Because of the sentence "30-year-old uneconomically independent women return to their hometowns as soon as possible", Chu Yin was scolded on the hot search.
Who is Chu Yin?
It took a lot of ink to introduce him.
He is currently the vice dean of the Mathematical Economy Think Tank, a former university professor, a famous player in "Strange Story", a new generation of well-known representatives, often expressing his opinions on various popular events on the Internet, and has a huge fan base.
He is known for being good at telling the "big truths" that ordinary people like, such as:
You cool your childhood, you have to pay the price in your middle age, in your old age;
Marriage is the "least bad" option for most people because they need to be taken care of after age 55;
Quality education is to fight for financial resources, and test-oriented education is the most beneficial way for the poor;
After the age of 28, I advise you not to study.
These words are easy to trigger hot searches, seemingly extreme, but can win the recognition of countless people.
The controversial remarks came from his participation in the "Financial Boiling Talk" live broadcast, and he expressed his views on the topic of "if you can't settle in a big city, do you want to go back early":
"If girls are struggling until they are twenty-seven or eight years old in big cities such as Beijing, Guangzhou, and Shenzhen, and still can't stand on their own financially, it's actually good to go back to their parents."
Why is twenty-seven or eight years old a bar?
Because girls are not good at marrying in small places after thirty years of age. He hopes that all women will face this truth calmly and make reasonable arrangements for their lives as soon as possible.
He also said that the city is cruel to young people, and if she had a daughter, she would not be left alone in a foreign country.
These remarks have aroused the dissatisfaction of the majority of female netizens.
Of course, some people defended Professor Yin, thinking that he was scolded only because he had told the truth again.
Yes, Professor Yin told the truth.
He said a conventional concept of women in society, "Women don't have to work hard to do their careers, because you always have a way out of marrying someone." ”
The difference between a woman's life and a man's life is that a woman always has a way out: when she was a child, her parents were her way out, when she grew up, her husband was her way out, and when she grew old, her children were her way out.
Growing up, almost every girl was receiving such a hint:
She doesn't have to fight for her life, there are always men behind her anyway. She only needs to find a stable, decent job, and she doesn't have to make much money, but it is best to be idle, double-off, and not working overtime, which is convenient for bringing children.
Therefore, Professor Chu Yin based on such social reality believes that if girls struggle in big cities for a few years, there is no progress, it is better to hurry home.
If the career is not successful, it is okay, and we must not delay getting married and having children.
Is he wrong? He and his fans didn't think there was anything wrong with these words.
"Has it never been like that?"
Professor Chu has flipped over women's topics in recent years.
For example, Yang Kasa said a sentence of "Puxin Man" on the talk show, and he did not know how to poke At Professor Chu's weakness, and immediately sent a video to Yang Kasa. "Is it special to use confidence in front of you?"
It is not that Yang Kasa can't spray, but Professor Chu's spray point is off, don't talk about martial arts, come up and attack people's looks, "Maybe these ordinary men don't look good, but if you remove makeup, you may be really ugly."
It's out of par.
And the rebuttal is not on the point, Yang Kasa said Puxinnan, he said that Yang Kasa "does not have a princess life, but has a princess disease, this is a very fatal thing", completely logical confusion, where and where is not next to each other.
In the past, I had a good impression of Professor Chu, and in "Strange Story", he could still say something down-to-earth, and the words were not rough, but after he sprayed Yang Kasa, I found that he was a typical straight man.
Straight men can't accept any woman trying to challenge the authority of men, straight men to see a girl who has never known each other and make a big splash on the Internet because of a joke.
Including this time the rhetoric overturned, it is the same reason.
As a straight man, he feels that he is very sympathetic to women's hardships, and calls on all women to see the truth of life, "It is difficult to marry people when you are old in small places, don't struggle, hurry up and go back." ”
But a twenty-seven or eight-year-old girl, only four or five years after graduating from college, if she reads a master's degree, she has only worked for three or four years, how can she see the rudiments of her career, how can she achieve economic independence in a big city?
It is the best situation in life, the most exuberant stage of creativity and energy, but Professor Chu called on them to pack up and go home, back to their parents, back to marriage.
The banner is still "for your own good, I know the cruelty of life better than you."
This seemingly tolerant and relaxed attitude towards women has become a shackle that has been tied to women for thousands of years, containing the greatest discrimination against women.
It denies the independence of women as a gender, makes women dependent on others, and forcibly kidnaps the value of women's lives on the chariot of marriage.
Then, although they have endured heavy housework and lost the opportunity to choose their own lives, they are seen as a benefit because they have accepted the protection of men.
Betty Friedan's book The Mystery of Women very vividly describes the plight of women who remained in the family more than half a century ago:
"They told the housewife that she was really blessed in the midst of the blessings—that she was her own superior, not limited by the hours, and that there were no clerks competing with her for a job. If she feels unhappy – does she think men are happy in this world? Does she really still secretly want to be a man? Doesn't she know how lucky she is to be a woman? ”
Men get cheap and sell well, women's creativity is ignored and suppressed, and they are not even allowed to express dissatisfaction.
This was the scene half a century ago, and the sad thing is that we are still mired in discrimination, and the injustice of forcing women is seen as a protection for women.
"Has it always been right?"
Friedan already has this question in his book, "Love, daughters, families are good, but they are not the whole world of women... Why should women accept this picture of half of their lives instead of sharing the full destiny of humanity? ”
Now many parents are too hard to care for their children, hoping that their lives will go smoothly, especially the parents of girls.
I never think that it is a good thing that life is too lucky, luck is easily consumed, and the luck of artificial creation is a great restriction on vitality.
As Beauvoir said, "The good fortune of a man is that, whether as an adult or a child, he must embark on an extremely arduous road, but it is the most reliable path; The misfortune of the woman lies in being surrounded by almost irresistible temptations, everything that pushes her up the slopes of ease, and she is not asked to work hard, but is only encouraged to slide down to reach bliss. It's usually too late when she realizes she's been fooled by a mirage, and her strength has been exhausted in a failed adventure. ”
A woman's "luck", extra protection, and excessive compassion are often the source of her misfortune.
In the face of netizens' doubts, Professor Chu has a great sense of humor.
He said that this show was a few days ago, and on the whole, he didn't remember anything special, basically a few guests took a position and expressed their views on the show.
This passage was titled "experts suggest that girls go home and get married as soon as possible" as the topic rushed to the hot search, in Professor Chu's view, "enough to pull hatred, enough to bring emotions." ”
However, he does not mind, this is the traffic task, "my casualness, your emotions, her anger, are all consumables of the traffic economy." ”
You see, Professor Chu is smart and knows how to get traffic and how to monetize it.
He knew what words would be scolded, but he still had to say something, making some remarks that "pretended to be confused with understanding, opened his eyes and said blind words, and got cheap and sold well."
Why, it is not to feed a family, to ensure that it can take root in the big city, and will not return to its original form and return to the small city.
When the traffic comes, the more fans there are, the more goods you can bring.
Engage in money, not chilling.
So this kind of expert advice, even if listened to, his behavior is more worth learning than his remarks.
Girls struggling in big cities, don't pay attention to so much gossip, don't leave so many retreats for yourself, do your career well, and do your best to take root.
Engage in money, not chilling.