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Some time ago, the news of Sun Yi Dong Zijian's sudden announcement of divorce shocked the whole network.
Countless netizens who eat melon surfing are all confused after seeing this entry.
Although everyone is not necessarily a fan of these two, Sun Yi Dong Zijian, a young couple, is famous for being "low-key and loving" in the entertainment industry.
In love for many years, married for four years, and having a lovely daughter, she can also be regarded as a high-quality representative of couples in the entertainment industry.
Over the years, not only have they rarely spread gossip, but they also often show their love on Weibo.
Snuggling up to each other with a happy look seemed to be yesterday, but now it was suddenly officially announced that Lao Yan had flown apart.
This scene made many viewers who have always liked them a little sad.
In recent years, love stories like theirs that suddenly end in tragedy seem to have seen too much.
Therefore, many public opinions are saying that couples in the entertainment industry are basically false.
In the eyes of outsiders, Tang Yanluojin, who has always been loving, is one of the most frequently mentioned couples.
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Many fans have therefore run to Tang Yanluojin's Weibo to leave a message, hoping that they can hold on and not collapse the house.
After all, the process of this couple along the way, such as the sweetness of love, the vows when getting married, etc., netizens basically look at it in their eyes.
If even Tang Yanluojin ends up with divorce, I am afraid that there will really be many fans who will be disappointed in the entertainment industry and marriage.
In this regard, Tang Yan and Luo Jin also responded quickly to the official announcement.
Luo Jin released information about his new drama "Out of court", while Tang Yan posted a selfie of herself to celebrate the 17th birthday of her fan group.
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The outside world is disturbed, and the couple is still unmoving, still doing their own thing in a low-key manner.
In Tang Yan's usual Weibo, we also saw the truth of their marriage.
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As one of the four small flowers in the entertainment industry and the representative of "85 Flowers", In the past, in the popular film and television dramas every year, Tang Yan will never be absent.
"Immortal Sword III", "Xuanyuan Sword", "Why Chen Xiaomo", "Splendid Wei Yang"...
These once sensational works are still not outdated in retrospect.
However, since marrying Luo Jin in 2018, the volume of Tang Yan's works has seriously declined.
For most actresses in the entertainment industry, this is actually a very scary thing.
After all, many times the "sense of presence" is equivalent to traffic, which is the tacit rule of the game in the entertainment industry.
Therefore, actresses like Yang Mi, filming non-stop, variety shows continue, do not dare to let themselves stop.
In contrast, Tang Yan does seem to be a bit "unenterprising".
But if you open Tang Yan's Weibo, you will find that for Tang Yan now, fame and fortune seem to be less important.
Family is now the only one in her eyes.
She often posts photos taken by Luo Jin himself, which may not be particularly brilliant compared to professional photographers, but she always can't hide her pride and satisfaction.
Sometimes, this still radiant female star will be like most ordinary mothers, paying attention to the children's bits and pieces, and even the photos of the daughter's back can't help but share with others.
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Yes, Tang Yan has rarely appeared in people's sights through film and television drama works now, and the popularity is more serious than in the past.
But fans understand that she is happier now than at any stage in the past.
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When Tang Yan and Luo Jin were first together, they were actually controversial.
After all, whether it is fame or popularity, the gap between the two at that time was too obvious.
And the personalities of men and women are also somewhat out of place.
One is a delicate southern girl, and the other is a straight man who doesn't seem to talk much.
Compared with all aspects of the conditions, it is not a general match.
So after the love affair was exposed, few people really looked after them.
Even if they successfully stepped into the palace of marriage later, the fake news about their divorce and marriage change would still fly all over the sky every once in a while.
Even today, 4 years after marriage, there are still people who feel that they are not suitable and should be divorced.
But the truth is to disappoint these people.
They are still very happy today.
Tang Yan talked about divorce at a very early age.
She once said in an interview on the show that she was a traditional girl who hoped not to divorce when she got married.
At the time of saying this, she was actually already with Luo Jin.
Afterwards, everyone learned that Tang Yan was not only expressing her own view of feelings, but also not wishing herself and Luo Jin well for the future.
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Looking at the relationship between Tang Yan and Luo Jin, the reason why they have remained unchanged over the years is actually the word sincerity.
They had known each other for more than ten years, and they were just friends at first.
They worked together as friends for three plays, each of which deepened their understanding of each other, but did not cross the line.
It wasn't until the fourth play that their feelings changed qualitatively.
Afterwards, Luo Jin described the love between them, not as brilliant as outsiders thought, just walking, the fate arrived.
He would hand over his strong and reliable shoulders when she needed them, and when he saw her shoelaces loose, he would naturally bend down.
And she will also take care of each other thoughtfully and delicately in life.
When the reporter asked them what was the most romantic thing in their hearts, Luo Jin replied with a sincere and unpretentious face: Slowly grow old together.
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Life is not a film and television drama, there are not so many surprise bridges.
Going with the flow, long-term affection, relying on each other, this is the most warm and beautiful.
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In addition to sincerity, the sense of participation is also the secret of Luo Jin Tang Yan's marriage preservation.
As the saying goes, procreation is the first major test a marriage faces.
Some people also asked Tang Yan to rate the current Luo Jin after giving birth to a child.
Tang Yan said that she was still very satisfied with Luo Jin.
Although both pregnancy and childbirth happen to women.
But Luo Jin never relaxed his responsibilities as a husband.
He would work harder during his wife's home feeding, and after the birth of his daughter, in order to give his wife a good rest, he would take the initiative to take care of his daughter, often staying up all night because he was holding her daughter.
In fact, good marriages are often like this.
Not necessarily every day will stage any romantic plot, there will also be three meals a day, chicken and garlic skin.
But at any time, both husband and wife will understand each other, respect each other, and sincerely regard each other as the closest people.
And most importantly, both he and she are willing to take the initiative to pay for this marriage.
Wishful love, even if it starts out high-profile, will only become a pool of stagnant water in the end.
But an interactive, responsive marriage can be long-lasting and never degenerate.
I have seen a saying that women are created by God by pulling out a man's fourth rib.
So the essence of love and marriage is that men are retrieving their ribs, and women are also looking for their own natural pair.
It's just that the sea of people is vast, the process is not so easy, and sometimes it will look at the eyes to find the wrong person.
Therefore, even if he is excellent like Tang Yan, he has also encountered the past of the scumbag's predecessor.
But just like she became extremely happy after meeting Luo Jin.
It is actually no big deal to meet someone who is not ladylike, there is no need to be disappointed in love and marriage.
As long as we find the person in our destiny who has been looking for us, then the pain and scars of the past will eventually be smoothed out.
Light up the praise, never live a marriage, and never give up the right to pursue happiness.
May every girl be like Tang Yan, find the other half who is willing to listen, pay, and work together.