In recent years, many children and parents have not looked forward to Children's Day, but some are afraid? It's not because I'm afraid of spending money, it all starts with those "rituals".
Sugar Mom had the privilege of participating in all the Children's Day performances during the Candy Kindergarten period. Parents feel much the same way. I was proud to see my children standing on stage, but I was also too tired to complain.
I thought that on June 1, 2022, the children would still perform various performances as before. Unexpectedly, the beginning of This June 1st, the style has changed, and many parents have raised their hands in approval!
The kindergarten ate "dam mats" and gave more than 400 children a June Day
In a kindergarten in Bozhou, Anhui Province, children sat around the courtyard, and a burst of joy and laughter attracted the attention of the people around them.
At first, I thought that it was only when the children arrived at lunchtime and understood the intentions of the kindergarten director that they knew that this was the June 1st Children's Day ceremony carefully prepared for the children by the kindergarten director and the teacher.
What is different from the past is that the kindergarten scene does not set up a stage, and the children do not wear performance costumes, but gather together like "eating mats".
The director of the kindergarten is more than 400 children, and 37 tables are set up, providing fruits, drinks and fries and grilled sausages, as well as crayfish that parents are very hungry, which can be said to be a variety of delicacies.
About 10 children sat at a table, eating snacks and playing poetry solitaire, and the atmosphere was extremely lively. Many parents gathered around the kindergarten door to watch, a scene that has rarely been seen in recent years.
In fact, a closer look will find that parents rarely let their children eat such as drinks and fries. But this time, the parents not only did not care, but also expressed great support, saying that the reason is that people with babies feel more deeply.
After the kindergarten June 1st, the head of the kindergarten restores the simplest happiness of the child
May and June are a nightmare for many children and parents. The May Day holiday, the Dragon Boat Festival, and Children's Day are coming one after another, and although there are holidays, they are more tired than usual.
Many kindergartens and primary schools even start preparing for Children's Day performances a month or two in advance. Dancing, performing musical instruments, singing and other tricks are increasing.
If the child participates, he must practice and prepare costumes and props every day, and maybe parents will make up for the baby, and think about it and be physically and mentally exhausted. If you don't let your children participate, it seems particularly unsociable.
Perhaps some parents and children really like these performances, but most parents still have bitter words and do not like this "sense of ceremony".
However, the director of the anhui garden seems to have heard everyone's voice. This year's Children's Day, she changed the previous form and did not let the children prepare the program in advance.
The director explained that her purpose was to liberate the children and the parents. Let the children simply be happy and go to their own holidays.
This banquet may not seem luxurious, and the scene layout is very simple, but the children's happiness is much higher than the performance scene, so the kindergarten director's approach is strongly supported by parents.
Some parents who are ready to send their children to kindergartens say that they like the atmosphere of this kindergarten very much. It seems that the director of the kindergarten was careless and made a super attractive admissions advertisement.
Is it better to not perform and not to award June 1, or is it better to perform the form of the program?
Seriously, Children's Day was originally a tribute to the Lidice massacre and the days of children who suffered in the war. It is a festival established to protect the rights and interests of children and improve their lives.
But as time went on, the atmosphere of Children's Day became less sad and serious. There's nothing wrong with seeing today's kids getting better and better and celebrating on this day.
But I don't know when it began, and the simple celebration became formalized and became a match day. The children had to squeeze out the rest time in school to rehearse, and the teacher had another major task in addition to teaching.
Parents are not allowed to rest after returning home from work, supervise their children's practice, and even prepare to perform on stage with their children.
And will the children really be happy to perform on stage? Looking back at the kindergarten babies who cried and performed, it seemed funny, but in fact, they were very scared.
As the headmaster said, children are smiling on stage and on camera, but they may not be really happy.
The form of "eating mat" became popular after June 1st, and parents suggested that it be promoted nationwide
The principal of the kindergarten said that it took about 4 to 5 hours to prepare food for the children, hoping that the children would have a different Children's Day.
Now it seems that the wish of the director of the kindergarten has come true. This time, the form of "eating table" became popular on June 1, which not only received a good response in the local area, but also was loved by parents everywhere.
Many parents suggest "nationwide promotion", and this simple celebration ceremony is more needed in primary schools than being over-consumed by a festival.
Although children need exercise opportunities, choosing these holidays that should be simple and happy to spend and arranging unnecessary forms is actually a burden for children, parents and teachers.
Even if you are not prepared for anything, it is good to just give your child a day off and let your child really relax at home for a day.
Candy Mother's Heart:
From a neutral point of view, performances and other forms will indeed deepen children's impression of kindergartens. Teachers may also want parents to see their children progress in school, but inadvertently these forms do bring a lot of trouble.
Kindergartens and primary schools can first vote to ask parents and children what they think, and then decide. For children, the simpler and happier.
【Today's Topic】Do you feel the need to perform on Children's Day?
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