Studied hard for 10 years and got a doctorate in medicine; After only one year as a doctor, he suddenly suffered a cerebral hemorrhage, which led to the complete destruction of his life... Wang Leyan often wondered, is this a joke made by fate and herself?
Otherwise, why do you get sick in your own field of study? Unlike others, Wang Lei knows too much about her condition because she doesn't know much about her condition and can have a positive and optimistic attitude. Because of this understanding and helplessness, she once fell into a bottomless darkness.
She once described, "I always felt like I was climbing a mountain. I had just climbed to the top of the mountain, and before I could catch my breath, the other mountains looked short under the sky. I slammed down the cliff. ”
On December 13, 2012, Wang Leyan, a female doctor who was three months pregnant, returned home after a day's work. It was already five o'clock in the afternoon.
Sitting on the sofa, she suddenly felt dizzy and wanted to throw up, so she told her husband next to her that she was uncomfortable. Ms. Wang's husband asked his wife to go back to her bedroom to rest and said the vomiting might have been caused by pregnancy.
Soon, Wang Leyan vomited and then fainted on the couch, and her frightened husband dialed 120 in panic.
The ambulance came and took Wang Leyan to the Second Affiliated Hospital of Nanchang University.
After being admitted to the emergency room, Wang Leyan was in a critical state, lost consciousness, and even stopped breathing.
Wang Leyan never imagined that her condition would be so serious. At the same time, she never imagined that she would one day lie on the operating table for patients. It was really an accident.
At this moment, Wang Leyan was paralyzed, but compared with this blow, what made it more difficult for her to accept was that she also had a baby who was less than 28 weeks pregnant.
At this time, Wang Leyan's husband did not deliberately do it. He just hugged Wang Leyan's tambourine tightly by the bedside and danced with her, "Don't worry, the baby is safe, you will be fine." ”
The current situation of total paralysis has little chance of cure for Wang Leyan and her husband, two doctors who have experienced many battles in the medical industry.
Therefore, when Wang Leyan knew that she was paralyzed and unable to recover, she was very happy to hear her husband comfort her.
"I didn't think about it that much when I did it. I just feel that I have learned so many things, how to apply what I have learned, how to repay the motherland and society, and how to spread positive energy. ”
The person who said this was a middle-aged woman in a wheelchair.
She was paralyzed, her face was deformed, her speech was slurred, her right eye was completely blind, and only one of her ten fingers could move.
The "waste" in the eyes of ordinary people is still thinking about how to repay the motherland and society. She obviously couldn't take care of herself even the most basic of life.
But you know what? Before being severely disabled, the middle-aged woman was one of the youngest medical doctors and neurologists in China.
An accident robbed her of her health and job, and also left her without her husband and marriage.
However, she was not crushed by fate, but overcame all difficulties to create a public welfare forum.
Even if you're sick, you still have to make the most of your residual heat and help the world fight disease.
In this way, she has made great achievements in neurology, but she has suffered from diseases in her own field of study, which makes everyone feel sorry. However, paralysis was the beginning of her doom, and greater misfortune was yet to come. After being paralyzed during pregnancy, the fate of the baby in her womb became a problem for her.
Her husband, who could have been relied on, also chose to divorce. Wang Leyan went from being a respected divine doctor to a low point in her life, and everyone felt that her future was dark.
What makes her sadder than the physical changes is the change in marriage. Hearing that she was awake, her husband soon came to the hospital. Instead of feeling very happy, he said, "Let's get a divorce." I was under this pressure every day and was on the verge of collapse. I packed up and left the house by myself, and I will give you living expenses and medical expenses later. ”
Wang Leyan did not embarrass her husband. She pressed her fingerprint on the divorce agreement: "I understand what you think." Her husband looked at her gratefully and turned away.
Losing her family and unable to live independently, her parents were always around to take care of her.
After she was discharged from the hospital, her parents bought her professional training equipment and asked her to do rehabilitation training. Every day Dad carried her to the trainer and then down.
Until half a year later, when Wang Leyan's mother wiped Her body for Wang Leyan as usual, she found that Wang Leyan's left eye slowly opened, and her mother quickly sought a doctor. Since then, Wang Leyan's consciousness has been restored. But her right eye was completely dead, and only her left eye could barely see.
Soon after Wang Leyan woke up, the child in her belly was about to be born. It took a lot of effort for the doctor to remove the baby from her stomach. Luckily, this baby is a healthy baby. Everyone was very happy, and Wang Leyan's family even named their child Siyuan.
They hope that when this child grows up, they will know how difficult it is for their mother to conceive in October and risk their lives to give birth to him. Hopefully, this child will always be grateful to his mother.
Like the writer Shi Tiesheng, Wang Leyan began her long thinking in a wheelchair.
After settling down, she finally broke the mental barrier and decided to do something meaningful.
She decided to start "online counseling" and become an online doctor.
After figuring this out, she began to teach herself programming, and bought a local domain name, registered a business license, etc. After a while, her "Flower Forum" was successfully opened.
At the top of the forum, you can clearly see "posting questions, generally replying 24 hours", which is Wang Leyan's goal for herself and his commitment to users.
When it was too late to reply, Ms. Wang often called her mother for help. She knew where each letter was on the keyboard, and if necessary she would tell her mom which line to which line.
More and more people gradually support the "Flower Forum", and everyone also agrees with Wang Lei's medical knowledge.
Physical illness and her husband's departure have filled Wang with despair about the future, but she must cheer up her children and parents. If she continued to be depressed like this, her parents would collapse before she died.
Do parents have to have their own children and take care of their younger children when they are old?
Thinking of this, Wang Leyan rekindled her hope for life and insisted on recovering every day. If you can't go back to the hospital and treat patients as you used to, create a website to educate people about medicine.
At this time, Wang Leyan was moving forward on this road. For seven years, she walked against the wind with only one finger and one eye.
When fate filled the road in front of her with thorns, she gave back to the whole society with a rose garden.
Finally, I hope that Wang Leyan can bravely pursue her dreams and hope that all patients seeking treatment will recover soon.