a life-saving straw for her. In 2009, Chen Ziyao and Wang Haoxin were photographed kissing passionately by the pool. The two were very cheerful and immediately admitted to the relationship, saying that they had met each other's parents. After two years of love, Wang Haoxin proposed to Chen Ziyao in public after the curtain of a stage play.
At that time, the sweetness of the two was excessive, and she looked at him, and the starry eyes would glow. On November 11, 2011, the two were married (on this date). In 2012, Chen Ziyao gave birth to a daughter and entered a semi-retired state, focusing most of his energy on taking care of the family. On the contrary, Wang Haoxin's career development became better and better after marriage, and he was twice crowned emperor and his value soared. This marriage seems to be really good for him.
In the eyes of the world, a man's good career is a white cover. Wang Haoxin is fluent in Mandarin, has worked as a Chinese host, and later signed as an actor. It is rumored that his family is in business, is a rich second generation, I don't know if it is to replace the life experience into the role, find his role is mostly a clumsy child. In "Famous Ladies and Noble Families", Wang Haoxin was slapped 13 times in a row by Liu Songren, who played his father; In "Extralegal Storm", Xie Xuexin, who played his mother, slapped him 23 times. Because of the successive breaking of TVB records, Xi mentioned a nickname "Tuoba Xin", similar to the "King of Slaps"
Good looks, mouth will speak, low posture, willing to suffer - such a boy's career development is not destined to be bad. The opportunities are different, the focus is different, the development of the husband and wife is seriously unbalanced, and the man's rotten peach blossoms are a little bit consuming the original sweetness. On the contrary, Cai Sibei, who is 10 years younger than Chen Ziyao, has a more lively personality and a smoother star luck. But because it is too frivolous and high-profile, it makes the most precious audience favor tilt to the original side.
Chen Ziyao is a decent person, never tearing up in public, but privately with friends and producers to make it clear that he does not cooperate with Cai Sibei. Misfortune and happiness depend on each other, and her suspended career has ushered in new opportunities because of exposure. After the "blackface incident", Chen Ziyao's marriage change suspicion cloud above her head was on the hot search many times, and TVB took out resources to praise her.
She herself also seized the opportunity to quickly "win three consecutive wins" - the beginning of this year's TVB thousands of stars, she won the best supporting actress award for the female topic drama "Baby Is Bigger than the Sky". "Baby is bigger than the sky" is a female topic drama, about pregnancy, childbirth, postpartum return to the workplace and other problems, Chen Ziyao has the blessing of personal experience, acting is particularly calm.
▲ When receiving the award, she thanked many people, but did not mention Wang Haoxin. Wang Haoxin did not arrive and forwarded the award news to congratulate her. Then, he won the overall championship in two consecutive programs of "Good Voice and Good Drama" and "Knowing The Goods". Sister Wang Mingquan, who occupies an important position in TVB, praised her very much: "I think Chen Ziyao has a lot of places to play, in fact, TVB should open a drama for her." Sure enough, the new drama "After marriage" found her as the female number one. After 20 years of supporting roles, she finally won a crucial round for herself. For "suspicious" marriages, she does not tear, does not leave, does not respond. Marriages involving family relations and engulfing the interests of the company cannot be divided. But her words and deeds are proving that her sister is not severely dependent on marriage.
"Ever really thought life was like this" – how many women have experienced such dark moments before the arrival of middle age. Chen Ziyao said in an interview with Nandu: I once felt that I would not have another chance, and after getting married and having children, it was a low tide period for me. At the age of 40, she lamented that her personality was too passive in the past, especially in such a cruel industry, she had to take the initiative.
▲ Stills of "Baby Is Bigger Than Heaven"
This feeling is too understandable. A girl who can't do a tough posture really has to pay a lot, consume a lot, and suffer a lot in order to establish her own clear order of life. This whole set of orders, of course, also includes the emotional order. Back to the old question that many girls can't understand: they are so sore, sister, how can you not leave.
▲ A few days ago, when the news of Chen Ziyao's divorce came out, fans cheered and cheered, and later learned that they did not leave, and staged a large-scale meme scene: tired...
Well, put it this way. There is not much in the world of middle-aged women, more is to be able to flex and stretch. There is no shortage of anything in the world of middle-aged women, what is missing is impulsiveness and willfulness. After being betrayed, it was delayed for four years before the official announcement was made, so that netizens seemed to be confused in time and space: Huh? Didn't they leave long ago? Xiao S did not leave, Zhou Huimin did not leave, zheng Xiuwen did not leave.
▲ Sammi, who is "not far away but beautiful", you can never underestimate the degree of Buddhism of a middle-aged woman to marriage, nor can you underestimate the determination of a pair of seemingly devastated teammates to form an alliance. Maybe the old man can't bear the change; Maybe it's the parents whose children need both; Maybe it's a big house together; Maybe it's working together, and finances are inextricably linked... Their marriage resembled an old city wall that looked mottled and worn out. In addition to the foundation of the wall made of boulders, clay is irrigated with clay and green bricks are built on the outside, and the gap in the middle is also poured with glutinous rice juice, tung oil and lime slurry. Those clays, green bricks, lime, rice milk, are responsibilities, property, maintenance, education, or whatever. So it became very strong. Builders tear it down whenever they want. Whenever you want it to carry, you can carry it as long as you want.
There is no need to overflow with compassion and feel unhappy. Finding sugar in a glass ballast is originally the ability of human beings to learn from their own teachers. Moreover, people are not necessarily glass ballast, it may be a bowl of grain rice that is not delicious enough but can meet the calorie requirements. Each couple has a different situation, a different original intention, and different needs and expectations for the function of marriage. What is more needed is that public opinion will give a higher degree of tolerance to women's choices.
Never depart from vs. unique beauty, never contradictory. Don't get me wrong with "female forbearance". I would say that there are many options in life and marriage is just one of them. The root cause of many girls' pain is to live a narrow life, allowing their physical and mental energy to be overly intertwined with another person.
▲ Stills of "Baby Is Bigger Than Heaven"
Recently, when I read Liushen Leilei's "Crossing the Blade of Life: Jin Yong Women's Illustrated Book", when I wrote Guo Xiang, he had a particularly surprising point of view - affectionate people should live out the breadth. People's attitudes towards feelings are different. Shallow lovers are like swimming, they can paddle freely, they can breathe, they can smoke ashore, and a small pool can't stop them. And the affectionate person, emotional like diving, is often jumping from a ten-meter high platform and completely delivering himself. Affectionate people, once the feelings fail, life may collapse with it, and life will lose quality. Like Li Moxuan was abandoned by Lu Zhanyuan, because of love and hatred, he became a fearful evil girl in the jianghu, and finally died in the fire. Guo Xiang was even more affectionate, and she was simply a 100-meter-high platform diving and cliff diving to Yang Guo.
▲ Li Qihong's version of Guo Xiang, "once I saw Yang mistakenly for life"
But in the journey of finding Yang, she rode a green donkey, wore a short sword, traveled through thousands of mountains and rivers, made friends with all kinds of strange people, and did many thrilling things. He also founded the Emei Sect at the age of forty and became a generation of masters. Because her life has breadth. Affectionate people are susceptible to emotional repercussions, and their ability to return blood after injury is also poor. Their lives need to have more outlets and find more meaning, so that there is room for maneuver. Guo Xiang is like a general, attacking on ten sides, and although the "love" road cannot be defeated, the other nine roads still open up the territory and expand the territory.
I believe you get the idea. It is not to persuade you to be a shallow person, but to persuade you to make life more wide. As Teacher Yu Qiuyu said, "Some people confine their lives to mutual snooping, mutual supervision, mutual guessing and mutual loss, and some people release their lives on the earth and the long sky, distant mountains and seas." "You deserve the vicissitudes.