"This is love, no one can say clearly, this is love, confused and confused"
In the 1990s, Jiang Shan and Wang Zhiwen sang this song "Confused Love" swept the streets and alleys, and she inherited the excellent genes of the musician's parents and sang this song into a classic.
And at the time of youth and beauty, she sang with the male protagonist because of the song, and then played the screen couple many times, and finally unconsciously fell into a confused love.
Unfortunately, the recognized "golden boy" finally broke up, returned to become friends, and many years later, they also played the role of husband and wife in a TV series.
After the two broke up, Jiang Shan quickly married the actor Gao Shuguang and gave birth to a daughter, but this marriage did not wait for the seven-year itch, the two divorced, and since then, she has become a single mother who only lives for her daughter.
So that later, when she met jin dong, who was handsome, talented and loved her very much, she also had to listen to her daughter's words and bitterly parted her hands, and the two missed it.
Until Jiang Shan,000, who made a high-profile comeback in 2017, not only won the championship of "Crossover Singer King" in one fell swoop, but also exposed her new love affair, which made countless viewers eat a big melon.
Let's take a look at this national goddess who has experienced twists and turns in her feelings, what has she experienced over the years? How is she doing with her second husband now?
Jiang Shan's career experience
Jiang Shan was born in Zhenjiang, Jiangsu Province, her parents are famous opera singers, she was educated and she had a great talent in music, but at this time she still only wanted to learn English.
Later, when her father became a director and became the director of a film studio, she went to Beijing with her parents to live, and from elementary school, she began to deal with the stage all day.
Slowly became fascinated by singing, became a well-known little singer in the school, and when the first choir was established in the school, she could not wait to sign up and become a member of the choir.
Every time there is any activity, she can always play a good leading role, not only sing well, but also lead the students to win honors for the class.
Study well, the relationship with classmates and teachers is good, living in everyone's praise for her every day, her personality is becoming more and more sunny and cheerful.
After going to middle school, she came out beautiful and generous, charming, and people around her advised her son to inherit her father's business and become an actor, which will definitely be loved by the audience.
But Jiang Shan feels that the first task now is to learn, especially the English she wants, and she feels that she will definitely become an excellent English teacher in the future.
It wasn't until her parents, who were affectionate and sensible with her, persuaded her to study acting that she slightly reluctantly replaced the foreign language academy with Chinese opera.
Gifted and intelligent, with good foundation and skill, she was admitted to the Chinese opera very smoothly, and became a classmate with Chen Xiaoyi, Xu Fan and others.
Here, everything is different from what she imagined, every day is either rehearsal or rehearsal, not being an English teacher has become a thorn in her heart, and before she untied the knot, she has never been able to concentrate on seriously studying performance.
Absenteeism from time to time has become a well-known thing in the class, and even her best friend said: "Jiang Shan is very smart, she can learn as soon as she learns, but she just doesn't want to learn." ”
The teacher also talked to her several times and said, "Since you have come here, just make some achievements, don't you want your family to see your ability?" ”
The teacher's words did not affect her, but made her play a small role, she thought: Everyone wants me to act well, then I have to sing.
Subsequently, she rejected the Beijing Renyi that everyone yearns for, but instead said that she found a record company and wanted to be a singer, but after a long time, her first album was not yet made, and she picked and left.
Friends heard about her why, she said willfully: "This company gave me a stage name is too ugly, I want to change, but they do not agree, so I terminated the contract with them." ”
After listening to it, friends only felt that she was really bold and willful, and several good friends still advised her to be a good actor: "On your terms, as long as you converge and restrain your temper, there will be a day of coming out." ”
In this way, she is not good at filming, after graduation, she has no works to lean over, and the dream of being a singer has not been realized, and a good deck of cards will be beaten by her.
At this time, her friend Wang Zhiwen pulled her along, and the 1993 TV series "Addiction" was recruiting heroines, and Wang Zhiwen directly recommended her to star after reading the script.
After the director looked at her resume, he felt that she was not outstanding, but he could not stand the strong recommendation of the male protagonist, so he decided to meet her, which led to the role of "Du Mei" played by Jiang Shan.
With this role, she instantly became a national goddess, and for a time all the girls in the streets began to imitate her hairstyle and outfit, and all the boys regarded her as a crush.
But the more people love Jiang Shan's prosperous appearance, she prefers to rely on her ability to speak, and then has filmed a number of classic works and become a powerful actor.
At the same time as her career was booming, she met someone who admired her very much, and the two fell in love at first sight, and soon fell in love and began their first married life.
The first failed marriage with Gao Shuguang
It was during the filming of "I Want to Have a Home", Jiang Shan and Gao Shuguang met for the first time, and they left a very deep impression on each other, resulting in a feeling of seeing each other and hating each other.
Gao Shuguang and Jiang Shan's experience is also similar, at the beginning he said that he worked in a factory, although the work is very stable, but very boring, unchanged.
Young and vigorous, he is naturally a little unwilling to work now, he does not want to work in the factory for a lifetime, but he has not found a better development direction, so he has to do it.
Later, he met a former music teacher, who saw that he was tall and handsome, and pointed out a bright path for him and encouraged him to apply for the Shanghai Theater Academy.
Although Gao Shuguang's image passed, his liberal arts grades, who did not go to school early, were not very good, and the teacher interviewed him with a sense of story, and after discussion, he was admitted out of line.
During his time in school, he was the hardest among his classmates, and after graduation, he also filmed several plays, but he did not stir up any waves, and was in a state of drama but always tepid.
Until he met Jiang Shan, who was already a well-known actor, he let his name stay in the entertainment circle, and let more directors see him, thus getting more opportunities.
Through this play, Gao Shuguang's career has developed by leaps and bounds, and he who knows how to be grateful, attributes all this honor to Jiang Shan's body, and in order to express his gratitude, he always greets Jiang Shan in private and cares for him.
As soon as they came and went, Jiang Shan liked him, and the two of them hit it off, holding hands and walking into the door of the Civil Affairs Bureau, looking at the big red little ben and closing his mouth happily.
Two years later, their daughter came to this world, saying that her daughter was a sweet little cotton jacket, but the birth of their daughter not only failed to become a glue for the two people's feelings, but also accelerated the breakdown of their marriage.
Before they had children, they just had to revel in the free two-person world, go to filming when they had a job, and hide at home to study good food or travel without work.
Jiang Shan is very eager for this kind of wind, snow, moon, and free days, but the arrival of her daughter suddenly pulls them back to reality, and every day she has to quarrel over the trivial things of who watches the children and who cooks.
Over time, Gao Shuguang felt that he was too tired to coax the small and the big every day, but with the child, he had a sense of responsibility and could not divorce casually.
In order not to clash with Jiang Shan and destroy the feelings of the two, he took over the drama one by one, trying not to be at home, he felt that if the two did not stay together, there would be no contradictions and no quarrels.
But this move caused Jiang Shan to feel that he was tired of the two of them, deliberately hiding from going home, and all the things in the family were all pressed on Jiang Shan's body, and every day was tired and sleepy.
Finally, one day, both of them accumulated a stomach full of resentment and broke out into a fierce quarrel, when Jiang Shan said the two words of divorce, Gao Shuguang was stunned for half a day, and finally slammed the door in decadence.
In 2003, the two went through divorce procedures, one stayed in Beijing, the other went to Shanghai to develop, this is the 6th year of their marriage, they finally failed to survive the seven-year itch, went to a strange road.
After the divorce, while pulling her daughter, she began to take on a large number of plays, reached a new peak in her career, and lived as a father and a mother in life, living a full and tense life.
During the time when she rotated like a top every day, she met an actor who was 9 years younger than her, and the two had a relationship because of filming and came together.
They broke up after living with Jin Dong for 5 years
It was 2006, Jiang Shan took over a play of "Sad Mother and Child", in which she played the mother of the newcomer actor Jin Dong, but after the scene was filmed, the two actually began to live together as lovers.
Jin Dong graduated from the Department of Chinese Opera Acting, and the year he took the exam, because his age was more than one year old, the school originally did not accept him, but he was a very persistent character, and he must do one thing.
Later, he directly found the teacher of the acting class, persuaded the teacher, and then got the opportunity to interview, thus becoming a member of the musical theater class.
During his time in school, he starred in many works, but they were all supporting roles, until after shooting a movie "Autumn Rain", he was nominated for the Huabiao Award for Outstanding Newcomer, and had some fame.
But after the limelight, he was still tepid, making cameo roles in some large-scale TV series, and after partnering with Jiang Shan, he slowly began to gain popularity and got more resources.
Although he has a certain popularity, compared with Jiang Shan, his fame is still a lot worse, the female is strong and the male is weak, coupled with the huge disparity in age, everyone is very unoptimistic about their combination.
Especially Jiang Shan's daughter Gao Yixin, at first she did not understand why her parents were separated, and she felt that she had two homes and was happy for a long time.
Now that she was older, she knew that her parents were separated because they were divorced, that she had no longer had a complete home, and that she could no longer hold her father in one hand and hold her mother in the other.
The daughter who was originally in the rebellious period was very sensitive to becoming a single-parent family, and her heart always hoped that her parents could reconcile with her and continue the frontier.
Jin Dong's appearance completely disrupted her plan, and she also hated Jin Dong from the bottom of her heart, very repulsive, and every time she saw Jin Dong appear in their home, she would angrily grab the door and go out.
Seeing her daughter's reaction, Jiang Shan's heart was also very unpleasant, she wanted to talk to her daughter several times, but her daughter avoided it, either turning the sound of the TV to the maximum, or closing her eyes and putting on headphones.
Perhaps because Jiang Shan said that public figures, even with their daughters, are often pointed out behind their backs, and finally their daughters can't stand it and propose to her that she wants to study abroad.
Of course, she could not let her daughter go alone, and she could not rest assured that her daughter also went abroad, and Jin Dong, because he loved her deeply, disregarded the career that had just started at home, and followed them to live abroad.
I thought that doing so would make Jiang Shan's daughter feel a little moved, so as not to stop the two of them from being together, but I didn't expect time
Year after year, they still have not been able to get Gao Yixin's blessing.
After a long delay, Jin Dong's parents and elders also began to oppose their union, and even threatened him to leave Jiang Shan by severing ties.
Jin Dong really likes Jiang Shan, he did not use Jiang Shan's fame to hype, nor did he want to be a ruthless and ungrateful villain, so he always insisted on being with Jiang Shan.
In the end, it was Still Jiang Shan who couldn't bear to spend it any longer, so she first opened her mouth to say goodbye to him, and the story of the two drew a less than satisfactory end.
After that, Jiang Shan has been accompanying her daughter abroad, and slowly adapted to being an ordinary mother, facing the sky every day, carefully preparing three meals a day for her daughter, and living a plain and comfortable life.
It wasn't until her daughter grew up that she shifted the focus of her work to China, made a comeback, filmed, went on variety shows, sang, and everything returned to the original way it was.
Different from before, at this time, her state of mind has gradually settled down, and she is not willing to touch love and love after being injured twice, but only wants to work hard, accompany her family well, and live well.
However, such a person's light-hearted nature makes her whole body reveal a noble and elegant temperament, which deeply attracts the attention of actor Tian Xiaojie.
Yu tian Xiaojie began a happy life
The two met in a party, as soon as Jiang Shan appeared that day, Tian Xiaojie's eyes could no longer move, he had long known Jiang Shan's name, but he did not expect that he was more charming than he looked on TV.
Tian Xiaojie is three years younger than Jiang Shan, the two are still alumni of Chinese opera, his mother is a theater actor, at that time he did not understand the industry, but thought it was fun to wear costumes and makeup on stage.
After graduation, he first went to work as a literary and art soldier for a few years, and then returned to his hometown, wanting to continue to study for an art school and have a stable job in the future.
Unexpectedly, I failed to pass the exam three times, and finally I had no choice but to give up, and under the arrangement of my parents, I entered the factory and became a repairman who wielded a wrench all day.
Later, he caught up with the wave of layoffs, helplessly became an unemployed person, at this time the dream of an actor in his heart rose again, and after studying hard for a while, he resolutely and resolutely applied for the Chinese opera.
That year, he was 28 years old, and during the interview, he was treated as a teacher at the school several times, but he confidently performed the teacher's questions regardless of the eyes of outsiders, and finally narrowly won and passed the exam.
Because he is not outstanding, even if he has good acting skills, he has not been able to get the favor of the director for a long time, so he has run all over the large and small crews, and finally got the opportunity to appear on camera.
Since then, he has opened up a world and won the Magnolia Award, when he was 40 years old, because he was busy with his career all day, he and his wife, who had been married for 9 years, gathered less and left more, and had no children.
In the end, the relationship broke down and came to an end, without the entanglement of marriage, he pounced more recklessly on the filming, and had no time to consider the marriage event.
But the moment Jiang Shan appeared, he once again had a heartwarming feeling, and he who usually did not like to talk would actually find a topic to chat with Jiang Shan during the meal, and carefully peel shrimp for Jiang Shan.
After cooperating several times, his intentions for Jiang Shan were already very obvious, but unfortunately, at this time, Jiang Shan was already dead in his heart, did not want to open a new relationship, and coldly rejected his overtures.
Tian Xiaojie did not give up easily, but adopted a roundabout tactic, first adding Jiang Shan's daughter's contact information, showing his determination and sincerity, hoping to get Gao Yixin's blessing.
Jiang Shan's daughter has grown up slowly, she knows her mother's hardships, and she also knows that her mother gave up love for her, and now, she has understood things, and she is also very relieved to see Tian Xiaojie cherish her mother so much.
With the support of her daughter, Tian Xiaojie's love went smoothly for a long time, and finally under the mediation of her daughter, Jiang Shan finally let go of the heavy shackles and opened a new relationship with him.
When Jiang Shan came back to the show, he mentioned "my lover" but did not say his name at the time, until December 2020, when the two publicly sprinkled sugar on social platforms to make the relationship public.
After experiencing so much, Jiang Shan finally knew that stability and steadfastness were the life she wanted most at present, and Tian Xiaojie was the one who could give her the greatest sense of security.
When filming, there will be a person to accompany her, cook, clean and other things for her, when not filming, their family of three will also play everywhere and live happily.
epilogue
After Gao Shuguang separated from Jiang Shan, he formed a new family and gave birth to a son, but this did not affect his love for his daughter in the slightest, and never let her daughter lack paternal love.
Jin Dong, whom Jiang Shan once loved deeply, met his current wife after separating under the strong opposition of his daughter and had a happy family.
Now Jiang Shan has finally found a hard-won happiness, and with the encouragement of her lover and daughter, she has stood on the stage again, chasing her dreams when she was young, and looking forward to bringing more excellent works in the future.
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