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My colleague named the child exactly like me, and I felt very awkward, what should I do?

author:Hai Ge is in Guangdong

This is really the size of the world, there are no surprises, and your colleagues can be described as true love for you.

The rule of avoiding chinese names seems to have been taken very seriously since ancient times. We are used to watching the Romance of the Three Kingdoms, when we see that they call people's names very good, they are called Cao Mengde, Zhang Yide, Guan Yunchang, Zhou Gongjin, etc., can be described as very elegant, in fact, their honorific titles are zun renjia characters, not called people's names, because calling people's names is not only disrespectful to others, but also appears to be uncultured. Therefore, people with cultural attainments will call other people's words, instead of calling other people's names, some people say that your name is equivalent to digging people's ancestral graves, and people will absolutely fight with you. We weren't living in that era, and we might not be able to feel it. But I remember when I was a child, if a little friend called his parents' names, we would be very angry and think that we had insulted ourselves, which may be the same reason.

My colleague named the child exactly like me, and I felt very awkward, what should I do?

But even in our modern times, we are also in the countryside, but also very shy about the name, especially between relatives to name must be cautious and cautious, for example, we are not between different generations, is to not use the same word, even the homophone is not used, such as a person called Li, then, her nephews do not call her this word, otherwise even if it is stacked, that is to think that the younger generation of the elder disrespect. Peers pay attention to the same word, such as the first word of the name is the same, showing a difference in the second word, so that the two people are intimate. This kind of thing often happens in the village, and the contradictions caused by the overlapping of words are more than one, and even some of them develop to the end.

My colleague named the child exactly like me, and I felt very awkward, what should I do?

Of course, in modern times, especially those who live in cities, then this kind of overlapping words may not be so deep in the city. If you pay attention, you can only pay attention to the relatives, and there is no such statement between colleagues, after all, today you are colleagues with him, tomorrow may not be, you two are not related, there is no generation size. But when you know that the other party deliberately gave the child's name the same name as your own, it must be quite unhappy, and you feel a little insulted. So what do you say you can do? You can't always sue him, or who to find to solve this problem, because the law says that the right to name lies in one's parents, and the law does not say that the right to a name of any citizen is protected from infringement, otherwise there are 1.4 billion people in the country!

My colleague named the child exactly like me, and I felt very awkward, what should I do?

So how do you solve this problem? I think it is difficult to solve, after all, the name of this thing is very cautious, people have risen, you can not always say that you have the same name and surname, you go to ask people to change it, you do not have this right, so there is a great netizen invented a thing, said that when the time comes, you will raise a dog, also name his name, so that your heart is balanced, in fact, I think this is a joke, when is the so-called unjust retribution?

My colleague named the child exactly like me, and I felt very awkward, what should I do?

I personally think so, in modern society, this kind of name overlapping and other issues may not be between relatives, has been very diluted, so in two people who have never known each other to give the same name, you say there is any problem, I think it should be looked at. Besides, he's the child of your co-workers, and he's not something you see often, isn't it? Since your colleague deliberately takes a name like this, then, whether it is because of the good name of yours, or deliberately angry with you, I don't think you have to deliberately take it as a thing, after all, these are all things, ignoring it is not a thing. And it is not good to rationalize it, so why find your own unhappiness?