Reverse thinking: There are two ways to create life, don't let yourself go in the opposite direction.
Why do people talk and do things all day long, annoying people?
The reverse is also the same, why do you talk and do things, always annoying the people around you?
Maybe the problem is the way you speak casually on a daily basis.
The believer remembers a passage.
A friend invited a guest, many friends were invited to the banquet, and some people did not arrive after arriving on time, and the host was still anxiously waiting.
The master casually said, Oh, really, why hasn't the person who should come come yet?
The faces of the people at the table changed drastically, and the impatient people immediately stood up and said, "I am the person who should not come, and bid farewell."
Watching the people who have already sat down leave one after another, the master jumped straight to his feet, I don't mean that, why shouldn't all the people go?
The rest of the guys looked at each other, huh? It turned out that we were the ones who should go, and everyone scattered.
People often create their own lives in two different ways, but everything happens inadvertently.
You just have to look closely at the people around you and you'll find out.
A type of person likes to use declarative sentences to express opinions to those around them.
The other type of person, on the contrary, likes to ask questions and express their views to themselves and others.
For example, the first kind of people who know the believers are often seen in the circle of friends, and the same is true in daily work and life.
This kind of person spends a lot of time and energy to present his views to the people around him.
Some people like to say, I am rich, I am smart, I am happy, the boss values me, how much money I have made this month...
You may be telling the truth?
But this way you speak, others may not believe it at all, and even if they believe it, most of them will only scoff at it.
For example, the statement of the believer and the friend, I think this sentence is very correct.
Friends do not approve of this sentence at all, but in order not to be embarrassed, they can only politely echo, right, right, you are right.
Friends actually don't want to pay attention to you at all, and even secretly feel funny because of your ignorance.
The second type of person is very interesting, and the questions often asked catch you off guard and fall into deep thinking.
Let's take a simple example.
The wife was idle and asked the believer about the age-old problem.
I fell into the river at the same time as your mother, who did you save first?
This kind of brain-dead question, no matter how you answer it is a pit, there have been several cases in history where the mother and wife fell into the river at the same time?
If you answer this kind of question seriously, it is a disease.
The believer did not answer the stubble at all, and directly asked back, which of you loves me more, I will save whom first?
After answering, don't care about anything, what to do, the wife thinks for herself, and after a while, she will fall into a state of short-circuited and dead loop.
The human mind is very interesting, and when you ask yourself questions, the magical power of thinking will appear.
For example, the weather is nice, and you ask your brain, why is the sky blue?
Do you know what to expect?
Your brain will immediately turn on and search for answers, fully automatic, without even requiring you to give instructions to your brain.
Your brain will start working on its own until it gives you an answer, a process you simply can't control.
If you ask someone else about it, it will have the same effect.
This is what people usually call the law of "planting melons to get melons, planting beans to get beans".
What do you sow into your own brain thinking, and what will you reap?
A friend and believer said he wanted to make money now.
The believer asks, why do you want to make money, or if you really make money, what do you want to do the most?
Friends say they want to live freely.
The believer asks, how much money do you think you will earn to achieve the freedom you want?
My friend said he hadn't really thought about it yet.
Well, if you really earn 10 million in your hands now, can you achieve the freedom you want?
Friends say, maybe enough, maybe not enough, don't know?
By the way, the believer tells your friend that what you really want is not to make money at all, you just want to be free.
So take ten thousand steps back and say, you don't have the money you want now, you can't live the free life you want?
Friends are powerless to refute, can only praise the believer, right, right, you are right.
But my friend finally woke up.
A year later, he told the believer that he had lived the free life he wanted, although he had not yet earned enough money!
That's the fun of reverse thinking.
What if you always state your point of view and content without asking yourself the question of change?
You'll miss out on the best way to change your life.
If you want to change your life, don't let yourself go in the opposite direction.
When you ask questions about yourself, the magical power that changes your life will appear in your mind!
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