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A few days ago, Zuckerberg posted a group of photos of his wife Priscilla Chen going on vacation in Iceland on social platforms.
At the first sight of the photos, I exclaimed that the scenery there was so beautiful. Under the green hills, the sheep leisurely nibbled on the grass. Time seemed to slow down to a standstill.
In such a pleasant, slow-time environment, the Zak burkes soaking in the hot springs have a confident and calm smile on their faces.
Self-confidence and calmness are not necessarily related to beauty and cosmetics. This time on camera, 37-year-old Priscilla Chen is still as plain as ever.
She is already plain-looking, and in the lens of no beauty and filters, she looks obviously much older than her 38-year-old husband on the side.
Some netizens can't help but complain in the comment area: Priscilla is not worthy of a husband.
Yes, for Zuckerberg, the founder of Facebook, who is young and promising, tall and handsome, and worth tens of billions, if he wants to, it is easy to marry a wife with good looks and good figure.
But ten years ago, he chose Priscilla, who had dark skin, a fat body and a normal appearance, as his marriage partner.
When questioned whether she was worthy of herself, he gave the answer: "In addition to her high emotional intelligence, she also has a high IQ, if you say high climbing, only I can climb her high." ”
He also said: "In fact, compared to Facebook, the joy and happiness of my life comes from my family!" ”
This sentence is not casually said. On December 1, 2015, after the birth of their eldest daughter, Zuckerberg and Priscilla pledged to donate 99% of their Facebook stake to charity. It can be seen that compared with the family, wealth is not so important to them.
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Fate, in the darkness, seems to have been predestined.
In 2004, Priscilla and Zuckerberg, who were also studying at Haval, attended a private party at the same time, and the two met for the first time while queuing to go to the toilet.
In 2005, Zuckerberg asked Priscilla if he could be his girlfriend, and she gave him the answer he wanted and gave him a candy as a promise.
In 2012, Zuckerberg announced his marriage to Priscilla on Facebook.
In the blink of an eye, this year's 520 is their tenth wedding anniversary.
To celebrate their 10th wedding anniversary, Zuckerberg posted four photos of the two through social platforms. In the photo, Priscilla is no longer plain-faced, she wears light makeup, wears a beautiful skirt, and smiles happily.
The smile that flowed from her face was enough to show that she was satisfied, confident and calm about the marriage.
Self-confidence is a woman's best cosmetics.
Although her figure and appearance are too ordinary to be ordinary, the confidence and calmness on her face still give people a very comfortable, kind, and inviolable feeling.
For a person, no matter what the external environment is, it is really a rare realm to always maintain inner peace and joy.
The same is true of marital relationships.
Over the years, no matter what the outside world sounds, Priscilla and her husband have been immersed in their world. This is very much needed realm. You can't do it without a strong heart.
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Good-looking skin bags are the same, interesting souls are one of the best.
Underneath her ordinary exterior, Priscilla has a funny, motivated, free, and independent soul.
She graduated from Harvard University with a Ph.D. in pediatric medicine. Even if she hadn't married Zuckerberg, she could have lived an elite life with her own abilities.
After marrying Zuckerberg, she did not choose to be his appendage, but followed the direction of her heart and became a pediatrician. In addition to her medical work, she also devotes herself to philanthropy in her spare time.
A person's time and energy are always limited, and when Priscilla focuses on her career and pursuits, she naturally does not spend too much time and energy on her husband.
In marriage, it is best not to take your husband too seriously. When you are confident, independent, busy, and take a casual posture toward him, it will arouse his desire to conquer even more.
Therefore, his attention will involuntarily focus on you.
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Although Priscilla and Zuckerberg have the same view and achieve each other, there is no need for anxiety.
Despite the fact that between them, the fight is always talented and interesting souls.
In order to make the relationship between the two lasting, stable and happy, both sides deliberately do something with their own wisdom.
When we first started together, the woman made two special agreements with the man.
No matter how busy two people are, they must go on a date once a week, no less than 100 minutes each time. And can not be at home or online.
Second, once a year, you must travel abroad for no less than two weeks.
For these two agreements, Zuckerberg perfectly complied with them.
In addition, because Priscilla's grandmother does not know English, he loves Wu and Wu, and in order to communicate with the woman's grandmother, he spends a lot of time learning Chinese.
With the same frequency resonance, even strength, and willingness to go in both directions, such a marriage is difficult to last.
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In a relationship or marriage, appearance is important, but after a long time together, no matter how beautiful the appearance is often unable to withstand the so-called aesthetic fatigue, but the interesting soul can constantly breed freshness and curiosity.
Especially for the multitude of the rich, beauty is devalued according to their values, and assets and knowledge are value-added.
Not just Zuckerberg's wives, but a closer look at several wives on the world's richest list, most of their looks are unremarkable.
In particular, Bezos's lover, Sanchez, was once a big surprise. However, after the two of them were together, they smiled brightly every time they appeared on camera.
If you want to wear a crown, you will bear its weight. When a person faces the world, no matter how strong you are, it is inevitable that there will be moments of vulnerability, hesitation, and not being strong enough.
At this time, if you can have a gentle, firm, and assertive lover around you, it is a lucky thing...