In 2007, 48-year-old Liu Xiaoli finally made a difficult decision to divorce her husband, a Chinese-American lawyer.
This is the second divorce in Liu Xiaoli's life, and the divorce is not because there is no love, but because of her daughter Liu Yifei.
For the sake of her daughter Liu Yifei, Liu Xiaoli is willing to give up everything she has, brave and decisive, without dragging mud and water.
In her inner world, she knows exactly what is most important and where she is.
The Book of Life's Answers reads: "People who can't find their place and can't find fun in what they do become very panicked." ”
Judging from Liu Yifei's current situation, Liu Xiaoli has obviously found her place, and raising and protecting her daughter is the joy of her life.
Therefore, even if some bad voices of Liu Xiaoli were circulating on the Internet, she did not panic in the slightest.
So, Liu Xiaoli, who gave up her career and experienced two marriages, is her life successful?
01
Liu Xiaoli's first marriage was more beautiful, and before meeting Liu Yifei's biological father An Shaokang, Liu Xiaoli was already a very famous dancer at the Wuhan Song and Dance Theater.
For dance, Liu Xiaoli has always been particularly fond of dance, whether it is folk dance, classical dance, or ballet, Liu Xiaoli can interpret it just right.
Her dance attainments are very deep, and Liu Yifei once sighed with shame when she saw her mother's photo:
"So beautiful and beautiful, unless a miracle appears, I don't want to become like this in my life, and I regret that I didn't learn dance with my mother when I was a child." 」
It is obvious from the picture that Liu Xiaoli leaps in the air and every movement made from hand to foot shows her profound dance achievements.
On the surface, Liu Xiaoli is tender like water, elegant and indifferent, but once on the stage, Liu Xiaoli immediately changed like a person, wild and unrestrained, enthusiastic and arrogant.
The fierceness of the northeastern people in her bones was immediately displayed by her.
It was by relying on this fierceness that Liu Xiaoli ran from Harbin in the northeast to the Wuhan Song and Dance Theater and started her career as a dancer.
Because of her beauty and good dancing, after graduating from the Wuhan Opera House, Liu Xiaoli chose to stay in the courtyard as an actor.
With a graceful dance, a generous posture, and a versatile Liu Xiaoli soon became a star figure in the theater.
After that, the courtyard often began to hold evening parties in the name of Liu Xiaoli, and the party was full of people, and many male dicks wanted to witness the beauty's appearance and dance posture.
Every time the performance was very successful, Liu Xiaoli also had a certain reputation in Wuhan, and in the days that followed, as long as there was Liu Xiaoli's performance, the theater would basically be full of friends.
Needless to say, everyone knows that many people are coming for beauty, after all, ladies and gentlemen, men who have seen Liu Xiaoli are all overwhelmed by it.
Among these male dicks, there was an elegant and erudite, personable An Shaokang, thus beginning a sweet marriage.
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An Shaokang's family lineage is not simple, belongs to a medical family, and also has a red background, and has its own connections and prestige in Wuhan.
An Shaokang's father, Kong Jun, had participated in the revolution, the War of Resistance Against Japanese Aggression and the War of Liberation, and later became the deputy secretary of the party committee of Wuhan Medical College, and An Shaokang's mother, An Yunshu, was the secretary of Tongji Medical College of Huazhong University of Science and Technology.
The two parents are so excellent and have their own principles, so An Shaokang has received a good education since he was a child, and his learning career has been hanging all the way, and he has received a doctorate.
He was well versed in literature, sociology, and philosophy, and often published his articles in major authoritative magazines.
After graduating from university, An Shaokang became a professor of French at Wuhan University and also served as the head of the French department.
During his teaching, An Shaokang's talent was still vividly displayed, he translated the Yangtze River literary and artistic version of "Notre Dame de Paris", and also served as a professor of French at Wuhan University, the Chinese diplomatic secretary in France, and the dean of the French Confucius Institute.
Such an excellent man, Liu Xiaoli certainly will not miss, not to mention that After An Shaokang watched her dance performance, she was also addicted to her dance posture and posture.
Subsequently, the two fell in love at first sight under the introduction of friends, and Liu Xiaoli, who was in urgent need of love, immediately found happiness in life.
Not long after, Liu Xiaoli and An Shaokang held a grand wedding in Wuhan and became a happy couple.
After marriage, Liu Xiaoli still worked as a dancer at the Wuhan Opera House, and An Shaokang was also a very enterprising person, continuing to shine in his career.
For several years in a row, the two were busy with each other, did not interfere with each other in their careers, supported each other in life, everything was still going well, and life was quite happy.
In 1994, Liu Xiaoli also won the title of national first-class actor with the role of "Lady Xiang" in "Chu Yun", and her future was very good.
But just as she was about to do a big job in the dance business, the pressure of her mother-in-law forced her to suspend her dance career.
Because the An family is a traditional home, it is good to marry the daughter-in-law who enters the door and have a certain career, but you can't miss the good time to give birth.
So under the pressure of her mother-in-law, Liu Xiaoli finally agreed to conceive life, and finally became pregnant in October, giving birth to Liu Yifei in 1987.
I thought that Liu Yifei's birth would strengthen the marriage between the two, but I did not expect that in the end, I could not escape the curse of divorce.
After having Liu Yifei, the laughter at home is obviously much more, and it has also injected new vitality and passion into their marriage.
With the passage of time, Liu Yifei gradually grew into a little girl and began to receive education.
However, on the issue of children's education, Liu Xiaoli and An Shaokang have different differences, one wants her daughter to engage in scientific research and research in the future, and the other wants her to engage in art and learn dance with herself.
In the end, Liu Xiaoli's stubbornness overcame An Shaokang's persistence, and since Liu Yifei was three years old, she has been learning to dance with her mother, and often participates in literary performances and competitions.
Liu Yifei has been very well-behaved and cute since she was a child, dressed in a princess temperament, which is very likable, plus she also has artistic talent, and under the tutelage of her mother, she soon stood out among her peers.
At the age of 8, Liu Yifei shined in the 2nd Children's Flower Cup Children's Clothing Model Competition in Zhongnan Shangdu, winning the championship from more than 1800 children.
Unfortunately, what she did not expect was that two years later, her family changed and began to rely on her mother.
03
In 1992, when Liu Yifei was 5 years old, there was a man with a big back in the family, and he was Liu Yifei's father, Chen Jinfei.
The first time Liu Yifei saw Chen Jinfei, there seemed to be an inexplicable fate, Chen Jinfei looked at the clever and cute little girl in front of him, and couldn't help but exaggerate twice: "If only I had such a beautiful daughter." ”
As soon as the words fell, the clever Liu Yifei ran to him and shouted "Daddy", and since then she has become Chen Jinfei's dry daughter.
After that, Chen Jinfei began to show his fists in the mall, riding on the east wind of reform, opening a textile factory, engaging in real estate, and becoming a billionaire at a young age.
And Liu Yifei's "father" has also laid a solid foundation for her future acting career.
In 1997, Liu Xiaoli and An Shaokang's marriage lit up a red light and came to an end, the reason for the divorce was very simple, the gathering was less and more, and the feelings faded.
In fact, the two are indeed gathering less and leaving more, in those years, An Shaokang was sent to work abroad for work reasons, while Liu Xiaoli stayed alone in an empty house, obviously not adapting to such a life.
After the divorce, Liu Xiaoli resolutely asked for Liu Yifei's custody, and it is said that the An family was reluctant to give it, but Liu Xiaoli persuaded the other party by committing suicide.
After that, Liu Xiaoli took her daughter Liu Yifei to live in the United States, where she met a Chinese lawyer and then threw herself into the arms of happiness again.
After marrying a Chinese lawyer, Liu Xiaoli, in order to respect her current husband, changed the name of her daughter Liu Yifei to Liu Qianmeizi and joined the United States.
That is, this American citizen has become the biggest black spot on Liu Yifei in the future, and it has not changed until now.
In the years of living in the United States, Liu Xiaoli's mother and daughter were still very happy, and Liu Xiaoli taught her daughter to dance while taking care of housework at home.
Her Chinese husband is also very satisfied with her, and the family is very happy, and the Chinese writer Chen Jiu has specially introduced the life of Liu Xiaoli's mother and daughter in the United States in his book.
Because Chen Jiu is their neighbor in the United States, he knows quite well the lives of their mother and daughter, and it can be seen from his book that Liu Xiaoli's second husband is also quite not simple.
From the house where their family lived, it can be seen that it was a white all-brick two-story house, and that kind of house was only affordable in the United States at that time.
In 2001, Chen Jinfei, a good father, went on a business trip to the United States and went to see his old friend Liu Xiaoli and his daughter.
In a foreign country, when old friends meet, it is inevitable that there will be a different kind of charm in their hearts, and Liu Yifei is also excited after seeing Gan Dad.
After all, after she came to live in the United States with her mother, she had not seen a good father for a long time.
In front of Gan Dad, Liu Yifei seems to relax a lot, because Liu Xiaoli has always been a strict mother, and she is required to do her best everywhere.
Subsequently, Liu Yifei told gan dad about his dream, saying that he wanted to shoot, act in movies, be a star, and become the second "Audrey Hepburn" in the future.
But her mother, Liu Xiaoli, is firmly opposed to her embarking on the path of an actress, because she knows the tao in the entertainment industry, so she does not want her daughter to enter the entertainment circle.
As a businessman, Chen Jinfei has always been sensitive to business information, and he has also gained insight into the huge business opportunities in the entertainment industry in China, and he also wants to take advantage of the opportunity to make a big profit.
Therefore, he flew to China to start taking care of everything, began to prepare for the realization of Liu Yifei's dream, and did Liu Xiaoli's ideological work and entered the entertainment circle.
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In 2002, Chen Jinfei, who took care of everything, once again came to Liu Xiaoli's mother and daughter and conquered Liu Xiaoli with a simple sentence.
"If Sissi wants to be an actress, it's too late to graduate from college, and if you want to be a star, you have to be early!"
After Liu Xiaoli listened, she also thought about it again and again, and finally fulfilled her daughter's wish and took Liu Yifei back to China to take the exam.
In that year, as a Chinese-American, he was successfully admitted to the Beijing Film Academy, and became a classmate with Huang Bo, Zhu Yawen, Luo Jin and others.
Since then, Liu Xiaoli's life has begun a new toss, and since then, with her daughter's acting career, it has not changed until now.
This year, Liu Yifei was 15 years old.
Under the operation of Chen Jinfei, Liu Yifei first became the spokesperson for all of Chen Jinfei's real estate in Beijing, and hung a huge poster of Liu Yifei.
One of the real estates, Chen Jinfei, also named "Jinfei Real Estate", and it is the huge advertisement on this Jinfei real estate that attracts the attention of the famous director You Jianming.
That year, You Jianming was preparing to shoot "The Golden Powder Family", seeing the pure Liu Yifei, You Jianming suddenly had inspiration, thinking that the proud big lady "Bai Xiuzhu" and Liu Yifei's temperament were very close.
Subsequently, Liu Yifei parachuted into the crew of "Gold Powder Family" and started his own acting career.
After that, Liu Yifei, under the impetus of good daddy, successively got good scripts, "Tianlong Eight Parts", "Divine Eagle Hero", "Legend of the Paladin Sword", all of which were popular dramas of the year.
Relying on these popular dramas, Liu Yifei became a fragrant feast in the circle overnight, and countless fans, and was also called "Fairy Sister" by netizens.
But in fact, Liu Yifei was only fifteen or sixteen years old at that time, and she was not enough to be called "sister" at all.
But even so, Liu Yifei is still a mess, in today's words, Liu Yifei at that time was the so-called top stream, no one can compare.
From a small girl film to a top domestic superstar, Liu Yifei completed the transformation in only two years, and almost every role she played has become a classic mark of the times.
And all this is related to the good father Chen Jinfei, of course, it is also related to the mother Liu Xiaoli, you know, the debut of the filming of the drama, many are with funds into the group.
"Tianlong Babu" and "Divine Eagle Heroes", which cooperated with Zhang Jizhong, have set up their own film and television companies, and producer Zhang Jizhong is also one of the investors in their company.
With such a close relationship of interests, Liu Yifei is not angry, they are not at a loss.
As a mother, Liu Xiaoli is also indispensable, although Liu Yifei has become a superstar, but her age is only sixteen or seventeen years old.
Therefore, in order to protect her daughter, no matter where Liu Yifei goes to shoot, Liu Xiaoli will be inseparable and serve closely.
For her daughter, she gave up the comfortable life in the United States, and also gave up the sweet life of her Husband and the United States.
Although she also wants to do her best to maintain the relationship between the two sides, if the husband and wife are separated for a long time, the feelings will naturally become divided.
Gradually, her relationship with her and her husband was consumed with the passage of time, until 2007, the two chose to separate, let go of each other, and rejoiced.
After the divorce, Liu Xiaoli put all her energy on her daughter's body, and at the same time, she also followed closely behind her good friend Chen Jinfei and supported Liu Yifei together.
On Liu Yifei's 18th birthday, Chen Jinfei, a father, spent about 2 million yuan to hold an adult ceremony for her at the "Fangfei Garden" of the State Guesthouse.
The friends who went to the scene are all big coffee in the circle, which gives Liu Yifei enough face and also makes Liu Xiaoli very satisfied.
During that time, the relationship between Liu Xiaoli's mother and daughter and Chen Jinfei was also on the hot search from time to time, and became an after-dinner talk for many melon-eating masses.
But in the face of these black spots, Liu Xiaoli also unceremoniously used legal means to get justice for herself and her daughter.
In the end, this matter was also on the "Today's Statement", and Xiao Sa also specially interpreted this matter, and said that it was a rumor, and the rumor-mongers should be punished.
Although the law has won them justice, there are still criticisms from the melon-eating masses, and in the face of these, Liu Xiaoli has never defended herself and chose to be silent.
For the sake of her daughter, she still went her own way, was willing to do everything, and almost became the spiritual guide of her daughter.
In the following years, although Chen Jinfei and Yang Caiyu had a relationship and were estranged from Liu Xiaoli's mother and daughter, Liu Xiaoli always silently supported her daughter.
Nowadays, Liu Yifei has become popular again with "Dream Hualu", and Presumably Liu Xiaoli, as a mother, will also be happy for her daughter from the heart.
Liu Xiaoli, who is more than sixty years old, still maintains a very good appearance and figure, although she does not have the radiance of her youth, but her love for her daughter has never changed.
Still single, she has dedicated most of her life's energy and time to her daughter's acting career.
Poor parents in the world, in the role of mother, Liu Xiaoli did a perfect job.
Everyone's criteria for measuring success are different, but as long as they meet their own inner needs, it is the success of life.
As a mother, Liu Xiaoli has obviously done it, and it is obvious that she is successful.