Marriage is like two sides of the same coin
Dear viewers, there was a very small but startling piece of gossip yesterday. South Korean actress Jang Na-ra is low-key married to her photographer boyfriend, who is 6 years younger.
Janara may not be unfamiliar to you, but in the hearts of many post-80s and post-90s, she carries many of our sweet memories of the Hallyu. At the age of 41, she suddenly married an outsider in a low profile, which caught many people off guard. Here Möbius Loop Xiaobian sincerely wishes her and her husband a sweet life, holding the hand of the son and the son with the old age.
Korean sweetheart Janara
Zhang Nala, who became popular as a sweet sister, took the sexy route when she debuted as a singer in 2001. However, what really made her popular was because of acting, the broadcast of dramas such as "Boys and Girls Go Forward" and "Bright Girl Success Story" made her popularity soar. "The Love of the Red Bean Girl" has made Zhang Nala a popular little flower, known as the sister of the Yuan Motherland, and this drama also has many fans in the mainland. Her "Sweet Dram", the theme song of "Love of the Red Bean Girl", sold 400,000 copies in South Korea, and the song is equally popular in the mainland.
She was quite popular and came to the mainland to develop, not only released the Chinese album "One", but also starred in "Diao Man Princess". In the play, she is lively and cute, very spirited. In 2008, Jang Na-ra also became the only Korean artist to participate in the singing of "Welcome to Beijing". In addition, she served as a torchbearer for the Seoul leg of the Beijing Olympic Games.
The choices to face when getting married
Like and fit, like two sides of a coin. How to choose can not be wrong, how to choose has the correct probability, and the key is not which side to choose, the key is what you should do after the selection.
Life is like this, the person you like is not suitable, it is a pity; The right person is not like, it's sad.
The ideal state, of course, is that the person you like is also suitable.
It's hard to like it, and it's even harder to meet the right one
In fact, love and possession are already very dilemmas, but also to take into account whether each other is the right person, it is even more difficult.
First of all, it is very rare to meet a person who likes. In the current "fast food era" has not waited for the person who likes to like himself, I am afraid that you have begun to empathize with each other.
Speaking of appropriateness, what is appropriate? It's really hard to have an accurate definition of this.
You like to eat spicy, he likes to eat sweet; You stay up late every day, he gets up early every day to run. All of this can only be a visual indication of your inadequacy.
But from another point of view, the same taste can be balanced; Mutual supervision in order to maintain health; Complementary personalities can be close to life.
Therefore, meeting the right person has always been a paradox, have a good mentality and high emotional intelligence, two people like each other, have good feelings, no matter who you meet, will achieve just the right love.
The premise of a happy marriage is not only to have the right and not to have feelings; Feelings alone are not appropriate. Having both is the best choice, but it is only a matter of proportion.
The most perfect love is a two-way rush, mutual appreciation. Otherwise, that's not called appropriate, that's called unrequited love
If you insist on marrying someone who is suitable but not loved, it is easy to lead to tragedy.
Therefore, a good marriage, to achieve the two feelings of mutual pleasure, and then gradually in the relationship to polish into each other's suitability.
Know what you want and find something you like in the right person for you
A sign of a person's maturity is to know what they want and what they don't want.
Knowing that you are in the emotional world, what makes you care most about and what is the most afraid?
Before you get married, be sure to think about your own needs and choose the ones that meet your needs the most.
This is a principle, a standard, and those who cannot reach it must be eliminated, and the possibility of taking a detour will be greatly reduced.
This is why the same married love, some people can last forever, some people part ways. Because the criteria they chose at the beginning actually determined the difference in the future
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