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Wen Xingyu, a famous actor and director in China, has directed and performed many dramas and TV series, and has participated in film and television works such as "I Love My Home", "When the Maple Leaves Are Red", "Family with Children", "Love Is Spicy and Hot", "Never Look Away", "The Adventures of the Old Man", etc., and is deeply loved by the audience.
In 2006, Wen Xingyu, who was still performing, was unwell, which made his wife Zhang Kejing rush him to the hospital. After a series of examinations, Wen Xingyu was diagnosed with advanced lung cancer.
After hearing Wen Xingyu's diagnosis, his wife Zhang Kejing was like a thunderbolt on a sunny day, almost fainting, but fortunately, the doctor was on the side to help Zhang Kejing slowly adjust.
She does not understand that her husband has been in good health, why he has this disease, the doctor said: lung cancer patients are more men than women, because of irregular life and bad habits such as smoking and drinking, it is easy to cause lung cancer, especially smoking, is the most dangerous factor for lung cancer.
Hearing smoking, Zhang Kejing was stunned, she was in tears, and she cried uncontrollably: Regret, regret did not force him to quit smoking before the illness, it was I who did not take good care of him, it was all my fault.
A year later, Wen Xingyu died of lung cancer at the age of 66. Before dying, Wen Xingyu told his wife: Over the years, you have been too hard and tired, and you must be strong after I leave.
When the words fell, Zhang Kejing burst into tears. Now that Wen Xingyu has died of illness for 15 years, Zhang Kejing is still regretting why he did not force her husband to quit smoking, and compared with remorse, the choice of more than ten years is even more tearful............
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Wen Xingyu, born in 1941 in an ordinary family in Dandong City, Liaoning Province, his father's surname was Hong, he died early due to lung disease, and later changed his name to Wen Xingyu because his mother changed his surname to Wen.
In middle school, Wen Xingyu is very passionate about literature and art, as long as the school has a literary and artistic performance, almost all of them have his figure, on the campus stage, Wen Xingyu laid a good literary and artistic foundation.
In 1960, Wen Xingyu was admitted to the Acting Department of the Central Academy of Drama, and when he was exposed to acting, he studied acting skills very hard and laid the foundation for his future acting career.
In 1964, after graduation, Wen Xingyu entered the Central Experimental Drama Theatre. Also in this year, in addition to the performance, the theater concentrated on the movie "Female Diver", which was starred by Zhang Kejing, who was also a diver.
After the release of "Female Diver", Zhang Kejing's performance and appearance attracted countless suitors, and even people in the Central Experimental Drama Theater said: This film is particularly good, and the little girl is particularly beautiful and simple.
Through this work, Wen Xingyu recognized Zhang Kejing, but he only had a good feeling in his heart and had no other ideas, after all, the two had not yet met.
Although Zhang Kejing is an athlete, after filming the movie "Female Diver", he didn't want to do this line of work. So Zhang Kejing changed his job and went to the Experimental Drama Theater.
When Zhang Kejing first met Wen Xingyu, he was in the hut at the back door of the drama theater, watching him playing the accordion, one leg still shivering, and this excitement, also into "I Love My Home".
At that time, Wen Xingyu was working in the troupe, and Zhang Kejing, who had just entered the theater, was arranged by the leader to Wen Xingyu: This child has been handed over to you, and you have to help her well.
Unexpectedly, this gang is a lifetime.
In Wen Xingyu's body, what attracted Zhang Kejing the most was a feeling, she felt that Wen Xingyu was more mature, although there was no shortage of suitors around, but she looked at Wen Xingyu and couldn't say a specific one.
After the acquaintance, Wen Xingyu impressed Zhang Kejing with a warm greeting. After falling in love for a while, the two chose to enter the palace of marriage.
At that time, marriage was not as complicated as it is now, as long as she looked at me well, I thought she was still good, you can love each other and get married, and love is also very simple, very simple. Even the concept is not complicated, only enough to love one person in a lifetime.
Although there are bumps and bumps in life, and various situations occur, there are very few people who divorce. When Zhang Kejing married Wen Xingyu, he didn't think about the future, but just followed his heart.
Soon after the marriage, Zhang Kejing gave birth to a son and a daughter for Wen Xingyu. Zhang Kejing also began to work while taking care of his family. As long as there is something at home, or the child is sick, Zhang Kejing will directly ask for leave to deal with it, and finally choose to be careful at home.
At that time, it was very rare to take this step, and Zhang Kejing was able to take this step, and the sacrifice could be imagined.
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Because she is a wife, Zhang Kejing has made a lot of sacrifices, especially at home, many things are solved by her, for a long time, and also formed a family division of labor.
And this division of labor, in Zhang Kejing's view, is not a bad thing, she likes the family, likes children, as long as the family is well taken care of and cleaned up, it is an unspeakable enjoyment.
This is also very happy for Wen Xingyu. As a typical northern man, the family envisioned is: after returning home, there should be a wife to get everything right, it will feel very warm, the home is a home, and there is no worries after going out.
It is in such a coexistence environment that the family is well maintained, and the children are gradually growing, they all support Wen Xingyu to go outside to develop well, with the support of the family, Wen Xingyu also completely let go of his hands and feet to develop and create wholeheartedly.
In this way, Wen Xingyu and Zhang Kejing's division of labor model of "male outside and female inside" have lived for decades, supporting each other and walking with each other for most of their lives, enjoying happiness in a bland marriage.
In the 1980s, Wen Xingyu directed a large number of dramas, such as "The Song of the Great Wind", "The Legend of A Q", "Spirit and Flesh", "Buddy Toss", etc., and his superb acting skills were also praised by people in the industry.
In 1993, Wen Xingyu received Yingda's sitcom "I Love My Home", at first he was a little hesitant, but because of Yingruocheng's relationship, wen Xingyu still agreed to come down, and said that I would try to act, if not, I would have to change people.
Unexpectedly, Wen Xingyu's performance was too superb, which also made him a classic.
When filming this work, Wen Xingyu also established a deep "father-son" friendship with Yang Lixin.
Because Wen Xingyu is an iconic figure in the drama industry, Yang Lixin is very admired, and he has always been an idol, when he met Wen Xingyu in the crew, Yang Lixin was very excited.
At first, in Yang Lixin's concept, Wen Xingyu was an evergreen tree in the drama industry, and should be a more serious, non-smiling, and even sentimental person, but he did not expect that Wen Xingyu was actually very humorous, and he was a comedic genius.
Fortunately, "I Love My Home" is a comedy, which makes Yang Lixin laugh unscrupulously, and even laughs many times during filming, the reason is that Wen Xingyu is teasing him on the side.
The number of times this laugh scene was too much, yang Lixin could not resist, so he said to Wen Xingyu: Old man, when there is no drama, please don't be present. But the next time he filmed, Wen Xingyu was still happy on the side.
Later, Yang Lixin understood that because of the existence of Wen Xingyu, Yang Lixin's performance was more handy, and he often played beyond normal.
Because of this, Yang Lixin and Wen Xingyu have a very good relationship, and although the scene is finished, they both maintain a deep friendship.
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After "I Love My Home", Wen Xingyu has successively filmed the movies "Love Spicy Hot", "Tianya Song Girl", Haiyan's TV series "Never Look Away", sitcom "Family with Children" and so on.
Wen Xingyu, who is busy on the screen, will also get together with Yang Lixin when he has time. Knowing that Wen Xingyu likes to eat fish, every time he eats, Wen Xingyu will warmly order a fish for Wen Xingyu, and even if he sees fresh fish species outside, he will buy it back and give it to Wen Xingyu.
In the face of Yang Lixin's words and deeds, Wen Xingyu was also very happy, saying: Lixin, with you, I feel as if I have another son, whether it is river fish, sea fish, or Norwegian fish, Swedish fish, you have let me eat it all over again, there is your "son", old man, I have a blessing.
For Yang Lixin's goodness, Wen Xingyu has always been in his heart, and he also cares for Yang Lixin. When he knew that Yang Lixin liked to eat Lanzhou ramen, in order to make Yang Lixin eat authentic, he went to find a ramen shop on the street and pestered the people in the shop to teach him how to make Lanzhou ramen.
After returning to Beijing, Wen Xingyu called Yang Lixin to his home for dinner, and Yang Lixin's look turned out to be a bowl of authentic Lanzhou ramen, which made Yang Lixin very happy and moved.
After "I Love My Home", Wen Xingyu has always wanted to shoot a sitcom with the theme of the elderly's twilight love, he planned a script synopsis, although the content is well written, but the TV drama market is conservative about this kind of subject, so that Wen Xingyu has not found an investor.
Fortunately, Yang Lixin's help matchmaking for him promoted Wen Xingyu's wish, and even allowed Wen Xingyu to direct the TV series "Fire Brother Spiritual Leader", which was also the last TV series directed by Wen Xingyu.
In 2000, Wen Xingyu, whose fame had greatly increased, also appeared on the stage of the CCTV Spring Festival Gala, and performed the sketch "The Girl Who Loves to Laugh" with Cai Ming and Period.
The famous Wen Xingyu has also become a fragrant feast in the eyes of advertisers, and shooting advertisements has also become an important task of Wen Xingyu. Although he is a little older, he is extremely harsh on the "picking" of products.
And most of the advertisements done by Wen Xingyu are also some advertisements for elderly products, he will personally try it before endorsing a product, and reject it directly if it is not good, which is not only a principle, but also Wen Xingyu's responsibility to the audience.
Filming and advertising have allowed Wen Xingyu to make some money, and life is supposed to be generous, but it has not been reflected in Wen Xingyu's body, no matter what activities he participates in, he always wears a gray dress and pants, which is very low-key.
For Wen Xingyu, the advertiser said bluntly: Wen Xingyu's only hobby is smoking, he smokes particularly fiercely, and he always smokes without leaving his hand.
It is also because of the smoke that Wen Xingyu's life has undergone major changes.
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Wen Xingyu, who loves to smoke, smokes three or four packs of cigarettes a day. For this hobby, whether it is Yang Lixin or his wife Zhang Kejing, they have strongly dissuaded him so that he can quit smoking.
Under the persuasion of Zhang Kejing, Wen Xingyu slowly quit, but people did not expect that this quit smoking was too late, and smoked uncontrollably for a long time, which buried a health hazard for his body.
In 2006, Wen Xingyu suddenly fell into a coma and was taken to the hospital for rescue. After diagnosis, the doctor gave the advanced lung cancer.
Wen Xingyu fell ill, a family collapsed, their children were not around, at the moment when Wen Xingyu fell ill, Song Yan had no main heart, and she did not know who to turn to for help.
In a hurry, she had to call Yang Lixin, Yang Lixin learned about it, he immediately rushed to the hospital, in the face of Wen Xingyu's illness, Yang Lixin did not understand at all, but heard the doctor said that it was caused by smoking addiction and irregular life, he regretted it very much, and did not dissuade Wen Xingyu from quitting smoking earlier.
After the hospital's timely rescue, Wen Xingyu's condition improved, but on the eve of the Spring Festival in 2007, Wen Xingyu was in a coma again, and the cancer cells began to metastasize.
In order to allow Wen Xingyu to stay a little longer, Zhang Kejing consulted with his children and sent him to the Cancer Hospital of the Chinese Academy of Medical Sciences, where the attending physician happened to be his son-in-law.
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Since Wen Xingyu's wishes, the son-in-law has been taking good care of the elderly, and his wife Zhang Kejing will come to see him every day, knowing that her husband's appetite and spirit are not very good, but she will ask her husband what he wants to eat and do what he likes to eat.
Eating the food made by his wife Zhang Kejing, Wen Xingyu was very relieved. In front of her husband, Zhang Kejing has always maintained an optimistic spirit and let him actively cooperate with the treatment.
Even Wen Xingyu was very optimistic, even when the cancer cells spread wildly, because of the disease, the whole body was swollen, which made relatives and friends cry of pain when they saw it, but he still comforted and said: What is cancer, I will definitely be able to overcome it.
Watching her husband's situation deteriorate, Zhang Kejing also couldn't hold back tears, when the tears slid down his face, Wen Xingyu wiped the tears for his wife, and said guiltily: Before, I was not good, I didn't listen well, I shouldn't smoke so much, the road ahead, I can't accompany you down, you have to be strong, live well.
After listening to her husband's words, Zhang Kejing burst into tears.
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Because of his addiction to smoking, especially when he was suffering from illness, Wen Xingyu once asked his wife for a cigarette, but Zhang Kejing failed to satisfy her husband, and at that time, he smoked and did not smoke.
On July 30, 2007, Wen Xingyu died of organ failure at the age of 66. At the memorial service, Zhang Kejing cried and fainted several times, and the whole process required the support of relatives to walk.
On her husband's tombstone, Zhang Kejing used eight words "Youth has gone, love forever" to interpret his love for her husband.
After bidding farewell to her husband, Zhang Kejing fell into great grief, washing her face with tears every day, her spirit was a little trance, and in just a few days, she seemed to be more than 10 years old.
In order to get Zhang Kejing out of grief, the son and daughter have taken him to live next to them, hoping that the new environment can erase the mother's grief, but because Zhang Kejing's feelings for her husband are too deep, those past years and past are unforgettable.
Especially walking in the familiar streets and seeing familiar scenes, this will make Zhang Kejing see things and think of people, remember her and her husband's past, and can't help but burst into tears.
After living with her children for a while, Zhang Kejing still chose to return to the familiar place to live, she felt that she could not let go of her husband, and if she could live in a familiar place, she could feel that her husband was still around.
It's just that her husband is gone, and Zhang Kejing's feelings are empty, but in this familiar room, Zhang Kejing seems to be able to feel her husband's breath, and she has some comfort in her heart. How many times when she dreamed back in the middle of the night, she could see her husband smiling at her, but when she opened her eyes, she was full of sadness.
In the face of her husband's departure, Zhang Kejing was also very upset, because she blamed herself, if she forced her husband to quit smoking, there would be no such situation. Because of the smoke, Zhang Kejing's happiness in the second half of his life was ruined.
Whenever her husband dies or the Qingming Festival, Zhang Kejing will choose to miss the years that were sweet and happy.
Walking in the familiar street, when he sees the opposite sex whose height and back shadow are similar to her husband, Zhang Kejing will involuntarily step forward. Just by seeing that very different face, the pain in her heart could not be expressed.
In this way, Zhang Kejing was strong in grief and missed her husband in strength.
In 2022, Wen Xingyu has been dead for 15 years, Zhang Kejing is also very strong, life is no different from ordinary people, but her inner pain cannot be erased, and her obsession with her husband is also accompanied by the rest of her life.............
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