"You're my husband, and you agreed to shoot this!"
In 2007, Tongari, who became red with her body art photo album, has become a popular actress all over the country, and has gained a large number of loyal fans who love and support her.
But what she did not expect was that when her career was booming, her husband Shen Dong made a request for divorce from her, no matter how hard she tried to keep it.
In the end, in desperation, Tongari had to end the marriage relationship with Shen Dong, and now it has been 15 years since she divorced the other party, does she regret it?
Tongari, who went to be a mannequin 20 years ago in order to become popular, earned 170,000 but lost 100,000, and lost her marriage, is it really worth it?
One
Born in 1976 in Hefei, Anhui Province, Tongaree grew up in a military family, her father was a former soldier, became a police officer, and her mother was a virtuous housewife.
At the request of her father, Tongari developed a particularly self-disciplined personality from an early age, doing everything herself, and rarely needing the help of her parents in her own affairs.
As a result, she has formed a maverick personality, once decided on something, it is easy not to turn back.
Under the arrangement of her parents, she originally planned to engage in the athlete industry, and at the age of 9, she also entered the gymnastics team of the Anhui Provincial Sports Commission and became a real athlete.
During this period, with her hard work and athletic talent, she achieved very good results, not only won two gold medals in the provincial youth games, but also won the title of outstanding athlete.
Unfortunately, she did not continue to engage in this industry because of her particularly good athletic talent, but was admitted to the Anhui Provincial Art School after graduating from high school, majoring in dance.
After graduating from the art school, she was assigned to the Anhui Provincial Song and Dance Troupe with her outstanding appearance conditions and solid dance skills, and became a dancer in the song and dance troupe.
Although she was only a yellow-haired girl who had just entered the development of the show business circle when she first came to the song and dance troupe, her career developed very well, not only quickly gained a foothold in the song and dance troupe, but also won the favor of the leaders of Anhui Television Station and became a special guest actor of the TV station soon after.
During this period, she successively participated in various activities and evenings with the song and dance troupe and other specially invited actors of the TV station, and even appeared on the Spring Festival Gala stage of anhui provincial television station.
Seeing that her career is getting better and better, and gradually realizing that her own strength cannot keep up with the speed of career development, Tong Jiali chose to apply for the Beijing Dance Academy and make herself more excellent through further study.
With solid basic skills and many years of stage performance experience, she was successfully admitted to the Beijing Dance Academy and studied classical dance.
During her time in school, she rarely went out to find job opportunities, and has been studying modestly, and after graduation, she was assigned to the Oriental Song and Dance Troupe and became an actor and instructor in the song and dance troupe.
Two
During the development of the Oriental Song and Dance Troupe, Tongari brought many classic dance works to the public with her dance skills, such as "Tang Guifei", "Red Riding Hood", "Please Follow Me", "Tank Dance" and so on.
As the song and dance industry developed better and better, Tongari was no longer at ease to stay in the song and dance industry to develop, and when she saw that many dancers turned into film and television actors and became popular, she also wanted to enter the show business circle.
In order to realize this dream, she also went to film school to study film and television performance, but before she could develop her acting career, she first gained her love.
Once, Looking for an opportunity to enter the show business circle, Tongari came to beijing film studios to prepare to interview the MV heroine of singer Su Hong.
Unexpectedly, after the director Shen Dong saw her, he was instantly captured by her heart and took the initiative to greet her.
Shen Dong is a very good director, who has directed "Young Hero", "Thrilling", "Gunner", "Taihang Mountain", "You Are an Angel" and other works, and has won important film and television awards such as huabiao award, golden rooster award, and hundred flowers award with these works.
However, when he met Tongari, he had not yet established a foothold in the show business circle, and he could only develop by shooting some commercials and song MVs, but this did not affect his own talent.
After seeing Tongari, he immediately took the initiative to say to the girl he liked: "Your appearance conditions are very good, do you want to come to be an actor and try to make a movie?" ”
Tong Jiali, who has been looking for development opportunities, immediately nodded her head and said, "Of course, I came to interview as an actor!" ”
In this way, under Shen Dong's initiative to talk, Tongari quickly became acquainted with him, and after that, the two often invited out to meet and chat together.
Shen Dong was attracted by Tongari's beauty like a flower, and Tongari was impressed by Shen Dong's talent, and not long after the encounter, the two of them came together and became lovers.
I have to say that after being with Shen Dong, with the help of Shen Dong, Tongari's acting career has indeed developed very well.
Three
In 1999, with the help of Shen Dong, Tongari participated in her life's debut film "Dragon Phoenix Wisdom Fighting Dragon Fang".
In the film, she played the role of "Xiaofeng" after the giants of the fallen beggar gang, and interpreted the image of jealousy and hatred on this role particularly well, and successfully emerged in the show business circle with this work and became an actor.
After tasting the sweetness of being an actress, Tongari subsequently participated in many works and roles, including the generation of famous prostitutes "Ziyun" in the epic masterpiece "Kangxi Dynasty", the gentle and virtuous "Lady Qiu" in "Silver Rat" and the "Shen Jingjing", the eight-faced public relations manager "Shen Jingjing" in "Yangtze River Criminal Police".
But unfortunately, although she has participated in many film and television works, her performance in these works has nothing to say, but she has never been able to become popular with these works.
However, she and her boyfriend Shen Dong had a better and better relationship, and during this period, she and the other party naturally entered the palace of marriage and became a legal couple.
Probably for their respective careers, and feeling that the two are still young, the two are not busy with children after marriage, but have put their minds on their careers.
Compared with Tongari's tepid career, Shen Dong's career development after marriage is very good, and he has directed many acclaimed and well-received film and television works, but it is her, and her career has not improved much.
Therefore, Tongari, who was once entangled, has been distressed by this matter, and even when shopping with her sisters, she often looks sad.
Once, a friend who was shopping with her saw that she had been sullen and unhappy, and jokingly said to her: "Oh, there is nothing to worry about, you are so good-looking, even if you are not an actor, you can become a model." ”
Hearing her friend say this, Tongari didn't respond much, she knew that her friend was just comforting her.
But she didn't expect that she was really told by her friends that she would actually become a model.
Four
In 2001, Tongari met the famous photographer Zhang Xulong while filming a play, so she formed an indissoluble relationship with the art of human body photography.
Zhang Xulong is a portrait photographer who won the title of "Ten Masters" of the third Chinese photography as early as 1999.
In 2000, he was also named a Chinese artist in the world, known as the "Prince of Photography", and enjoyed a high status in the photography world.
Unlike ordinary photographers, Zhang Xulong is good at the creation of human body photography, and before he met Tongari, he has made certain achievements in this regard.
In September 2001, CCTV also specially reported a program called "Zhang Xulong's Human Body Portrait", which caused strong social repercussions!
After meeting Tongari, Zhang Xulong was deeply attracted by Tongari's unique charm and outstanding appearance conditions, and after learning that Tongari was distressed by her popularity and popularity, he immediately said to Tongari: "I know how to make you popular, it depends on whether you are willing to try." ”
As soon as she heard that she could become popular, Tongari immediately said: "How to try?" ”
Zhang Xulong, who felt that there was a drama, then said: "Are you willing to take a body art photo?" Absolutely can be a fire! ”
Since there was no actress in China at that time to shoot this type of photo, after listening to Zhang Xulong's words, Tong Jiali seemed very hesitant and did not agree to Zhang Xulong's idea at the first time.
What Tongari did not expect was that when she went home and told her husband Shen Dong about this matter, Shen Dong did not object and supported her to pursue art.
So with the acquiescence of her husband, on March 28, 2001, Tongari and Zhang Xulong signed a shooting agreement and officially began the shooting of the photo album.
Five
Because Tongari was the first actress in China to shoot such a photo album, that is, the first person to eat crabs, they were very serious when shooting, and spent more than a year to shoot and sort out.
It wasn't until August 2002 that the two brought their photo album Tongari Body Art Photographs.
Fortunately, as they expected, this photo album was quickly snapped up after it was launched, and Tongari also successfully used this photo album to spread all over the country.
In addition to becoming popular, this photo album also earned More than 170,000 yuan for Tongari, but what she did not expect was that before she could be happy, she was in a lawsuit!
Photographer Zhang Xulong found out after the release of the photo album that there was no name and introduction under the photo of the photo album, only The name of Tongari.
In terms of remuneration, Zhang Xulong did not get a price that satisfied him, so after he saw Tongarli become popular, he sued Tongare in a huff and claimed 850,000 yuan.
For Zhang Xulong's torn face, Tong jiali also held a special press conference at that time, and at the scene she choked up and said: "Whether it is from reputation or economy, I really can't afford to lose this lawsuit, I can't stand it." ”
Finally, after a long tug-of-war, Zhang Xulong successfully won the lawsuit and received 100,000 yuan in compensation.
And this small episode also led to the rupture of the relationship between Tongari and Zhang Xulong, after which the two never worked together again.
In addition to the lawsuit with Zhang Xulong, after becoming popular with the photo album, Tongari also encountered a lot of troubles in her life.
The first is that her relatives, especially her parents, do not understand why she became popular in this way, and her father directly rebuked her and accused her: "How do you let me go out to meet people?" ”
After knowing that Tongari was still ready to continue shooting such a photo, her father said directly: "Don't shoot, if you dare to continue shooting, don't recognize me as a father, I don't have a daughter like you!" ”
But no matter how her father objected, Tongari, who wanted to become popular at that time, continued to shoot two similar photo albums, called "Tongari Body Art Photography" and "Tongari Photo".
In addition, she launched a book in 2005 called Tongari's Photo Diary, which contains a large number of her photos and nearly a hundred diaries.
After the book was released, it also received the support of countless fans, and sales remained high.
At that time, Tongari, who was once keen to become popular by shooting photo albums, ignored her no matter how much her relatives and friends persuaded her, until her husband Shen Dong proposed a divorce to her.
Six
In 2007, Shen Dong, who had agreed to let her shoot the photo album, began to waver in support of Tongari to shoot the photo album as the criticism of the public and his relatives and friends became louder and louder.
As this idea became more and more firm, finally one day, he could no longer bear the pressure of all sides and asked For a divorce from Tongari.
Faced with her husband's divorce request, Tongari tried to keep it through various methods, but unfortunately, in the end, she could not save each other, and the two peacefully ended their marriage.
It's just that the divorce is divorced, Shen Dong is not far away from her, the two are still very good friends in life, they have always had contacts with each other, and now they are still very good friends.
Since divorcing her husband, Tongari is no longer obsessed with shooting body art photos, she put her mind back on her acting career, and has successively participated in works such as "The World is Too Busy" and "Dancing Hu Butterfly".
In 2013, she also transformed into a director with her ex-husband Shen Dong artist, directing the work "Looking for You at the Same Table", and also served as the producer of the work.
Unfortunately, probably because of his first time as a director, this work did not get much attention.
In contrast, after her ex-husband Shen Dong divorced her, her career has been developing very well, and she has directed many excellent works.
At a young age, he also became a national first-class director with these works, and was respected by outsiders in the circle!
Seven
It may be that she realizes that her acting career is difficult to develop, and Tongari is no longer as obsessed with developing her acting career as she was when she was younger.
She now puts more thought into the drama stage and the opera stage, and she feels much more relaxed than before.
As for the original choice to develop by shooting a photo album in order to become popular, whether such a choice is worth it, she does not regret it later, and she also gave the answer in an interview.
She said: "I have regretted it countless times before, but I don't regret it now, if there is a chance to start again, I will still not hesitate to shoot!" ”
Judging from her words, she should have gained more from it than the sacrifices she had made for it, and from this point of view, her original choice should have been worth it.
It is worth saying that after she stopped shooting photo albums, through years of companionship and care, her parents also understood and forgave her choices.
However, for her daughter to lose a happy marriage, her parents still feel sorry for her from the bottom of their hearts.
After all, since divorcing Shen Dong, Tongari has still been single and unmarried, and has not gained new happiness, which is really regrettable.
But we also understand this, after all, life is like this, there are gains and losses.
Tongari, now 45 years old, is still working hard for the acting career she loves.
It's just that compared to when she was younger, her development style today is just the opposite of when she was younger, and everything has become natural and easy.
I hope that now that she is still single and unmarried, she can meet the right person as soon as possible and harvest her happiness.
| YuanYu
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