I, home in Wuhan, in early 2013 I married at the age of 28, married for more than 6 years a total of 4 pregnancies, and finally successfully gave birth to a daughter in September 2018, now the baby has just turned 2 years old, I now want to share my difficult experience, I hope to give some reference and encouragement to the sisters who encountered difficulties on the road to pregnancy.
There have been two fetal stops, 1 single cashmere double sheep twin breakage, and the fourth time to successfully give birth to the baby. The first pregnancy, at the end of 2014, the first trimester was almost 3 months brown, scared to go to the hospital for examination, the B ultrasound result was empty sac, the doctor announced the fetal stop, when the first time I heard about the fetal stop, and I did not have such a case around me, unlike now so much, the doctor said: survival of the fittest, embryo quality is not good, is my bad luck, encountered a small probability event, the next pregnancy will not have any problems, now can only clear the uterus, I can only follow the doctor's words, and tested the embryonic tissue, the test fee is 200 yuan I don't understand, I will do what the doctor says, and I completely believe the doctor's words. It was general anesthesia, and I went home on the same day as the surgery.
After a period of conditioning, also did some basic examinations, no problem, I began to actively prepare for pregnancy again, in December 2015, I became pregnant for the second time, with the last failure, this time carefully, the frequency of going to the hospital is also more diligent, the doctor prescribed the fetal medicine is progesterone, at 8 weeks to see the original heart tube beat, vaguely saw 2 small gestational sacs, the heart is very happy, I am 30 years old, when the mother's mood is very eager, however, the next time I go to the hospital for obstetric examination B super-overtheses is' Fetal stop', I was stunned, sitting on a bench in the corridor, I cried, I couldn't believe the report sheet in front of me, would I be mistaken, my husband took me to a hospital to check, or got the same result, the in-laws learned the news, also rushed from their hometown immediately, silent prayer, could not believe the results in front of them, helpless or did the clearance surgery, is general anesthesia, and lived in the hospital for a few days. I realized that I needed to do a comprehensive physical examination, what exactly caused the failure again and again, the doctor asked me if I was willing to check the embryo, of course I wanted to check, spent 3200 yuan to do the embryo genetic test, to see if it is the cause of the embryonic gene mutation, but the test result is normal.
Due to multiple surgeries, my menstruation is not good, the amount is less black, is the uterine adhesion, this is really terrible, because of the first trimester to eat fetal protection pills, the gestational sac adheres to the uterine wall is relatively tight, plus the doctor's method of clearing the uterus, my uterine wall was scraped thin, and had to do several hysteroscopic separation surgeries, the first time is the upper ring, after 2-3 months to take the ring, when taking the ring, it was found that my adhesion was more serious and did not meet the standards of the ring and then on the ring, the 3rd time to remove the ring, each hysteroscopic operation is general anesthesia, plus the uterine surgery general anesthesia I now have a memory loss, my brain is not good, and I even suspect that the anesthetic is too much. There was no way, I could only continue to take medicine to regulate menstruation. Because good menstruation is the root of pregnancy. Some people may say, then you don't choose general anesthesia, there is local anesthesia and no anesthesia, yes, I also know, I have also tried, once chose not to fight any anesthetic, but when I saw those surgical instruments shaking in front of my eyes, my legs were trembling, constantly shaking, the doctor looked contemptuous, never saw me like this, so temporarily on the anesthesia, only to successfully complete the operation. Another choice is local anesthesia, I cried in pain in the operating room, the doctor thought I did not cooperate with him, while intimidating me while operating, I was driven on the operating table, as if it was the meat on the chopping board, fortunately the little nurse around me clenched my hand, it was not easy to insist on doing the hysteroscopy, so since then I only choose general anesthesia, it may be that I am more fragile and not so strong, it may also be related to the degree of my adhesion, anyway, the hysteroscopy is really painful, so that as long as I hear the hysteroscope, my heart is resistant.
The above experience is a dark and physically hurtful experience, why do I say so, because up to this point, I have had 1 hysteroscopic surgery, 2 fetal ceteration surgeries, 5 hysteroscopic supine circumference surgeries, and each time it is general anesthesia. Later, I found out that I was overmediated, because some of them were not needed at all, and in the final analysis, it was because I did not choose the right hospital, I did not choose the right doctor, and I could only blame myself for not understanding it very well and suffering a lot of losses. Let's talk about my earliest 1 operation hysteroscopic surgery, I was not married in early 2013, I have not been pregnant after marriage, so I went to the hospital to do relevant examinations, the result is that my uterus is complete mediastinum + teratoma, it is congenital, the middle of the uterus is divided into two spaces by a section of diaphragm, the doctor suggested that I surgically remove the mediastinum to remove the teratoma, on the one hand, it is convenient to get pregnant, on the other hand, even if the baby is pregnant, there is more room for activity, after considering for a period of time, it is still decided to do surgery, Because there is no other problem hope to get pregnant as soon as possible, after the operation I have 3 holes in the stomach, so far the mark is still there, fortunately after the operation 6 months I was pregnant, it was the doctor who wanted me to get pregnant after the operation 6 months, to give the uterus a period of time to recover, in the back experience also confirmed that I belong to the infertile physique, after mastering the method of pregnancy, I am not difficult to conceive, but it is difficult to conceive、、、、
What the hell is wrong with me, all these years I have been running to the hospital, taking countless medicines, not only did not find the reason but also damaged my body. After two fetal stops, the doctors in Wuhan can't say 1, 2, 3, I don't quite believe in the medical level here, pregnancy is a natural thing, I was messed up, fortunately, my husband has been supporting me and encouraging me. I began to frantically look up information and cases on the Internet, and finally found a group of people who were like me, many of them had successfully given birth to babies in Shanghai, and I cheered, as if I saw the light. I check the strategy, do homework, add a lot of groups, do not understand the question, walk in front of the sisters are very enthusiastic, patient answers, in June 2016 I went to Shanghai to find hope, I looked at Dr. Yu, did a lot of examinations, the second time to Shanghai to get the program, got the conclusion is cellular immune disorders, prescribed drugs are conventional drugs aspirin, prednisone, low molecular weight heparin. According to the pregnancy plan, I got pregnant in the first month of pregnancy, it was October 2016, this is the third pregnancy, thinking, this time finally found the right organization, I want to follow the Shanghai doctor's plan, I will be as successful as other sisters.
I asked the unit for 2 months of leave, these 2 months, I followed the doctor's steps to do the examination, during the period of glass heart, morning sickness, daily heparin and other people who have experienced it understand, are understood by both physical and psychological pressure. It is worth mentioning that the B ultrasound I did a week ago is a single tire, a week later to do B ultrasound into twins, is a single cashmere double sheep, even Dr. Yu took out his mobile phone to take a photo of the B ultrasound before and after 2 times, this probability is still not much, that kind of joy is really unable to express in words, the original lost baby has returned. I live in Shanghai is living in a friend's house, every time I go to the hospital to take the subway to take more than 1 hour, I remember once in the transfer, can't help it, just spit on the side of the roadside garbage can vomit, spit yellow water, this is the norm every day, because of the twins, my morning sickness is more intense, every morning before dinner three times vomiting, vomiting darkly, spitting out the throat are broken spit out dark red blood, sometimes get up in the middle of the night to vomit once, spit out the heart to be more cheerful. Because I live in a friend's house, I always vomit and worry about people's feelings, I am outside to find a place to vomit and then come back. Eat nothing during the day without appetite, eat very little, but also hungry, try a lot of food is not OK, often cook some tangyuan after 11 o'clock in the evening to fill the stomach, only eat this stomach is not uncomfortable, heparin is 60 yuan 1 injection, 1 injection a day, there is no place on the belly is normal, all are dark green, but also ate some other conventional drugs, so smoothly spent the first trimester.
After 3 months, I still remember that day, December 19, 2016, I returned to Wuhan from Shanghai, I treated myself as a normal pregnant woman to go to a hospital obstetrics and gynecology report closer to my home, listened to my experience, the obstetrician thought I was at high risk and refused to accept me. No way, I entrusted a friend to build a file in Wuhan Xiehe. At home, my mother ate and drank well and waited for me, and my husband and I envisioned whether it was two baby boys or two baby girls, and also prepared the name of the child... After returning, I also went to the unit to report, but I didn't work for two days, I felt so tired, I couldn't walk, I sat in my position, I was uncomfortable, and I took another leave. In order to avoid bumps on the road, we did not go back to our hometown for the New Year for the first time, the night of the second year of junior high school, I felt that the vagina had a foreign body sensation when I urinated, touched it, I touched something, I felt that the situation was not good, my husband rushed to drive me to the hospital closer to home, the doctor of the inpatient department helped me look at it, and also called my husband to see, saying that he had seen the child's feet. At this time, I was 4 1/2 months pregnant. The hospital said a bunch of words, I didn't listen to a word, quickly turned around and rushed to my filing hospital - Wuhan Xiehe, arrived in the early morning, just my attending doctor Dr. Zhao was on duty, I was pushed on the operating table, Dr. Zhao gave me a treatment, pulled out the baby that fell out, the other one was still in the stomach, the cervical opening was tied, it was a boy. Writing this, I feel so sad in my heart, and the past scenes cannot be looked back. The next step is to fight the infection, the infection is well controlled, and the one in the stomach can be saved, but according to past experience, there is no successful case, the doctor said. No matter what, as long as there is a glimmer of hope, I will stick to it. At this time, I first heard that cervical skills were incomplete.
Every day in the non-stop infusion, and conventional blood tests, indwelling needles inserted in the back of the hand have not been removed, the back of the hand is swollen, and then the indwelling needle can not be pierced into the vein, because it is the New Year period, the hospital doctors are not many, no one told me too much disease, I am still full of hope, as long as I can control the infection, there is hope to keep the baby in the belly, has been the mother and husband in the hospital to accompany me. By the seventh day of the doctors were at work, I was in the inpatient department of the tube bed attending doctor came to check the room, this is the first time I saw him, they were direct, crackled a lot, said can not stay, can only clear the palace, my head buzzed, I slept on the bed holding the doctor's hand, with tears praying, help me stay ok, stay ok or not.
No, you can only clear the palace, otherwise the adults will not be able to keep it. The last straw in my heart was pulled. Washing my face with tears every day, that kind of mood I have never experienced before, that kind of mood is despair, really, it is despair. In the hospital with the husband to talk about the most is divorce, to find another woman to have a child, I am really too painful, others have a child is a very natural thing, how to me, it has become incomparably difficult, I do not want to bear the sin of having a child, I also want to live in the future, just live alone. I know that my husband is also under a lot of pressure, running on all three sides of the home, hospital, and unit every day, and everything outside is handled by him, but he is always enlightening me, comforting me, encouraging me, saying that if there is no child, then we will both live. Every time we talked, he was steadfast, I couldn't believe it, but I couldn't just delay people like that, I thought to myself. While I was planning my life after the divorce, with these mental preparations, I could accept the reality in front of me.
According to the doctor's advice, I began to eat a lot of non-myristone, one night at three or four o'clock in the morning, my stomach began to hurt, a blood red under my body, I was pushed into the delivery room, there was a big belly waiting to give birth, and there was a poor me. The blood is still flowing slowly, soaking one nursing mattress after another, the blood in the heart is even more slippery flow, I have no expression, the whole process of the midwifery nurse wants me to use how hard I cooperate with her, thinking in my heart, blood, flow, flow, flow, I admit that I have fallen, there has been a thought of death. Finally, the child came out, did not let me see, the cervix had 2 cm tear, made sutures. About 1,000 milliliters of blood was shed, and the doctor asked me to pay attention to eating more blood-replenishing foods. Due to the serious damage to the body's vitality, let me be discharged from the hospital first, eat a lot of non-myristone at home, and come to the hospital again a week later to re-check the uterus, because there are still placental residues that can only be cleared by the uterine clearance... This time Qing Palace, the whole time is a sober state, because there is no anesthetic, I am very painful, because there is no strength, people are weak, the whole time is low in howling, the mother waiting outside can hear clearly. On the operating table next to me, it took about 10 minutes to do it, I did it for an hour, also because there was adhesion, the doctor was not very good to clean, the doctor saw that I could not support it, it stopped, but it was not cleaned, and I needed to do the operation again. At that time, when I was done, I went home, let me continue to eat non-myristone, so that the residue on the uterine wall did not stick so tightly, and the operation cost only more than 1,000 yuan, which was the cheapest 1 time.
I was really afraid, the Qing Palace was like a flood beast to me. After almost 2 weeks, as promised, I came to the Union Hospital again, and did the second painful clearance, the doctor was still very patient with me, after all, I was time-consuming and laborious and difficult to do, and in the same time, they could complete several surgeries. Facts have proved that there is still a guarantee in a large hospital, my two uterine clearance operations in this hospital have not caused adhesions, they never do painless, it is for the good of the patient, what I did before is also in the top three hospitals in Wuhan, but there are still many differences, now look back, really should not, this is a lesson in exchange for their own body.
Back at home, I don't go out, I don't want to see anyone, I'm depressed, do I still want to have a baby? Can I have children? Playing with the mobile phone aimlessly every day, checking some things that are not, surrogacy is more suitable for me, and I also checked some information about surrogacy. Doctors suspect cervical inadequacy, but further tests are needed to confirm the diagnosis, and if this is the case, circumcision is required. Later, I did not do the relevant examination, first raise the body, the body is their own. I am very weak, every night I sleep will be sweaty, I asked the unit for a small maternity leave, originally resigned the idea of continuous, but forced by the pressure of life, had to bow to reality, after the end of the vacation and then returned to the unit to work in April 17, my job position has also been adjusted, and can not manage so much.
I suddenly found Dr. Liu's Weibo on the Internet, she is a cervical expert, specializing in cervical skills are incomplete, just in the same hospital as me to see the fetal stop, I frantically look for successful cases about her and her patients, every day after work, will learn popular science knowledge in her WeChat group, life seems to have ignited hope again, yes, Dr. Liu is my savior.
After the failure of this pregnancy, it can be said that my body collapsed, not at all like before, and may have something to do with age. After entering the summer of 2017, I will moxibustion every day, moxibustion stomach, moxibustion knee, moxibustion ankle, where uncomfortable moxibustion, and even moxibustion over the back and head, just at the beginning will moxibustion out of a layer of water, the back is slowly better, moxibustion is very useful to me, I regulate menstruation myself, I did not go to the hospital to find a doctor to prescribe medicine, are their own home remedies, every day will drink conditioning medicine, not Western medicine, are partial Chinese medicine, supplement the body and menstruation, pray not to stick; On the other hand, it is also strengthening exercise, to exercise and lose weight, because these years of various hormone drugs have not stopped, the body is also fat, and has not eaten spicy, spicy will lead to inflammation, my uterus is not allowed, so there are many years are light taste, which is not spicy for me, is also a helpless choice. My husband accompanied me to exercise, the two of us, only ate steamed potatoes and sweet potatoes for dinner, after eating and resting for half an hour, I began to jump exercises, spinning bicycles, and flat supports to change, and after exercise, I sweated and felt comfortable. This is what we have agreed to stick to. Fortunately, my uterus did not live up to my expectations, although this time 2 times the uterus was cleared, there was no adhesion, and I did a three-dimensional B ultrasound before I was pregnant, and no adhesions were shown.
On November 2, 2017, I plucked up the courage to go to Shanghai with questions to find Dr. Liu, a cervical expert, and came to the South Hospital, and the registration fee at that time was 400 yuan. The hospital was crowded with people from all over the country who came to look for her, and I waited from 8 a.m. to 9 p.m. until my turn because I wasn't pregnant yet, and most of the patients here were pregnant, and pregnant women were preferred. Dr. Liu is very intellectual, very capable and crisp, she thinks that it is not yet possible to draw conclusions on this, need to observe after pregnancy, need to stay by her side, once found abnormal immediately for surgery, and my previous uterine malformations, is also a difficult point, but I am still sure. Listening to Dr. Liu's words, my confidence in the future has added another point. At the same time, I went to see Dr. Yu of the Reproductive Immunology Department and prescribed some pre-pregnancy medication. Back in Wuhan, I lived my old life again, practicing my body for pregnancy. Good thing is, my menstruation is good, after all, I have done so many surgeries, good menstruation can explain a lot of problems, the thickness of the intima is OK, ovulation is normal, the key is that there is no adhesion, which is the most gratifying thing for me.
I plucked up enough courage, years later I began to prepare for pregnancy, 2018 38 Women's Day, I have a premonition to get pregnant this month, it is true, this is the fourth pregnancy. I then took a long vacation with the company, came to Shanghai on March 13, and then my mother came to take care of my diet and living, we lived in the living room of the daily rental house near the hospital, the daily rent was 60 yuan, not good, but in order to save the cost of the back, and then my husband also quit his job in Wuhan, drove to Shanghai with pots and pans, rented a house to find a job, we were ready for a long-term struggle in Shanghai. In the first trimester of pregnancy, I protected the fetus in the Reproductive Immunology Department of the East Hospital, Dr. Yu treated the problem of cellular immune disorders for me, using heparin, daphroton, prednisone, aspirin and other conventional fetal protection drugs, adjusting the medication in time according to the situation, early morning sickness, heparin, and blood draws every other day are floating clouds, and 12 weeks ago was the easiest time in my entire pregnancy.
In the first trimester of pregnancy in Dr. Yu here to break through the customs clearance, I came to the South Hospital to find Dr. Liu to report, she is very efficient, an average of 5 minutes to see a patient, otherwise hundreds of patients a day can not finish watching, she is the goddess of all of us, may see me only took 2/3 minutes, I always feel that every time I talk to her is not exhausted, afraid of where there is an omission, every time I see her I am very tired, because I have to spend a day in line, the initial plan to give is to monitor the cervix. After several visits and monitoring, my cervical length from 30mm to only 24mm, the safer length is more than 30mm, 25mm or less there are indications for surgery, combined with the previous medical history, she finally decided to give me a circumcision, but the grasp of my surgery is not very large, she thinks that my cervical conditions are not very good, belongs to a kind of deformity, need her and another pelvic floor expert to do surgery for me, this time I realized that my problem is estimated to be very serious, because Dr. Liu is famous in the industry, The average patient is done by one person, and it is fierce. I had the surgery at 13 weeks. The whole operation was completed by the other pelvic floor specialist director, and Dr. Liu was mostly watching and listening to their conversations, and I could feel that this director was also very powerful. I hit the spinal anesthesia, the whole lower body lost consciousness, people are awake, as long as I think of the baby I am not afraid of anything. In less than half an hour, the operation was over, and Dr. Liu touched my head with love like touching his own child. After the operation, the length of my cervix returned to 30mm, and when I got home, I didn't dare to move, and I basically slept on the bed, with the foot of the bed raised and the head of the bed low. Once a week, I came to Dr. Liu to report that I relied on a wheelchair when I went out, I didn't walk much, and everything was careful. I remember before the operation, I had to have morning sickness once a day in the morning and evening, if I vomited, my stomach would be forced, and after the operation, when I wanted to vomit, I actually had to hold back, and suddenly I stopped not throwing up.
Too suddenly, it was June 15, 2018, it was 18 weeks a morning at 2 a.m., a hot current, I woke up, it was blood, it kept flowing, my husband used a lot of tissues to wipe me, my heart was full of fear, I didn't dare to think about it. The question now is, should I go to the East Courtyard or the South Courtyard? The south hospital is a specialized hospital to look at the cervix, this point in time even if there is an emergency department there is no B ultrasound doctor, the circumlaxation operation is smooth, I think it should not be a cervical problem, this point to go to see Dr. Liu, the east hospital is close to us, and the east hospital at this time must have a doctor on duty, and the comprehensive medical level is also very good, so we decided to go to the east hospital to see the emergency, in the basic examination, the blood in the vagina is squirted out, the ground, the bed is everywhere, to arrange hospitalization immediately, 8 o'clock in the morning the resident doctor to work, Another round of examination of my cervix, still a lot of blood, I panicked, a silent tear, I don't know what that means. After a week of hospitalization, the bleeding stopped, the baby is also good, the doctor can't say the cause of the bleeding, I think I hit the heparin, then temporarily stop the heparin, when I was preparing to be discharged, B ultrasound found that the length of the cervix was only 14mm, the outer mouth was also opened, this is serious, to know that there are indications for the second cynicosis below 15mm, and the success rate of the secondary cynicosis is also greatly reduced, I am only 19 weeks, only four and a half months, the cervix has just begun to be stressed, the road behind is still so long, so how long can 14mm last? How come a month is so short? Am I on the verge of failure again? Why is it so easy for someone else to have a child like another egg, and it is more difficult for me than to ascend to heaven? Too many question marks, too heavy a mental burden.
Few people like me, generally after the cerclage surgery will remain at least above 25mm, which also shows that my cervical function is really not good. The doctor asked me to provide all the previous medical history information, Wuhan friend Chen Mama helped me a lot, there is a document that needs to go to Wuhan Union Hospital to print, plus a thick basket at home has been sent to me, these years are running to the hospital, the medical record checklist is too numerous. The doctor here is really responsible, after many consultations with experts, finally decided not to intervene in any way, the doctor's explanation is that the doctor who did cervical cerclage for me is a very powerful expert in this area of Shanghai, she has stabbed generally does not need two stabs, even if the piercing hurts my cervix again, the success rate can not be guaranteed; It turned out that I accidentally met such a powerful doctor, but unfortunately I only knew her last name; I discussed with my husband whether to go to the South Hospital to find Dr. Liu again, and after thinking about it again, we still decided to stay in the East Courtyard. After all, there are also very good doctors here, and this is a comprehensive hospital; I confess that my heart has always been very heavy, I can't face it easily, and I look forward to it every day, look forward to it, look forward to it. When my in-laws in my hometown learned of our situation, I prayed at home every day, and I also silently read in my heart, praying for God's protection, and in medicine, I could only do everything for me. Director Bao told me that some people can persist for a long time without length, because there is still that ring line, which wants me to be strong; The head nurse also comforted me, the neonatology department of this hospital is very cattle, 80% of the survivors at 26 weeks, 90% in 28 weeks, but spend more money, 26 weeks to prepare 30/400,000, 28 weeks to prepare 200,000, to be optimistic; My husband also inquired about many cases of eventual success in a similar situation to mine on the Internet, which gave me confidence.
Fortunately, when I checked again in 21 weeks, the length did not change, or 14mm, I cried, these 2 weeks are too torturous and depressed, and the heart that has been tightly held has only slightly stretched. As long as it can be maintained in this way, it is also good; It is really God blessed, to the later 25 weeks 7mm, 27 weeks 6mm, 29 weeks 4.5mm, this time I am not afraid, I have long been ready to sell Wuhan real estate, in the words of my husband, after all, we are in Shanghai, after all, in the country's most awesome hospital, there are the most awesome doctors in the country, after all, I still have a fairy line, afraid of what, my mood is getting more and more cheerful. At that time, I used iPAD to pass the time, chasing dramas, and passing the time with the popular "Yanxi Palace Strategy", "Ruyi Chuan", "Beijing Women's Picture Book", "Shanghai Women's Picture Book" and so on.
In the 37 beds of the seventh ward of the East Hospital, because of the long hospital stay, I became famous, and at least 10 patients' mothers came to me to exchange their conditions and tell similar experiences and resonances, which I was the most serious case among them. I only urinated and defecated out of bed, the rest of the time all slept on the bed, brushed my teeth to eat and drink water did not sit up, yes, the hard board bed of the hospital was slept out of a pit by me, my husband also turned the mattress upside down, my mother wiped my body day after day, rubbed my shoulders, pinched my legs, needed blood circulation, wearing a pair of antithrombotic socks for 400 yuan, the doctor must see the socks worn on the feet during the rounds, the most said is also to get out of bed and move around, otherwise once the blood clot is in danger of life. Mom washed my head and bathed me every 15 days, bought a small folding camp bed, slept next to me, I was like a paralyzed, mom is my eyes, my hands, my legs, never complained, this is the greatness of maternal love; In the 3-person ward, the cries of newborns were endless, and people came and went, and we slept very peacefully. Husband usually to work to make money, can only go to the hospital every weekend to accompany, we eat three meals a day in the hospital canteen, husband weekend to give us extra meals, with the most peanuts, sea bass, base shrimp, mother will use the hospital microwave oven to open a small stove for me, make some edamame, pork liver, and onions. I did not take additional calcium, iron, DHA and other nutritional products during the whole pregnancy, because there were too many medicines on weekdays, and I was afraid of constipation. Since the circumpuncation, the stool can not be forced, not constipated, but I have been bedridden all day without exercise constipation the probability is too high, I must control my intestines, I must eat tomatoes and cucumbers every day, good for laxatives, a honey plug a day, maintain 1 stool a day, and then the honey suppository resistance Effect is not obvious, I tried to drink prune juice, olive oil, probiotics, the effect is not good, Dumik is not bad, but can not stop, the ultimate weapon is Kaiselu, this power is relatively large, I dare not use it more than twice when I have to. Bowel patency is very important.
Since hospitalization, each ultrasound examination of the baby's head is smaller than the actual gestational age, at first it was 1 day smaller, 3 days smaller, 7 days smaller, 9 days smaller, and then 12 days smaller, and the resident doctor arranged a specialist consultation for me to do various examinations to rule out the baby's brain problems. In the inpatient department met a Shanghai girl, her small for a month, did 2 amniocentesis, 4 mripass, no problems were found, the doctor also wanted me to do relevant examinations to confirm the diagnosis, I refused, I and my husband believed that the baby must be fine, besides, it was not easy to more than 26 weeks, no matter what, I had to give birth, but the doctor was very insistent, I was mainly worried that these examinations were not good for the baby and affected the baby's health. I was about to quarrel with the doctor, and finally I did an MRI, slept in the instrument, I choked up, said that it was impossible not to worry, and the mood was very complicated. The final result was that there was no problem, and the doctor was relieved. Three meals a day are eating the hospital's box lunch, but I ate gestational diabetes, may also be caused by long-term bed inactivity, from 24 weeks, my three meals a day were replaced by diabetic special meals, more vegetarian than normal meals, but I am not picky eaters, eat anything delicious, but because of the lack of blood sugar control, I secretly changed the rice into cereal as a staple food, blood sugar is normal, but was found by the doctor after I said a pass. I have to take finger blood seven times a day before and after meals to monitor blood sugar, the hospital needle prick is particularly painful, my 10 fingers are all needle eyes, because I can't control it to take insulin three times a day, at the beginning it was 6 units each time, and then it was changed to 8 units, so it had to be beaten until it was raw.
I remember when I was doing a large row of deformities at 24 weeks, I was lying on the bed in front of the instrument, the doctor who did the examination put the instrument probe on my belly, was shocked, panicked and asked me, how did you come, I said I came from the inpatient department in a wheelchair, she rushed to ask the little nurse next to her to contact the inpatient department, the patient went back to carry away on a stretcher... The cervix was already short, I said I knew. At this time, I was not as nervous as before. After doing the large row of deformities and confirming the health of the baby, the doctor gave me a lung injection, which was very cheap on my body, as if it was 2.5 yuan / injection, I gave two injections to promote the development and maturity of the baby's lungs. But the next day the blood test indicators showed that there was a number soaring, which meant infection, my tube bed doctor was another meal of intimidation, saying that the baby was infected, I wanted to be ready to give up at any time, and then put the hanging bottle on, really, I was frightened, my husband was calm, online check, the original lung injection itself has the side effects of white blood cell elevation, calm and calm, after two days the indicators fell down.
My tube bed doctor asked me to be discharged every three to five minutes, there was no substantive treatment but occupied the bed, the meal in the hospital canteen was definitely not the nutrition advice made at home, I was also asked to get out of bed and walk around, my risk of blood clot was too high, there was a little movement on all kinds of scares, I wanted to sign my husband to sign; But I didn't go and persevered; There are also many doctors who still take care of me, like Director Ying of the Obstetrics University, Director Han and Director Bao. From June 15 to September 4, a whole summer was spent in the hospital, a total of 81 days, experienced nine nine eighty-one difficulties, in 30 weeks I was discharged from the hospital, in these days, there were 3 failed sisters, a Wuhan sister 11 weeks of fetal stoppage did not keep, a Hunan girl went home after a stab, did not pay attention to good, normal walking and walking sheep protrusion, 23 weeks to drive back from home to Shanghai to find Dr. Liu Erza, or broken water infection can only flow, a Henan sister for 27 weeks, constipation after circumlocution led to uterine contractions more than induction of labor She felt that the child at the age of pregnancy had sequelae, which was a pity. Of course, there are more success stories.
After being discharged from the hospital back to the rental house, I still maintain the living state of the hospital, and strive to get closer to the 37-week full term, the weather in Shanghai in September is quite large, we rent a room and a living room, my mother sleeps in the room, I sleep on the sofa in the living room, because the position of the foot of the bed I sleep needs to be raised a little higher to maintain the state of inversion, the sofa in the living room is more convenient, so the husband sleeps in the small folding bed used in the hospital, there are only 2 fans in the house, at night my mother uses 1, I use 1, my husband sleeps on the balcony by the window, In the first half of the night, the hot cotton wool was soaked with sweat, and sat dry, and in the second half of the night, the cold came, because it was cold and woke up by the window, it was really difficult for him, so 31 weeks, 32 weeks, 33 weeks passed smoothly, 33 weeks + 1 This day is September 28th, I was napping, I was awakened by a contraction pain, and the contraction interval was getting shorter and shorter, and there was a feeling of stool, I immediately asked my husband to come back to take me to the hospital to protect the fetus, yes, I wanted to protect the fetus, and the doctor said that I was about to give birth, and I wanted to remove the stitches immediately. On the operating table, the doctor could not find the ring line, and also consulted Dr. Liu by phone, and finally decided to plane the abdomen, another spinal anesthesia, at 18:33, the baby took it out, and then, the line was removed. It turned out that the ring line was tied very high, solid, I heard the baby's loud cry, confirmed the gender for me and sent to the neonatology department. At the time of the suture, my attending doctor, Dr. Joe, said to me, "Your uterus is too small, and the baby can only grow so big, if your husband wants to have a son, he wants him to find another woman to give birth, you don't have to regenerate..." I know that the doctor hurts me.
I am unfortunate, after taking such a long detour, I am lucky again, because overall this time is smooth, every setback encountered in Shanghai has met the right person, 2018 is my lucky year. During the fetal protection period, I lived in 37 beds, thinking that I could last until 37 weeks, it turned out that 37 was the weight of the baby born 3 pounds and 7 two. The sea is born with a bright moon, and the end of the world is at this time. The baby's name is Haiyue, born in Shanghai, the moon corresponds to her father's name Yang, we hope that the baby will grow up healthy and happy, safe and happy life. Xiao Yuebao slept peacefully in my arms, and I was particularly satisfied. Everything is the best arrangement, grateful for everything around you, grateful.