"Seriously, you and your wife have known each other since they were four years old, this is the earliest I've ever seen, and you've been there until now, how do you tell me about it?"
The host Li Jing once asked Du Yuan such a question in the interview.
"The sound of the waves is still there." Du Yuan replied without hesitation.
Speaking of Teacher Du Yuan, because he has played many father roles in many film and television works, he is well known to the public and is a veritable "father professional household", many netizens have affectionately called him "national father".
Du Yuan, who has been debuting for many years, has participated in many works such as "Wild Mountain", "Grass House", "The Happy Life of Kintaro", "Beautiful Silver Na" and so on, and with his excellent acting skills, the roles he played have left a deep impression on the audience.
With these works, he has also won the 19th Chinese Film Golden Rooster Award for Best Supporting Actor, the 15th Xiaobaihua Best Supporting Actor of Changying, the Best Supporting Actor of the Chinese Opera Festival and the 23rd Xiaobaihua Best Supporting Actor of Changying, with his careful interpretation and wonderful performance, he used his strength to prove that he is absolutely worthy of the audience's love and support!
As an old drama bone, Du Yuan is very low-key, rarely talk about his emotional life, many people do not know that he and his wife Fan Xiaochun met at the age of four, the two have loved each other for many years The feelings are still very sweet, even in the show business circle, Du Yuan has not had a scandal for many years, giving his wife a full sense of security.
But Du Yuan's daughter once said that her mother was very dissatisfied with Du Yuan at a certain point.
Compared with the iron-blooded and tough guy-like image on the screen, what kind of person is Du Yuan in life?
Du Yuan was born on April 7, 1957 in Harbin, Heilongjiang Province, because of his poor family when he was a child, he was adopted by his biological parents to his aunt and uncle at the age of two and a half, and it was not until he was 14 years old that he finally knew his true origins.
But at that time, Du Yuan didn't care about this matter anymore, he said: "Whoever raised me will kiss whomever I raise, so it doesn't matter whose child's biological parents I am." ”
He did not have a conflict with his family because of this, and still called out his aunt and uncle who raised him as his father and mother.
It is also this tortuous life that makes Du Yuan already know his current wife Fan Xiaochun at the age of four. The two families live in the same area, or neighbors, the house is also close together, Fan Xiaochun's window is in the courtyard of Du Yuan's family, and early on there is the advantage of the moon in the near water building.
At that time, Harbin City went to school according to the precinct, Du Yuan and Fan Xiaochun naturally went to the same primary and secondary school, and more fortunately, the two also did the same table for 9 years. During the school period, Du Yuan was a sports committee member, Fan Xiaochun was a literary and art committee member, both of them were class cadres, still in the same study group, and the opportunity to get along with each other was simply not too much.
Qingmei Bamboo Horse grew up unsuspectingly, and it was inevitable that the young boys and girls would be young and cute, but the two did not finally break through this layer of window paper until Du Yuan went to college in 1978.
Before being admitted to the Chinese opera, Du Yuan worked as a stevedore in the transport department of the Harbin Post Bureau, responsible for distributing the letters and various things sent from Harbin to each train. Until now, Du Yuan's nails have left the marks of the work of that year, because he was used to grasping linen when doing sorting, loading and unloading work, and his nails were not flat and long like ordinary people, but long.
Du Yuan, who was only a teenager at the time, was not willing to spend the rest of his life like this, he was bent on changing his job, just when the national college entrance examination system was restored in 1977, Du Yuan seized the opportunity to apply for the examination everywhere, because the recruitment standards of the Central Academy of Drama were not high, Du Yuan's Mandarin, physical form passed, coupled with his simple appearance, he was successfully admitted to the Chinese opera, which also meant that he was about to leave Harbin to go to Beijing to go to university.
It is this upcoming parting that changes the delicate relationship between Du Yuan and Fan Xiaochun on the basis of their unfulfilled friendship.
On the day of departure, Fan Xiaochun sent Du Yuan to the train station. When Du Yuan boarded the train and sat in his seat, Fan Xiaochun had not left the platform. The window next to Du Yuan's seat was open, and the two of them went up and down, sat down and stood, silently staring at each other, and their sorrows were scattered. Until it was time to go out, finally everyone went down, as the bell rang, the train slowly drove forward, Fan Xiaochun actually followed the train up, the train drove faster and faster, Du Yuan suddenly put his head out of the window and shouted to her: "Fan Xiaochun, let's get the object!" Is it okay? ”
When Du Yuan talked about this past in the interview, his face was full of smiles, saying: "At that time, that scene was really like making a movie. ”
The host asked, "So what was her reaction?" Agreed? ”
Du Yuan smiled and returned: "But she didn't catch up like a movie, she didn't react, didn't say anything but didn't refuse, I just agreed to it." ”
Unfortunately, the two young plum bamboo horses have just determined each other's intentions and will begin to endure the pain of long-distance lovesickness. How do you know that after Du Yuan returned from college four years later, he married Fan Xiaochun that month, and he was pregnant with a daughter the following year.
After starting a family first, with the stability of marriage and family, Du Yuan also ushered in a period of career rise.
After graduating from university, Du Yuan worked as an actor in the Heilongjiang Film and Television Production Center, and in 1986, Du Yuan starred in his first film "Wild Mountain", which won the 6th Golden Rooster Award for Best Feature Film.
By 1991, Du Yuan filmed "The First Big Case of New China", at this time Du Yuan had already filmed many scenes, and after filming this play, in Du Yuan's own words, it seemed that he had suddenly opened up.
Fortunately, he did not give up the path of acting easily at that time, otherwise we would not see him bring so many wonderful roles to the audience today.
In 1992, when Du Yuan finished filming "Flowers And Blossoms", Du Yuan earned 12,000 yuan with a salary of 400 yuan per episode, and he warned that he could only spend 2,000 yuan in the four months of the crew, and the remaining 10,000 yuan must be taken back to his wife.
Until now, Du Yuan still has a thousand emotions when he recalls that he earned the first bucket of gold and became a "ten thousand yuan household", which will never be forgotten.
When he returned home from Sichuan after filming "Flowers And Flowers", Du Yuan gave the 10,000 pieces to his wife, which was the first 10,000 yuan of their small family.
The couple saw so much money for the first time, they were so excited and excited, so they made a bed of ten thousand yuan and checked it one by one, just to share this joy together.
Although Du Yuan's income has gradually increased with the gradual improvement of popularity, Du Yuan still has a lot of feelings when he recalls his state of mind at that time.
Compared with Du Yuan's achievements in his career, he is not inferior in running family relations.
Du Yuan's friend Zhao Hengxuan once said in an interview: "Every time I go to Du Yuan's home, I think his home is very clean, Du Yuan himself likes to clean it, and the toilet at home is also cleaned by him." ”
There is also a very interesting phenomenon, Du Yuan's home only uses stainless steel. Because Du Yuan's wife often broke when she used ceramic utensils, later they switched to stainless steel at home, because stainless steel was not broken. Du Yuan's daughter talked about her childhood, saying that the kettle at home was often burned by her mother, so when she was a child, the family often had to change the kettle.
In the face of his wife's carelessness in life, Du Yuan adopted an inclusive mentality. He once said that by accepting each other's shortcomings and being humble to each other, marriage can go forward, perhaps this is an important reason why the two of them have a normal relationship and a stable marriage for many years!
Don't look at Du Yuan as if he were a serious and old-fashioned patriarch, but he is an enlightened person without a macho spirit.
His family atmosphere is very democratic, everyone is equal, and in the family, everyone is first and foremost friends as the main relationship, which is really enviable.
He joked in the show that he was in the last place in the family status, and the first one was definitely his wife and daughter, and even the two dogs in the family were higher than him. Speaking of this, Du Yuan did not feel embarrassed or hurt his self-esteem, he said that as long as a man gets married and has children, he must make cattle and horses for this family, which is really very rare among men.
Another point that does not match his appearance is that Du Yuan is a person who does not skimp on romance, and he is also very good at creating romance. Du Yuan's daughter said that on Valentine's Day, his father would get up early and go to the garden to cut a rose, write on the paper: Happy Valentine's Day for his wife, and then put it on his mother's pillow.
Growing up in such a family atmosphere where parents are foaming at each other and raising eyebrows is bound to profoundly affect Du Yuan's daughter's emotional outlook.
Du Yuan and Fan Xiaochun's daughter is called Du Nu, this name is a bit rare, when someone asked Why Du Yuan had such a name, he replied: "Isn't the daughter of the old Du family Du Nu?" ”
Du Nu watched her parents perform in the theater since she was a child, and she was very impressed, and when she grew up, she also entered this line of directors.
The beautiful and stable feelings of her parents also deeply affect Du Nu's concept of love. Because the sincere feelings between her parents are very touching to her, so in the dramas or film and television works she directs, there are shadows of her parents and mothers.
She said, "Don't look at other people's love, just look at my parents."
The beautiful love between Du Yuan and Fan Xiaochun has made a typical example for Ms. Du, set an example, and become an important guiding stone on her life road.
Obviously, Du Fan's feelings are so good, so where is Fan Xiaochun most dissatisfied with Du Yuan?
Ms. Du said in an interview: "One of the things that my mother is most dissatisfied with my father is that my father is rarely at home, he is a drama fool, as long as there is a role he likes, he wants to shoot." ”
Although Fan Xiaochun very much hopes that Du Yuan can spend more time with his family at home, in the face of her husband's love for Zhisi's career and ideals, she is also willing to make concessions, stabilize the rear, and try her best to support him.
Du Yuan, who is now 65 years old, has long become a national first-class actor, not only recognized and respected by the circle inside and outside the circle, but also enjoys special state allowances, but he still has not given up his favorite acting career.
Still active in the show business circle, he has also participated in many movies or film and television dramas such as "Hello Li Huanying", "Ace Troops" and "Outside the Drum Tower" in recent years.
As a powerful actor who has debuted for many years, Du Yuan's attentive attitude and wonderful presentation of each role are really worth learning from a new generation of actors, he let the audience know what is professional and what is the real acting, rather than just staring, frowning, opening his mouth, stiff and incomparable acting skills, will only waste the audience's time, consume the enthusiasm of the audience, and will affect the healthy development of the film and television industry in the long run.
Du Yuan's career development is so successful at the same time, the feelings for his wife are still ten years of single-mindedness, which is the most admirable, in today's impetuous era, this kind of "once slow car, only enough to love one person in a lifetime" feelings are really very precious.