In today's society, television, computers, mobile phones, car sounds, noisy sounds, give children too much stimulation, will make children distracted. They can't concentrate on one thing, can't sit quietly in class, can't listen honestly to lectures, and keep asking questions. Severe cases may also present with symptoms of hyperactivity. But for hyperactivity, every country, every doctor, has its own understanding and standards, which leaves many parents helpless.
In fact, most children are curious about this colorful world. Children feel new and interesting about everything around them, in this complex world, children must learn the ability to concentrate and self-control, and in learning, their concentration, self-control and other skills will be more influential than IQ in the performance of school-age children.
In fact, we can cultivate children's attention by making some small changes, or doing some small games.
1. Reduce the things around you that will reduce your concentration
Kids are interested in everything around them, such as dog barking, tap ticking, car horns, which can distract them. To keep your child focused, first make them quiet and simple. Don't put extra things in the room, don't pack up all the extra furnishings and toys, put on some soft music, let the child concentrate, and play with one toy or one book at a time.
2. Get noticed
In general, children are unable to concentrate because other things attract their attention; At this time, parents should try to return their children's attention to themselves. For example, when a child finishes playing with a block, he will change to a new game, for example, he can play a game with the children to see who can get a red piece, or the first to get a triangle. Let the children learn about the toy from multiple angles.
3. Let your child hold a ball in his hand
Some children have difficulty concentrating when listening to stories or participating in group activities, and like to go around, touch around, or play with their fingers; However, just because they're walking around doesn't mean they're not listening. When the teacher asked some questions related to the story, the children were able to answer them. Children may be upset because they are upset about their surroundings, the crowd, or out of curiosity; Parents can try handing a softball to their child and holding it in their hand. When your child holds a soft ball in his hand, it can relieve your child's tension and help calm their emotions.
4. Teach your child to observe things around them
Kids are curious about everything and have a hard time concentrating. Parents should always take their children outdoors to learn more about different situations. Usually, children should always be encouraged to observe the things around them. Parents can play with the children while on the coach and let the children look out the window to see if there is anything of color, or if there is anything round. Once a child has a goal, he will be more patient, more attentive, and will not get bored during long journeys.
5. Praise the child
Sitting and eating, watching others talk, waiting in line, etc., this is natural for adults, but for children, this is what must be learned. Therefore, while children are sitting obediently, in a quiet classroom, parents should also give them encouragement and praise, so that they understand that their behavior is correct.
6. Whisper
If the child's voice is too loud or too loud, it will attract the attention of the child, if the parents want to attract the attention of the child, you can try to talk to the child in a quiet voice. Children will concentrate because they want to hear their voices.
7. Don't bother with your children
Some parents always like to shout down their children at every turn to show their concern, no matter what the child is playing, or watching, as long as they have time, they will ask the child what he is doing? What's going on?. Children are always disturbed and can easily wander. So when parents see their children playing, don't bother them.
8. Arrive at school 15 to 30 minutes early
Children can not concentrate or fidget in class, you can send your child to school 15-30 minutes in advance, before the official class, let the child run in the school or play with classmates, so that the child will not be affected by emotional excitement or nervousness. Usually give the child a certain amount of time for outdoor activities, which can improve the child's attention.
9. Count
Parents can ask the children to count the apples on the table and the trees on the side of the road. When counting things, children should stare at objects with their eyes, say numbers in their mouths, and think about order, which is a very good exercise for children's attention. Whether in class or on the go, children always find all sorts of things to take stock of.
10. Use "Pay attention to secret codes", which is a special way.
Some teachers use whistles, turns off lights, claps hands, or some special music as a quiet, noteworthy signal; The key is to agree with the children. Your child may not know what to do at first, but after repeated practice, your child will follow the password, keep quiet, and concentrate.
11. Make sure your child gets enough sleep and a normal schedule
When children lack sleep, they will be irritable because they are too tired and it is difficult to maintain calm. And a regular schedule can make children feel safe and not lose control because of tension and fear.