High emotional intelligence
When Qin Hao married Yi Nengjing into the door, it was the beginning of his unsafe status, and if you look closely, this is Yi Nengjing giving a lesson to his mother-in-law.
At that time, Yi Nengjing was instigating Qin Mama to write a small essay for her father-in-law, although Qin Mama was shy and reluctant, but Yi Nengjing's gold medal assist made Qin Mama have to compromise.
Yi Nengjing poked at the point, said the true meaning of the small composition to be flesh and hemp, and also wrote two pieces of paper, even if the mother-in-law agreed to Yi Nengjing's request, she still could not withstand Yi Nengjing's sermons.
It seems outrageous, but in fact, there is a lot of "Yi Nengjing" words out of the oven, the two elements of small composition, first, to have a story; Second, add a description of the scene to the short story.
What Mother Qin wants is nothing more than romance and support from husband and wife, no matter what, Yi Nengjing is absolutely self-contained in handling the relationship between husband and wife.
The mother-in-law on the side wrote the true feelings, Yi Nengjing sour a sentence "little girl on the line", the whole mother-in-law is embarrassed, so you see, the relationship between Yi Nengjing and the mother-in-law is better than the relationship between girlfriends.
When Qin Hao entered the kitchen, one was his own wife, the other was his own biological mother, and the two women he was closest to in this life were now completely empty.
At this time, Yi Nengjing would rather discuss the surrounding environment with his mother-in-law than have a word with Qin Hao, and Qin Hao, who could not interject, watched his daughter-in-law and mother walking around the house.
Yi Nengjing was discussing the allocation of rooms in the room, while Qin Hao was depressed on the sofa alone, even if he returned to his family's side, Qin Hao still needed to taste the warmth of the room alone.
In fact, At first, Mother Qin did not give Yi Nengjing a good look, after all, Yi Nengjing and Qin Hao were 10 years apart, and what was unexpected was that in the end, Mother Qin and Yi Nengjing actually stood on the united front.
Even if her own son Qin Hao cried bitterly for days, she did not stop Mother Qin from teaching her son to treat Yi Nengjing well, and Mother Qin knew well that her son had previously spent her intestines, so she made a reassuring needle with Qin Hao before marriage.
Qin Hao must not have other ideas, although before, the age difference between the two had become an insurmountable threshold in Qin Ma's heart, but now it had become Yi Nengjing's protective color.
Qin Mama bluntly said that Yi Nengjing could not stand up, can stand in the position of daughter-in-law to consider, Qin Mama is also a model of enlightened mother-in-law in the circle, outsiders think that Yi Nengjing has embarked on the peak of life.
In the end, it is still the details of her daily treatment of her mother-in-law, such as the praise she does not skimp on her mother-in-law, when Qin Mama puts on new lipstick, Yi Nengjing will say that she looks good.
Even being planted by her, do you think it's a hypocritical rainbow fart? In fact, it is not, it is the magic weapon that Yi Nengjing can get to this step today;
For example, when the mother-in-law weighs, Yi Nengjing will directly kneel on the ground to help her see the numbers, saying that there is gold under the knees, and she does not care about these etiquettes in front of her mother-in-law.
I think in addition to her way of dealing with it, Yi Nengjing knows that she will spend the rest of her life with Qin Hao.
Capture Qin Haofang's heart
Yi Nengjing's words just verified why Qin Hao was able to turn back to the prodigal son, Qin Hao was a homeless wanderer before he met Yi Nengjing, and lived a life of day and night.
After living in a hotel apartment for two years, there is no basic food, and the time when Joey can be quiet is three o'clock in the afternoon, and even the mobile phone is full of ambiguous records of various girls.
At that time, Qin Hao was what the ingredient was, I wanted to understand everything, but Yi Nengjing, who was well versed in routines, could not eat this set, and in the face of qin Hao's initiative to send a letter of submission, Yi Nengjing did not accept it.
But she herself did not expect that this year's love could go to the palace of marriage, and Yi Nengjing at that time was not at ease, thinking that this brother who was ten years younger could not give herself a stable life.
However, the more catchy plot is that Qin Hao has not been out since he got married, and Qin Hao's answer to this is obviously the ceiling of a model husband.
The reason why Qin Hao refused most of the entertainment and social networking after marriage was because he knew that there was an Yi Nengjing in the family who could lower him, not only that, Qin Hao did not sign the number of hours for filming in order to go home as soon as possible.
It is better to go home to see her wife and children when she sleeps less, and it is no wonder that Yi Nengjing praises people, but do not forget that Yi Nengjing is a well-known craftsman, as long as there is an emergency, her first reaction is not to write a small essay.
It was to be angry with Qin Hao, but Qin Hao was not a fuel-saving lamp, perhaps Yi Nengjing was born with a lack of heart and eyes in his fate, but he found a Qin Hao with strong anti-action ability.
When Yi Nengjing wanted Qin Hao's concern, the eight words given by Qin Hao were really heartfelt, "If you don't do it, I will not fail", Yi Nengjing complained that Qin Hao was more patient with dogs than with himself.
Qin Hao's sentence "Dogs don't talk as much as you" made Yi Neng quietly speechless, and Qin Hao not only loved his wife, but also never spared his subordinates when he damaged his mother.
When Qin's mother was distressed that Qin's father had sent 999 roses, Qin Hao said, "Wouldn't it be an accident if you gave them to others?"? Mother Qin had nothing to say.
When you look at Yi Nengjing and Mother Qin's self-congratulations, the sentence he said, "We both come out of a mental hospital", you know how bitter Yi Nengjing was trained by him.
When Yi Nengjing, who was more than half a hundred years old, lied to him, Qin Hao's first reaction was, "Baby, can you be quiet for a while", Qin Hao's poisonous tongue skills happened to be offset with Yi Nengjing's temperament.
Even if the outside world is not optimistic about their marriage, it has not stopped their happy steps, and now that they have gone through the seven-year itch, I think their way of getting along is what many couples need to learn from.
Not only that, Yi Nengjing's concept of parenting also needs to be paid attention to.
The son's quirks are controversial
What the hell did Harry do that made Yi Nengjing want to cry when he saw him eating. A 16-year-old child takes two hours to eat, and the truth of this shocking earthquake comes from Yi Nengjing's own mouth.
Yi Nengjing had already found that Harry's eating was different from other children, and even if Yi Nengjing had paid more attention to this matter, Harry would not have such troublesome consequences.
Until she found out that Harry was allergic to his nose, which caused his jaw to retract due to improper occlusal irregularities, so that Yi Nengjing would wash his face with tears every time he ate with him.
In fact, whether it is her ex-husband Yu Chengqing or the current Qin Hao, Yi Nengjing rarely mentions her family to the outside world, and she has been abused since she was a child, and she knows how much the original family has a great impact on people.
So after divorcing Yu Chengqing, she has always protected Harry very well, and as the second generation of stars Harry has endured more than this, when he even has to wear clothes on his back, these nine words said by Yi Nengjing have sounded an alarm bell for all Chinese parents.
"This is my child, I love him", this passage is from the video clip posted by Yi Nengjing, who has always been a women's clothing boss who has been discriminated against.
In the photos he posted, women's wigs are standard, because the dress is too feminine, so it is often labeled as neither male nor female, but Yi Nengjing blocked the mouth of all the media with one sentence.
I would like to ask, it is 2202 years old, can you still define a person by what a person is dressed in?
In a personal interview with Harry, he also said that he likes all innovative things and will never be satisfied with the present.
The implication is that I hope that the media will not come to the side, my style does not need to be evaluated by others, this domineering and self-confidence, I think is completely inherited by Yi Nengjing.
Anyway, Harry was able to stick to his own ideas, and in terms of family education, it was Yi Nengjing who gave him enough security that when someone questioned his sexuality, Ha used a photo to punch everyone in the face.
Perhaps contrary to the traditional Chinese style, Harry has always appeared in the image of women's clothing, so netizens naturally think that he likes boys, but when Harry officially declares his love, he boldly captions "hi girlfriend".
And the other party also responded domineeringly "I love Lan Mei, Lan Mei loves me" to the crowd and sprinkled a wave of dog food, when The Harry social platform was pickpocketed by the media.
His first reaction was whether it would affect Yi Nengjing, and he also confessed that he wanted to close his social accounts, but Yi Nengjing made it clear that he hoped he could be himself, and even called his son on Weibo.
Even Qin Hao did not hesitate to forward, I think this is the best way of the family, can give the son absolute freedom and space, is every parent should learn.