Han Anran is a city girl who many people grew up watching the "Metamorphosis Meter", when she was a child, her personality was pampered, and her parents divorced became the best excuse for her to rebel and indulge herself, even if her mother sent her to "Metamorphometer", after experiencing the hard life of rural children, she still failed to change Han Anran's rebellion.
When marrying Mr. Piglet, Han Anran was divorced because he was with his predecessor Liu Xinxin, and was found by Mr. Piglet to divorce, after the divorce, Piglet and Tu'er remarried and gave birth to a daughter, live streaming together with goods, although they were still renting a house, but the couple were working hard for a better life for the two people, and the little life was thriving.
Han Anran and Ma Zexin remarried, even with a daughter, Han Anran was not able to keep to himself, Ma Zexin exposed the chat records of Han Anran and his friends, revealed that he slept with Liu Xinxin during the marriage, and also willfully did not listen to advice, and even moved the idea of leaving Han Anran, or the advice of his mother-in-law.
Originally thought that it was Han Anran's fault, but recently some netizens took a picture of Ma Zexin dancing in the bar, in the dim light, Ma Zexin and a beautiful woman hugged closely, like a boyfriend and girlfriend, the relationship is very close, but this beauty is not Han Anran.
Some netizens revealed that Han Anran and Ma Zexin are open marriages.
Some people have seen it on TV, and some people think it's a way of getting married abroad.
The so-called open marriage was a kind of contractual marriage proposed by Sartre for De Beauvoir, that is, after the two were married, they could find other partners, but the two must also maintain a beautiful marriage relationship, be honest and trusting of each other, and cannot be hidden.
This relationship is not healthy and normal. In layman's terms, it is to play each other' own, but it must be agreed by the other party, as long as one person does not agree, it is not considered an open marriage. In other words, the behavior of Han Anran and Ma Zexin, the other party is clear and acquiesced, which is very ruinous, but it does exist.
The person next to your pillow clearly tells you that you are thinking of another person, and it is impossible if you are not uncomfortable at all, otherwise Ma Zexin will not publish a screenshot of Han Anran's chat. However, the so-called open marriage is actually a wolf in sheep's clothing, and sooner or later it will show its fangs.
Saying that they respect each other is actually looking for excuses for their own indulgence, and many people have romantic relationships, they will not be emotional, they will fight with a person, they will say that cg is a tall noun, just to find a high-sounding excuse for themselves, such a marriage relationship is impossible to last, because you think that the calm relative will become the handle of the other party when quarreling.
Han Anran's growth history and marriage are a very typical negative teaching material, whether it is the willfulness of childhood, or the disrespect for marriage after marriage, it is the result of too much indulgence and non-binding force.
Female artist Marina. Abravić performed the famous Rhythm 0 performance art in '74, he tied himself to a bench under general anesthesia, put a lot of items on the table, and then gave all the rights to the audience, who could do anything on her, without resistance or accountability.
Someone drew on her, put insulting notes on him, and gradually the people grew bolder, cutting her clothes, cutting her skin with a knife, and even the last man pointed a gun at her mouth, and the gun, which had bullets.
She felt the fear of rights for the first time, but fortunately she was stopped by the staff, and she survived, covered in scars, shivering and tears, questioning those who hurt her with her eyes, but the crowd scattered and no one said a word of apology.
Marina. What Ablanovich shows is the end result of moral indulgence.
Han Anran's concept of marriage shows that it is the result of physical and mental indulgence.
When morality is unchecked, in exchange for the horror of human nature, when marital indulgence is not constrained, in exchange for marriage brokenness, just like Han Anran when he was a child, he was not constrained, in exchange for a lifetime of indulgence and mistakes, brain tumors, personally destroying his marriage and happiness, such an ending and life, is it good?
I hope that everyone can restrain themselves, do not touch the bottom line of morality and law, and do not learn From Han Anran's wrong view of marriage.