Ancients Cloud: "Filial piety comes first", respecting the elderly and loving children, filial piety to parents has always been a traditional Chinese virtue, filial piety to their parents is also our own thing as children, whether it is the national leadership or ordinary people, filial piety is the first, there is filial piety to have a home! As the founding father Comrade Deng Xiaoping, he was not only a leader, but also a great filial piety. Everyone knows that Comrade Deng Xiaoping had two mothers, one is his biological mother, and the other is his stepmother, commonly known as his stepmother.
Comrade Deng Xiaoping, the founding father of the People's Republic of China
From our point of view, the stepmother has always been an image of fierce and vicious disease in the hearts of all of us. A big leader like Deng Xiaoping would also have a stepmother, and also accepted that the stepmother called her "Mother Xia", presumably this "Mother Xia" is not an ordinary person. Although "Mother Xia" was not Comrade Deng Xiaoping's biological mother, the relationship between the two of them was very good, and their mother and son supported each other for more than half a century and never abandoned it. So how did the mother-son relationship end up? What kind of story happened between Comrade Deng Xiaoping and his stepmother?
In his lifetime, Deng Gong had two mothers, his biological mother and stepmother
Comrade Deng Xiaoping was born on August 22, 1904, his hometown is in Guang'an City, Sichuan Province, Comrade Deng Xiaoping is not only a good son of filial piety, but also a good leader. He was an excellent statesman, a proletarian revolutionary, and even more a courageous and resourceful military man. He solved the problem of food and clothing for the people, helped every family to live a happy life, and under his leadership Chinese people gradually moved towards the dawn of victory.
Comrade Deng Xiaoping was not only a good son of filial piety, but also a good leader
Comrade Deng Xiaoping's life was uneven and he experienced all kinds of hardships, large and small. Fortunately, in each of the most difficult periods of his life, there were two women who accompanied him all the time, one was Comrade Deng Xiaoping's wife Zhuo Lin, and the other was his stepmother "Xia Mother" Xia Bogen. Shabbogen was born in an old social period, the daughter of a shipwright, and the people of that period were married relatively early, and in order to help the family solve the difficulties of life, Shabbogen married early.
When Shabergen was young
The newly married Sherbergen soon had children of his own, but it was not long before Shabergen's husband died. After the death of her husband, Shabbogen became what everyone called "widow". Widowed at a young age, with a child, listening to all kinds of gossip, just think about how difficult life is. Whose children are not the hearts and minds of their parents, Shabbogen's father watched his daughter live all day in the gossip of others, so he asked someone to find a husband for Shabbogen.
After the death of her husband, Shabergen faced gossip alone
This man was Comrade Deng Xiaoping's father, Deng Shaochang, and Deng Shaochang's original wife at this time had also died of illness. At this time, Comrade Deng Xiaoping, who was far away from home, did not know that he would never see his mother again. The death of his wife was undoubtedly a fatal blow to Deng Shaochang, his son Deng Xiaoping studied in another country, in order not to affect his son's academic progress, Deng Shaochang did not inform Comrade Deng Xiaoping of the news of his mother's death, but silently handled his wife's affairs. After his wife died, Deng Shaochang's hair became much whiter overnight, and his whole body fell into darkness. The relatives and friends around them watched Deng Shaochang lose weight day by day, and they thought of introducing him to another person to live together, which made them know the later Xia Bogen.
Deng Gong's mother died because she did not complete her studies and could not go home to see her mother for the last time
Since Deng Shaochang married Xia Bogen, he slowly found the feeling of living a life, and the two had three daughters after a period of time together. Shabergen has been a good child since she was a child, she will do any hard work, and she has not complained about the hardships of life. After getting married, Xia Bogen has always inherited the advantages of her ability to endure hardships, keeping the family in order, watching life get better and better every day, Deng Shaochang had an accident on the way home at this time, and died because of it.
Deng Gong's father, Deng Shaochang
Both of Shabergen's husbands died of illness one after another, which made the people in the village chew up the root of their tongues, saying that Shabergen was the life of a disaster star Kefu, and whoever married her would be killed. After the death of her husband Deng Shaochang, Xia Bogen took care of the four children's food and drink lasa alone, and every day she had to suffer the white eyes of the villagers, and there was no one in the radius who was more pitiful than her. Although it was very difficult to pull four children alone, Shabergen never thought of getting married.
Shabbogen became the nemesis of other people
It may be that she was affected by the fact that she was accused of "Kef" by others, and she did not dare to remarry, or it may be that she did not want to experience the pain of losing her husband again, and Shabergen planned not to marry again, and raised four children with her own hands and hard work. Although she was an ordinary rural woman, she was particularly fond of the revolutionary cause, not only did she like the revolutionary cause herself, but she also had high hopes for her children, and often encouraged them to join the revolution for the welfare of the common people.
Shabergen is no longer married and intends to raise several children alone
In August 1949, a small detachment of the Huayingshan guerrilla group encountered an enemy ambush on the way, the guerrillas and the enemy after a fierce fight, many of the members were injured, in order to save the strength to ask for help from other large troops to rescue, the guerrillas had to temporarily withdraw, in the process of evacuation there was a fighter named Long TianHuan, who was extremely badly injured and passed out. In the absence of stretchers, the wounded were escorted to a safe area by uninjured fighters.
The Huayingshan guerrillas were ambushed by the enemy
The warriors carried the wounded Long Tian Huan on their backs, all the way to avoid the enemy, on this day they carried Long Tian Huan into a village, just happened to be seen by the passing Xia Bogen, Xia Bogen saw that they were wearing simple clothes, but the shoes were cloth shoes, they knew that they were anti-Japanese fighters, immediately ran over to let them carry the injured Long Tian Huan into their homes. Shabbogen not only let the wounded warriors recuperate in his own home, but also let his daughter take the wind outside and invited a doctor for the warriors.
Shabbogen rescues wounded warriors
Under the eyes of the enemy, under the eyes of the enemy, under the eyes of the enemy, Under the eyes of the enemy, Shabogen not only saved the soldiers who had been wounded by gunshots, but also let the wounded take refuge in their homes, ask the wounded for a doctor, and their lives could be put in at any time.
Shabbogen felt that even if his life was in danger, he would save the warriors who fought bravely to kill the enemy
In order to drive all the enemies back to their hometowns, the soldiers were fighting the enemy every day, and after several days and nights of war, the soldiers had not eaten a full meal and slept a peaceful sleep, and Shabergen saw the happiness and suffering of the soldiers in his eyes. Shabergen knew that he could not help in battle, so he made some food for the soldiers to eat. The warriors ate the meals made by Shabogen, and they were very grateful, and what a blessing it was to be able to eat a bite of the family's meal after years of fighting outside!
Shabbogen cooked for the warriors
Shabogen watched these defenders charge forward and felt that being able to cook a meal for them was also a consolation for his inability to participate in the revolution. In the second half of 1949, the Chinese Liberation War was basically over, and Comrade Deng Xiaoping presided over politics in the southwest, and Comrade Deng Xiaoping was already the first secretary of the Southwest Bureau of the CPC and the political commissar of the Southwest Military Region, stationed in Chongqing.
In 1949, China's Liberation War basically ended Comrade Deng Xiaoping presided over politics in the southwest
The news that Comrade Deng Xiaoping had won the battle and led the army back to Chongqing soon reached Comrade Deng Xiaoping's hometown. In the spring of 1950, Deng Xiaoping's uncle knew that Comrade Deng Xiaoping had won the battle and had been promoted to an official in Chongqing, so he took Comrade Deng Xiaoping's stepmother Xia Bogen to Chongqing to join him. It was only in this year that Comrade Deng Xiaoping officially met with Shabogen.
It was only in 1950 that Deng Xiaoping officially met with Shabergen
Tan Yixing, who came to Chongqing, put down his luggage and pulled Xia Bogen to find Comrade Deng Xiaoping; after meeting him, his uncle did not wait for Comrade Deng Xiaoping to speak and said: "Well, Xianwazi, you have really been promoted to a high official, and the six relatives do not recognize it." In the face of his uncle's words, Comrade Deng Xiaoping was dumb and ate Huang Lian, and he could not say it bitterly, so he went forward and shook his uncle's hand and said: "Uncle, look at what you said, how can you forget you?"
Comrade Deng Xiaoping said while calming his uncle's emotions, and it was not easy to stabilize his uncle's emotions. At this time, the uncle said: "Xianwazi, this is your stepmother Shabergen, after your father died unexpectedly, it was he who helped you to wear Ma Dai Filial Piety to your father to the end, after your father left, it was he who was fortunate to be lucky and bitter to support this family, your father she also gave birth to three children, she alone pulled up your sisters and suffered a lot of hardships ..."
Uncle Deng Gong told about the hardships of Xia Bogen's years
Shabogen looked at the "son" in front of him, who had never met before, and said nervously, "I just heard that you came back, so I went to see you with your uncle, and there was no other meaning." Comrade Deng Xiaoping looked at the stepmother in front of him, who was not much different from his own age, and went forward to shake Xia Bogen's hand and said: "Stay, Mother Xia, we will live together in the future, and we will give you a pension." When Xia Bogen heard Comrade Deng Xiaoping call himself "Mother Xia," he was moved to tears.
Deng Gong called Xia Bogen Xia's mother
Xia Bogen knew that he was only Comrade Deng Xiaoping's stepmother, and he never had the luxury of asking Comrade Deng Xiaoping to accept himself and call himself a mother. After coming to Chongqing, he not only met comrade Deng Xiaoping successfully, but also was called mother xia by Comrade Deng Xiaoping. At this time, Zhuo Lin, the second wife standing next to Comrade Deng Xiaoping, was also deeply moved by the words of the mother and son, and said to Xia Bogen: "Stay, you should also enjoy the blessings." ”
In 1952, Comrade Deng Xiaoping was transferred to Beijing for work because of the needs of his work, and Comrade Deng Xiaoping's entire family went to Beijing with him. Although at this time, Xia Bogen had been living with Comrade Deng Xiaoping for some time, and everyone had almost understood each other, But Xia Bogen felt that he was only Comrade Deng Xiaoping's stepmother, and it would not be good to go, so he asked: "Can I also go?" In the face of Xia Bogen's sudden problem, Comrade Deng Xiaoping firmly said: "Why don't you go, we are a family, and no matter where the family is, we must be together." ”
Shabogen traveled to Beijing with Deng Gong
Receiving the words spoken by Comrade Deng Xiaoping himself, Xia Bogen seemed to have taken a reassuring pill, and the heart that was afraid of being abandoned was finally put down. Although Xia Bogen was only five years older than Comrade Deng Xiaoping, Comrade Deng Xiaoping still treated her as well as his own mother, and Comrade Deng Xiaoping believed that as long as he was devoted to the good of the Deng family and paid for the big family of the Deng family, he was his "mother Xia". There is a saying that goes well: Only by cultivating oneself and the family can we govern the country and the world, and this sentence is not about Comrade Deng Xiaoping!
Deng Xiaoping was as good to Mother Xia as his own mother
The days when Xia Bogen came to Beijing with Comrade Deng Xiaoping were the happiest time of her life. When he went to Beijing, Comrade Deng Xiaoping introduced Xia Bogen to the children in the courtyard and asked the children to call Xia Bogen a grandmother in the future. Over time, Comrade Deng Xiaoping and his wife, under the influence of their children, also used to call Xia Bogen "Grandma". Xia Bogen is a very virtuous person, even if she comes to Beijing, she will share the housework with Zhuo Lin, Zhuo Lin is also very fond of Xia Bogen, the two take care of this big family together every day, very harmonious.
After coming to Beijing, Xia's mother became everyone's grandmother
Since coming to Beijing, Comrade Deng Xiaoping's work has become busier and busier, and there is no time to take care of this home, Zhuo Lin watched Comrade Deng Xiaoping get up early every day and work greedily, and decided to become her husband's secretary to help Comrade Deng Xiaoping share some of the burden. After Zhuo Lin became Comrade Deng Xiaoping's secretary, she was naturally very busy, so the burden of the family fell on the shoulders of Xia Bogen. Sherbergen watched his son and daughter-in-law busy every day and gladly took over the family's large and small chores.
Deng Gong, who is busy with work every day
Since Xia Bogen took over this family, it was dedicated to the good of this family, in order to be able to work with deng Xiaoping and his wife outside with peace of mind, Xia Bogen changed the law every day to make good food, wash clothes and pick up children, these tasks are naturally taken down, really let Xiaoping and his wife not have to worry at all. There are old people in the family who run the family for themselves, and the children who earn money to support the family outside, which is not the life that ordinary people most yearn for.
Shabbogen kept the whole family in order
In October 1969, When Comrade Deng Xiaoping and his wife Zhuo Lin were assigned to jiangxi labor camps, Deng Xiaoping knew that he was going to be transferred to work elsewhere, and the first thing he did was to apply to his superiors to take Xia Bogen with him, which was enough to prove the weight of Xia Bogen in Deng Xiaoping's mind. After arriving in Jiangxi, their lives were much more difficult than before, and Deng Xiaoping saw that the elderly "Mother Xia" action was not as good as before, so he and Zhuo Lin persuaded Xia Bogen to tell her to enjoy the blessings and not to do it.
Shabogen felt that now was a more difficult time, how could she enjoy happiness at this time, saying that she did not want to say that she would not rest, and if she could not do heavy work, it was good to cook and wash clothes every day, as long as it was within her ability, she contracted it. Although the days in Jiangxi were very hard, they never bowed to life, and finally walked that hard life with the joint efforts of the three of them.
Even if the elderly Xia mother did not have the ability to work together, she still helped Deng Gong and his wife to cook and wash clothes
In February 1997, Comrade Deng Xiaoping, who had been engaged in the revolutionary cause all his life, passed away, and at that time, Xia Bogen was already an old man with white hair, and when she learned of the death of Comrade Deng Xiaoping, she burst into tears and slowed down for a long time before muttering to herself: "Xiaoping, gone..." Remembering the mother-son relationship between herself and Deng Xiaoping in recent decades, Xia Bogen could no longer control her tears and cry.
Although Xia Bogen was only Deng Xiaoping's stepmother, but their previous feelings were no less than between their own mothers, Xia Bogen accompanied Deng Xiaoping through the last part of his life, although now they are all deceased, but their previous mother-son relationship will always be remembered in people's hearts. Well, today's story ends here, about whether the mother-son relationship between Comrade Deng Xiaoping and Xia Bogen has touched you, you can leave a message in the comment area to discuss.
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