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As the saying goes, "Eat a hundred meals, wear other people's old clothes" Children who grow up will have a chance. That's not true at all.
In the old society, there was a saying in the folk that children who grew up eating "a hundred meals" would grow up healthily and live a long life. Children who grow up wearing "other people's old clothes" carry the good wishes of others for their children.
Most children will have an appearance when they reach adulthood. As we all know, Zhu Yuanzhang was a beggar emperor; At a very young age, he lost his parents, had no clothes to wear, had no food to eat, and grew up by wearing other people's old clothes and eating a hundred meals.
It is said that when Zhu Yuanzhang was born, a cry of "Wow" began to cry, and this cry alarmed the Jade Emperor of the Heavenly Palace. The Jade Emperor knew that the mortal Heavenly Son had been born, and he was busy sending the Taibai Venus Nether to check it out.
Taibai Venus looked at Zhu Yuanzhang's mother and son, which was poor, except for a broken grass toma, a few broken bowls for rice, and nothing. But when I think about it carefully, I am afraid that the children will not be able to feed and spoil the world's major events. So he used his fingers to put his finger on the child's tattered clothes that covered his stomach and wrote eight words: "The widow is natural, and all kinds of harm will not be invaded." ”
When he grew up, Zhu Yuanzhang really became the founding emperor. And the torn robe that covers the stomach at birth time becomes a talisman for the child to grow up. It is a symbol of auspiciousness, and children who eat a hundred meals and wear other people's old clothes are often very blessed when they grow up.
02: Eat bitterly, and be a good person. Growing up, they all had good traditional virtues.
In the twentieth century, the sixties and seventies, most families were very poor, let alone wanted to wear new clothes, and some people did not even wear other people's old clothes. In three years of natural disasters, most people did not have enough to eat and wear. Many people also starved to death throughout the country during that period.
By the twenty-first century, people's living standards had improved, and there was some money in the family; However, some children think it is unlucky to wear other people's old clothes, or old clothes worn by older siblings. In fact, it is wrong to have such an idea.
When a friend of mine was a child, he grew up wearing the old clothes of his brothers and sisters. After getting married, the family did not have to worry about anything, she managed the family in an orderly manner, and the standard of living was much better than that of her brothers and sisters, because she knew how to run the family from an early age.
In fact, in life, it is also a happy thing to wear old clothes worn by other people's children, which also shows that your children are very sensible and can afford to eat the hardships of life when they grow up. At the same time, it also shows that your children are very blessed. When you grow up, you will definitely have a career.
Chinese know in ancient times that thrift and thrift are good things, the key lies in how to educate their children to grow up as parents, so that the fine tradition of thrift and thrift can be passed on to the next generation.
03: People who can wear old clothes are cultured.
Self-cultivation is the foundation of a person's charm, and all other attractive strengths come from this.
A cultured person, no matter what kind of clothes he wears, has good demeanor and courtesy. People who wear old clothes are not necessarily poor, and often develop the habit of thrift and simplicity. It is possible that he is a person who has a lot of money.
Therefore, for him, whether he wears old clothes or brand-name clothes, he will not lose his wealth. Such people are often also reliable people
And those who like extravagance and waste when they have money are people who have no cultivation. Some people like to change into a new set of clothes and wear it out every day to show their wealth and nobility. In fact, this practice is an act of spending money indiscriminately, and it is not necessarily necessarily a really good cultivation.
In life, those people I see who like to wear designer clothes are not necessarily rich. Some people may be "swollen face to make fat, die to face." "Maybe their pockets are empty.
Because I love face and like to wear designer clothes, I don't care about those stalls or old clothes at all. Even if you have it at home, you will not wear it. To put it bluntly, this kind of person who likes to compare and love face is still not cultivated enough.
One of my little sisters, there is no shortage of money to spend at home, but life is very simple, never to buy brand-name clothes, and they wear all the stalls and some old clothes.
But the clothes she wears on her body are very clean, and she pays attention to the details of life in her life, not only wearing a simple and clean dress, but also a clean heart, never showing herself, even so, she has not lost her wealth. This is the real cultivation.
04: People who accept other people's old clothes are honest and smart people.
I don't know when it began, there was a voice in society: "Don't wear other people's old clothes." ”
In fact, this kind of remark often gives some children and adults who are wearing other people's old clothes a misunderstanding. For children, they will think that their family is poor and they cannot afford new clothes; At this time, the young mind will make them have an inferiority complex. Think you'll be looked down upon by other kids.
For adults, there is also a negative emotion that it is unlucky to wear other people's old clothes.
Of course, if you are a smart person with a brain, you will have your own thinking, and you will not listen to the extravagant and wasteful remarks of "people in the clouds".
It's easier to make money in society today, and it's easier to spend money. Don't add to the annoyance just because you've worn someone else's old clothes. It is also a virtue to be able to save a little in life.
If one day you listen to the "don't wear other people's old clothes" and become a person who "hates the poor and loves the rich", it shows that your mind is simple and not clear enough. Because you have been controlled by the so-called "chicken soup for the soul".
A person can accept to wear other people's old clothes, naturally can save a lot of money, can use the money saved on the education of children, is a good thing.
Nowadays, the standard of living has improved in society, and some people buy clothes back, try them on, think that they do not fit, and treat them as old clothes.
If one can accept other people's old clothes, it is naturally a good thing. Not only can you save a lot of money, but these clothes are often much more expensive to wear on the body than the stalls.
As long as these old clothes are washed, they are good clothes. Wear it on your body and go your own way and let others say go!
05: Conclusion
It is often blessed that one can accept old clothes that others do not wear.
Wan Qiwen said, "The most important thing about wearing clothes is comfortable, suitable for yourself is far more important than everything, I personally prefer leisure and simplicity, and will not deliberately match." ”
A cultivated person pays attention to the requirements of dressing and fitting, as long as it is worn to fit, even if other people's old clothes are worn on the body is also comfortable. Being a low-key person, not showing off in dressing up, and living a simple life in a down-to-earth manner is also a symbol of a person's cultivation and blessing.
Many people think that when they go out in other people's old clothes, they will think that dwarves are superior, but in fact, this is a manifestation of lack of self-confidence.
If a person is optimistic by nature and dresses cleanly, then the person has enough self-confidence. It's a sign of friendship and kindness that people give you old clothes, and even if you don't like them, don't refuse the kindness of the person who gave them. After all, this is also a piece of kindness from others.
In reality, whether or not to accept other people's old clothes is a state of mind, and being able to accept old clothes is a kind of wisdom.
A person who is diligent and simple, kind and wise, clean clothes, and clean hearts is a blessing, a virtue, and a wisdom.
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