With a peaceful face and an elegant and dignified demeanor, who would have thought that this lady who devoted herself to cultivating Buddhism was actually the wife of the singer Tan Yonglin.
And even though Tan Yonglin was warm and fragrant outside, Yang Jiewei was still light in the temple.
You can say that she had an epiphany, or you can say that she let go of her attachment, and all this has to start from the day Tan Yonglin came home with her illegitimate child.
"This is my son outside, I want him to confess his ancestors, and the money can be given to you, but you must be like a family."
Even today, this sentence will often ring in Yang Jiewei's mind.
It was also from that moment that all the beautiful life that Yang Jiewei envisioned finally became a "disaster".
01, from a football player to a king of the music world
If you hadn't known about the 1936 Olympics, you probably wouldn't have known that there was such a group of people.
At that time, when the land of Shenzhou was still in turmoil, there was such a group of people who came to Germany from thousands of miles away.
That year was the year of the Berlin Olympics and a rare year for the Chinese men's football team.
They hold the face of an "oriental" to win glory for the country in a foreign country.
Although that tournament was defeated in the end, the football team was very impressive.
And Tan Jiangbai, a right-back in the team who has repeatedly broken the siege of the Chinese team's backline, is Tan Yonglin's father.
Later, people saw Tan Yonglin's talent to play football in football teams.
It was from here, the years from 1936 to 1950.
Tan Jiangbai also experienced glory, defeat, and final retirement, and Tan Yonglin was born in 1950.
At that time, Hong Kong had not yet abolished polygamy. For many rich people, it is normal to have three wives and four concubines.
Even after the complete abolition of the system in 1972, many people were still engaged in "polygamy" in practice.
Therefore, people often see some plots of big and small wives in Hong Kong dramas, because of the influence of this system.
Tan Yonglin was born at the time of the legal "polygamy" system.
It also had a huge impact on what he did later.
In fact, tan Jiangbai, as a former international footballer, very much hopes that his son Tan Yonglin can inherit his mantle.
But Tan Yonglin has embarked on another brilliant road of entertainment.
In his junior year, Tam Yonglin suddenly contracted a vicious disease, so his parents had to take him to Hong Kong to recuperate.
It is precisely because of this change that Tan Yonglin embarked on the path of a singer.
At the time, he sang part-time in some bars, and then met a group of like-minded friends in the process.
It was also because of their love of music that they formed a band called Loosers in 1968.
Perhaps because of the name of the band's loser, it didn't take long for the band to disband.
But Tan Yonglin, who has an extreme love for music, does not want to leave the music scene.
So he found the people in the original group who wanted to continue.
And also pulled Zhong Zhentao together to form a new band - Wen Na.
And this time the formation of the team also gave birth to the "Wen Na Five Tigers" who later became popular all over the Xiangjiang River.
At this time, "Wen Na" can be said to be proud of the spring breeze, and it can be said that it has become the object of vigorous pursuit by young people at that time.
Tan Yonglin has also become a new upstart in the entertainment industry.
02, "unequal" love
Some people say: When a person is full of spirits, then the benefits of both career and love will come one after another
And when Tan Yonglin's career began to be smooth, his love also quietly arrived at this time.
In 1974, Tam wing-lin sang in the night show as usual.
But in that kind of bad sight occasion, Tan Yonglin on the stage still saw Yang Jiewei at a glance.
So I asked someone I knew to match.
In fact, at that time, Yang Jiewei had become a consultant for beauty companies.
However, compared to Tan Yonglin, who once studied abroad, she is still extremely simple.
So under Tan Yonglin's "attack on the heart", it completely fell.
At this time, Tan Yonglin can be said to be just a fledgling lead singer of the band
However, Yang Jiewei is already a highly praised top consultant in the industry, and the gap between this can be said to be almost anyone can see.
But sometimes love is not about status, at least in that moment, Yang Jiewei felt that she used true love.
But what Yang Jiewei doesn't know is that tan Yonglin will give it to another person after this "true love".
But in the period of hot love, the two are indeed as happy and happy as glue, when Tan Yonglin and Yang Jiewei fell in love
The Band "Wenner" is also in the ascendancy.
However, the image of several people at that time was indeed a little too bad, although it is still popular, but after this boom, it may not be able to continue to be popular.
As a senior makeup consultant, Yang Jiewei first discovered this problem, and for the sake of her beloved, she chose to resign to become Tan Yonglin's royal designer.
It can be said that if there is no Yang Jiewei's resignation this time to retreat behind the scenes, then there will be no rapid take-off of Tan Yonglin, from concerts to advertisements to performing arts works, all the images of Tan Yonglin are handled by Yang Jiewei.
Even to put it bluntly, "Wen Na" can change from an unknown small band to a trend band that is sought after by countless people, and Yang Jiewei's image design must occupy a great credit.
Then "Wen Na" disbanded and each member began to fly solo, that is, in the second year of the band's dissolution, Tan Yonglin released his first solo album "Can't Forget You".
Since then, he has begun his own path of domination in the music world, and Tan Yonglin, who has unlimited scenery in front of the stage, can get these many achievements
But it is inseparable from the silent dedication and dedication of Yang Jiewei behind the scenes.
In 1981, the two people who had been in love for many years were finally officially inferior to the palace of marriage.
It's just that this wedding is extremely wronged for Yang Jiewei, there is nothing except a certificate, not even a wedding ring can be worn.
At that time, the entertainment industry followed the rule that exposing the love affair must go downhill, and Yang Jiewei also tolerated all this because of her understanding of her husband.
But perhaps it was from that time that the marriage had become less equal.
And Yang Jiewei, who was bent on Tan Yonglin, also let herself lose in the end, and the relationship between the two was hidden in front of the public.
Until 1993, Yang Jiewei's father died
According to Yang Jiewei's idea at that time, she did not want to write her husband's name, after all, they all knew this hidden rule in the entertainment industry.
However, Yang Jiewei's mother strongly requested to write Tan Yonglin, otherwise it was a great filial piety, so the news of Tan Yonglin's hidden marriage was also exposed.
We don't know what Tan Yonglin thought about this exposed incident.
But Yang Jiewei, who has worked hard to hide most of her life, may have finally kept the cloud open at that moment to see the moon.
But before Yang Jiewei could properly envision and plan the future happy life of the two, a sudden change broke all of Yang Jiewei's fantasies.
03, monasticism as a nun, fate comes and goes
Perhaps Yang Jiewei never imagined that her husband would personally tell her that she had someone else outside, and also came back with a child to tell herself that she wanted to recognize her ancestors and return to the ancestors.
At this time, Yang Jiewei can be said to be full of disbelief, and the whole person is like falling into the abyss.
You should know that when Tan Yonglin and Yang Jiewei got married, they said that they were a Dink family.
And Yang Jiewei also beat the fetus for Tan Yonglin many times in the back because of this Dink's agreement.
Now it is even more to the point of inability to have children, and Yang Jiewei is so dedicated to Tan Yonglin.
But the bastard in front of him seemed to be laughing at Yang Jiewei fiercely.
At this time, Yang Jiewei may finally understand that the so-called Dink family is only with a specific person Dink.
In the face of other temptations, it doesn't matter if Dink is not Dink, and this woman who makes Tan Yonglin break her Dink oath.
It turned out to be a 19-year-old female fan of Xiao Tan Yonglin, which should be regarded as "sleeping powder" today.
The sudden child made Tan Jiangbai and his wife very happy, but they also saw everything Yang Jiewei did in their hearts for so many years.
Therefore, Tan Jiangbai clearly said to his son Tan Yonglin: "My daughter-in-law of the Tan family only recognizes Yang Jiewei alone." ”
Although she has received the support and recognition of her in-laws, Yang Jiewei's heart is still dripping blood.
Maybe it's really a shame in your heart, or maybe you just want to calm things down.
After Tan Yonglin announced his illegitimate son, he transferred all the property under his name to Yang Jiewei's name.
Although this is her husband's compensation for herself, Yang Jiewei knows very well that she does not want these.
However, in the face of this man she has loved all her life, Yang Jiewei can only accept this result in the end.
In the years when Yang Jiewei tolerated it, Tan Yonglin could be said to be running back and forth between the two families, and even formed a situation of "peaceful coexistence" between the east and the west.
However, Yang Jiewei's forbearance did not make Tan Yonglin feel guilty, on the contrary, the side of the "mother and son" was constantly invading Yang Jiewei's territory.
When Tan Jiangbai died in 2006, Tan Yonglin wrote about his concubines and illegitimate children on the obituary.
And after that, Tan Yonglin began to spend more time with her son, while Yang Jiewei was often alone and shopping alone.
In the face of these excessive things done by this husband, Yang Jiewei can be said to have endured everything she can endure.
But in 2011, when Tan Yonglin was 61 years old, Yang Jiewei could be said to be completely heartbroken.
In that big birthday, Tan Yonglin ignored the opposition of everyone and not only left the property that had been transferred to Yang Jiewei to her son, but also wanted to correct the concubine.
Looking at the former pillow person who has walked with her for decades, Yang Jiewei feels strange at this moment, perhaps she has already anticipated the occurrence of this matter today.
But when all this really happened in front of her, Yang Jiewei felt that it was difficult for her to accept.
But at this moment, she knew that she should let go, and it was from this incident that Yang Jiewei chose to become a nun.
I hope that I can be completely relieved, but everything finds liberation, and the deep affection that was once indomitable, in the end, it is still wrong.
Some people say that women who don't want anything are the most stupid women, but Yang Jiewei doesn't want nothing.
But the affection and loyalty of her figure are also the hardest and most stupid things in the world.
Today's dedicated cultivation of Buddhism is not a kind of liberation for Yang Jiewei.