In 2002, when Li Chengru married his 18-year-old wife, Shi Yihong, his son looked at his stepmother very puzzled: "How did you come to see my father?" You can totally find something better. ”
Li Chengru was so angry that he wanted to reprimand his son, but he was stopped by Shi Yihong: "Don't be angry with the child, as long as I understand you." ”
But who would have thought that in just a few years, the original sweet father would end up divorcing.
When Li Chengru spent five years chasing Shi Yihong, it can be seen that the love is deep, how did the two of them get to the step of divorce?
Now that the two have been divorced for 15 years, what kind of life do they live? Did Li Chengru regret this hasty marriage?
Born in Shanghai in 1972, Shi Yihong's father was a military mother who worked in a gymnasium, and her parents wanted their daughter to learn a talent, so they sent her to learn martial arts at a very young age.
However, after learning martial arts and gymnastics successively, Shi Yihong was not able to get interested, and his parents had to give up, at this time, Shi Yihong did not expect that these things he learned would come in handy in the future.
In 1982, when there were more than a thousand students enrolled in the opera, Shi Yihong originally had no chance, but he did not expect that he would be valued by the famous Peking Opera artist Zhang Meijuan, and she followed Zhang Meijuan to learn Peking Opera.
In the process of studying, she slowly fell in love with the art of Peking Opera, and she also won awards, and her fame grew.
When her career was getting smoother, she also met her destined love, and in 1996 she was attending a training class for Peking Opera actors, where she met Li Chengru.
Li Chengru was born in a very poor family, there are 9 brothers and sisters in the family, he has fought step by step with his own ability to this point.
At that time, his third brother was also studying here, and when he visited the third brother, he accidentally saw Thati Hong was suddenly attracted to this girl, so he immediately began to pursue her.
But Shi Yihong was not interested in Li Chengru, in her opinion, this man was not only 18 years older than herself, but also divorced, and the family had a son in his teens, which was not a good relationship at all, so she refused him without hesitation.
She told Li Chengru seriously: "The age difference between the two of us is too big, and I'm not sure if your liking is a momentary move." ”
But how could Li Chengru give up because of her one refusal, he said: "You can rest assured, I will let time prove my sincerity." ”
Seeing that Shi Yihong had not let go, he began to change a routine and adopted the model of "boiling frogs in warm water".
Shi Yihong, as a Peking Opera actor, usually performs a lot of plays, and every time she performs, Li Chengru will not miss it.
Every time after Shi Yihong's performance, he would still wait for her with some food in the back, and as long as Shi Yihong had difficulties, he would also appear in front of the other party for the first time.
At that time, when he was doing business, he heard that Shi Yihong did not like people who did business, so he sold a very profitable industry.
Slowly Shi Yihong was touched by Li Chengru's persistence, and her heart was shaken little by little, and finally agreed to him after 6 years of pursuing himself.
In 2002, the two officially entered the palace of marriage, but Li Chengru and his ex-wife's son Li Dahai could not understand why this young and beautiful sister would like her father.
So he asked in front of Shi Yihong, "Why did you marry him, he didn't deserve you." ”
After hearing this sentence, Li Chengru was angry on the spot, he spent so much money to be with Shi Yihong, and there was no doubt about the sincerity of it.
In the end, it was Shi Yihong who stopped him: "I just need to know your good." ”
In fact, it is also true that after marriage, Li Chengru was very good to Shi Yihong, and he spent most of his time in front of his wife, and the two got along very happily.
However, as the two have been married for a long time, the contradictions have slowly been exposed, Li Chengru is busy filming, Shi Yihong is busy performing, and the husband and wife live a life of gathering less and leaving more.
In addition, Li Chengru lived in Beijing, so he hoped that his wife could move to Beijing together, and with her fame at the time, as long as it passed, the Beijing Opera House in Beijing would immediately hand out an olive branch.
But Shi Yihong rejected him, in her opinion, she was cultivated by Shanghai, and she preferred to stay here to repay their cultivation. It was at this time that the marriage of the two buried hidden dangers.
The long-term gathering of less and more made the feelings between the two gradually decrease, and at this time, Li Chengru started a business again.
Once his partner expressed that he wanted to hear Shi Yihong sing, Li Chengru called Shi Yihong.
But for Shi Yihong, Peking Opera is an art, a belief in her heart, she does not want what she loves to be tarnished by the world, she hopes to truly perform Peking Opera to those who can appreciate it.
When she first became famous, many people invited her to participate in various performances, but this was rejected by her, so this time Li Chengru called her and was still rejected.
This made Li Chengru feel a little faceless, and when he wanted to call Shi Yihong again, he found that the other party had hung up on him.
This incident made the two people's hearts that already had a rift farther and farther apart, Shi Yihong believed that Li Chengru did not respect his career, and Li Chengru thought that Shi Yihong did not give himself face.
Later, when Li Chengru was filming, the box lunches he often ate were cold, and when he returned home, his home was also deserted, and the resentment in his heart was also increasing.
In 2005, Li Chengru saw that the two had been married for so long and proposed to have a common child, but Shi Yihong thought that his career was more important at this time and rejected him.
Under the contradictions again and again, the marriage between the two has also come to an end.
After the divorce, Shi Yihong was lost for a long time, and it took her two years to get out of the hurt caused to her by this relationship.
It is said that the love field is frustrated in the workplace, and Shi Yihong's career has become more and more smooth.
In order to make Peking Opera more popular with young people, she adapted and innovated many Peking Opera works to make these works more suitable for the preferences of young people.
I just don't know if I was hurt by the previous relationship, Shi Yihong has not started a new relationship, and her parents have begun to worry about their daughter's marriage again.
However, Shi Yihong is not in a hurry, although she understands her parents' match, but now she does not want to be bound by marriage, so she prefers to spend time traveling.
As for Li Chengru and Shi Yihong's divorce not long after regret, later he wanted to reunite with the other party, and also bought him a large bouquet of roses to send when she was working, but unfortunately Shi Yihong's attitude was too resolute, and in the end he could not save the other party's heart.
In 2011, he again proposed a compound invitation to the other party, but this time he still did not save the other party, and he had to give up.
Even so, he did not say that Shi Yihong was bad, and every time he talked about this marriage, he attributed all his mistakes to himself.
Although the two did not become husband and wife, the relationship between them seemed to go back to the past, sometimes Shi Yihong encountered something, he would also take the initiative to ask him for help, the two were like friends, although there were some regrets, but it seemed to be the best ending.
Later, although Li Chengru and a 28-year-old actress who was younger than himself spread a scandal, the scandal did not take long to disappear, and he had to target his son instead of opening a new relationship.
In fact, frankly speaking, Li Chengru did not treat his ex-wife and son very well, and he chose to divorce his son when he was six years old.
For 28 years, he allowed his ex-wife and son Li Dahai to live in a small house of 18 square meters, living a poor and sad life.
Perhaps because he saw his mother humble in order to earn money when he was a child, Li Dahai was determined to get ahead and let his mother live in a big house, so he dropped out of school at the age of 17.
Later, after working hard in society for a while, he wanted to change his mother to a large villa, but found that he had almost no money, so he asked his father if he could lend him some, but he was quickly refused.
Unfortunately, Li Chengru did not hesitate to refuse his request, and the relationship between father and son became more and more cold.
Until later, he suddenly had a serious illness, which also made him feel the importance of his relatives, so he began to take the initiative to repair the relationship with his son Li Dahai.
He even decided to buy a luxury car and mansion for his son to compensate for the arrears of these years, but in the face of these Li Dahai refused one by one, in fact, he only needed a scooter for 200,000 yuan.
But fortunately, the feelings of the father and son have slowly recovered, which is also the most comforting thing for Li Chengru in these years.
After 15 years, I looked at the relationship between Shi Yihong and Li Chengru and found that in fact, the end of the two was doomed from the very beginning.
When Shi Yihong was young and beautiful and li chengru was with her, it was the time when her career was booming, and she loved her career and naturally paid relatively little emotionally.
And Li Chengru originally fell in love with Shi Yihong at first sight, when he was not young, he paid more attention to feelings than his career, and the two had different ideas from the very beginning.
The reason why they are so sweet after marriage but still separated is also very simple, the sweet feelings of the two often living apart together will slowly wear out, and Shi Yihong did not give Li Chengru face in that business, which aggravated the disappearance of feelings.
However, there may be some impulsive factors in the divorce between the two, otherwise Li Chenru would not have expressed his regret many times later.
It's just a pity that the two are inseparable after all, and this relationship has no new ending since the moment it ended.
Now more than ten years later, Shi Yihong is 50 years old, perhaps because she often sings Peking Opera, she has maintained a good skin condition and figure, looking several years younger than her actual age.
Li Chengru is 68 years old, although he looks a little old, he is still radiant, and after many years, the two have not started a new relationship, but they do not want to come together again.
Perhaps for the two, today's friendship status is the best model for the two to get along.