Dong Zijian's divorce from Sun Yi can be called a model of internal entertainment divorce.
At 10:00 a.m. on Monday, August 8, the two card points were announced, and the copywriting was warm, simple and direct; @each other, leaving no gaps. After the announcement of the Buddha-figure, the brokerage companies of both sides officially issued a document.
I haven't seen such thoughtful literature in a long time.
On Monday morning, the media colleagues were worried about no work, the coffee was just picked up, and the cup was opened on the computer to find the material. Work for three hours, have fun all day, leave work at 5 pm on time, perfect!
After the official divorce was announced, the two simultaneously deleted the Weibo of the previous interaction.
No matter what the reason is, at least the flow of the flow is very perfect, worthy of the handiwork of Wang Jinghua, the first agent of internal entertainment.
As an old-school traditional media person, I have never understood that the celebrities who have to announce their marriage and divorce on weekend nights or even eleven or twelve o'clock are blackmailed by paparazzi and will "see you on Monday" without announcing them?
Don't say public figures, even if we ordinary people, marriage and divorce must go through long-term and careful planning, the time of publication is naturally part of the plan, decent, considerate, decent, why not?
Unfortunately, the "give people roses have lingering fragrance" of the hand, some stars in the internal entertainment and their team can not learn to learn.
Celebrity divorce has always been the focus of the public, especially these two people have been full of sweetness, suddenly left for no reason, everyone is more curious about domestic violence, cheating, debt, evil mother-in-law, which thief ship is on. I may have some different views on this, I didn't have time to write before taking my daughter out, and today I made up for this hot spot.
First of all, the divorce of the two should not have much to do with the mother-in-law.
Although Dong Zijian has played many roles and his acting skills are not bad, the most familiar and interesting point of his body is still the "Prince of the Beijing Circle".
Her mother is Wang Jinghua, the first agent of internal entertainment who holds the red Fan Bingbing, Li Bingbing, Hu Jun, and Bai Baihe, and is known as Hua Jie.
His father was kung fu star Dong Zhihua.
Dong Zhihua has played a lot of green leaves, such as "Goro Bagua Stick" in "Kung Fu".
Dong Zijian's appearance is very similar to his father's.
Wang Jinghua began working as a star agent in the early 1990s, when there was no concept of star agent in China. She pioneered the "nanny-style" star management method, from the specification of the stars' words and deeds to helping them do career planning and choose the script, everything is the flower sister herself.
▲ Chu Qi Chu Tong's "Brother" group is an early mainland singing and dancing group created by Wang Jinghua
Although in the hands of Wang Jinghua, the star does not have much freedom, but also saves a lot of trouble. At the same time, the reason why Wang Jinghua has a good reputation among star artists lies in her sense of proportion as a person.
▲ Hu Jun said that Wang Jinghua can throw himself out for the sake of the artist's good
She not only single-handedly cultivated Li Bingbing's sister Li Xue and other gold medal agents, but also supported the stars to set up their own studios, and when Hao Lei was doing the studio, Wang Jinghua gave her a lot of help.
Liu Jialing's mainland brokerage business has also been in the hands of Hua Jie, and wherever Hua Jie goes, she will follow her. Liu Jialing is such a shrewd person, the friends she has made can be treated.
Different from the strength and high profile of the new generation of brokers such as Yang Tianzhen, Wang Jinghua has always adhered to the tenet of brokerage business as "service industry". Until 2010, she also rode her own bicycle to meet artists.
▲ Hua Jie herself is low-key, and her artists have to spontaneously thank her by name on various occasions
As a witness to the ups and downs of internal entertainment for decades, Wang Jinghua knows too well what celebrities are, and also understands that in this huge vanity fair, the wings are hard and they will eventually fly, so they come and go, and have not torn it with anyone.
When Wang Jinghua left Huayi, the "double ice" she brought out with her single hand decided to stay in the old owner's house, and Hua Jie expressed full respect for this. However, Li Bingbing felt very guilty about Wang Jinghua, but she believed that "Sister Hua is not a person who is careful with her eyes."
Li Bingbing's later agent was his sister Li Xue, and when Li Xue first came to Beijing and didn't understand anything, he was working in the hands of Wang Jinghua.
"I think Hua Jie here is a bit like the Whampoa Military Academy, and the team of agents cultivated from her in recent years is no less than the stars cultivated." Li Xue commented on his mentor Wang Jinghua.
Not only for artists, Wang Jinghua also has an old-school respect for the media.
Whether it is a big card or a small card, as long as you make an interview with Sister Hua, you will definitely receive a sincere response.
Even if she refuses, Sister Hua will politely reply to the message: "Thank you for your attention to my work, but I am really inconvenient to accept any interview now, and when I have the right opportunity in the future, I will definitely arrange a good chat." ”
Wang Jinghua has single-handedly cultivated many dazzling stars, but his life is extremely low-key. In the marriage of her son, in addition to being photographed accompanying her daughter-in-law to the obstetric examination, Wang Jinghua has been in a state of invisibility.
Sun Yi has also said on many occasions that he and Dong Zijian are purely two people's feelings.
When she got married, Dong Zijian asked her if she wanted to join Wang Jinghua's company, and Sun Yi directly refused. It shows that Wang Jinghua did not give her a lot of pressure.
Dong Zijian, as the second generation of entertainment, married young and early, zero scandals, no negative news, and the answer score handed over by the actor is not bad.
He graduated from the drama class, and the biggest advantage of acting is that he is relaxed, not handsome, and willing to sink his heart to challenge different roles.
For example, in "Big Rivers and Big Rivers", he played a rural child Yang Tour;
And in the movie "Mountains and Rivers of the Past", the breakthrough image and Zhang Aijia staged a 40-year-old love affair.
Dong Zijian did not mention his mother on almost any occasion, and Wang Jinghua had long since stopped giving an interview.
Such a family is still fundamentally different from Zhang Lan and Xiang Tai, they do not need to rely on their daughters-in-law to earn traffic, and they also fully respect the autonomy of professional women.
From the time Sun Yi gave birth to 5 months into the group to shoot, it can be seen that the family of professional women, even if they have money, is not as good as the rich and the rules are more, talk about face.
Moreover, the biggest difference between mainland stars and Hong Kong and Taiwan artists is that mainland stars generally have a higher status and their thinking is closer to modern women. Even a small star like Sun Yi has a far lower ability to endure grievances than artists in Taiwan province such as Big S and Guo Biting.
In Hong Kong and Taiwan, women's status and thinking have always been in a state of tearing between the poles of ice and fire, and their appearance is very open, and the set of "women must marry well" in their bones is more serious than anyone.
Second, Dong Zijian and Sun Yi were sincerely and deeply in love.
Saying that Dong Zijian is the same, because it is the same, resulting in divorce netizens, I can only dedicate this meme.
Dong Zijian and Sun Yi first met at the 2015 Tokyo Film Festival, and the two walked the red carpet. When Sun Yi got off the blanket, Dong Zijian was walking up, and he fell in love at first sight at a glance and decided to pursue Sun Yi.
Dong Zijian's agent asked Sun Yi out in the name of work, pretending to casually ask Xiao Dong if he wanted to talk together, so there was the first formal meeting between the two of them.
In those years, the most popular pick-up photos taken by Yuji were Dong Zijian to pick up Sun Yi.
Touch your head and kill.
His eyes could not be separated from her.
Ten fingers interlocked.
Personally help her carry the box, oh yo so heavy.
In October 2016, netizens met Dong Zijian and Sun Yi, who behaved intimately, on the plane, and after the news went online, the two confessed to love at the speed of light.
Dong Zijian tweeted "What to do I get trapped", and Sun Yi forwarded the response "That's your luck".
In April 2017, paparazzi photographed Dong Zijian and his mother Wang Jinghua accompanying Sun Yi for a maternity examination.
It does sound a little strange for the mother-in-law to accompany her to the maternity examination, but if you think of Sun Yi Dong Zijian who was under 24 years old at the time, and considering their star status and the mother-in-law's agent work habits, it is not surprising.
During Sun Yi's pregnancy, the small two bites were also sweet and sweet and never avoided people. Compared with many celebrities, they are more like ordinary people of the same age, untrimmed, relaxed and natural.
The internal entertainment filter is thick, and it is rare to see such a "plain" dog food for celebrities.
On May 10, 2017, the two got married.
The way to make the announcement was to appear on the cover of fashion magazines in a high profile and shout to the people of the whole country, "We are getting married."
When receiving the license, I was also photographed by netizens by chance.
Four months after their marriage, in September 2017, Sun Yi and Dong Zijian's daughter was born.
With such a tight timeline, it is actually very easy to understand that the two did not have a wedding: it is too late. Instead of rushing to make a bad wedding, it is better to eat the sugar at home.
Many netizens like to feel the sugar of these two people, also because the man's status in the circle is higher, but the posture has been very low, and he sincerely pets the woman into a little princess.
And Sun Yi has always been arrogant, this 93-born girl treats feelings casually and naturally, which is quite likable.
Dong Zijian said that he wanted to add chicken legs to him, and the netizens who had just been electrified in the village asked Dong Zijian if he was Sun Yi's boyfriend, and Sun Yi replied: He has been pursuing me for 5 years, and I did not agree.
Sun Yifa took a selfie saying that she was a little princess, and Dong Zijian immediately claimed it spontaneously.
Asked how Sun Yi got Dong Zijian, Dong Zijian replied, "She has already touched me when she looks at me."
Faced with the problem that "many boys don't want to get married because they think they will meet girls who are better for him", Dong Zijian said: "I won't, my wife is better to me."
The famous large-scale "dog abuse" scene is to participate in the variety show with Haoran's brother, Liu Haoran proudly said that he quietly brought more than 10,000 cash in case of emergency, Dong Zijian immediately showed the "valuable pendant" on his neck, saying that his wife gave it, and he could buy a ticket to go home in a critical moment.
Dong Zijian is also a man who is willing to be ugly photographed by his wife.
He also posted sun yi's ugly photos with his backhand, and as a result, he was taken off by Sun Yi.
Although the mask photo, although he humbly called Sun Yi the "boss", he was still chased and killed by Sun Yi, shouting "Surname Dong".
If Guo Biting shouted "surname Xiang", Xiang Taixiao's class should be online.
Last year's Spring Festival Dong Zijian's "Assassination of a Novelist" was released, sun Yi said that when filming this movie, she was accompanying Dong Zijian in the group, and it was very painful to see that he was blue and purple every day.
When Sun Yi cried, Dong Zijian's body language was wholeheartedly poured on her, and this thing was more difficult to falsify than words.
So the question is, there is no evil mother-in-law, no cheating, it cannot be the same, why divorce? Quite simply, don't love, and at the same time have the capital to pay for the choice.
The third point I want to say is that the divorce of two people seems to be unexpected, but it is actually inevitable.
Sun Yi and Dong Zijian were both born in 1993, Sun Yi was in June, and Dong Zijian was in December, so Dong Zijian called Sun Yi an older sister.
When they got married, both of them were under the age of 24, and even the children were born, Dong Zijian did not have a 24th birthday, and was once known as the earliest male star of internal entertainment.
Until today, both of their children are almost in elementary school, and the couple has just turned 29 and the other is still 28 years old. How determined do you make people of this age to carry out marriage to the end, let alone in the entertainment industry, even ordinary people are difficult.
Love not only has a shelf life, but also a short shelf life, as far as love itself is concerned, the seven-year itch is already a big limit.
After the general limit, maintaining the marriage is either a matter of responsibility or a financial reason; Either from family pressure or from society.
Many people don't want to toss, but they can't afford to toss.
For example, there are boys around me who do not divorce because they are afraid of being divided by their wives, and the thought of falling in love and getting married again will cost a lot of money and energy, and they are too lazy to toss.
And girls do not divorce mostly for children, a person to raise children is too stressful, and worry about not being able to give them a good education and so on.
So nowadays, more and more people have reached such a consensus: the longevity of marriage is often not determined by feelings, but by conditions.
Most people can't get rid of two dreams in their lifetimes - they want to get married when they are not married, and they want to divorce after they get married.
These two dreams, the latter more torturous.
After all, the time of the previous dream of "pregnancy" is short, and most people want to go to the city in three or five years, and at most seven or eight years can successfully enter the city; And then a dream, sometimes "pregnant" for decades, to the old age to toss.
From the perspective of time cost, people who marry late, the probability of not divorcing is a little smaller, on the one hand, marriage is not easy to get, and more importantly, married life is finally not so long and difficult.
Dong Zijian and Sun Yi, married and had a baby at the age of twenty-three or four, are now in the year of establishment, the hormones are almost consumed, tired of marriage, and have a new plan for career, life, and the future, which is too normal.
Their luck lies in their ability to correct errors, and the cost of correcting errors is small compared to the wealth and resources they have.
In "Goodbye Lover", Sun Yi said that her mother gave birth to a second child, but she did not want to give birth.
At the same time, after the official announcement of the divorce, she also parachuted into the fan base and warned the fans not to say bad things about others, "I will work well next."
Sun Yi, as a north drift actress from a non-science class, met her true lover Dong Zijian at the age of 23, and everyone would be moved. But by the age of 29, I became a mother, and I had some breakthroughs in my career, and I wanted to choose again, which is the common sentiment of people, and it is also gratifying.
The only constant thing in the world is that people are constantly changing, and this is the same for both men and women.
In the past, there were more men and fewer women because society oppressed women even more, and the cost of women pursuing change was too high, so high that we could not climb high.
If there are countless opportunities to re-choose in life, who doesn't want to spend a lifetime as if it were a few lifetimes?
On August 4, before the official divorce was announced, #Sun Yi's yellow floral skirt style# has been on Weibo hot search.
In the new variety show "Ambassador's Kitchen" reuters, Sun Yi wears a short yellow skirt, light as a butterfly.
On the day of the official announcement, #Dong Zijian's first appearance after divorce was also on the hot search.
It is said that Dong Zijian filmed the period drama "Huanyan" in Hengdian, and the partner actors were Liao Fan, Tong Liya and Ren Min.
Yesterday, I heard a very funny sentence from my former entertainment colleagues: "These two people get married when they want to get married, and divorce when they want to divorce, is it the last life that saved the galaxy?" ”
The life of a star is a reflection of the dreams of ordinary people. Nowadays, celebrities are divorced, and the whole network congratulates them, which also represents the entanglement of ordinary people on marriage.
Love is really loved, the impulse is really impulsive, and at the same time, both of them have the ability to pay for their impulses, and this ending is not bad.