In 2022, Na Ying in the show "Riding the Wind and Waves", because he sent a photo of his son, let the audience be moved to tears.
On the photo, it is a picture of Na Ying sending off his son happily.
She hugged her son tightly, and in order not to let him see her tears, she had to stop crying secretly.
At that time, Na Ying's husband Meng Tong stood in front of her, but he never dared to look at her, nor did he come forward to comfort her.
Why is that?
In fact, Meng Tong was also very reluctant to be happy, he was afraid that once he came forward to comfort him, Na Ying would cry even harder, and at the same time, his heart would have greater waves.
Happy is not Meng Tong's biological son, but Na Ying and her ex-boyfriend.
But even so, he has always regarded this stepson as his own, using the power of love to heal the shadow of his abandonment by his father.
What is the reason why Meng Tong is so good to his stepson?
What made him willingly marry Na Ying, who had an unmarried child at the age of 39?
1.
From the moment she was born, Na Ying was doomed to her extraordinary.
She was born in a family of traditional Chinese medicine, and her father was the famous medical expert Na Hongsheng.
Since she was a child, she was taught by her parents to become a quiet girl in the future and inherit the mantle of the family.
But Na Ying did not do it, as soon as she read the medical books full of words, she was sleepy, and quietly sneaked out to play when her parents were not paying attention.
Na Ying does not like to study medicine, she likes to be an actor and learn to act.
However, as soon as this dream appeared, it was shattered.
That year, Na Ying accidentally scratched her face by climbing a tree, leaving a small scar, so she missed the actor's path.
But that didn't stop her from going the other way.
Because Na Ying's voice is very recognizable, and she sings with great charm, she was recommended to the vocal orchestra by the teacher.
Later, she signed a contract with the company by virtue of her strength, and later covered Su Rui's song for a small fire.
However, none of this made Na Ying completely explode until 1995.
This year, Na Ying released her second Chinese album "The Darkness of Day And Night".
Perhaps the lyrics and tunes are too touching, this album directly exploded on the line, and the sales volume reached 150,000 in ten days.
Since then she has had the title "Love Song Queen".
The brilliance of her career made Na Ying feel the feeling of being held in the palm of her hand, and at the same time she also met Mr. Gao, a man who made her obsessed with half her life and desperate to have children out of wedlock.
Mr. Gao is a footballer and met Na Ying at a party.
"Are you from Shenyang?"
"I'm from Shenyang too!"
Na Ying and Mr. Gao learned that they were fellow countrymen, shook hands happily, and later asked for each other's contact information, and over time they talked about love.
However, their love is not favored by the public.
After all, one is a "first sister in the music world" and the other is a "football team pioneer", the two are not professional, and their personalities are still impatient.
In addition, Mr. Gao likes to play in various places such as bars.
Therefore, countless people feel that their relationship will not be long.
But the more the outside world disagreed, the more rebellious the British became.
Not long after the two fell in love, Na Ying and Mr. Gao lived together.
Not only that, she also pushed off many of her own activities for this Mr. Gao, and specially took leave to run to the scene to watch her boyfriend's game.
In 2001, Na Ying, who has been in a hot love period, was dragged to a bar by her boyfriend Mr. Gao, saying that he wanted her to meet his good friend.
Here, Na Ying met the bar owner Meng Tong.
At that time, Na Ying and Meng Tong's communication was not deep, and neither of them thought that they would become a family in the future.
Girls in love are always ignorant.
Just like Mr. Na Ying Ai Gao, she is willing to wash her hands and make soup for Mr. Gao, and Mr. Gao likes spicy meals, so she will make them for him at once, even if she can't eat spicy sometimes, she will endure.
He was even willing to give birth to a child for Mr. Gao without registering his marriage.
At first, the two had a good relationship.
When Na Ying was just pregnant, Mr. Gao often bought her some gifts and coaxed her with good food and drink: "Wait, when I settle down my career, we will get married." ”
Na Ying, who is naïve, thinks that Mr. Gao will really marry himself, so whenever he hears this sentence, he will nod his head happily and say, "I am waiting for you."
However, waiting and waiting, waiting for the news that "the boyfriend betrayed himself and had an illegitimate child with other women".
2.
In fact, when Mr. Gao and Na Ying fell in love, they fell in love with a bar singer named Wang Nawen.
Like Na Ying, she is Mr. Gao's hometown.
When I met Mr. Gao, she was still in the grieving of the death of her ex-boyfriend.
Perhaps Wang Nawen's singing voice is too charming, or perhaps her fragile appearance is painful, so Mr. Gao was moved at the first sight of her, and then frequently showed kindness to her.
However, Quan was rejected by Wang Nawen.
"Aren't you in love with Na Ying, why do you still want to chase me?"
"Na Ying and I broke up a long time ago, and I like you."
Wang Nawen knew about Mr. Gao and Na Ying, so at first he didn't have any thoughts about Mr. Gao.
But no one expected Mr. Gao to lie and tell her that he and Na Ying had broken up.
Hearing this news, Wang Nawen gradually put down his inner defense line and slowly accepted Mr. Gao.
However, no one expected her to be pregnant.
The news of the pregnancy made Wang Nawen happy that she could finally have a home, so she excitedly told Mr. Gao about her pregnancy.
I thought that Mr. Gao would be as happy as she was.
But Mr. Gao's first reaction was very cold: "In our current state, it is not suitable to have children." ”
Hearing these words, Wang Nawen was first stunned, followed by doubt.
She wonders if her boyfriend has someone else out there, so she doesn't want children?
Although there were doubts, Wang Nawen decided to save the child in his belly first, after all, the child was innocent.
So she called Mr. Gao, wanting to tell him about her decision, and then discuss it properly.
But what Wang Nawen did not expect was that the other party's number had become a blank number, not only that, but since then, Mr. Gao had never come to her bar again, just like the human world had evaporated.
In this way, Wang Nawen became a single mother.
At first, Wang Nawen was still thinking that Mr. Gao could not be contacted suddenly, perhaps because he was bitter.
Unexpectedly, she actually saw in the newspaper that Mr. Gao held hands with Na Ying and gathered together.
Wang Nawen realized that he had been deceived.
Thinking about the pain of a child he had, a person crying alone and calling him, for a moment Wang Nawen's heart was full of resentment.
She asked the relationship to find Mr. Gao's contact information, asked him out, and made him responsible for himself and the child.
Unexpectedly, Mr. Gao directly denied it and did not recognize that the child was his own.
Mr. Gao's approach completely annoyed Wang Nawen, and she did not expect that the man she loved was so unbearable, so she took him to court and claimed 70,000 yuan in child support.
The incident was so big that Na Ying's family all knew about it.
However, at that time, Na Ying was still pregnant, and her family was afraid that she would be hit, so she kept this matter a secret.
But I couldn't hide from the first fifteen.
It wasn't long before Na Ying still knew, and she was devastated and cried all day and all night.
She wanted to break up with her boyfriend, but the thought that the child in her belly might be born without a father, her heart ached.
At the same time, after Mr. Gao's affair was exposed, he also knelt down in front of Na Ying to ask for forgiveness, claiming that he had not had children with other women.
Watching the man he loved apologize again and again, Na Ying's heart softened and decided to forgive him.
She gave birth to a son for Mr. Gao, who was named Happy.
She wants her son to live happily ever after.
I originally thought that this matter had just passed, but I didn't expect that the matter had come so badly.
Shortly after Na Ying had forgiven Mr. Gao, the media suddenly revealed that mr. Gao and Wang Nawen's children's DNA matched and were biological.
At that moment, Mr. Gao was indefensible, and Na Ying also decided to end this 10-year-long love.
She left their home with her son, who was only 4 months old.
3.
After leaving Mr. Gao, Na Ying's whole person became soulless and depressed, very decadent.
She told her family: "I will never be in love again!" ”
Na Ying, who was suffering greatly in her heart, originally thought that she would not pick up love again, but she did not expect that a man appeared in front of her at the most critical time.
This man is Meng Tong.
Meng Tong is not only a bar owner, but also an elite returnee with an MBA degree in Germany.
He fell in love with Na Ying at first sight.
Ever since Na Ying followed Mr. Gao to their bar for the first time, he was amazed by Na Ying's innocent and bold smile.
He had seen countless women of all kinds, and only Na Ying had given him a different feeling.
Na Ying is not as city-like as other girls, she has a very straightforward personality, and sometimes smiles because of a small matter.
This point makes Meng Tong very appreciative.
But at that time, Na Ying had a boyfriend, and he had to hide everything in his heart and endure it all the time.
It wasn't until he heard that Na Ying had broken up that he gradually launched an offensive.
Once, Meng Tong heard that Na Ying was going to pass through a food street after work, so he specially changed into a casual dress and came to the food street, pretending to be okay to hang out.
When Na Ying appeared at the intersection, he also deliberately walked over leisurely to greet him: "Such a coincidence, do you want to have a meal together?" ”
Meng Tong often does this way of creating chance encounters, and sometimes sends some small desserts to Na Ying Company from time to time, just to make her happy.
But these behaviors, Na Ying all politely refused, and she also kept a distance from Meng Tong.
She felt that having a child out of wedlock might have a bad impact on Meng Tong, so she didn't want to bother him.
But Meng Tong did not give up, he asked Na Ying to go out shopping from time to time, stay with her all day, and make her happy.
Laugh with her, make trouble with her, and sometimes the two walk together and give you a word of mutual pity, like two small children.
Such a sweet companionship made Na Ying feel the sweetness of love again, but she did not dare to go forward in her heart.
Perhaps Meng Tong saw that Na Ying had such a thought, so he took a rest day, and he confessed to Na Ying:
"They are all adults, I don't go around in circles anymore, these days you must also see that I like you a lot, I know you have been hurt, but it doesn't matter, I am willing to heal your wounds and give you a warm home." 」
Meng Tong's words completely shattered the softest part of Na Ying's heart, but thinking of her son, she asked a question.
"You know my son is still young, and he doesn't know who his biological father is, so if we are together, my son's feelings are the primary consideration."
Meng Tong naturally understood this, and he told Na Ying with great certainty: "In the future, I am happy that I am my own son, I will treat him as if he were my own son, and I will not lose a love for him while loving you." ”
In this way, Na Ying and Meng Tong were together.
In 2006, the 39-year-old Meng Tong took Na Ying's hand and entered the palace of marriage.
4.
After marriage, Meng Tong did indeed do as promised, good for Na Ying, and also good for his stepson.
At that time, Xingxing did not know that his biological father was Mr. Gao, and he always thought that his biological father was Meng Tong.
So he pestered Meng Tong every day, asking him to take himself to the park to play, and sometimes to trick him.
Once, Meng Tong was reading the financial statements, and without saying a word, he snatched the report from his hand and folded it into a piece of paper airplane.
Seeing this situation, Meng Tong was very angry, but he was never angry at the happiness.
Just patiently tell him: "A man will not take away other people's things without the consent of others." ”
A word directly calmed the little guy, and he rushed over to apologize.
Later, Mimi quietly asked Meng Tong: "Dad, why don't we look like father and son?" ”
The happy words made Meng Tong stunned.
He thought about it for half a day, but finally did not answer the question.
Perhaps the child is curious and can't solve this problem, he has been looking for this answer.
Later, the following year, the daughter of Na Ying and Meng Tong was born and named Apple.
The arrival of Apple filled the whole family with a lively atmosphere.
However, at this moment, Mr. Gao suddenly contacted Na Ying and said that he wanted to meet his son.
Na Ying denied it as soon as he took a bite.
She didn't want to see the man who hurt her at all, and she didn't want her son to see him.
But at this moment, Meng Tong suddenly advised her: "After all, it is a happy biological father, and it is not fair to the child if he is not allowed to see the child." ”
Na Ying felt that Meng Tong's words were very reasonable, so she made a decision to let her son and Mr. Gao see each other once a weekend.
But she herself will not meet with Mr. Gao, she will let the nanny aunt take her son out to play with Mr. Gao.
In order to make his son mentally prepared, Na Ying called his son alone in front of him.
She told her son Happy: "You actually have two dads, and from now on, every Saturday there will be a dad with the surname Gao to take you to play." ”
He was happy to hear that he could go out and play, but when he heard that he had two fathers, he suddenly wondered.
He asked his mother why he had two fathers, but Na Ying did not tell him the truth.
Because she was afraid that her son would be hit in his heart, she wanted to wait until he had the mental capacity to bear it, and then tell him that Meng Tong was not actually his biological father.
However, with the development of network information, the happiness of the young age finally discovered his own life.
It turned out that Gao Dad, who took himself out to play every Saturday, was his biological father, and Meng Dad, who had been in love for a long time, was not his own father.
The moment I learned the truth, I was happy but I couldn't be happier anymore.
Perhaps it was adolescence that he became sensitive in his heart.
After returning home, he looked at Meng's father, who was as warm and gentle as ever, and greeted him: "My son is back, and when the meal is ready, go and eat." ”
If it was as usual, he would definitely pounce on Meng Tong without hesitation, and then come to an intimate and intimate play.
But when he learned that the man in front of him was not his biological father, he subconsciously wanted to keep his distance.
He said thank you to Meng Tong very strangely, and then went back to the room and did not come out to eat.
The little guy was lying on the bed, his mind was full of news that he was not his own child, he did not know why his biological father did not want himself, and he did not know whether he would be abandoned in the future.
Suddenly, tears filled the eyes.
For several days in a row, Happy was like this, shutting himself in his room every day after school, not talking but shedding tears.
At first, Meng Tong and Na Ying thought that children had entered puberty, so they became very sensitive.
Unexpectedly, once, the family was eating at the table.
The little daughter Apple suddenly asked a happy sentence: "Why is your surname Gao and my surname is Meng, aren't we a father?" ”
The daughter's words directly made the atmosphere of the whole audience cold.
Na Ying and Meng Tong had not yet spoken, only to see their son's tears fall, and he cried and said, "Why am I not born to my father?" Why wasn't I born into a normal family, and why am I different from my classmates! ”
Crying and crying, the little guy roared directly.
At that moment, Na Ying's heart was as if it had been stabbed fiercely, and she also cried with great guilt in her heart and apologized to her son vigorously.
Fortunately, as the head of the family, Meng Tong is rational enough.
He sat down next to his stepson, patted him on the shoulder, and asked softly, "What do you think of me as a father?" Qualified to be your father? ”
Happy did not speak, in fact, in his heart, Meng Tong is his father.
It's just that he can't accept that he was born in an incomplete family, and he can't accept the strange eyes of his classmates around him.
Watching his stepson not speak, Meng Tong continued to enlighten him: "In fact, you don't have to be sad or inferior, you have two fathers, these two fathers love you very much, and the love you get is double, no less than your classmates." ”
Hearing these words, I was happy to stop crying.
He looked at Meng Tong with some surprise, and the look in his eyes seemed to say, Really?
Meng Tong nodded and made a color at his daughter Apple: "We are all very happy, right?" ”
As if receiving his father's signal, the little apple immediately jumped off the stool, ran to his brother, hugged his leg, and said, "Yes, I love my brother the most, and no one can bully my brother!" ”
At that moment, I felt the warmth of the family.
Later, in order not to let his stepson be treated differently by his classmates, Meng Tong also went to school.
He told the teacher about the situation at home, and by the way, he bowed deeply to the classmates, he loved his son very much, and hoped that they could treat his son kindly.
Since then, joy has been like a changed person.
He is no longer as sensitive as before, very concerned about other people's opinions, but has become more and more cheerful and lively.
When others asked him about his origins, he would also grin a big grin: "That is all in the past, why mention it?" ”
5.
Now happy is 18 years old, and his relationship with his parents and sister is particularly good.
Once he and his sister followed Na Ying to the supermarket to shop.
Because Na Ying is a very low-key person, she does not want others to recognize her when she goes out, so she wears a mask and sunglasses.
Unexpectedly, these two little guys suddenly had the idea of mischief.
The eldest son first shouted, "Isn't that Na Ying?" ”
In an instant, all the people in the supermarket looked at Na Ying.
Then the daughter Apple said again: "My mother is Na Ying!" ”
Hearing the two children calling her name so frantically, Na Ying turned back and pointed to the two naughty bags: "In the future, I am not allowed to call my name in the supermarket!" No matter how much others like your mother, don't be arrogant and proud! ”
But how can these two children obey, as long as they go out with their mothers to play, they will call Na Ying's name when they see a crowded place.
Then as long as Na Ying was angry, they hid behind their father Meng Tong.
The two naughty bags have been dragging Meng Tong, showing a grimace at Na Ying: "With my father's support, you can't take us!" ”
The family was always so happy and lively.
Now happy is about to become a college student, and he has become more and more sensible.
Once, he saw a news story on the Internet that people would be blessed as soon as they reached middle age, and then the odds of getting sick would increase.
Therefore, when he was happy and impatient, he rushed home, immediately pulled his father Meng Tong to go out to run in circles, he told his father: "The most important thing in this life is health, and I don't want the person I love the most to have anything." ”
Hearing the words "the most loved one", Meng Tong was also surprised.
He was very touched and grateful to be happy to accept him, and this son was his pride.
6.
Once Na Ying's song "Conquest" had such a lyric.
"You have countless scars in your healthy appearance, and I am a prisoner of this battle, so I was conquered by you, cutting off all retreats, my mood is strong, my decision is confused." 」
This lyric seems to be writing about Na Ying's experience.
When Na Ying faced love, she was crazy and impulsive, and she was willing to have a child out of wedlock for Mr. Gao, but this decision was still a little confused in the end.
However, fortunately, there is no invincible road in heaven, and fate will not treat good people badly.
So Na Ying met the man who loved her the most, Meng Tong, when she was in the most pain.
Meng Tong did not care about the criticism of the outside world, nor did he care about Na Ying's past, he wrapped Na Ying with warmth and sincerity and cherished it well.
And treat the stepson as if he were his own, and use love to heal the stepson.
There are many good men in this world, but there may not be many good men like Meng Tong.