According to the words of the parents, "arranged marriages" became the mainstream in the feudal era.
The elders worry about the marriage of their children, first of all, they study their age and family background, and only under the premise of the door-to-door pair can they be married, and the formal marriage relationship can be established.
Marriage itself is happy, but marriage without feelings seems so painful.
Of course, some good endings are not ruled out, but there must be a minority in the entire large group, and what was originally chosen by the self looks like a "transaction".
Miss Qianjin Huang of the rich family is one of them, but this process is worth mentioning.
After her parents selected a student for her, Miss Huang made a bold decision: to let her marry her.
Many people do not believe that this kind of thing usually only appears in novels and other plots, but it really happened to Tao Shu, a heavy minister in the late Qing Dynasty.
I thought such news would sink in the near future, who would have wanted to make waves again in 20 years.
According to the relevant wild history records, yakuza and miss were reunited 20 years later, but the latter said that she ruined the happiness of her life.
A farce
Without Tao Shu, the two are still the relationship between the big miss and the lady, and the reason must be tao shu.
In the forty-fourth year of Qianlong, Tao Shu was born in Hunan, and the elders had high hopes for him, and from an early age, they began to recite various scriptures, which can be regarded as "half a reader", but there is no meritorious name.
At the age of 19, Tao Shu signed up for the examination, but regrettably fell off the list and had no chance to make a career.
Seeing the age of marriage, Tao Shu's parents seemed to be very anxious, through the introduction of the matchmaker, Tao Shu knew Huang Jiaqian Jin Huang Defen, both in the same place, both parents are relatively satisfied, and the marriage is also put on the agenda.
Until now, many people think that this is a "flash marriage", but in the past it seemed extremely common.
Huang Qianjin couldn't even look at Tao Shu with half an eye, on the one hand, he had no meritorious name, on the other hand, he was still a poor person, how could I follow you to suffer?
She first approached her father to discuss the matter and made it clear that she did not want to marry.
The father's idea was very decisive, and he must marry Tao Shu, who failed to win the move because of bad luck and could not judge his life.
Seeing that his father was indifferent, Huang Defen decided to stage a "substitution farce", after all, Tao Shu had never seen himself.
Miss Huang found her own lady to discuss, hoping to help herself and give a lot of money in return.
In the feudal era, "loyalty and filial piety are great", as the master of the beard, he has to ask for himself, and naturally he must do his best to complete it, she agreed.
After coming to the Tao family, Ya Gui did not say anything, but she was still ashamed of herself, and later found a timely opportunity to explain to Tao Shu, and quickly got the latter's understanding.
In Tao Shu's view, he is a poor person, and a woman can follow in this way, which is definitely a great charity to herself.
Seeing that Tao Shu did not dislike herself, she became more and more concerned about her, and she personally swore in her heart that she would definitely fulfill her wife's responsibilities.
Two people really exchange their hearts, and a farce is forced to be played into "true feelings".
Tao Shu studied hard, just to one day enter the career path, and he was diligent and thrifty in running the family, not letting Tao Shu worry about tedious things, just to help him already gain a meritorious name.
The two reunite
Kung Fu paid off, and Tao Shu was lifted shortly after and officially entered the official arena.
His original intention has never changed, always keeping in mind the "benefit of the country and the people", when one side was in power, he was full of political achievements, all the way to the court to promote the promotion, and later achieved the position of viceroy of Liangjiang.
You think that's his whole life? The most commendable thing is the pair of Bole eyes that are good at discovering "Maxima".
Lin Zexu, Hu Linyi, Zuo Zongtang, etc., all of whom you often mention, are all talents excavated by Tao Shu and have made great contributions to the Great Qing.
A heavy courtier with both talent and virtue naturally received a heavy reward from the imperial court, and Lady Ya was even more awarded the title of a pint of commandment.
Since he is in such a high position, the Huang family is naturally a little "sour".
Huang Defen's heart made countless assumptions: if his father had persuaded himself again, if he could have rejected his original proposal, if he had...
Time doesn't happen again, and it seems unrealistic to say more.
After rejecting Tao Shu, Huang Defen married a rich man's son, but was dismissed not long after. In the feudal era, the daughter who married out spilled dirty water and had to live on the street.
Later, during a leisurely trip, Tao Shu's wife saw her former master.
Because Huang Defen once had a favor for herself, if she had not been rewarded with that meal, there would be no today, she decided to help Miss Huang.
Huang Defen recognized her at a glance, and before she could speak, Miss Huang began to scold her, which mentioned such a sentence: You ruined my life's happiness, without you, it is yourself who is now in a high position.
Mrs. Tao Shu replied: If you don't hate people's poverty, how can there be the current scene? Then turned and left.
Laughter in the world
In the end, it is still the bitter fruit of their own snobbery.
From the perspective of fate, the title of "One Pint of Commandments" and the endless wealth all belong to Huang Defen. However, because of his snobbish eyes, he gave up all his meritorious names to others, and in the end he was still complaining about this world, which was also a bitter fruit.
At the end of the article, I would like to give you a word: Thirty years of Hedong, thirty years of Hexi.
People live in this world, they must take a long-term view, and remember that they cannot make absolute conclusions about people in the current situation. You can't always have money and power, and others can't be so depressed forever, because the situation may be reversed at any time.
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