01 Preface
There are countless actors who have become popular in the entertainment industry, and there are not a few actors who are not popular in the play, and Du Yulu is one of them.
The roles he played in such film and television works as "The Gate of the Great Mansion", "The Dark War Before the Dawn", "Yongzheng Dynasty", "Highlighting the Siege" and so on, let the audience still remember it vividly.
Whether he plays a decent person or a villain, a common man or an officer and soldier, the protagonist or a dragon suit, Du Yulu will grasp the characteristics of the character to the extreme.
However, it is such an old drama bone who is acting online and brings good works to the audience with his heart, and was unfortunately diagnosed with lung cancer in 2009;
He fought cancer for more than 10 years, but in the Spring Festival of 2020, he finally left us forever.
Du Yulu, an old drama bone, has been a low-key person all his life and does things in a high profile; When he left during the epidemic, he was afraid of causing trouble for the country, and he liked to be quiet before he died, so his funeral was simple, and only 6 people were present.
Although there were not many people present, the majority of netizens have posted: I hope that the old man will go all the way, and may there be no illness in heaven.
Du Yulu's death made netizens feel that there was one less powerful actor in the world, and directly pushed his children and wife into the abyss of pain, especially his wife Zhu Yongyu.
The two have been together for nearly 60 years, and the death of their lover has brought Zhu Yongyu back to the memories of spending time with her husband.
The bits and pieces of the past are vivid to Zhu Yongyu, just like what happened yesterday.
Whenever Zhu Yongyu was extremely sad, she could always remember what her husband said before he died: "The universe is so big, we will eventually meet." ”
She knew that her husband wanted her to live strong and optimistically.
Now that Teacher Du Yulu has left us for 2 years, has his wife Zhu Yongyu come out of her sad mood?
02
Du Yulu was born in war-torn China, his hometown is in Harbin, Heilongjiang, his parents are ordinary people, but du's father Andu's mother still let his son insist on reading and reading.
In the blink of an eye, Du Yulu grew up, and during his studies, he and Zhu Yongyu were classmates and had a good relationship;
At the age of the beginning of the love sinus, du Yulu, who is sunny and handsome, and Zhu Yongyu, who is beautiful and generous, have secret feelings for each other.
Zhu Yongyu is a well-known beauty in school, she is not only beautiful, but also has a good family, which makes many boys who want to chase her discouraged.
Other students can also see the two of them' thoughts about each other, and even some students sighed: "Rain and dew is a good fate, and they are caught by such a big beauty." ”
Zhu Yongyu even secretly decided: if she wanted to marry someone in this life, she would directly give du Yulu, and there would be no one else else.
Both of them are extremely talented in performance and art, and because of this, the two of them have a lot in common, and they both want to have a certain degree of achievement in art and make some achievements.
In 1960, Du Yulu and Zhu Yongyu graduated from school.
Du Yulu was admitted to the Harbin Drama Theatre and became a drama actor, although it started from the nameless little horn, but he also felt that the future could be expected; Zhu Yongyu was admitted to the Harbin Children's Palace with excellent results and became a dance teacher.
After joining the work, the two of them planned their beautiful future together.
Soon, they reached the point of talking about marriage, and when they met their parents, Du Yulu's parents did not have any opinions, and even smiled and blossomed on their faces;
However, Zhu Yongyu's parents felt that Du Yulu was poor and white, and he had no ability and no fame, and his family conditions were also average, and he would definitely live a hard life when he married.
Which parents do not feel sorry for their children, Zhu's father and mother Zhu directly denied this family affair for the sake of their daughter's lifelong happiness.
People who love you will do everything they can to prove themselves to you and your family, du Yulu is.
After being rejected by his father-in-law and mother-in-law, he did not give up his beloved, nor did he let Zhu Yongyu find a better condition, but said to her: "Wait for me for two years, just two years, I want your parents to prove that I have the ability to let you live a good life." ”
And Zhu Yongyu also grabbed Du Yulu's hand and said affectionately: "Yulu, I believe in you, I will work hard with you, and we will prove to my parents that we will be happy with our own efforts." ”
The most beautiful love in the world is to go in both directions.
There is pressure and motivation, In order to marry his beloved as soon as possible, Du Yulu in the drama theater in addition to hard practice acting, diligent practice, more learning and more questions;
And in order to gain a firm foothold in the troupe as soon as possible and get along well with his leading colleagues, he rushed to do all the dirty work.
As long as there is pay, there is a return.
With Du Yulu's own efforts, he soon went from playing passerby A and cannon fodder B to having his own name.
Zhu Yongyu was also very excited to see her boyfriend's efforts and achievements, and she began to constantly persuade her parents with facts, but Zhu's father, Zhu's mother, always said: "Observe and observe again." ”
And Du Yulu, who has achieved a little, does not feel that he has succeeded, he knows that only by working harder can he spend the rest of his life with his beloved her.
This belief has always been in his heart, and soon, within two years, Du Yulu has changed from an unknown corner to a male number one and two in the troupe.
He took this achievement to the door to propose to him, zhu Yongyu's parents saw that he was so persevering and motivated, so they relaxed their marriage.
In 1962, Du Yulu and Zhu Yongyu, lovers, finally entered the palace of happy marriage.
They all cherish this hard-won positive result, they respect each other, they respect each other, and they are silently supporting each other's cause.
Du Yulu's career slowly began to take off, and he has starred in dramas such as "Harbin at Night" and "Dead Ring", which has aroused enthusiastic response in the local area;
Suddenly, Du Yulu became a celebrity in the Harbin drama circle, and many audiences would go to see his plays as soon as they had time.
Career started, family happiness, Du Yulu felt for a moment that he had reached the peak of his life;
However, the happy life did not last long, and Du Yulu and Zhu Yongyu's small family changed.
During that time, when Du Yulu was rehearsing "Night Sea Battle Song", he got up every morning as usual to clean up, and went to the theater to memorize lines and play against each other;
However, one day, as soon as he arrived at the unit, he saw many announcements about him, all of which were criticized by him without exception.
In that special era at that time, Du Yulu changed from a drama actor to a porter.
He carried the goods on the train every day, which was arguably his hardest time, but he also gained a different experience.
Whether it is windy or raining, every day before dawn, Du Yulu has to go to move goods, and it is dark and cannot go home.
When he is hungry, he eats hard steamed buns, and when he is thirsty, he will find some water to drink, and sometimes when he eats and rests at noon, he always swallows the hard steamed buns into his stomach, and then seizes the time to lie on the ground and sleep for a while.
It is no exaggeration to say that he can almost lie down and fall asleep.
Although these days were bitter, it also allowed Du Yulu to see the world.
Although he became a porter, the seed of the actor still sprouted in his heart, and he found that there were many people with different professions in the place where he moved goods, and the form and appearance of each profession were different.
Du Yulu also fantasized that he could one day return to the stage, and he took this as a firm belief;
So he began to figure out the behavior and behavior of these characters, communicate and talk, and remembered them all in his heart.
Over time, he also regarded figuring out the characters in his life as a pleasure.
After Du Yulu moved goods on the train for a while, he arranged for him to go to the grain depot, although he was still physically active, but this was much easier than before, and he still had a salary of 100 yuan per month.
This salary was a large amount at that time, and Du Yulu also relied on 100 yuan per month to let his family live a relatively rich life.
In 1969, Du Yulu returned to the repertory theatre, and he began to stand on the stage again, bringing wonderful performances to the audience.
This performance is another ten years.
03
Du Yulu, who returned to the stage, not only relied on his former performance skills, but also integrated his experience in life into the performance.
As the saying goes: art comes from life.
This time back to his acting skills have a qualitative leap, and gold will shine everywhere, in 1979, a director wanted to invite Du Yulu to act in the movie "Treacherous Details".
Du Yulu is naturally very happy, he feels that this is also an opportunity to improve his acting skills, but he said to the director in an attitude of being responsible for the audience and himself:
"I don't have any requirements for anything else, as long as the quality of the script is passed, everything else is easy to say."
The director asked him to read the script first, and if he could discuss other aspects.
After completing the script once, Du Yulu happily agreed to the director and began to shoot accurately;
At this time, Du Yulu was over forty years old, and had been groping and playing on the actor's road for nearly twenty years;
However, he still took out the working state when he first entered the industry, and carefully studied and analyzed the personality of the characters.
Du Yulu, who starred in film and television works for the first time, successfully interpreted the role and conquered the audience in front of the TV set with excellent acting skills.
Du Yulu feels that film and television dramas are a feasible road, but his age is very embarrassing in the circle.
Young people can't act, playing old people is questioned, so there is no director to invite him to play the main role, just some supporting roles to find him cameo.
He was also aware of his situation and never complained about the situation, and his wife Zhu Yongyu also encouraged him:
"Old Du, since you like it, you can do it, because you don't act to be famous, not to make a lot of money, only for the dream of an actor in your heart, and now you can raise a family, I have always been behind you." 」
Du Yulu heard his wife's comfort, felt a lot of relief in his heart, he also felt that his wife said very reasonable, sometimes he was thinking: after so many years of acting, do you remember why you chose this line of work? The most important thing for people is not to forget their original intentions.
In the process of Du Yulu taking over the role, his wife not only gave him spiritual encouragement, but even in terms of casting, Zhu Yongyu carefully selected for her husband and analyzed it carefully.
Du Yulu received the role with the help of his wife, coupled with his own speculation, although it is a supporting role, but it also left a deep impression on the audience.
He has played supporting roles in film and television dramas for nearly 20 years, run dragon sets for 20 years, and he has also precipitated for 20 years.
During this time, he knew that the only thing he could do was to polish his acting skills and improve himself with his heart.
Du Yulu's precipitation was not in vain, and in 1999, the "Yongzheng Dynasty" crew found him and hoped that he could play Zhang Tingyu.
As soon as this drama was broadcast, it was widely sought after, and both men and women, young and old, fell in love with this drama, and it was this role that made 58-year-old Du Yulu become a household name overnight.
Later, when any actor plays Zhang Tingyu, the audience will compare it with Du Yulu;
In the hearts of the audience, Zhang Tingyu, played by Du Yulu, has become a classic role that no one can surpass, so he also has the title of "Zhang Tingyu's first person".
Also in 1999, the crew of "Highlighting the Siege" found Du Yulu and invited him to play the main role of the play.
Du Yulu, who heard the word "protagonist", instantly stood at the door of the house and could not speak, he was unbelievable, so many years, no one had ever looked for him to play the protagonist;
He was somewhat flattered, or his wife beckoned the crew to the family to please, Du Yulu eased up.
Although the smile had overflowed his face, Du Yulu still asked to read the script and then say that he could not pick it up.
He said to the staff: "I am very happy that you are looking for me to play the main role, but I need to read the script and then decide whether to pick up or not, give me some time, it will not be too long, and then I will contact you." ”
The crew also admired Du Yulu's working attitude and style, and they agreed to his request.
After Du Yulu sent off the crew, she locked herself in her room for 5 days, except for eating and sleeping and going to the toilet, the rest of the time was studying the script and figuring out the characters.
5 days later, he came out of the room, and his wife, Zhu Yongyu, was startled and said:
"Old Du, you are willing to come out of the room, these five days of studying the script face is not washed, how are you studying?"
"Go wash up and eat."
Du Yulu did not seem to listen to his wife's words, and while he was with his wife, he picked up the phone at home, dialed the crew, and said:
"When is filming going, when am I going to pass?"
Zhu Yongyu saw her husband like this, smiled helplessly, and then urged him to hurry up and finish eating.
The director on the other end of the phone heard Du Yulu so excited, and he was also very excited and said: "Teacher Du, just waiting for you, when will you come, when will we shoot." ”
"Wait for me."
After Du Yulu finished speaking, she quickly hung up the phone, ate two mouthfuls of food, and then said to his wife while eating: "Quickly help me pack my bags, I am going to the crew, this play is too good, I can't miss it." ”
Sure enough, Du Yulu's vision is accurate, and the broadcast of this drama makes people seem to see the awakening of the once sleeping male lion.
Du Yulu is this lion, and he also won the best actor award for this drama.
His wife was tearful at the sight of her husband's success, and she knew how difficult it was for her husband to go along the way.
Later, when Du Yulu reviewed this memory, he said:
"Every script I choose carefully, even if it is a small role, I have to figure out his inner changes thoroughly, not to mention the role of such a big male protagonist;"
"I've been waiting for this opportunity for a long time, it's coming, I've got it, and since I've decided to act, I'm going to act beautifully or not."
Du Yulu's spirit is still worth learning from any of us.
Subsequently, more and more crews found Du Yulu, "The Gate of the Mansion", "Red Sun", etc., although people became popular, but he did not regard himself as a star celebrity, but continued to sink his heart to think about the inner world of the character.
Sometimes on the road, his fans will excitedly ask for a group photo when they see him, and he always looks approachable, and always says in his mouth:
"Thank you for enjoying my play, I will try to bring you better works."
Du Yulu began to have a smooth ride in his career, as did his family.
Since Du Yulu began to have a small reputation, he was always too busy to eat well, which made his wife sad;
Therefore, Zhu Yongyu simply resigned from his job at the Harbin Cultural Palace and concentrated on taking care of her husband's three meals a day at home.
Zhu Yongyu knows that her husband sometimes forgets to eat because of her research role, so she learns more cuisine and studies dishes diligently, in order to make Du Yulu eat two more bites and protect her body.
Moreover, after Zhu Yongyu resigned, she took the initiative to take on all the affairs of the family, including the daily life and education of the three children.
The days are uneventful, the three children of the two of them have also grown up, under good tutoring, they do not rely on the aura of their father, and rely on themselves to fight for their own world.
Du Yulu was very pleased, his wife was virtuous, and accompanied him for decades; The three children are also very filial and will return home regularly to visit their parents no matter how busy they are.
Just when Du Yulu felt that he had become a winner in life;
In 2009, while filming "Darkness Before Dawn", he suddenly had a high fever and was sent to the hospital for treatment but was diagnosed with lung cancer.
When Du Yulu saw the report, he felt that people ate grains and grains, and who were not sick, and his optimistic attitude did not make him feel that things had developed to the point where they could not be cleaned up;
But his wife and children felt that the sky was about to fall.
Zhu Yongyu washed her face with tears every day, but she didn't want her husband to worry, so she secretly cried every time and then went to take care of her husband.
Du Yulu also sensed the change in his wife's mentality, so he often comforted her and asked her to treat her illness with a normal heart.
Moreover, Du Yulu and his wife said:
"I don't want to delay the filming progress of the crew, it is now half shot, if I quit now, it will be a great loss to the crew, Wing Yu, can you understand me right?"
Zhu Yongyu was completely in tears, she had followed her husband for most of her life, she knew her husband too well, if she didn't let him continue to star, it would be worse than killing him.
So, she tearfully agreed to her husband, and only put forward one condition, that is: do not force the body, if you feel any discomfort, stop shooting, hospitalization.
Du Yulu agreed to his wife's request.
He dragged the sick body to the crew, insisted on shooting all his scenes, and sometimes the cancer cells tortured him to death, so he took painkillers to continue shooting.
Zhu Yongyu took care of her husband in the crew, calmed his emotions, and helped him memorize lines; He also cooks nutritious meals for him every day.
Under the company and care of his wife, Du Yulu insisted on filming all the scenes in this drama.
The whole crew admired Mr. Du's tenacious and dedicated spirit.
In the following time, Du Yulu left everything behind and treated the disease with peace of mind.
Fortunately, his cancer cells were detected early and timely intervention could be effectively controlled;
Unfortunately, as Du Yulu's age increases, his immunity declines, and although he can control cancer, he will continue to recur.
Until the Spring Festival in 2020, the day of family reunion, other people's homes are full of joy and laughter, but in Du Yulu's family, they are sad and sad.
Du Yulu's condition recurred, and the children rushed to send their father to the hospital, but they were stopped by their father.
"During the epidemic, many inconveniences still do not add trouble to the country."
Du Yulu used all his strength to tell his family that when he ran out of oil, he still comforted his family: "We will always see each other again, don't be too sad." ”
"You have to be strong and live optimistically, Wing Yu."
This sentence made Zhu Yongyu, who pretended to be strong, no longer be able to bear it, and she cried loudly in front of her husband, but how many tears did not buy her husband's life.
On February 21, 2020, 79-year-old Du Yulu left this world forever.
During the special period, only 6 people were present at the funeral, and his daughter simply announced the death of her father on social platforms.
05 Conclusion
After sending her husband on her last journey, Zhu Yongyu washed her face with tears every day, and the children tried various ways to get their mother out of the pain of loss, but to no avail.
In desperation, the children had to move out of their fathers again: "Mom, my father must want you to live a healthy and optimistic life, have you forgotten what he said to you at the end?" ”
Zhu Yongyu heard her children's words and suddenly realized that sooner or later she would suffer from her body if she continued like this, and she offered to go back to her hometown and return to the small home where she had once been with Du Yulu.
Although the child was not at ease, he agreed to her so that his mother could be relieved.
Back to the original place, Zhu Yongyu felt that she had long lost the feeling of that year, but all the furnishings in the home were still arranged according to the way her husband was before he was born, so that she always felt that her husband was still by her side, and she was still a little relieved.
Over the years, although Zhu Yongyu will often miss her husband, she has taken him as her motivation to live;
She was slowly letting go, and she remembered her husband's words: live strong and optimistic.
Death is not the end, forgetting is.
Although Mr. Du has left us, his optimism, professionalism and classic works have always remained in our hearts.
I hope that in the future, Zhu Yongyu can take good care of her body and face all the difficulties in life strongly.
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