Unexpectedly, it is reasonable: Wu Suling and Cao Ge are separated!
Taiwan media photographed Wu Suling and her friends having dinner, picked up her daughter back to her new residence, suspected that she and her children and Cao Ge had been separated for many days.
I still remember that at the end of March, Cao Ge publicly shouted on social media: Sister Lan Xinmei, can you not take my wife out to meet men?
Faced with his loss of control, Cao Ge refused to apologize, but Wu Suling ran to Lan Xinmei's house to apologize, and even Lan Xinmei felt sorry for her.
After all, Cao Ge really hurt her too many times, "I did a lot of things wrong, fell many times, but she forgave me." 」 I didn't let her live well in previous years and did a lot of things wrong, but she always forgave me. ”
This time, Wu Suling seemed to be completely disappointed in Cao Ge, and she finally made up her mind to separate from Cao Ge.
According to Taiwan media, Wu Suling has not been in the same frame as Cao Ge in recent months.
In fact, at this time, the stop loss may not be the best choice for Wu Suling, after all, Cao Ge is really not saved.
CAO GE: I don't like to be sober
"I don't like to be sober!" Muddy nightmares are the background of Cao Ge's life.
This is inseparable from his original family.
Before he reached the age of one year, his parents divorced and he grew up living with his grandparents.
Dad was not absent, but either a group of people knelt down to him, or he single-handedly spelled out a body of blood... Cao Ge thinks to himself, "My dad is a hooligan."
He studied abroad at the age of eight or nine, he wandered around, and encountered school violence, so he fought four times in the first week of school.
At the age of 17, with the encouragement of friends, Cao Ge began to compose, and due to fate, his songs were also included and released by Aaron Kwok.
At the same time, he fell into the trough of creation, "From the age of 17 to 22, my creation became more and more difficult... It's just a sense of vanity that my song was taken in by whom to support myself to go down, but except for imitation, there was no progress, and even once felt that I was a waste. ”
Even if Tu Huiyuan saw the pearl and brought him to bay to develop, he hoped that after that, there was a deeper disappointment:
"When I first arrived in Taiwan, I always heard criticisms like 'too ugly,' 'too hard to write,' 'not commercial enough,' and 'you go back.'" At that time, I was very inferior, and at one time I did not dare to look in the mirror. At worst, I almost wanted to kill myself. ”
Under the blow, he could only rely on alcohol to numb himself, but after drinking, he was prone to lose control, initially smashing things at home, and then starting to fight and make trouble.
At the end of 2006, Cao Ge kicked the restaurant light box violently after drinking and sewed more than twenty stitches himself.
The next year, after Cao Ge's birthday party, he was drunk and rude, and he also punched and hurt people, and finally lost money.
In fact, at this time, Cao Ge had gradually become famous, releasing albums and concerts, but he was still used to drinking.
He said that when he did not drink, he sang and sang, and it was easy to get blindfolded and lose his memory.
In 2008, Cao Ge won the Golden Melody Award for Best Male Singer, and he thanked his girlfriend on the spot, which was equivalent to exploding his love affair.
At that time, Cao Ge could be regarded as a double harvest of love and career, but he still could not redeem himself, and perhaps he did not want to be sober.
He said that he had experienced all kinds of ups and downs that could not be said to others, and the pressure was superimposed, so that in 2009, he drank even more fiercely... Soaking in alcohol all day, his personality has become violent, and he always feels that others want to provoke him.
In September of the same year, Cao Ge drunkenly and his friend Side Tian got into a fight on the streets of Hong Kong, and the fight was called a wonderful one, so the media called him "the king of the fight".
After waking up, Cao Ge tearfully apologized, "For no reason, I was wrong." Not once did Sidefield try to hurt me, or hit me back, not at all. So this time it was obviously not a fight, but my own loss of control. ”
Because of his sincere attitude of admitting his mistakes, he was sentenced to "keeping his deeds" for one year, and strangely, Cao Ge, who beat people, became more and more popular.
The beaten side field fell sharply and gradually disappeared into the audience's field of vision.
Afterwards, Andy Lau warned him: If you don't change, then finish work! That is, the meaning of quitting the show business.
I thought he would accept the lesson, but I didn't expect him to teach it repeatedly.
However, in 2 years, he got drunk in a Vancouver hotel, smashed the stereo of the room, and was detained by the police for 24 hours.
In 2013, he watched the show drinking out of control, rushed to the stage to swear to the audience, and hugged the blonde woman with a middle finger.
In July, he attended Lin Zhiying's wedding, and after drinking too much, he made a big fuss at the wedding scene, and everyone had no choice but to get him drunk and carry him away from the scene.
And this time and again out of control, a little bit consumes Wu Suling's love, she slowly despaired, with the idea of divorce.
Wu Suling: Live decently
And Cao Ge is complete, Wu Suling pursues decency and lives more and more soberly.
She thinks she's very affectionate and likes a guy for a long time.
In 2006, she was in a bad relationship and couldn't get out.
Accidentally on the road, hearing Cao Ge's song, she was very touched, and what she wanted was the simple love he sang in the song.
That year, Cao Ge was shooting MTV in Kenting, and Wu Suling just happened to be traveling there with a friend, and under the influence of a friend, the two took two group photos.
Cao Ge didn't think much of it, after all, there were still many fans looking for him to take a group photo.
I thought it was just a short episode in my life, but I didn't expect that half a year later, under the introduction of an artist's friend, Cao Ge and Wu Suling officially met, and Wu Suling was a stylist.
Cao Ge fell in love with the tall Wu Suling at first sight, and the night he got the woman's phone, he sent a message asking if he wanted to go to Hong Kong.
Wu Suling felt that it was too outrageous and offered to drive to the mountain to see the night view.
The night wind blows, Wu Suling is beautifully enjoying the scenery, Cao Ge only feels very cold, so he asks her if she can hug herself, and the relationship between the two begins to heat up.
In fact, Wu Suling had not completely broken off with her boyfriend at that time, but love made people lose their minds.
Cao Ge blew himself up, and after each date, he had to send her back to her legitimate boyfriend, which made him very broken, and he really couldn't stand it, so he let her make a choice.
Of course, Wu Suling finally chose Cao Ge and became his exclusive stylist.
Cao Ge is also a small third, but he did not feel that there was anything wrong, "Love and friendship I will choose love, as long as I feel right then OK, even if I like a girl with a boyfriend will directly grab." ”
At the end of 2007, Wu Suling accidentally became pregnant, and Cao Ge did not evade responsibility and wanted to get married.
But Wu Suling didn't really want to marry, and she knew that Cao Ge might not be ready.
Perhaps, at that time, she had already felt that Cao Ge's mind was not very sound, and there would be a situation of inability to control herself after drinking heavily.
Cao Ge, who does not drink alcohol, is called a full score man, kind and considerate, and may believe that Cao Ge can take the initiative to make changes, so after giving birth to a son, she still married Cao Ge with a license.
The outside world secretly took Wu Suling's postpartum photos, saying that she was not good-looking and unworthy of Cao Ge.
But in Cao Ge's view, he is not worthy of Wu Suling, he is short, he is inferior, he is drunk...
So Wu Suling and her friends go out on a trip, and he will call in a row;
Wu Suling was reluctant to give birth to the third child, and he compromised;
After 10 years of marriage, he is still grumpy about Wu Suling's music without special praise for him.
Because of drinking, Wu Suling was disappointed and sad, and he vowed to quit drinking.
He once solemnly promised not to touch the wine again with three cups of tea substitute wine, emphasizing that "there is no point in not having a family", "donating ten million if you drink again", and "drinking again to leave the circle!" ”
I've really promised many times:
He once maintained very well, but unfortunately he did not hold back in the end, he blew himself up because he suffered from bipolar disorder, resulting in emotional instability.
Just when Cao Ge was still immersed in drunken dreams and died, Wu Suling was improving herself all the way.
She has maintained a good figure for a long time, and relying on medical beauty and maintenance, she is still as beautiful as a famous lady after giving birth to two children.
When the child grew up a little, she began to restart her career.
For example, participate in variety shows and try to invest.
When you earn money, you buy dresses and bags, and you accept yourself.
Two people with different frequencies, the feelings gradually cracked.
Between words, Wu Suling no longer tried to change him, and seemed to have no expectations for him.
Even Cao Ge's excessive thoughtfulness made her feel very troublesome, and she was reluctant to share her daily life with him.
That time Cao Ge made a big fuss about Lin Zhiying's wedding, Wu Suling felt very humiliated, cried and expressed her despair for him, and returned to her mother's house with 2 children.
Cao Ge also asked on social media: Divorce... What are your thoughts?
Speculation has been swirling that Cao Ge's marriage has lit up a red light.
Perhaps the family persuaded him, or perhaps considered the child, and with Cao Ge's assurance that he would quit drinking, Wu Suling tried to forgive him again.
Stop loss in time
Cao Ge really has no medicine to save!
In March 2022, he lost his temper after drinking again in the restaurant, smashing things, hitting people, cursing and foul-mouthing, and making a lot of noise in the city.
It turned out that he and his mentor Tu Huiyuan were eating in the box that night, and the guests in the next box were too loud, and Cao Ge asked them to be quiet many times, but the guest next door refused, and also returned a fxck you, so Cao Ge moved his hand.
Although there was a reason for the incident, it was not right to beat people with their hands, and after waking up, he expressed his willingness to bear all the consequences.
Wu Suling is not surprised, strives to engage in career, and often meets with Lan Xinmei, Tao Jingying and others.
Perhaps Cao Ge was snubbed and dissatisfied, so he had the beginning of the angry rebuke and rude mouth, asking Lan Xinmei not to take his wife to know men.
Dynamic deletion and hair, there are typos, netizens guess, Cao Ge eighty percent of the drinking is not sober.
Doubting oneself for infidelity is a great insult to a wife.
What's more, he also offended Lan Xinmei, who promoted Wu Suling, and after that, how could Wu Suling cooperate with the other party?
That night, Wu Suling posted, "Many things in life, when encountered, I know, there is really no so-called." In the past, I would always be wronged to accept myself, but now I see it clearly or have to face it, there is no thing in life that I can't go through, and I look forward to the happy and comfortable self to come back soon. ”
So, the media called to ask if the two were divorced, and she did not respond, but decently said, "I'm sorry, I'm busy."
In fact, Wu Suling already has the ability and confidence to stop the marriage, and at this time, she can win the divorce completely.
The two children are old enough to distinguish between right and wrong, the impact of divorce on them will be much smaller, and it is not a problem for her to get custody of two children.
Because of the epidemic, the "home economy" has developed rapidly, and Wu Suling's side business is also thriving. Previously, the instant noodles she invested in were sold for more than 40 million Taiwan dollars.
The "cyclo Los Angeles Pho" restaurant, which she invested in, has now opened three branches in Taipei alone, with a monthly turnover of nearly one million Taiwan dollars per month.
Relying on Cao Ge's popularity, she has turned her favorite fashion into a career and managed it with sound and color.
On the other hand, Cao Ge was completely rotten and constantly had accidents.
He has exhausted his talents, and there have been no new works for a long time, and his career is difficult to continue.
It is also suspected that domestic violence has been Wu Suling.
Photographed by the media, a look of Uncle Fa Fu and sloppy.
He said that in the past two years, he has often been sad for no reason, he has become less and less aware of himself, and his emotions have fallen to the bottom. In severe cases, only the cats, dogs, and children at home can help him get out.
For Wu Suling, it may really be time to end it completely!
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