The entertainment industry is never short of new things and hunting wonders, and the well-known singer Zhang Di has actually entered the marriage hall with his daughter's girlfriend. Regardless of the age gap, will the marriage brought about by such a special status really be happy?
01, fateful fate
"I can't agree, can't you make me call my former good girlfriend a mother?" When Emperor Zhang's daughter Zhang Zhengxin learned that her father was going to marry her good friend Zhang Xinru, her psychology collapsed and she roared angrily at her father.
In 1976, Zhang Xinru was not yet one year old, and she was often held in the arms of her mother and watched Zhang Di on TV singing "Mao Mao Song", so that when Zhang Xinru learned to speak, she would pop up from time to time: Everyone has hair on their bodies...
It may be due to fate, Zhang Xinru when she was a child always cried, as long as she heard "Mao Mao Song", she was quiet for a second. Her mother also joked: "It seems that only Emperor Zhang can cure you." No one expected this fate to continue 33 years later.
Because Emperor Zhang is 33 years older than Zhang Xinru, his life experience is naturally much richer. Before meeting Zhang Xinru, Emperor Zhang had two marriages that were not beautiful, and before marriage, Emperor Zhang thought that he had met someone who could accompany him for a lifetime, but he did not expect that it would backfire.
Emperor Zhang was a native of Qingdao, and his family was not very rich and wealthy in that era, but it was also a little bit rich. Zhang Di's father's profession is a doctor, and he loves to listen to some old records in his free time, and under the influence of his father, Zhang Di's classical music dream sprouted.
02, Zhang Di abandoned le to practice medicine
However, Emperor Zhang's father did not support Emperor Zhang to embark on the road of art, he thought that this was extremely unstable, only suitable for hobbies, and hoped that Emperor Zhang could also become a doctor serving the people like him.
Emperor Zhang knew that his father was for his own good, and although he was concerned about music, he still chose to practice medicine. Zhang Di has been fast in elementary school, and he can understand everything at one point. In just a few years, he went from being a medical novice to a medical graduate student, living up to expectations and becoming a remarkable surgeon.
The job had largely stabilized, and his parents began to worry about his marriage. Countless times of conversation Zhang Di is not oil and salt, busy at work, where is the opportunity to talk to the object of time? So Emperor Zhang's parents arranged a blind date for her, and in his heart, he did not want Emperor Zhang to go to the appointment.
Zhang Di, who originally just wanted to perfunctory parents, met the first girl he liked in his life during the blind date. Rushing to the hotel, there was a very elegant and gentle girl sitting at the table with twisted braids, and Emperor Zhang regretted that he did not take good care of himself and go out again.
The girl's personality is just like her appearance, and she is very understanding and says: "You are busy as doctors, it doesn't matter." After a conversation, Emperor Zhang found that the other party and himself "have the same disease", and they were forced by their parents to come out on a blind date.
Fortunately, the two could chat and found that the original blind date was not as terrible as imagined. Since then, the two have often made dinner appointments, and they can sleep all day on boring days. The parents of both sides were already anxious, and when they saw that they were getting along very well, they hurried to handle the marriage for them.
With the help of their parents, the two quickly set up a new family. Feeling the burden of his burden, Zhang Di began to focus more on his doctor's work, burying his childhood musical dreams in his heart. A year after the marriage, his wife became pregnant, and Emperor Zhang was very happy and worked harder and harder.
Ten months later, Emperor Zhang's wife gave birth to a baby girl. In order to name his daughter Emperor Zhang racked his brains, and finally called Zhang Zhengxin. It is Zhang Xinru's girlfriend mentioned at the beginning of the article.
The arrival of her daughter adds infinite vitality to the family and life becomes more enjoyable. With one more person, Emperor Zhang's burden naturally increased a lot, and he began to work hard. The economic improvement was followed by less time to accompany his wife and daughter, and the relationship between Emperor Zhang and his wife underwent subtle changes.
After returning home from work one time, the two had a big fight over trivial matters, and eventually parted ways. The daughter followed her own life, which coincided with the dissatisfaction at work at that time, and Zhang Di's emotions reached its peak and chose to quit the iron rice bowl of the hospital and regain yesterday's dream.
03. Start again
Even after being strongly opposed by his family, Emperor Zhang resolutely turned his guitar into a singer. Obviously, the beginning will not be too smooth, after all, people are middle-aged, mediocre-looking, can only sing in some small shops, and always worry about the boss firing him.
In order to support himself and his daughter, in addition to singing, he also works as a waiter, serving tea and pouring water for guests. In a situation that was very different from the respect for him when he first worked in the hospital, although there was dissatisfaction in his heart, there was nothing he could do.
At that time, being a singer was also very "rolled", full of streets, fierce competition. Emperor Zhang's qualifications are good, but his age and appearance are posed, and he naturally falls behind.
In a certain performance, Zhang Di suddenly forgot the words and filled in a paragraph himself, and it was also this improvisational performance that made him popular. At that time, some people called him "The King of Rapid Wisdom Songs", and the name was started.
Zhang Di went from a small cover singer to a popular original singer, and also signed a contract with a record company. "Zhang Di Finds Azhu" is his first record after his debut, which is much newer than previous records, and the audience is also happy to hear.
His career picked up again, and while working at a bar, a friend introduced him to a woman who was also divorced, and because the two were old, they decided to get together. After marriage, Emperor Zhang's career flourished, not only in the mainland, but also in Hong Kong.
At that time, Emperor Zhang's fame was no worse than that of Teresa Teng, and concert after concert. According to statistics, he has opened nearly a thousand concerts in ten years, and it is difficult for today's singers to do it.
The hurried marriage did not last long, and Emperor Zhang and the woman chose to separate because of their incompatible personalities. Since then, Emperor Zhang has experienced two failed marriages, and has no expectations for love, while Zhang Xinru is in middle school without worry.
04, encounter
At this time, Emperor Zhang reflected on whether he had too little time to accompany his daughter, so he wanted to make up for his past regrets. He began to appear frequently at home, with a much reduced workload and learning to cook for his daughter.
One day in 1994, they met.
Zhang Zhengxin had a particularly good friend when she was studying, and the two often went to and from class and went shopping together. When he had just graduated and was worried about what to do at work, Zhang Zhengxin invited a friend to dinner at home.
Thinking that Zhang Zhengxin's father was his idol Zhang Di, Zhang Xinru gladly went there. The daughter told Emperor Zhang that he was going to bring his classmates to eat at home, and he leisurely chose dishes at home, and just after making the meal, Zhang Zhengxin took his classmates into the door.
The small talk at the dinner table learned that the girl's name was Zhang Xinru and she had just graduated from college. Zhang Xinru is a very polite girl, speaking softly and softly, and after dinner, she did not forget to thank Emperor Zhang for her hospitality. Emperor Zhang also felt that this girl felt unobtrusive and very comfortable.
The three of them watched TV together and talked about going back to work. Zhang Zhengxin asked Zhang Xinru where she worked, and Zhang Xinru replied helplessly: "I am looking for it, it is too difficult to find a suitable job!" ”
Before Emperor Zhang could speak, his daughter immediately picked up the conversation: "Or you will be my father's assistant!" It just so happens that my dad is short of people now, and we can still see each other often if you come. Emperor Zhang was so excited to see his daughter, who had always been pampered, and immediately smiled and nodded.
Let Zhang Xinru have the intention to try it first, although Zhang Xinru was still a little embarrassed at that time, in fact, her heart was ecstatic. After all, she listened to "Mao Mao Song" when she was learning to speak, accompanied her childhood, and could work with idols, she simply couldn't ask for it.
The first time they met, Zhang Xinru felt very warm, she told the confusion and helplessness of the moment, Zhang Di would patiently listen and provide advice, she had an inexplicable sense of intimacy, and Zhang Di was aroused by the father's love in his heart, after all, this is his daughter's classmate.
It didn't take long for Zhang Xinru to come to Emperor Zhang's studio to learn about her work. Her job is to assist Zhang Di in all things of work and life, similar to half a personal assistant.
Zhang Xinru cherished her first job very much, and carefully prepared a notebook to write down Emperor Zhang's daily habits and life requirements. After work, I even take it out and recite it.
Zhang Xinru's thoughtfulness and meticulousness made Emperor Zhang's impression of her to a higher level, and such a young girl who was not arrogant and impatient was indeed rare. Gradually, he treated Zhang Xinru as his own relative, and Zhang Xinru always maintained that reverence for him.
After a certain work, Emperor Zhang invited Zhang Xinru to eat a late-night snack. Emperor Zhang opened the conversation box, and he asked Zhang Xinru: "You are so good and your age is appropriate, how come you have never heard of marriage." "Care like the elders in the family.
Zhang Xinru replied: "At present, I have not met the right person, and I don't want to take it one step at a time." Zhang Xinru's answer made Emperor Zhang feel very empathy like he saw himself when he was young. In the blink of an eye, decades passed, and Emperor Zhang couldn't help but laugh.
The first time she saw Emperor Zhang with such a look, Zhang Xinru had many doubts in her heart, but she did not choose to ask more, and she thought that maybe the boss also had an unforgettable past. This supper made Zhang Xinru feel that her relationship with Emperor Zhang was much closer, like a family.
Although Zhang Xinru was only a small assistant in Emperor Zhang's studio, Emperor Zhang never became angry with her. A strange feeling began to arise in her heart, and she could no longer treat Emperor Zhang as an elder.
Heart to heart closer, the two also know each other better. Zhang Di is a very optimistic and strong person in front of people, only Zhang Xinru knows that the boss seems to be open-minded and actually has a fragile side.
One day at the end of the work, Zhang Xinru plucked up the courage to tell Emperor Zhang: "You have any worries in the future that you can talk to me about, and I don't want to see you bear it alone." ”
Rao is the Zhang Emperor who has seen the big scene, and he is also touched by the young girl's simple words. Because no one had ever said this to him, everyone only cared about whether he flew high or not, and no one asked him if he was tired or not. He smiled and nodded.
The two began to tacitly get closer and closer, not at all like the feelings between the elders and the juniors, but it was bold to describe it as "love". Getting along day and night makes them understand each other more and more, and they have different feelings for each other.
Zhang Di often runs around because of his performances, and his body can't eat when he is old. Zhang Xinru was very distressed to see her childhood idol look like this, so she silently took it upon herself to cancel his late performance and take him to the hospital for medical examination.
Over time, the two became more and more dependent on each other. After exchanging their hearts, the two of them themselves felt that it was too outrageous, not to mention how outsiders would view them. The age gap between the two is almost three rounds, and Zhang Xinru and Zhang Zhengxin are still good girlfriends.
It seems that there are countless rules and regulations that frame them, and in order to avoid gossip, they choose to secretly fall in love without telling anyone, including Zhang Zhengxin. Suddenly from a girlfriend to a "stepmother", it is difficult to accept who put it on.
In 2005, the entertainment headline of major newspapers was "Zhang Di fell in love with a 33-year-old assistant", with an intimate photo of Zhang Di and Zhang Xinru. Zhang Zhengxin, who saw the news, not only did not believe it, but also immediately called Zhang Xinru to comfort her, on the contrary, Zhang Xinru behaved extremely unnaturally.
Zhang Zhengxin also thought that Zhang Xinru was embarrassed by her thin skin, but Zhang Di also denied his feelings with Zhang Xinru in an interview. The reason is that only he and Zhang Xinru know, one is that they are afraid that the media will hurt Zhang Xinru, and the other is that they do not want Zhang Xinru to have a dilemma between themselves and their daughters.
But long-term mutual companionship seems to have become a habit that is difficult to give up, and they are still reluctant to each other.
Originally, because of the existence of Zhang Zhengxin at the beginning, both of them were very embarrassed. Even if they love each other deeply, they still haven't thought of making it public, but the love between the two is still too warm, and the paper package can't stop the fire.
05. Stay together
With the passage of time, Emperor Zhang looked at this girl who had accompanied him for ten years but did not want anything, and decided to give her a name no matter what. After two bumpy marriages, Emperor Zhang believed that Zhang Xinru was the one who was destined.
Emperor Zhang first informed his daughter of this incident, and Zhang Zhengxin's reaction was unexpectedly broken, and he could not believe what he heard. She strongly disagreed, and pushed Zhang Xinru, who wanted to come forward to persuade her, to the side.
Emperor Zhang saw that his daughter pushed his girlfriend aside, and immediately reprimanded his daughter seriously, Zhang Zhengxin, who was pampered from childhood to adulthood, was not afraid at all, and ridiculed Zhang Xinru by the way: "Are you married to a husband or a father?" Zhang Xinru was choked by her friend and could not speak.
Not only Emperor Zhang's daughter disagreed, but Zhang Xinru's family was the same. Emperor Zhang's age was two years older than Zhang Xinru's parents, and he didn't know whether to call out to his son-in-law or brother when he was really married. And put down the harsh words, unless the relationship is severed, it will not be relaxed in any case.
After not being allowed and blessed by their families, the two decided not to ask for anyone's consent again, after all, they lived their own lives. In 2009, Zhang Xinru, who was 34 years old at the time, and Zhang Di, 67, ended a decade of underground love and entered the palace of marriage.
In order not to grievance Zhang Xinru, Emperor Zhang held a grand wedding for him, and he thought that he owed too much and too much. The gap between the two in all aspects makes this marriage not optimistic, some people say that Emperor Zhang's old cow eats tender grass, and some people say that Zhang Xinru is greedy and vain, and even the father of a good friend does not let go.
They never care about what the outside world says and concentrate on living their lives. After marriage, the small days are also very sweet, after a few years of marriage, Zhang Xinru successfully gave birth to a boy, Zhang Di was 70 years old and had a son, naturally happy.
The arrival of this child greatly eased the contradiction between Zhang Xinru and his family. Although a little resistant to her father and girlfriend, Zhang Zhengxin still comes to visit her brother, and Zhang Xinru's parents realize that they can't help their daughters and often come over to help them take care of their children.
After marriage, Emperor Zhang's body has slowly faded out of the show business circle, and he has earned enough money anyway. However, his songs are still classics in classics, and in recent years, the "Mao Mao Song" that has been turned over and exploded is the "Royal Divine Comedy" of major short videos, with countless clicks.
In addition, Emperor Zhang deeply felt that his marriage with Zhang Xinru was not easy to come by, and he also cherished this "year-old love" that was not favored by everyone, hoping to spend more time with his family and not let himself leave regrets.
As Emperor Zhang grew older, the various minor problems that he had when he was young were even more painful in his old age. Fortunately, Zhang Xinru took good care of him, poured him water and medicine, and his old age was quite leisurely.
Some people outside ridiculed Zhang Xinru for marrying Emperor Zhang as a nanny, and no matter how ugly the words were, they never paid attention to them. Wherever they go, they are hand in hand, love is very much, gossip does not seem to affect the feelings between them at all.
In 2014, Zhang Di's friend passed away, and he fainted after a stroke that he could not accept for a while. After waking up after being rescued, he felt like he had walked through the ghost door, realizing that he would also have this day, spending less time with his wife and children than other husbands.
In order to ensure the future life of his wife and children, he quickly bought real estate and insurance for them after being discharged from the hospital, as well as left them with huge deposits. Zhang Xinru was deeply touched by Emperor Zhang's precautions and believed that she had not married the wrong person, so she devoted herself to the family even more.
Slowly, Emperor Zhang's body bones were obviously not as good as before, and his physical strength was not enough. Zhang Xinru did not dislike him in the slightest, and still thought about him everywhere. Time allows people to see the essence of things, to see their friends can be so caring for their father, Zhang Zhengxin gradually understood that Zhang Xinru is sincere about her father.
And the father is indeed getting older, and he really needs such a person who knows each other and knows the cold and the hot. Zhang Zhengxin went from disagreeing at the beginning to slowly being able to accept the fact that the two were married, the family and Hemei, which was also what Emperor Zhang wanted to see most.
Zhang Xinru's youth was almost all dedicated to Emperor Zhang, and her first job after graduation became her life's work. For his sake, he did not hesitate to be spurned, did not hesitate to confront his parents, and did not hesitate to bear a false stigma. True love is indeed true.
Now that Emperor Zhang is 80 years old, some minor illnesses and pains are well controlled and his body is still healthy. There is nothing to practice calligraphy at home, drink tea, occasionally accompany Zhang Xinru shopping, children and grandchildren are full of halls, and it is not comfortable to live in the old age!
Zhang Xinru and Emperor Zhang had been married for 13 years. Despite the noise of doubts from the outside world, they have been together for many years, loving as yesterday, and now perhaps the biggest wish is to slow down.
For more than twenty years, Zhang Xinru and Zhang Di used time to prove that they were truly in love. Obviously, the age gap and social status cannot affect real feelings more. Such as people drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge. As an outsider, there is only the word blessing.