In 2005, actress Gao Xiumin died of illness, and her only daughter, Li Xuan, did not shed a single tear at the funeral.
At that time, everyone thought that she was cold-blooded and ruthless, but after sending her mother's body, she hid in the car alone and quietly wiped her tears.
In the past 8 years, Li Xuan's biological parents have died one after another.
She felt like she had become an orphan, alone.
At that moment, Li Xuan also wanted to follow her parents out of this world.
Later, it was the stepfather He Qingkui who said a word that made her dispel this idea.
What did He Qingkui say to Li Xuan?
Why did Li Xuan mention He Qingkui again and say, "He healed me with love for half my life"?
1.
Li Xuan was born in 1981 in Buyeo County, Jilin Province.
From the time she was born, the scene she saw the most was her parents quarreling.
Gao Xiumin and Li Yunqi
Li Xuan's father, Li Yunqi, was a martial arts actor in the Peking Opera Troupe of Jilin Province.
Her mother was a duo-turned-actress at the Huanglong Theatre Company.
Both are actors, often performing in other places, and rarely care about their daughter Li Xuan.
So as soon as they come home, they will argue endlessly about the management of their daughters.
Li Yunqi wanted to put his daughter in his mother-in-law's place, so that the work of the husband and wife would not be delayed.
But Gao Xiumin disagreed, she felt that her mother was too old to take care of the children, and wanted the children to perform with them.
The two had completely different opinions and argued several times without result.
Originally, I thought that as long as my daughter Li Xuan grew up, all these problems could be solved.
Unexpectedly, the daughter grew up, but her husband Li Yunqi changed.
During that time, the Peking Opera Troupe was very unpopular and often could not receive plays, so Li Yunqi, who had no choice but to smoke, drank alcohol every day.
Sometimes I drink outside with friends until one o'clock in the morning before coming home.
Gao Xiumin, who has a frank and spicy personality, naturally can't stand such a man, so he filed for divorce from Li Yunqi in 1992.
Li Xuan, 11, lives with her mother.
The breakdown of the family makes Li Xuan feel very inferior in her heart, and when she went to school, she never dared to mention her parents in front of her classmates.
Every time there is a parent-teacher conference, she always uses the excuse of being sick to prevaricate.
Once, when someone at school learned that Li Xuan's parents were divorced, a group of classmates directly surrounded her in a circle and then laughed at her as a child without a father.
From that moment on, Li Xuan hated his family.
Why are the parents of other classmates so decent, but their own parents are divorced?
Li Xuan, who was hurt in his heart, wanted to make his family complete again.
She tried to save her parents' feelings, so every day after school, she went to her father Li Yunqi and begged him to apologize to her mother and remarry.
However, after the divorce, Li Yunqi is like a walking dead, only knowing how to drink and smoke every day.
Once, he drank too much and directly led to alcohol poisoning, and finally his daughter Li Xuan called an ambulance to take him to the hospital.
Looking at my father's drunken appearance, I think about my mother, who has become a national second-level actor.
Li Xuan suddenly felt that they were not a good match, so since then she has dispelled the idea of remarrying her parents.
She silently carried the ridicule of the outside world alone, and her inner inferiority was in the dust.
At that time, Li Xuan always thought that she would only live in the shadow of her parents' divorce in this life, but she did not expect the appearance of a person to make her life bright again.
He is He Qingkui.
2.
When Li Xuan first met He Qingkui, he was just a vendor selling vegetables in the market.
In the winter, he was so poor that he wore only a pair of single pants, and his feet and neck were red and swollen.
At that time, Gao Xiumin saw that he was pitiful and invited him to join the art troupe.
Although He Qingkui used to sell vegetables, he was very intelligent and could write.
His sketch "Baggage" written for Gao Xiumin directly won the gold medal of the National Sketch Contest, and also helped Gao Xiumin to the peak of her career.
During that time, the outside world often circulated a saying: "Gao Xiumin saved He Qingkui, and He Qingkui praised Gao Xiumin." ”
The tacit understanding and fate of the two are like fate.
At that time, Li Xuan still wondered why this man named He Qingkui always made his mother laugh, but his own biological father was not like this? Is he Qingkui using any means?
Li Xuan, who was suspicious, had been secretly examining He Qingkui.
However, what she did not expect most was that it was not long before He Qingkui moved in with his mother.
In fact, at that time, He Qingkui had a family and children.
It's just that their relationship is not good, and the couple has been in a state of stiffness.
Later, when He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin were together, they did not receive a marriage license.
Such a complicated relationship, the young Li Xuan did not know.
She only felt that He Qingkui was like an intruder, occupying her mother.
So as soon as He Qingkui appeared, Li Xuan was like a fried rooster, clamoring to keep him away from his mother.
Gao Xiumin is a hot character, seeing that her daughter is so rude, she will go forward to educate her fiercely.
In the end, he Qingkui stopped him: "The child is still young, you need to take it slowly, don't be so fierce to her." ”
In a word, Li Xuan was a little stunned, and his heart slightly changed his mind about He Qingkui.
This man seems to be quite gentle...
But this did not make Li Xuan let down his guard.
As long as He Qingkui was at home, Li Xuan would always keep a long distance from him.
He Qingkui took the initiative to talk to her, and Li Xuan only replied with one or two words.
As a mother, Gao Xiumin said her several times, but Li Xuan still went her own way.
Until one time, Gao Xiumin went to perform in other places, and only Li Xuan and He Qingkui were left at home.
The two could not say together, this is only the two of them, the atmosphere is momentarily a little awkward.
"I'll take your grandmother over in a minute, her old man's legs and feet are not good, and I'll take good care of her." He Qingkui suddenly said a word, breaking the frozen atmosphere.
Since He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin lived together, Li Xuan had not seen her grandmother for a long time and missed her very much.
She did not expect that the man in front of her would specifically mention this matter, and she was very surprised.
Seeing that Li Xuan did not speak, He Qingkui asked her again: "Do you want to go with me?" ”
At that moment, Li Xuan's heart was like being filled with a warm current, and he nodded wildly.
I have to say that He Qingkui is very careful and gentle.
Afraid of Li Xuan's cold on the road, he specially took a coat for backup, and later he was afraid of Li Xuan's motion sickness, so he personally cut a few pieces of ginger and carried them in his pocket.
These small actions, Li Xuan all looked in his eyes.
She was vaguely aware that this stepfather seemed to care more about him than his own father.
However, at this time, Li Xuan had not completely changed his mind about He Qingkui.
It wasn't until He Qingkui took his grandmother home that Li Xuan found out for the first time that this man was even kinder and more attentive than his mother.
Because her grandmother's legs and feet were not good, He Qingkui would massage her legs and feet every night.
Not only that, in order to prevent his grandmother from falling down at night, he directly moved to the living room and kept an eye on the old man's home.
For the elderly, treating Li Xuan, He Qingkui is also doubly concerned.
He got up at four o'clock every morning, first cleaned the house, then made breakfast for Li Xuan, and then sent her to school.
Before going to school, He Qingkui would also put a cup of hot milk and an apple in Li Xuan's bag.
Li Xuan
He hoped that Li Xuan's body could be healthy and healthy.
At first, Li Xuan thought that He Qingkui was only three minutes of heat, but he did not expect that such a life would be maintained for a long time.
At that time, Gao Xiumin also reminded He Qingkui: "Li Xuan has grown up, don't worry about so many things!" ”
But He Qingkui did not approve of Gao Xiumin's words.
He said: "Li Xuan is now my daughter, as long as I participate in her life, even if I give my life, I will be good to her." ”
Originally, this was just a conversation between Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui.
But I didn't expect to be heard by Li Xuan, who came back from school.
At that moment, Li Xuan's eyes were red.
It was the warmest word she had ever heard, and for the first time she felt the warmth of her father's presence.
Perhaps Li Xuan's crying was too loud, and He Qingkui rushed out to help her wipe her tears.
Then he told her very gently: "I will be good to you and your mother for the rest of my life, so can you give her to me?" ”
In a word, Li Xuan felt that he was respected and valued.
She looked at He Qingkui with tears in her eyes.
Through this period of time, Li Xuan deeply understood He Qingkui as a person.
He was gentle and steady, like a big brother.
Li Xuan felt that such a person would bring them a better life, so she nodded and said, "I accept you." ”
Li Xuan's heart knot with He Qingkui was finally unraveled.
Unexpectedly, another bump came in the blink of an eye.
3.
In 1997, Li Xuan's biological father, Li Yunqi, died at the age of 46.
Li Xuan
That year, Li Xuan was only 16 years old.
She knelt in front of her father's portrait, cried bitterly, and said in her mouth: "I don't have a father, and my father will never come back..."
The little girl's eyes were red and swollen from crying, and He Qingkui, who was standing next to her, couldn't breathe sadly.
He felt sorry for Li Xuan and told her: "From now on, I am your biological father, and I will treat you as my own daughter, and what I want to do is even better than what your biological father has done!" ”
Word.
At that time, Li Xuan was studying at Shida Affiliated Middle School, and He Qingkui often took some delicious food to visit her at school.
Once, He Qingkui saw that his stepdaughter was too tired to study, and He Qingkui also took a noon vacation from the school and took Li Xuan to the restaurant.
He Qingkui's kindness to Li Xuan is visible to the naked eye.
At that time, many classmates envied Li Xuan and said that they also wanted to have a father like He Qingkui.
Hearing such words, Li Xuan was very happy, and the feeling of confidence and pride in her heart rose again.
In 1997, Li Xuan's mother, Gao Xiumin, began to cooperate with Zhao Benshan and Fan Wei.
He has starred in sketches such as "Bye Nian", "Selling Abductions", "Selling Cars" and so on, and once became a resident guest of the Spring Festival Gala, and his fame soared.
Looking at her more and more excellent mother, Li Xuan suddenly wanted to inherit her mother's mantle and become an actor.
However, He Qingkui did not agree with this idea.
"The water in the entertainment industry is too deep, and you are afraid that you will suffer losses when you go in."
"No matter how deep the water is, don't you and my mother also survive, and I can too!"
He Qingkui was afraid that his stepdaughter would be bullied, so he did not want him to enter the circle.
But looking at her determined appearance, I think it is not bad to go out and break in.
So He Qingkui sent Li Xuan into the crew of the TV series "Sunset Is Not a Dream" created by himself.
Let her play a small role to test the waters.
Seeing that Li Xuan acted well, He Qingkui recommended her to the rural drama "Farmhouse December".
I have to say that Li Xuan's mastery of acting is very strong.
After only acting in two plays, her acting skills have been greatly improved, and even the director has praised her talent.
After being praised, Li Xuan was very happy and dragged her stepfather He Qingkui and her mother Gao Xiumin to leave the restaurant.
But I didn't expect Gao Xiumin to blink his eyes and say: "I am proud to get this honor?" When to become the protagonist and then celebrate! ”
One sentence directly extinguished Li Xuan's confidence.
Seeing the situation, He Qingkui hurriedly stopped it, took Li Xuan's hand, and said, "Old lady, let's go!" ”
After saying that, He Qingkui took Li Xuan out to eat a big meal, and then booked a special ticket for her to go out and have a good time.
With the support of his stepfather, Li Xuan's waist bar stood up in an instant.
Every time she and her mother had an argument, Li Xuan would always say, "Can you learn from my uncle, he never loses his temper with me!" ”
Although He Qingkui is Li Xuan's stepfather, she has always called He Qingkui an uncle.
Between Li Xuan and Gao Xiumin, He Qingkui is like a soft ruler.
Always measure their mother-daughter relationship in the most gentle way.
In 1999, He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin collaborated on the sketch "Heart to Heart" on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala.
Originally, the personnel who starred were Gao Xiumin, Fan Wei and Hei Mei.
But I didn't expect that everything was rehearsed, but the black sister suddenly went to the field.
The most important position suddenly became vacant, and Gao Xiumin was in a hurry, looking for actors everywhere.
At this moment, He Qingkui reminded her: "Or let the old lady try?" ”
Hearing these words, Li Xuan on the side instantly became energetic.
Such a good opportunity, she wanted to star too much.
But Gao Xiumin hesitated, she was not sure whether her daughter's acting skills could support the entire sketch.
"Rest assured, the old man is absolutely OK!" He Qingkui's unconditional trust and preference made Li Xuan also have confidence.
She also swore that she could do it.
So this year, a group of them performed "Heart to Heart" perfectly on the stage of the Great Hall of the People.
Looking at the warm applause of the audience, Gao Xiumin and her daughter Li Xuan hugged and cried.
In such a scene, He Qingkui, who was standing in the background, also wet his eyes.
They finally did it!
After the performance, Li Xuan took Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui to celebrate.
At the dinner table, she raised a glass to He Qingkui and thanked him: "Thank you uncle for giving me warmth when I need comfort the most, and you will be my father in the future!" ”
Seeing that the "father-daughter" relationship is so beautiful, Gao Xiumin on the side is very pleased.
However, what I did not expect was that such a good life was broken by a bad news.
4.
In 2005, Li Xuan was having dinner with her aunt on a trip abroad, and before the meal came up, her brother called her.
The brother on the phone could not cry anymore, and he cried and shouted: "Old sister, you are coming back, the old lady is gone!" ”
Hearing these words, Li Xuan subconsciously thought of his elderly grandmother.
But Grandma called her a few days ago, and her spirit was still very good.
Li Xuan asked again, and finally her brother was afraid that she was in a hurry, and said slowly: "The old lady may have choked on sleeping in the middle of the night and is rescuing her..."
Hearing this news, Li Xuan was completely panicked, and she couldn't even take care of her food and ran directly to the airport.
However, the ticket to Changchun was gone, so Li Xuan had to drive himself and drive more than a thousand kilometers to reach his destination.
When Li Xuan arrived at the scene, it was already too late.
Her mother was completely awake.
Li Xuan was directly into the funeral home, she looked at the entire hall with wreaths, and she was momentarily confused.
I don't even know how to cry.
The scene was chaotic, and there were cries everywhere.
Li Xuan brushed aside the crowd and went to find his stepfather, He Qingkui.
She felt that at this time, she needed him very much.
Sure enough, in the crowd, a thin figure was stumbling forward.
Later, two strong men supported He Qingkui.
He cried heart-rending, as if he had lost the most important thing.
Li Xuan saw He Qingkui in such a state for the first time, and she always thought that her stepfather was strong and calm.
But I didn't expect him to have such a fragile time.
Li Xuan suddenly stopped her pace, she stopped walking towards He Qingkui, and turned around to take care of her mother's aftermath.
After sending her mother away, Li Xuan sat in the car and directly cried.
Dad is gone, Mom is gone, she's orphaned.
Li Xuan was heartbroken and locked himself in a dark car, not letting anyone pay attention.
She felt like she was back in that dark time.
She didn't want to leave Mom and Dad and wanted to be with them forever.
Just when Li Xuan was full of negative thoughts, the car door suddenly opened.
The light passed through the door into the car.
He Qingkui shouted at her with red and swollen eyes: "Old lady." ”
Li Xuan did not expect that his stepfather would find himself, and he did not expect that he would bring himself light again.
Li Xuan directly threw herself into He Qingkui's arms and cried bitterly: "This time I am really the only one left, I have no father, no mother." ”
In 8 years, her parents died one after another.
Li Xuan could not withstand such a blow.
He Qingkui naturally understood, he warmly patted Li Xuan's back and comforted: "You and me, you are not alone, I have always been there." ”
This sentence once again made Li Xuan cry to the point of collapse.
Not sad, but touched.
This sentence was like a good medicine to heal her soul, and Li Xuan still remembered it until now.
In December, Gao Xiumin walked for a while.
In order to cheer up Li Xuan, He Qingkui arranged her in the crew of "Holy Water Lakeside 2".
Originally, I thought that the "father and daughter" would always rely on each other.
Unexpectedly, after that, He Qingkui left Li Xuan and returned to his original wife.
At that time, Li Xuan had not understood, when his stepfather said that he would accompany each other, why did he suddenly leave?
In fact, He Qingkui had bitter feelings.
Because at that time, someone broke the news that He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin were not a legal couple.
He Qingkui was afraid that Li Xuan would be hurt and uncover the scars because of this, so he did not contact her.
In fact, Li Xuan did not mind He Qingkui's past.
Because in her heart, He Qingkui had already become her father.
Although He Qingkui does not contact Li Xuan, Li Xuan has been frantically contacting He Qingkui, including telling him when he gets married and has children.
However, He Qingkui did not reply to her much.
Until the death of He Qingkui's original wife Zhang Yanru later, Li Xuan took her husband and son to visit for the first time.
On that day, Li Xuan told He Qingkui: "We will always be family, even if we are not related by blood, we are also family." ”
This sentence touched He Qingkui immensely, and since then, he has sworn:
"As long as Li Xuan still recognizes me as a father, he will keep giving her until I die!" As long as she is worse off than me, I'd rather have my own biological child, and I'll take care of her too! ”
In this way, He Qingkui and Li Xuan have been connected with love and heart.
Times have passed, and now that Li Xuan is 41 years old, she has a husband and son who love her.
There is also a good father who healed himself for half his life and gave himself warm sunshine - He Qingkui.
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