21-year-old married her 30-year-old rich businessman to hide transgender, after the death of her husband left a piece of paper to debunk the gender, a lifetime of five men pampered, far away from Taiwan but was blackmailed by fellow countrymen, sent the triad boyfriend to prison, China's first transgender person, what kind of legendary life did she experience?
In 1995, 28-year-old Jin Xing underwent sex reassignment surgery at Beijing Xiangshan Hospital.
In fact, the first transgender surgery in China was in 1983.
The "girl" was named Zhang Kesha, whose original name was Zhang Kesha.
In 1962, Zhang Kesha was born into a high-ranking family, his father was Zhang Shuxiang, the founding general of the People's Republic of China, and was awarded the rank of major general.
Zhang Kesha, who loves to wear flower clothes, is quipped by neighbors from time to time.
The nanny replied with a smile: "Adults always play with noodles when they make dumplings, and when they are discovered, they put the batter in the crotch of their pants, and the girl becomes a boy." ”
Zhang Kesha wore a lot of clothes when she was a child, all of which were women's clothes that her sister could not wear. He began to play with the girls, jumping leather bands, embroidering, and knitting sweaters. He grew his long hair and used his pocket money to buy himself a new dress.
The only way to go to the toilet was to wait for the other boys to finish the toilet, and then a person squatted like a girl to go to the toilet.
Because of these things, Zhang Kesha was not less ridiculed at school.
The 5 relationships that occurred in his life hurt both others and himself.
First relationship:
Xiao Qiang, an intern doctor in a nursing home, learned of Zhang Kesha's idea, and he told Zhang Kesha that there were already successful cases of gender reassignment surgery abroad.
"If you want to be a girl, do it." You can do whatever you like. ”
The two gradually developed a good feeling, and with warm feelings, Xiao Qiang said that he must go abroad to study sex reassignment surgery in the future and return to Zhang Kesha to give zhang Kesha the main knife, and then marry him.
The Vietnamese self-defense counterattack broke out, Xiao Qiang served military service, and before leaving, he also gave Zhang Kesha a lipstick.
Zhang Kesha did not wait for Xiao Qiang to return, and what he got was the news of his sacrifice. Grief-stricken, he impulsively went to become a soldier.
The masculine barracks did not reverse his gender perception. Very painful, he chose to retire early. However, the girl he returned dressed up to make the conscription office difficult, obviously sent a male soldier, came back to become a female soldier, and resolutely refused to settle down.
Heartbroken, he secretly went south to Dongguan and met the second man in his life.
Second relationship:
In 1982, Zhang Kesha came to a toy factory in Dongguan as a "migrant girl".
Come to a city where you don't know him, because no one knows him, you can dress yourself up every day, wear a skirt, grow long hair, and even wear makeup. In the eyes of others, Zhang Kesha is a young and beautiful woman, who quickly attracted the attention of many men, including his boss Mr. Xiao.
Mr. Xiao, a Middle-aged widow, a Hong Kong businessman, pursued Zhang Kesha fiercely and proposed to him.
He did not look up to Mr. Xiao and did not want to expose his gender. In the face of Mr. Xiao's marriage proposal, Zhang Kesha resolutely refused.
Later, after undergoing surgery and a third unsuccessful relationship, she decided to marry this feelingless man on the condition that she take her to Hong Kong.
The two settled in Hong Kong, where he did not want to be a housewife. After becoming a model, he switched to selling insurance, became a manager, and got a high salary.
After that, Zhang Kesha went to Taiwan. After going around and ending the fifth relationship, Cheung returned to Hong Kong.
In 2002, Boss Xiao died suddenly, and Zhang Kesha found reports about her undergoing sex reassignment surgery from his relics, only to learn that he had always known his transgender identity, but did not debunk it.
It can be seen that Boss Xiao accepts him and loves him from the heart.
Once, he stumbled upon an article written by sexologist Dr. Nguyen about "gender identity disorder" and had a third relationship after undergoing transgender surgery.
The third relationship:
On January 10, 1983, Zhang Kesha resolutely walked into the operating room and underwent China's first sex reassignment surgery.
After sex reassignment surgery, I recovered my daughter's body.
At this time, she thought that her dream could be realized and she could live a normal life like a woman.
But reality disappointed her.
Due to the limitations of the times, this operation to rewrite history has not been made public.
At the end of 1983, Zhang Kesha registered as a woman and was assigned to work as a sales clerk in a large store in Changsha.
From the first day of work, she was like a monkey in a zoo, becoming an object of onlookers.
People rushed to the store just to catch a glimpse of her.
But instead of appreciating, she was ridiculed and puzzled, and some people even directly said that she was like a "monster".
Even female colleagues should avoid her when changing clothes and taking a shower.
At this moment, a man named Chen Ping walked into her life, riding a motorcycle to pick up Zhang Kesha every day, rain or shine. The two once reached the point of talking about marriage.
But Chen Ping's parents knew about it and vigorously opposed it. Eventually, the relationship was ruthlessly snuffed out.
Although Chen Ping still had to persevere, in order not to embarrass her boyfriend, Zhang Kesha took the initiative to let go.
Fourth relationship:
In the days of marrying Mr. Xiao, in fact, he did not love this honest man who gave everything for himself.
At this time, the appearance of a handsome man made him cheat.
She met a man named Ah Shan, this man is young and handsome, and it is the appearance of this man that makes her feel that being a woman is really beautiful and happy.
But the good times did not last long, a Hunan fellow blackmailed him, in order not to let his daughter let her boyfriend know, he spent all his savings on the sealing fee.
But this matter eventually reached Ah Shan's ears, so he took the initiative to confess all this to Ah Shan, and finally ended up breaking up.
Fifth relationship:
Mr. Zhang opened a restaurant in Taiwan, where she also competed in beauty contests and reached the finals.
Next, she met the fifth man in her life, Ahao.
Ah Hao is a gangster, 10 years younger than Zhang Kesha, and his childhood misfortune has made Zhang Kesha feel pity for him.
The two soon moved in together, and Zhang Kesha took care of Ahao's life like a sister and mother. To outsiders, they are no different from ordinary couples.
However, Ahau was involved in arms trafficking and prepared to flee. Under the strong persuasion of Zhang Kesha, Ah Hao went to turn himself in.
This relationship also died.
A transgender person who ultimately fails to attain happiness. I don't know if it is caused by personality or the times?
May everyone live out their own lives, live wonderfully, and live happily!