Collect discarded bottles as babies for ordinary girls; A morbid mother with a strong desire to control her daughter; The strong grandmother who formulated the family rule that "the daughter must return to her mother's house on the Chinese New Year's Eve night"; The second aunt who loves beauty, loves romance, and unconditionally supports her daughter; Genius Cousin; Dashing aunts, they are three generations of women in a family, what kind of story will they trigger.
In "Her and Her Islands", Easy Difficulty recounts their collision, warmth and symbiosis with each other. Its structure is exquisite, full of emotions, and it writes out everyone's anxiety and breakthrough, confusion and choice.
Easy and difficult, graduated from Chinese Min University, Stanford University, his own screenwriter, part-time writing, has won the Douban Reading Xiaoya Award for Best Serial, Best Author and other awards. His writing is mature and he is good at describing the exploration of women's inner world.
The confrontation and reconciliation between ordinary girl Li Yijin and her mother; Weak mother's super control desire; The study and love of a gifted cousin; The marriage choice of the beautiful second aunt; Dashing aunt's career and family; The pension problem of the strong grandmother is the main content of this book. Those ordinary scenes seem to be able to see the shadow of their own lives, while reading stories, while thinking about life, healing themselves.
The troubles of ordinary people
Li Yijin, an older girl who is influenced by her original family. She is wooden in appearance and rich in heart, and she is an ordinary well-behaved woman in the eyes of others, regardless of appearance, study, and work.
She lived in the habits that her mother had made for her, and she didn't dare to like anything or want anything, because every time she wanted and liked her mother, she would destroy it.
She received a beautiful drift bottle, received the first love letter from the boy in the same class, and her mother said that she had fallen in love early, disregarding her dignity, and went to the school to make a big fuss, and the boy never spoke to her again.
She has problems with communication, makes friends with classmates who don't study well, and her mother goes to school to make noise. Since then, she can only be alone, and she does not dare to make friends with good students, nor does she dare to make friends with poor students, because she is afraid of her mother's trouble.
In the name of "for her own good", mom controls everything about her. Faced with this suffocating love, she just wanted to escape.
The first time he successfully escaped from his mother was Chinese New Year's Eve, he missed the family banquet of his grandmother's eightieth birthday, and returned to his hometown with his boyfriend for the New Year.
Exquisite gifts, full of joy, after all, the enemy is not "eight characters are not in harmony, fate brings disaster", was forced to cross the brazier, drink chicken blood, and finally when mentioning her boyfriend's mother, she was driven out of the house.
Chinese New Year's Eve night on a lonely street wandering helplessly.
Is it a mistake for ordinary people? Can't ordinary people like it? Can't make friends? Can't you have your own life?
She didn't believe it! She knew that she was an ordinary person, and she wanted to live an ordinary life. She tried to reconcile with herself, reconciled with her mother, and got rid of the influence of her original family. She is constantly looking for the direction of life and strives to be an ordinary person.
Most of us ordinary people are like Li Yijin, there are always such and such unsatisfactory in life, but we never give up and have been moving forward. Who said that ordinary people must live badly, we just need to be ordinary people.
Genius troubles
Tao Shuna, the genius cousin of the "Life Victory Group", is cheerful and lively, dares to think and dare to do, has dreams and the natural ability to realize dreams, and has always been the envy of Li Yijin, but she also has her own troubles.
From a young age, it was smooth sailing, and my mother got along like sisters, but I accidentally found that my parents were not in love as imagined, and my mother tried her best to improve the quality of life of the family, but she was disliked by my father.
She can easily achieve the results that others envy, but she can't get the love of her father. Because Dad has a serious preference for sons and daughters, he thinks that girls are always from someone else's family and do not need to pay too much.
At one point she doubted love, doubted marriage. After an open conversation with her mother, she understood that everyone thinks differently, just need to be yourself, don't care too much about other people's opinions.
She encountered rejection for the first time in her life, and the male god ignored herself. He tried everything to join the space club, buy a model aircraft to give to each other, and confess, but he was rejected by the male god based on his studies.
Later, when they were together, they learned that the male god's rejection was so that they could become better with each other.
When they were together, balancing love and career became her biggest life issue.
Meng Yi'an (aunt), a dashing strong woman, is a person loved by everyone in the family, erudite and talented, capable and dashing. Her union with Qiu Xia has always been called a match made in heaven. However, when marriage, career, and parenting are mixed together, they who once loved each other are also alienated and disliked.
Balancing her career and educating her daughter became the most important thing in her life, and as for love, let's go with the flow.
Who says geniuses don't bother? Even the best people have difficult life problems, and life is to carry the weight forward in a place of chicken feathers.
Everyone has troubles
Li Yijin's mother, Meng Mingwei, has controlled her children since she was a child. From dressing and eating, to making friends and working, she has to arrange it. To put it bluntly, she just wants her daughter to get ahead and heal her deep inferiority.
Her physical disability and unsatisfactory marriage made her regard her daughter as the only salvation. She thinks that her family looks down on her, but in fact, her family loves her. It is also the choice of her daughter and family to accompany her through marriage.
Tao Shuna's mother, Meng Jingqing, is beautiful, beautiful and sociable. Having a gifted daughter and an enviable life, but ultimately losing to marriage. When he was young, he fell in love with Prince Charming at first sight and insisted on marrying him, but he did not harvest love and eventually lost to life. Staying in marriage has become her biggest life issue.
The wise and wise grandmother also has troubles that cannot be solved. Do you want to make your own pension problem public? Who can guard her daughter for herself?
It seems that whether it is a genius or an ordinary person, whether it is old or small, there are problems that cannot be solved. All we can do is live better in our own capacity.
Write at the end
How does the ordinary girl Li Yijin reconcile with her mother? Did she find her own Prince Charming? Did the mother who controlled her daughter start her own life? What else happened to the genius cousin? Where did the second aunt's marriage go? Aunt Xiao and Teacher Qiu Xia, what is the final outcome of these two people who love each other? What about Grandma? What other stories did they raise?
Want to know? Read Her and Her Islands. The story of three generations of women in a family. Their family, friendship, marriage, and career are intertwined, each with their own life and their own difficulties. They are independent of each other and help each other.
They were originally isolated islands, but because they were close, they became archipelagos.