In 1989, at the age of 32, Liu Wei, an unassuming "emperor professional household", had an affair with He Qing, a 25-year-old "first costume beauty" in the mainland.
I didn't expect that 5 years of time could not resist the "temptation of splitting legs".
Because of the drama again, He Qing and the married Xu Yajun had an "agreement".
Seeing his girlfriend turn to the arms of others and let the other party's family "fall apart", Liu Wei is not far behind.
Liu Wei
Treating the love injury, he was 42 years old, and Yang Ruoxi, a girl who was 23 years younger than himself and was only 19 years old at the time, had an affair because of the drama.
But cohabitation for more than 8 years, because his girlfriend has always resigned from marriage, the 50-year-old is angry, leaving only a letter and "running away from home", leaving his little girlfriend alone to inquire about the reporters in Manchuria.
The "falling child" in "Kangxi Micro Service Private Interview" cried, is it a pear blossom with rain, which causes people to feel painful?
Yang Ruoxi just cried with the reporter, hoping that her boyfriend would not hurt people so much and give himself a chance to explain.
Liu Wei, the back foot, gave the answer.
It turned out that he had fled the United States to distract himself, but he accidentally "scattered" a wife and added a son.
Such a "tortuous" love experience has added a lot of "brilliance" to Liu Wei's name of "Emperor of Shadows".
At the age of 65, Liu Wei, who still does not stop acting on TV, incarnated as a "good husband" and "good father", bluntly said that he could not rest.
Because his son is still young and his wife is young, he does not dare to grow old.
Age is really an anxious crisis, Liu Wei, who has been jokingly called "old cows eating tender grass", also thinks so.
01
Send yourself to the heights with crosstalk
Liu Wei is a cross-talk actor.
Born in Changchun, Jilin in 57 years, this northeastern "old masters" have a mouth, and the "big ballast flavor" full of trains can run 180 miles away.
Because he was fascinated by the literary and artistic career since he was a child, at the age of 17, he was admitted to the student class of the Jilin Provincial Folk Music Troupe and opened the road of cross-talk.
6 years of youth passed, 23 years old, deeply aware of the narrow road to development, Liu Wei came to the door of the Shanghai Theater Academy.
Relying on good words, he "said" to open the door of the acting department and became the most undisputed "old man" among the students of the same grade.
Because he is several years older than his classmates, as long as there are rehearsals such as "uncle", "uncle" and "old man", Liu Wei is the first choice to be unyielding.
In 1983, Liu Wei, who had a low eyebrow and some melancholy temperament, was favored by director Duan Bin, and partnered with Song Jia in the film "Impression of Autumn", and transformed into a painter in front of people.
Leaving the campus and entering the Changchun Film Studio, with the experience of showing their faces in front of people, young people fell deeply in love with their acting careers.
Don't look at him now that he is almost 28 years old, he wants to break through the film and television circle with a lot of passion.
In 1986, he starred in "The Last Empress" directed by Chen Jialin, and Li Yueting, played by Liu Wei, is still remembered by many people.
It is also through this film that he has become a good actor who is "down-to-earth" and "has feelings" in the mouth of director Chen Jialin.
With him starring in two of his own TV series in succession, Huang Taiji in "Yuan Chonghuan" and "Nurhaci" was deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and "Emperor Professional Household" became Liu Wei's original title.
In addition, Liu Wei was nominated for the best actor at the 8th Chinese Film Golden Eagle Awards for his role as "Guan Yuntian" in "The Great Hero of Kanto".
Fame is rising, the film is constantly flowing, I didn't expect to come with my career, and that unexpected peach-colored romance.
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Spoiled girlfriend split legs "husband"
In 1989, He Qing, the "first classical beauty in the mainland", arrived with the "Women's Rangers".
She is an actress in the eyes of director Yang Jie, playing Lingji Bodhisattva in "Journey to the West", transforming into "Pity" to fascinate the Eight Precepts of the Pig; She is also Qin Keqing in the Chinese mainland "Longest" movie "Dream of the Red Chamber"; It is also the flower girl in "The Flower Girl of Liaozhai".
At the age of 13, he was admitted to the Beijing Theater Academy, Zhejiang Art School and Zhejiang Kunqu Opera Troupe at the same time, and He Qing, who studied Kunqu opera, can be said to be an excellent representative.
The skin is white and beautiful, and the body is hot. The eyes under the double eyelids are affectionate and seductive, sweet smiles and shy bowed heads, and the looming dimples seem to spoil people.
Such a "goddess" level figure took the initiative to show goodwill, and asked who did Yanagishita Hui who did not sit in confusion?
Ben sighed at He Qing's moving appearance, and did not expect that she would "fall in love at first sight" and "love deeply because of the drama".
Dare to love, dare to do.
In line with the saying that actors should also have more contact after work and understand each other better acting, one night, He Qing asked Liu Wei to swim alone.
Sexy clothes, charming moon, deliberately created ambiguous atmosphere.
Liu Wei, who has no experience in love, fell into this pool of gentle water and could not withdraw.
In this way, the 25-year-old He Qing used thunder means to directly take down the 32-year-old Liu Wei.
Although it has passed the age of standing, Liu Wei, who has just met with love, is like a hairy boy, spoiling his lover into a treasure on the tip of his heart.
In the early 1990s, it wasn't easy to eat ice cream in the winter.
But as long as He Qingyi said that he wanted to brave the cold wind to shuttle through the streets and alleys, Liu Wei would also buy it for him.
Every day after work, I cook for my girlfriend, and none of the dishes on the table meet He Qing's taste.
Painstakingly creating surprises for him and fulfilling his every wish, Liu Wei can be said to have held a heart full of love in front of He Qing.
Fortunately, At that time, He Qing was also not perfunctory.
In the winter, she will send Liu Wei a hand-knitted scarf, buy him clothes for the four seasons, and will not sleep late at night, just waiting for her lover to work overtime to shoot and then go home.
In 1990, chen Jialin directed the TV series "Tang Ming Huang" casting, He Qing received the opportunity to play "Yang Guifei".
Unfortunately, her schedule was too full at that time, and she could only politely refuse.
Unexpectedly, Liu Wei, who had not yet gotten his hands on the new script, took the initiative to contact him after knowing it, and then he had the opportunity to star in "Li Longji".
Originally a drama starring in a coincidence, I did not expect to directly let Liu Wei win the honor of the best actor of the 10th Golden Eagle Award.
After that, he shined in film and television dramas such as "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", "Folks", and "Love Spy".
The boyfriend showed his fists, and He Qing certainly did not want to be left behind.
In 1991, he played Magnolia in "The Sword of Blood"; In 1992, he was favored by Master Qiong Yao, the "Godmother of Romance", and became Hua Youlin in "Grass by the Qingqing River".
Crooked bangs, two black braids, amorous eyes with smart corners of the mouth, intelligent and beautiful and self-reliant Hua Youlin, became the "aspiring youth" that women in that era competed to imitate.
In 1993, he starred in "Fireboat", and then played the classical beauty Little Joe in the TV series "Romance of the Three Kingdoms".
In 1994, the single beam became Gao Yuwan in "Dream of Breaking Nanyang", and He Qing proved with strength that she and her boyfriend went hand in hand.
The time soon came to 1995, and Liu Wei, who was looking forward to a married life, would never have imagined that a "Wind and Lotus Complaint" would whimper and blow his own complaints.
Xu Yajun, who once partnered with Chen Xiaoyi to star in "Tangshan Earthquake", is not only a little higher than Liu Wei.
If He Qing had been with him at the beginning, he might have achieved a beautiful story of a golden child and a jade girl.
It's just a pity that they started at the wrong time, and the identities of each other are not right.
He Qing has a boyfriend Liu Wei, while Xu Yajun has had two marriages. The first wife, Huang Jianping, and the second wife, Zhang Xi.
He Qing, on the other hand, is the object of his "empathy and other love" in marriage.
Once again, "because of the drama", He Qing quickly forgot Liu Wei behind.
In order to accompany the beautiful people, Xu Yajun also did not care about his reputation at all, and quickly divorced Zhang Xi.
Compared with Zhang Xi's grief, Liu Wei's disbelief was more dominant.
A drama was "dug into a corner", and he was still a person with a family. Liu Wei fell into deep self-doubt.
Look at the "maker" of this farce.
Even though "Qiong Girl" He Qing has become a "peach-colored demon girl" in the eyes of the reporter media, and "detail actor" Xu Yajun has become "Chen Shimei", they still come together without fear of outsiders' eyes.
It's just a pity that the relationship between the two did not last long.
In 2001, the two ushered in the little life of love, but only two years after giving birth, He Qing and Xu Yajun Lao Yan flew apart.
Xu Yajun then married his third wife, Zhang Shu, who was 13 years younger than himself, and added another son in 2010.
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Open "old and young love" with a 19-year-old girl
The blow he Qing brought to Liu Wei could not be described as deep. For the next 4 years, he could not get out of the shadow of love.
As the saying goes, the best way to forget a relationship is to start a new relationship.
In 1995, Liu Wei partnered with Zhang Guoguo, Deng Jie, Liang Tian, Tao Hong, Jiang Qinqin and others to star in the extremely popular "Kangxi Micro Service Private Interview". He starred as Master Zhang, the purple sand pot maker in "Purple Sand".
It was also in this crew that he met Yang Ruoxi, who starred in "Eight Treasures of Porridge".
Stills of Yang Ruoxi
Speaking of Yang Ruoxi, this is also a rare big beauty.
He studied ballet since he was a child, joined the dance troupe at the age of 9, and starred in his first TV series "Boys and Girls" at the age of 15.
It may also be that when she starred in "Kangxi", she was still an adult, and Liu Wei only knew its name, but she was not impressed.
By 1999, he starred in "God of Wealth" with Zhang Guoguo and Chen Zhipeng, and Yang Ruoxi, who had just turned 19, drew the eyes of 42-year-old Liu Wei.
Although he is young, he is very able to endure hardships and has good manners for treating people, not to mention, Yang Ruoxi is still very lively and good at adjusting the atmosphere.
Sunny and generous, young and beautiful girls are like "pistachios" in the crew, and three words can drive away the fatigue or bad emotions of other actors acting.
Liu Wei noticed the girl more and more, and even after she was accidentally burned, she was unconsciously nervous and busy.
Liu Wei's care and care has given Yang Ruoxi, who has lacked his father's love since childhood, a lot of security.
She will also subconsciously approach Liu Wei, even if this seemingly "disharmonious" relationship has been questioned by the outside world.
Having just established a relationship, Yang Ruoxi's opposition to his divorced parents was the strongest.
Then came the rumors that flew around.
It is said that Liu Wei "old cows eat tender grass"; Some people say that Yang Ruoxi "covets the other party's money and resources and wants to take shortcuts to become famous"; Even more, he said things like "like a father and daughter lover".
They all have a common puzzle: What is Yang Ruoxi's picture?
Speaking of that time, Liu Wei's career has tended to be stable, and his position and positioning in the entertainment industry are also quite clear.
But for Yang Ruoxi, who is 19 years old and has just entered the entertainment industry, these rumors are comparable to deadly swords.
But Neither Yang Ruoxi nor Liu Wei cared.
Does falling in love with a girl 23 years younger than yourself make people younger?
During that time, Liu Wei was radiant, as if he was 10 years younger.
At first they also had the sweetness of love. Liu Wei treats his little girlfriend as a "daughter" to spoil.
There are many nicknames for love, visiting the class back and forth to envy others, birthday parties are constantly surprised, and big things and small things are all covered.
Yang Ruoxi used to tell Liu Wei about the affairs in his career and win the opinions or suggestions of the other party.
Liu Wei is not too troublesome every time, and gives a pertinent evaluation after patiently listening.
In 2003, the two in love also partnered with Song Jia, Zhang Fengyi and others to co-starred in the TV series "Qin Shi Huang".
It was also this year, with "Doubtful Case Faithful Soul", Liu Wei won the Outstanding Actor Award of the 10th China Film Huabiao Awards, achieving his name of "Movie Emperor".
But the larger age difference is always between the two people, resulting in two people who have different ideas about marriage and finally taste the pain of reality.
In the more than 8 years of cohabitation, Liu Wei has proposed marriage more than once.
But how could a girl who was only in her 20s at the time empathize with her boyfriend, who longed for family?
In Yang Ruoxi's view, they are already living a conjugal life, so why be harsh on that marriage certificate.
He has partnered with Xu Zheng, Nie Yuan, Huang Haibo, Dingdang and others to appear in dramas such as "The Story of Su Nu", "Fuxing Gao Zhao Pig Eight Precepts", "Little Devil Big Liu Luo Pot" and other dramas, Yang Ruoxi's career is in an upward period.
She wanted to seize the career, she had some relaxation in love, but she did not expect that Liu Wei would be so "determined".
In 2007, after unsuccessfully seeking marriage, Liu Wei left only a letter and disappeared after acting in the TV series "Beiping Past" with Yang Ruoxi, Han Xue, Chen Daoming and others.
In October of that year, the press conference of "Beiping Past".
Yang Ruoxi faced the reporter's repeated "shelling" alone and could not say the whereabouts of her boyfriend.
Her face was emaciated and decadent. In the face of the camera tears rippled, the mouth also said: "I hope Liu Wei is not so cruel, and I hope he can give me an explanation!" ”
04
Flash marriage makeup artist, the son is still too young to grow old
So what does Liu Wei say?
With practical actions, he reported to the media what he had done during the year of disappearance.
He went to the United States alone to relax, but met Wang Xiaoyu, a makeup artist 13 years younger than himself.
Although in terms of appearance, Wang Xiaoyu is far from He Qing and Yang Ruoxi, she is gentle and delicate and knows how to take care of people.
Coupled with her and Liu Wei's view of feelings and marriage, they only met each other briefly, and they fell in love.
At the age of 50, he left his 27-year-old girlfriend and turned around to marry a 37-year-old makeup artist.
When Liu Wei reappeared, he announced the news of his marriage.
He gave the entertainment media another big news to report, and also hurriedly ended his 8-year-long "love between young and old".
At the age of 51, Liu Wei has come to have a son, a simple family, a kind and gentle wife, plus a lovely child. This man, who was slightly troubled in love, finally got his wish.
His wife Wang Xiaoyu and son Liu Junlin are Liu Wei's biggest motivation.
Wang Xiaoyu gave up his job for the sake of his family and concentrated on teaching his husband and children at home.
Liu Wei, on the other hand, incarnated as "Desperate Sanlang" and began to take over the play regardless of how much he paid.
He once said that he was not willing to treat his wife and children badly in terms of money, as long as he could give, as long as he could afford to give, there was no difference.
Today, Liu Wei is 65 years old, and his figure is still flashing on the screen.
For the sake of his 14-year-old son, he still dare not stop.
Wang Xiaoyu kept their little home in an orderly manner, and the children were also very sensible.
In the more than ten years that he has walked hand in hand with Liu Wei, her husband has not had any scandals.
The two are still sweet and happy.
From this point of view, simple happiness may be the "love it is" that Liu Wei has always wanted most.
It's just that He Qing when he was young was unwilling to give, and Yang Ruoxi, who was still young, did not understand.
Later, Yang Ruoxi and Lian Yiming, who starred in the role of Qingcang in "Three Lives and Three Worlds and Ten Miles of Peach Blossoms", had an affair because of the drama.
Lian Yi named her, willing to not have all the property, and divorced the wife who sacrificed his life to save himself.
Several people who have been entangled for many years have their own lives.
Love is a gamble that can only meet the right person at the right time.
The gamble is won and everyone is happy and happy; Gamble lost youth wrong payment, two phases sigh.
Different choices will have different results; Some people have no reason, and some people have no reason.
The poet Pushkin said, "Everything is instantaneous / Everything will pass." ”
What has passed can only become a memory, and only those in front of them should cherish it.