The poet Samuel wrote: Youth is not a peach face, a dan lip, a soft knee, but a deep will, a magnificent imagination, and a hot love. Youth is the deep spring of life flowing.
Youth is not a year, but a state of mind.
The 32-year-old Lu Han has only one goal, that is, to live happily.
Get up at three o'clock in the morning every day
Staying up late seems to be the patent and synonym of young people.
Lu Han, 32, stayed up late every day until three or four o'clock in the morning before going to bed.
Also a member of EXO, 30-year-old Zhang Yixing stayed up late until three o'clock in the morning to go to bed in a variety show, and slept until noon the next day.
Why go to bed late? The reason given by Lu Han is that the result of sleeping late is that the night time is longer than others.
Unfortunately, Lu Han did not know that people who got up early would have a longer day.
At a certain age, you can't afford to stay up late.
This is also a reason why Lu Han stayed up late. Perhaps because of staying up late, 32-year-old Lu Han began to have nasolabial wrinkles, looking a little bloated, with a long hair, it seems to be a little far away from youth.
Getting older is natural
Yang Mi once said: People will grow old, and this cannot be changed.
In the middle of the night, 32-year-old Lu Han will have some age anxiety, and he can't accept that he is 32 years old.
In his twenties, Lu Han still hoped that he would grow up faster. Since the age of 30, Lu Han does not want to grow up, and even has some fears of growing up, hoping that time can go slower.
Recalling his youth, Lu Han's face was full of pride and happiness. When Lu Han was in elementary school, he was very short, less than 150 centimeters. In the second year of junior high school, he suddenly became 170 centimeters tall, plus he played well and became the school's hero.
At that time, some people wrote a post specifically for Lu Han.
Youth, like bubble gum, is sweet and beautiful and dreamy but fragile.
When you start reminiscing about the past, it means you're old. The 32-year-old Lu Han is like this, he feels that he has become old, likes to reminisce about the past, and will summarize the things he has done over the years.
When he was young, Lu Han liked to listen to popular songs, and now he likes to listen to old songs.
When he was young, he did not like to wear autumn pants, and he did not like to drink hot soup. Now 32 years old, Lu Han likes to drink hot soup, likes to sum up life, and recall the past.
That's what age has changed him.
What are your plans for the future?
What are your plans for the future? Future planning naturally includes family and career.
October 8, 2017, was a very special day. This is the day when Lu Han and Guan Xiaotong officially declared their love affair. No one expected that as a popular idol, he would disclose his relationship at the age of 28.
What I didn't expect was that this love period lasted for a full 5 years, and the feelings of the two people were still like glue.
The planning for the future will naturally include his girlfriend Guan Xiaotong. Unfortunately, Lu Han is very low-key. He didn't want to talk too much about love.
Lu Han never mentioned his feelings.
For future planning, he only vaguely said three words: be yourself.
Just to be yourself, three words also contain too many meanings.
In terms of career and love, Lu Han has always been himself. First of all, let's talk about the love part, at the age of 28, he opened up his relationship without any worries.
Other male idols dare not fall in love, fearing that fans will not accept it. For example, Xiao Zhan. Xiao Zhan once said that he could not fall in love, and once he fell in love, it meant that he was unemployed.
However, Lu Han was not worried at all. He is indeed doing himself, and he also has the courage to be himself. The 32-year-old naturally has plans to get married and have children, but he is not willing to disclose it to the public.
One cannot keep rushing forward
Let's talk about careers. For the career, Lu Han also has a clear understanding: expensive is not expensive. As long as he chooses to do it, he must do it well.
Before doing anything, Lu Han will also have a very optimistic attitude and prepare for the worst. Just like the movie on the street, he has tried his best and prepared for the worst.
Lower the expectation of the result, do not lower the requirements of the self. This is also Lu Han's positive attitude towards his career.
The 32-year-old Lu Han is a more sober one among his peers, and he sighed: People must learn to rest and cannot always rush forward. If you keep rushing forward, there will definitely be problems.
This is also the reason why Lu Han has not come out to open for business recently. He believes that people are not robots and cannot always rush forward. Be sure to settle down for a while, and then continue to rush forward after charging.
This sentence is actually very suitable for giving to Zhang Yixing. Zhang Yixing obviously does not have Lu Han's transparency, and he has always had one of his greatest wishes to lead Chinese music to the world.
He has been working hard, getting up every morning to box on an empty stomach and prepare for the concert. Zhang Yixing has been very volumeless and never stopped preparing.
In fact, he should let himself settle down, with life and experience, there will be better creation.
In terms of love and career, Lu Han has his own plans. He was a happy child himself and his parents were very pampered and supportive of him.
Happy people use childhood to heal a lifetime.
Lu Han also has an optimistic and happy heart. Living happily is the most important thing.
If there is only one goal, it is to live happily. If something can't be changed, it's to see and put it down.
Just like the movie on the street, Lu Han also made the best mental preparations. He can also accept the worst results, and has more courage and confidence to bear it.
Lu Han never cared about other people's opinions, he chose to have a public relationship with 21-year-old Guan Xiaotong, 5 years of love. When the movie hits the street, he doesn't sink.
When his career was in full swing, he bravely chose to stop for a short time.
Disappearing for a long time, he and Deng Chao played in the park. Sure enough, things are grouped together in groups. Deng Chao and Sun Li took care of their families and careers very well, and after giving birth to a son and a daughter, Sun Li only filmed one play a year and accompanied the children at other times.
Deng Chao and Sun Li's life is not only career, but also life. Lu Han and Deng Chao's relationship is very close, the family dog (steamed buns) is still given to him by Deng Chao, and privately they often meet to play.
The two of them had a bit of a wilderness survival flavor. The shooting method of the photo is very peculiar, the two are together in the shade of the tree, Lu Han looks at the camera, and Deng Chao's face is obscured by dense leaves.
The vertical composition centered on the two people is also extremely dim in tone, looking around, as if looking for a way to escape, more like looking for the direction of the next departure.
The photo is like its person. Lu Han, who has stopped at present, is also looking for the direction of the next re-departure.
People who truly love life and work are seizing every opportunity to enjoy the beauty and gifts of life, and entering an inch of joy.
Gain calmly, lose indifferently.