Now it seems that it is very normal for couples in the entertainment industry to be divided and merged.
Many are due to various reasons for the breakdown of feelings between husband and wife.
Even many marriages end because of one party's betrayal of the marriage.
In the case of each family overturning, there are fewer and fewer couples who have been loving.
Among them, Tong Dawei Guan Yue and his wife are very prominent.
Two people who have been married for 15 years and 3 lovely children.
After so many years of marriage, the two are still in love as before, and there has never been a scandal.
When the two first met, Guan Yue was just a freshman.
After three years of hard pursuit, Tong Dawei finally embraced the beauty.
But after that, Tong Dawei proposed to break up, and after the breakup, he begged for forgiveness.
Almost lost his beloved, what twists and turns did Tong Dawei and Guan Yue's love go through?
01.
In 1979, Tong Dawei was born in Fushun, Liaoning.
His father was a police officer and his mother worked at the city library.
There is also an older sister named Tong Ling.
The birth of Tong Dawei brought a lot of joy and laughter to this family.
As the youngest child, he was pampered by the whole family.
As a policeman' father, he is the person Tong Dawei and his sister most admire.
They all think that the policeman father who rides a motorcycle to work every day is the most handsome cop in the world.
Unfortunately, when Tong Dawei was 6 years old, all the beautiful happiness was shattered.
One day in May 1985, Dad rode his motorcycle out to work as usual.
While on the way to his official duties, he unfortunately collided with a truck.
Although he saved his life in time because of the treatment, the brain nerves were seriously damaged, making him a vegetative person.
The accident happened so suddenly that the mother did not dare to let her son and daughter know.
She went to the hospital to take care of her husbands and let the child's grandmother take care of them for a while.
Grandma told a white lie: "They went on a business trip, and it will take a while to come back, so you will first live at Grandma's house." ”
The sisters and brothers lived in their grandmother's house for half a year.
For such a long time, my father's condition has not improved.
The mother knew that she really couldn't hide it, so she told the truth to Tong Dawei and her sister.
In the hospital, the sisters and brothers finally met their father, who had been separated for half a year.
But he has long since lost the majestic image of the past.
He was pale, emaciated, and had countless catheters inserted in his body.
Tong Dawei and his sister grew up in that instant.
The siblings began to help their mother share the housework and do everything they could.
When Tong Dawei was not yet high on the stove, he stepped on a small bench to help his mother cut vegetables.
Someone advised my mother to remarry, but my mother refused with tears.
"As long as Lao Tong is still in the day, I will guard this home for a day, and I will definitely not let the family disperse."
She gritted her teeth and tenaciously propped up the whole family.
02.
After graduating from junior high school, Tong Dawei did not continue to attend high school, but chose a two-year secondary school.
In his spare time, he also went to various places to work part-time to subsidize his family.
In the second grade of secondary school, a crew went to their school to shoot a scene, while filming, while looking for some extras.
For this kind of thing, Tong Dawei was originally not interested.
But when he heard that "acting" had a salary, Tong Dawei couldn't wait to sign up.
There were many people who signed up to watch the hilarity, but everyone quickly lost interest.
Only Tong Dawei ran east and west with the crew every day in his free time, only for a reward of 20 yuan.
Tong Dawei, who was originally just to make money, gradually developed a strong interest in acting.
After consulting with his mother, Tong Dawei embarked on the road of art.
Just when the Shanghai Theater Academy went to Dalian to enroll, Tong Dawei went to Dalian alone to take the exam.
In the physical examination, other basic examinations choose performances such as dance.
Tong Dawei stiffly did a set of broadcast gymnastics.
Fortunately, in other exams, Tong Dawei successfully passed with his experience in running dragon sets.
In the end, Tong Dawei was admitted to the Acting Department of Shanghai Theater Academy with the second place in the professional course.
Because I am a student of the acting department, there are many opportunities to take over the drama and advertising.
So Tong Dawei began to shuttle through the various crews, in order to hone his acting skills and make money.
Although almost all of them are small roles, they accumulate into more, and Tong Dawei is making progress a little.
And at this time, his income was relatively stable, and he did not have to live with his family for a year of freshman year.
In his sophomore year, Tong Dawei was already able to pay money to his family.
In 2001, Tong Dawei filmed a play in Beijing.
In his spare time, he ran to the Beijing Film Academy to find his buddies to play.
This friend is an assistant teacher in the Acting Department of Beiying, and when Tong Dawei came to Beiying, he was giving lessons to the students.
Among these students is Guan Yue, the love of Tong Dawei's life.
03.
When Tong Dawei first saw Guan Yue, it was just when she was performing.
A beam of light hit her body, enveloping her whole body with light.
At that moment, Tong Dawei thought of the words in "Jade Guanyin" and felt love at first sight.
He felt that the girl in front of him was like a fairy.
Most importantly, when Tong Dawei looked at the girl, the girl had been looking in his direction.
He was excited in his heart, did this girl think that she was also quite handsome?
Unfortunately, this is a beautiful "misunderstanding".
The reality is that Guan Yue was more than 400 degrees myopic in his eyes at the time, and he did not wear glasses when performing.
Therefore, she can hardly see anything, and the so-called "affectionate confrontation" of the two is just Tong Dawei's narcissism.
This "misunderstanding" was not explained to Tong Dawei at that time.
At that time, he was preoccupied with how to hold the beauty.
The good brothers were Guan Yue's assistant teacher, and Tong Dawei soon learned the girl's name.
When you're okay, watch them rehearse.
Unfortunately, Guan Yue did not like Tong Dawei's performance at that time.
"We especially don't like people watching us rehearse, and every time he comes, we hate this guy."
A person who came to see the girls rehearsing when he had nothing to do, the impression left on Guan Yue was that this person must be very careful.
Tong Dawei begged her friends to help her ask Guan Yue to come out to sing and eat together.
At that time, Guan Yue was just a freshman, and he did not dare not go to the requirements of teaching assistants.
Guan Yue went to the appointment in fear, but fortunately, Tong Dawei did not do anything excessive.
That is, to show a singing voice, or to take the initiative to invite guests to dinner.
After gradually getting acquainted, Tong Dawei plucked up the courage to express his heart.
Then Guan Yue unceremoniously refused.
04.
Tong Dawei was repeatedly defeated, but each of his confessions was rejected by Guan Yue.
However, during this period, Guan Yue's attitude towards him also changed.
She knew that Tong Dawei was not the playboy in her first impression, but a very obsessive person.
Guan Yue has always been insecure and does not dare to easily fall into a relationship.
Tong Dawei has not given up and chased her back and forth for three years.
On Guan Yue's birthday, Tong Dawei spent a lot of effort to hold a birthday party for her.
Guan Yue was finally touched by Tong Dawei and agreed to his confession.
However, Guan Yue also put forward his own conditions: "Then I have to control you, can you?" ”
Tong Dawei said on the spot: "I am especially willing to let you take care of me!" ”
Tong Dawei's feelings of three years of hard pursuit finally blossomed.
At this time, he was already famous and won many awards.
His relationship with Guan Yue is finally on the right track, and the double happiness is exciting to Tong.
However, because of the particularity of the actor, Tong Dawei has not dared to expose his relationship with Guan Yue.
After that, his career development is getting better and better.
By 2006, a "Struggle" made Tong Dawei usher in the peak of his career.
Under the impact of fame and profit, Tong Dawei forgot a lot of his heart.
Tong Dawei, who used to joke with Guan Yue about "let's get married", began to hesitate about marriage.
"If I'm married, will there be a lot of people away from me?"
Despite this worry, his heart began to swell, drift, be proud, and forget.
05.
During that time, he had no patience for everyone and everything.
Especially the family and girlfriend Guan Yue, the two often quarrel over some small things.
Once Guan Yue and his friends went out to sing and play together, ready to call Tong Dawei.
As a result, Tong Dawei on the phone was very impatient and said that he did not want to go.
Later, after a big fight, Guan Yue first calmed down.
She found Tong Dawei and said, "Either we all calm down for a month." ”
Tong Dawei casually agreed.
A month later, he found Guan Yue, and instead of calmly apologizing, he directly proposed to break up.
Guan Yue's heart ached, but Tong Dawei's incomprehensible performance had broken her heart.
She didn't dwell on it and left decisively.
After losing Guan Yue, Tong Dawei suddenly woke up.
He found that everything in the world had lost its color, and he had no interest in everything.
He finally realized that he could not do without Guan Yue.
For a month and a half, Tong Dawei washed his face with tears all day.
Tong Dawei tried various methods, and he found that he could not get out of it.
Less than half a year after the breakup, Tong Dawei found Guan Yue and asked for a reunion.
Such a rash breakup and reunion, how could Guan Yue, a northeastern girl from Jilin, agree.
She simply deleted Tong Dawei's contact information, no longer answering his phone calls and no longer meeting with him.
Tong Dawei had to play a roundabout tactic and found Guan Yue's girlfriend Dong Xuan.
At that time, Dong Xuan and Guan Yue happened to be filming together.
Tong Da gave Guan Yue various gifts to get rid of Dong Xuan.
Under Dong Xuan's matchmaking, Guan Yue agreed to meet with Tong Dawei.
But it was only a meeting, and Guan Yue did not give Tong Dawei a good look.
06.
If no plan is achieved, Tong Dawei can only find another way.
He knew that Guan Yue's idol was Liang Jiahui, so he tried his best to meet With Liang Jiahui and his wife for dinner.
He also told Guan Yue that Liang Jiahui had invited the two of them to dinner together.
Guan Yue received an invitation and went to a banquet in order to meet the idol.
At the dinner table, Tong Dawei shamelessly introduces Guan Yue as his girlfriend, and the appointment is to propose to her.
Guan Yue did not directly deny it, in fact, she agreed to come to dinner together, not simply to meet idols.
It was just a step for her to give herself, in fact, she also wanted to know what Tong Dawei would do.
Leung Ka Fai also helped praise Tong Da for being a good person.
After some ideological struggle, Guan Yue decided to give Tong Dawei another chance.
Tong Dawei also vowed that there would be no more such things as before.
In August 2007, Tong Dawei and Guan Yue were licensed to marry.
In April 2008, Tong Dawei held a grand wedding for Guan Yue.
The wedding venue was the Sofitel Beijing Wanda Plaza Hotel, and Tong Dawei spent a lot of money.
He also found the famous director Zhao Baogang as a witness to the wedding.
At the wedding, Tong Dawei solemnly announced:
"I confirm that this is the only wedding in my life."
This is his promise to Guan Yue, and it is also an apology to his wife.
The eldest daughter was born in the year of marriage.
After marriage, the two had a total of three children, two daughters and a son, and a family of five were happy and happy.
After marriage, the couple did not never quarrel, but they agreed that the quarrel would never be overnight.
Any questions must be made clear before going to bed that night.
Today, Tong Dawei and Guan Yue have gone through 15 years hand in hand.
Regardless of before and after marriage, Tong Dawei and Guan Yue did not have any scandals, which is really valuable in today's entertainment industry.
Some people say that marriage is the graveyard of love.
But that's only because marriage buries unrealistic fantasies of love, or simply isn't suitable for the other half.
For the right person, marriage is not a graveyard of love, but a continued sublimation of love.
The marriage of Tong Dawei and Guan Yue can well prove this.
I wish Tong Dawei Guan Yue's family of five to be able to love and be happy forever.