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Before talking about ordinary college students, it is not very positive energy, in fact, I want to be positive, but the person who asked this question, people gave me the topic of the card very dead.
The questioner limited it, saying that I was not allowed to talk about the examples of the two counterattacks twenty years ago, or this and that ten years ago.
People bite to death and ask, you say these three years, you have seen. To be honest, there is one to say.
A reader's message that day was also interesting, he said, in fact, twenty years ago, the scarcity of two books among his peers may be higher than today's one.
You're looking at it very carefully, so some of the examples of counterattacks aren't so exciting anymore, if you're competing.
However, in the end, not all readers are rational, and the expression of non-positive energy still makes some people very unhappy.
They blamed me for being too negative.
In fact, those readers who have had life experience know that I am definitely not talking about negative energy.
I should belong to the kind of drifter one.
Piao means that everything is picked and said, and everything is thought of as good as possible, as long as it is OK, generally speaking, it is as positive as possible.
But I'm not talking nonsense, that is, I'm rational and data-driven in everything, and I'm just subconsciously used to positive statements and positive guidance.
If I am this number, you feel that it is not correct enough, then you can only say that you are too right. That's right, but purely for the sake of being right, that's not reliable.
Things must have many faces, such as the three numbers 123.
You're looking right there, 123. That's good, but that's not all.
There are 123, there are 321, and there are 132, 213, 231, 312. The latter ones are there.
What is the righteousness of disregard for facts? For example, some readers scolded me that day, crying and joking with me, you must say 123, there is only 123 under the sky, there is no 321 under the sky, you say 321 again, I will scold you, you say 321 again, I will take you.
I personally agree with 123, but everyone's 123 is not the same process.
Some people, he went through all the permutations and combinations, and in the end, he chose 123. And some people, he just didn't see the others, he had only seen 123, he thought there was only 123.
If you compare this to an ideal, the former's ideal has been tested, the latter has not.
For example, in Jin Yong's novel "Deer DingJi", in lu Ding ji, compared with the wind, Wei Xiaobao is reliable.
Wei Xiaobao had many experiences and many choices, Kangxi took him as a brother, Chen Jinnan took him as an apprentice, the Russian princess took him as a lover, and the Divine Dragon Sect Leader took him as a confidant.
In comparison, life in the wind is much singler. It is said that the pure wind should be more reliable, in fact, the wind was a traitor, Kangxi gave him a petty official, and he betrayed the Heaven and Earth Society.
The reason for this is very simple, just like women have a saying when choosing a mate, they don't want to be the first woman of a man, they just want to be his last.
Why?
I guess they're probably thinking that if this man hasn't experienced a single woman, marrying him, there's no guarantee that he won't betray him in the future.
In the wind, it is said every day to be loyal to the Heaven and Earth Society, this is just a statement, in the end whether it can be done, it needs to be tested, sometimes not betraying is not necessarily loyalty, or it may not have a chance at all.
Just like some men may not cheat in their whole lives, it may be that they have a strong character, or it may not be that anyone looks at him at all.
I believe that there are many people in the Heaven and Earth Society, who have never had such an opportunity in the wind in their lives, you don't know if he is loyal or unfaithful, and he himself actually does not know. Because there is no second person who looks at him, there is no other option.
I think some of these people will waver when faced with choices, such as in the wind, and some will not.
As for Wei Xiaobao, you don't care how unreliable he looks, in fact, in the whole book, he is the most reliable. Even the degree of reliability may exceed that of Chen Jinnan.
Wei Xiaobao was second only to Kangxi in the whole book, and in this case, he would rather kill his head than save his master, and I believe that under other tests, he would make the same choice.
Ideals that have passed the test of reality are called true ideals.
The daughter lord of the country said to Tang Monk, if you have the ability, you can open your eyes and look, and you open your eyes to see that the beautiful woman can still leave firmly, which is called passing the test.
Closing your eyes tightly and sweating only shows that you are weak-minded.
Someone asked me, what should I do if I can't open my eyes and pass the pass?
Then I can only tell you that if you can't pass the pass when you open your eyes, then you can't reach the Western Sky if you close your eyes.
There are some things you can't avoid, such as opening your eyes to see the world, opening your eyes, and learning to understand the world first. Instead of demanding from the beginning that the world must be what I imagined, it had to be 123, 123, if 321, I would cry, I would make trouble, I would roll all over the place...
A true idealist must be a person who faces reality head-on.
It will never be a person who rolls on the ground.
Twenty years ago, the Internet was not like today, when young people were still more willing to understand all aspects of the society they were about to go to, including those that they did not adapt to and did not like.
Many people asked me to recommend divine dramas, and they asked me, is "Daming Dynasty 1566" a divine drama? Is "Heavenly Path" a divine drama?
There are many different works of art, but if you are a young man who has not yet understood society, I suggest you first look at a divine drama from more than 20 years ago, Genesis.
Focus on two people, one is Xu Wenbiao, who is mad at Ye Rongtian.
Tell him, those people outside know what to build a building? They just... and omit a lot of words here, because they can't pass the trial.
There is also a shot of Huo Jingliang, standing in front of the floor-to-ceiling glass, pointing to the busy crowd below, and telling the people in the office, what do they know about stock trading? They know...., and many words are omitted here, for the same reason.
This is the benefit of the old drama, the thing that can't be passed today, then it was casually watched. You go to chase the drama again, see the three brothers pass the three levels, buy a shell listing can be stopped, there is no need to continue later.
A person doesn't need to know that much before he is financially free. Because it doesn't need it.
If you can really start with financial freedom from scratch, then you don't need to use any divine drama to make yourself feel so-called enlightened.
That thing was originally for fledgling students who had not yet entered society.
When I look at it, I'm a college student on campus, but different people look at the same thing with different emphases.
Some people pay attention to the family feud between Ye Rongtian's family and the rich uncle; Some people pay attention to the side of the line that is not quite correct but exists.
I recommend you the two shots, if there is a third, that is, the three brothers passed the three levels, took advantage of the information difference, took advantage of the big guys to beat each other, and made money to buy shell listings.
That's the difference in personality, some people are interested in emotion, some people are interested in business.
I'm not against the former, I'm just telling you that emotions are not omnipotent.
It's not that you're lying on the ground rolling around, it's that the baby isn't open, and the world changes as soon as you open your eyes.
I also did not suggest that you learn from Xu Wenbiao and Huo Jingliang, both of which are negative characters, and the play was finally cleaned up.
I just suggest that you get to know each other first.
You are not in the wind, you are destined to choose 123 in the end, I believe this, but this does not affect you to understand 321, understand that there is no harm.
Like a cop, you want to be a detective, is it enough to recite the letter of the law every day plus condemn the bad guys?
Of course not.
How do you see Conan doing it? It's about simulating the behavior, psychology, and aspects of criminals.
You have to know him better than the bad guy before you can subdue him. Bao Longxing and his father were right in saying that corrupt officials should be more adulterous.
Corrupt officials have 36 changes, you have to have 72 changes, otherwise what do you take to subdue him?
If today's young people travel back 20 years, you will find that although there were more opportunities at that time, it was not for everyone to grasp.
At that time, there were also many people who cried every day and said why 34567 could not be pressed 45678, there were many, most people at any time.
Even if you watch the same TV series, you will find that most people's eyes are focused on Xu Wenbiao's time when he had no money, and her girlfriend did not end up with him, but followed the second generation of the rich, and was indignant about it.
Or maybe the three brothers went from being righteous to being enemies, and sighed and sighed for this.
So what I write, it doesn't matter. No matter what I write, there are a thousand Hamlets in a thousand people's eyes, and what you see is not the same article.
To put it bluntly, character determines destiny, and character is not something that others can help you change.
Because it is God who changes himself, it is Shenjing Ice who tries to change the personality of others.
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