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Preamble:
In this showbiz that seems to be only possible for young people to succeed, how many people can start chasing their dreams at the age of thirty and eventually become a highly respected and powerful actor?
How many people can still maintain their original intention and find sincere love after experiencing the ups and downs of life?
Can Tian Xiaojie's story bring us some profound inspiration about dreams, perseverance and love?
Cradle of Art: The Immersion of a Quyi Family
Tian Xiaojie was born in a family of quyi artists in Jiangxi.
His parents were both artists working in related fields, and the home was full of art.
The little Tian Xiaojie often followed her parents to the theater, watched the actors make up and rehearsed backstage, and quietly enjoyed the performance in the audience.
Such an environment imperceptibly influenced Tian Xiaojie, and planted a yearning for the stage in his young heart.
However, his parents didn't want him to step into the industry.
They know that life as an artist is not easy, and they hope that their son can choose a more stable career.
Rebellious Teenager: The Other Side of Problem Students
Tian Xiaojie in childhood looked delicate and quiet on the outside, but she had a strength not to admit defeat in her heart.
At school, he was often called a parent by his teachers because of fights, and he became a "problem student" in the eyes of his classmates.
However, what is less known is that Tian Xiaojie did not fight to be strong, but to protect those classmates who were bullied.
He has his own set of views on justice, is not afraid of power, and dares to stand up.
This character trait was also fully reflected in his later acting career.
His father was very strict with Tian Xiaojie and often used "stick education" to discipline him.
This harsh education method made Tian Xiaojie feel pressure, and it also made him gradually lose interest in learning.
In the end, he chose to drop out of junior high school before graduating.
The Wandering Years: The Transition from Mechanic to Truck Driver
After leaving school, Tian Xiaojie began his part-time career.
He first worked as a mechanic in a car factory, dealing with engine oil and gasoline on a daily basis.
This job was hard and boring for the young Tian Xiaojie, but he persevered.
At work, Tian Xiaojie has shown extraordinary learning ability and sense of responsibility.
He quickly mastered the maintenance skills of various models and became the technical backbone of the factory.
However, mechanical work did not satisfy his inner desire for art.
Later, with the support of her family, Tian Xiaojie chose to become a soldier.
In the army, he found a stage to show himself.
Whenever there is a literary event, he is always the first to sign up.
Through acting in dramas and participating in various theatrical performances, the artistic fire in Tian Xiaojie's heart was rekindled.
After being discharged from the army, Tian Xiaojie tried to work in the troupe, but it did not go well.
Under his father's arrangement, he entered a factory to work.
However, fate always seemed to play tricks on him.
Within a few years, the company laid off employees due to poor management, and Tian Xiaojie lost her job again.
After being unemployed, Tian Xiaojie was not discouraged, but chose to become a truck driver.
This job gave him the opportunity to travel all over the country and see different customs.
During the long journey, he often hummed and sang the big operas he had heard since he was a child, and his inner desire for performance became stronger and stronger.
The Road to Counterattack: The Crazy Decision of the 29-year-old
In 1999, 29-year-old Tian Xiaojie saw the enrollment announcement of the Central Academy of Drama by chance.
The news was like a bolt of lightning that struck his deepest desire.
Although his relatives and friends around him thought he was "dreaming", Tian Xiaojie still made a decision that shocked everyone - he was going to the Central Academy of Drama.
With enthusiasm and longing for the future, Tian Xiaojie came to Beijing alone.
He rented a small and dark rental house, worked during the day to earn money, and studied hard at night to prepare for exams.
During those difficult days, he often went hungry because he had no money to eat, but his desire for his dreams kept him going.
Dream Moment: 30-year-old "old student"
After several months of hard preparation, Tian Xiaojie miraculously passed the exam of the Central Academy of Drama.
The moment he got his acceptance letter, tears of excitement blurred his eyes.
At the age of 30, he finally stepped into the palace of his dreams.
At school, Tian Xiaojie was the oldest student in the class.
In the face of classmates who are more than ten years younger than him, he did not feel inferior, but cherished this hard-won learning opportunity even more.
He listened carefully in class, practiced hard after class, and was often the last to leave the rehearsal room.
The students were all touched by Tian Xiaojie's persistence and hard work.
They affectionately called him "Brother Jie" and often asked him about his acting skills.
Tian Xiaojie also shared her life experience with everyone without reservation and became a life mentor for her classmates.
A hard start: a grinding career in a supporting role
In 2001, Tian Xiaojie participated in the TV series "The Years of Burning Passion" and officially entered the showbiz.
However, as an "old" newcomer, Tian Xiaojie did not receive much attention.
He can only start with a few small supporting roles and slowly accumulate experience.
During this period, Tian Xiaojie took on many inconspicuous roles.
Sometimes I can only receive one or two plays a month, and my income is meager and my life is difficult.
But he never complains, but takes every role as an opportunity to learn, carefully figure out the characters, and strive to improve his acting skills.
Emotional Transition: Acquaintance and Marriage with Zeng Ping
In 2003, during a filming opportunity, Tian Xiaojie met the choreographer Zeng Ping.
The two quickly became acquainted because of their common work experience, and often discussed scripts together and chatted about their life ideals.
Zeng Ping was attracted by Tian Xiaojie's talent and tenacity, and Tian Xiaojie was also moved by Zeng Ping's gentleness and thoughtfulness.
After getting along for a while, the two decided to enter the palace of marriage.
However, life after marriage is not as good as imagined.
In order to pursue her acting career, Tian Xiaojie often goes out early and returns late, and rarely has time to spend with his wife.
Although Zeng Ping understands her husband's dreams, she inevitably feels lonely and lost.
Career breakthrough: A turning point in Before Dawn
In 2010, Tian Xiaojie ushered in a turning point in her career.
He played a complex villain role in the TV series "Before Dawn", and won unanimous praise from the audience and industry insiders for his superb acting skills.
This role allowed Tian Xiaojie to show his acting skills accumulated over the years.
His "sharp as a torch" eyes made the audience feel the inner struggle and complexity of the character.
After the broadcast of this drama, Tian Xiaojie's name began to be known to more people.
Marriage breakdown: a career versus family dilemma
With the rise of her career, Tian Xiaojie has more and more time to work, and less and less time to spend with his wife Zeng Ping.
The relationship between the two has gradually cracked.
In 2012, after nine years of marriage, Zeng Ping filed for divorce.
This decision shocked and saddened Tian Xiaojie.
Only then did he realize that in the process of pursuing his career, he neglected to care for and accompany his wife.
After the divorce, Tian Xiaojie fell into deep self-blame and reflection.
He began to think about the balance between career and family, and he also cherished the people and things around him more.
Reborn: Encounters with Jiang Shan and the reorganization of the family
In 2016, at a gathering of friends, Tian Xiaojie met actor Jiang Shan, who also experienced a failed marriage.
Both are over half a hundred years old, but they find resonance in each other.
Jiang Shan admired Tian Xiaojie's talent and personality, while Tian Xiaojie was attracted by Jiang Shan's elegance and wisdom.
The two began a low-key relationship.
In this relationship, Tian Xiaojie showed maturity and thoughtfulness that was different from the previous marriage.
When Jiang Shan's father fell ill, he took the initiative to take care of him for three days and won the favor of Jiang Shan's entire family.
In 2018, Tian Xiaojie and Jiang Shan decided to join hands in the palace of marriage.
This time, he learned how to balance career and family, and often prepared small surprises for his wife, so that life was full of warmth and sweetness.
The pinnacle of life: a double harvest of acting and life
Today's Tian Xiaojie is already a well-respected and powerful actor in the film and television industry.
He has won several awards for his superb acting skills, including important honors such as the Magnolia Award.
In his personal life, he and Jiang Shan had a happy marriage.
The two often walk and exercise together, enjoying a plain and warm life.
Tian Xiaojie also became a good friend of Jiang Shan's daughter, and they formed a harmonious family.
Epilogue:
Tian Xiaojie's story is, to some extent, an allegory about never giving up.
His experience tells us that there is no age limit for dreams, and as long as there is perseverance and hard work, it is never too late.
At the same time, his marriage experience also reminds us not to neglect the most important people and things in life while pursuing career success.
So, in the face of various challenges in life, can we also be like Tian Xiaojie, maintain our dedication to our dreams, continue to grow in setbacks, and finally find a balance between career and life?
This may be the most valuable inspiration that Tian Xiaojie's story gives us.