Wang Zijian once boasted to the outside world: "My wife is a sanda champion, she can protect me." ”
But who would have thought that the punch in the face would come so quickly,
In 2017, Wang Zijian reported that he was abused by his wife, and he also suffered from severe depression.
Wang Zijian revealed: "I was slapped more than 500 times by my wife, burned by cigarette butts six times, and admitted to the hospital eight times. ”
Because of domestic violence and depression, the program hosted by Wang Zijian was also suspended.
Until 2019, Wang Zijian starred in "An Jia" and returned to the big screen.
But the scenery of the past is long gone, and only one supporting role can be played in it.
In the past, Li Shi and Wang Jianguo under his hands have become rookies in the talk show industry, and their fame is much greater than his.
What did Wang Zijian experience in those years? Is domestic violence real?
Wang Zijian was born in Beijing in 1984 to an ordinary family, his father working in the construction industry.
Not long after Wang Zijian was born, the village was included in the commercial planning of Beijing City.
With one of the largest night market snack streets in Beijing,
The house price of the family courtyard has increased several times,
As soon as Wang Zijian opened the door of his home, he could see hundreds of meters of lively commercial streets, from Wangfujing to the South River.
Because of this, Wang Zijian has also developed a playful and noisy personality.
If you want to use a word to describe Wang Zijian in his youth, it is estimated that it is "arrogance".
But this kind of arrogance, Wang Zijian is confident.
He is talented and can learn anything quickly and well.
When Wang Zijian was a child, he often walked the streets and alleys in Beijing, became fascinated by crosstalk, and listened to it for half a day under the stage.
He also went to the Beijing Dandelion Art Troupe to study for a few months, but because of the opposition of his family,
Can only give up the road of crosstalk,
Wang Zijian can only pursue other fun things, first fascinated by four-wheel drive racing, because the brain melon is flexible,
He had no teacher, and in just one week, Wang Zijian achieved something small.
Half a year later, the 4WD car played in the top three in Beijing and became a famous 4WD driver in Beijing.
Later, Wang Zijian fell in love with e-sports,
Unlike many people, although he likes to play games, his grades are firmly at the top of the grade.
Many of the teachers who taught him said he was a child prodigy.
His family said that he did not do his business, but Wang Zijian did not think so, and still relied on playing games.
Earn the first pot of gold in your life,
Because the game was played well, Wang Zijian wrote some articles to express some of his views.
Who ever thought that every article was adopted by magazines, so many magazines and game companies,
Constantly going to the door to find him to write, in the e-sports circle, Wang Zijian became a celebrity,
In high school, Wang Zijian skipped class all day and did not write homework.
But every exam is the same as the first grade,
At the same time, it will also write soft articles to some game manufacturers, with an income of about 10,000 yuan per month.
Wang Zijian also gave interviews to CCTV's 5 sets of e-sports worlds and achieved "wealth freedom" very early.
It's hard to imagine, in the '90s, a 16-year-old teenager,
Surprisingly, he could earn tens of thousands of yuan in monthly income, Wang Zijian later said:
"If I had stayed in esports at the time, maybe I'd have taken stakes in some game companies and now have coffee on the beach in Hawaii."
Although Wang Zijian's grades are very good, the leaders of the school are very dissatisfied with him.
They believe that students should look like students.
Because Wang Zijian has good grades and is an honor student,
For his greed, the teacher also turned a blind eye and rarely cared about him.
He will only criticize some students with poor grades, but Wang Zijian feels that he is "isolated".
Wang Zijian said to others at that time:
"It's not interesting to study in school, the school hasn't handed me anything, why should I stay in school and increase the promotion rate of the school?"
In the third year of high school, Wang Zijian chose to drop out of school.
Bought 6 tutorial books, went straight home to teach yourself,
Didn't expect even this,
Wang Zijian still relied on his excellent college entrance examination results to be admitted to Beijing Normal University and majored in journalism.
When I was a freshman in college, Wang Zijian felt that reading was too boring.
Dropped out of school again, and didn't even get my diploma.
Early out of the social turmoil, Wang Zijian soon mixed with the famous,
And also drove into the "fast lane", relying on their fame in the esports circle,
Wang Zijian worked as a choreographer at a game magazine.
Wang Zijian is arrogant and arrogant, and often expresses his dissatisfaction with some veteran editors, which naturally offends many people.
On the first day of work, Wang Zijian sat in the middle of the office.
One by one, they opened the magazine and said to the people in the magazine:
"What are your editors writing about?" Why don't I write it to him? ”
Some senior editors thought he was too arrogant and waited for him to fall behind.
But Wang Zijian relied on his strong business ability to make the magazine leaders convinced him.
During that time, Wang Zijian single-handedly took over the work of the entire department.
The workload is equivalent to 4 times that of others, becoming a god-level figure in the game circle,
And the quality of the articles written is particularly high.
Not long after working in the magazine, Wang Zijian was poached by Macau Five Star Satellite TV.
Engaged in the planning and editing of TV game programs,
A few years later, Wang Zijian sat at the tip of the pyramid again,
After a few years in the TV circle, I may think that such a day is too boring,
Wang Zijian resigned again to enter the advertising industry, working as a top designer in a well-known company.
Unexpectedly, in the advertising industry, Wang Zijian is still mixed up,
25-year-old Wang Zijian, wearing a brand-name dress,
Driving an Audi car, shuttling through high-end office buildings in Beijing, with more than 60,000 salaries every month,
The annual income reached more than 700,000,
Having a house and a car and a deposit at a young age is something that many people dream of.
But this kind of stable life, for Wang Zijian, is actually a kind of torture.
At that time, Wang Zijian felt that such a life was too uncomfortable, and always wanted to pursue something else.
Just one day, Wang Zijian was pulled to the theater by a friend who studied cross-talk to "save the emergency".
After the performance, Wang Zijian received a reward of 80 yuan,
Unexpectedly, because of this experience, Wang Zijian once again felt the charm of crosstalk.
Quit his job with an annual salary of 700,000 yuan, entered the cross-talk industry, and talked about cross-talk.
Wang Zijian started his own cross-talk class, and on weekends, he would perform at a small theater in Beijing.
With his superior eloquence, Wang Zijian was once again on fire,
It can be said that the field is full, inside and outside the audience,
At that time, Wang Zijian became the most popular big star in the cross-talk circle.
In a new field, Wang Zijian's talent has once again appeared, and he seems to be born a cross-talk wizard.
You know, crosstalk is not a small fight,
Even Guo Degang has been practicing hard for more than 20 years, and only then did he have a day to emerge.
But Wang Zijian can be said to be self-taught, not only learning orthodox cross-talk knowledge,
Also groped out their own stage style,
Wang Zijian's cross-talk content, keeping up with the trend of the times,
Incorporate some hot spots and elements that young people like, which is refreshing,
In 2010, Wang Zijian founded a folk cross-talk group "The Second Beijing Cross-talk Conference".
Its popularity is second only to that of Deyun Society.
One year, the Deyun Society fell into a storm of public opinion that the disciples beat people, and Wang Zijian did not fall into the well.
On the contrary, he openly supported Guo Degang,
And also said that Guo Degang is indeed hotter than himself.
In 2011, Wang Zijian paid homage to Hou Yaohua and became his disciple.
In 2012, Zhou Libo jumped from Shanghai Satellite TV to Zhejiang Satellite TV.
In order to fill the gap, Shanghai Satellite TV launched "Tonight's Post-80s Talk Show".
At that time, the director of the program, Ye Feng, named Wang Zijian to host,
Wang Zijian was invited and did not expect to say a word:
"It's silly to talk about crosstalk on TV!"
Director Ye Feng tried to persuade Wang Zijian to agree to join,
So every Sunday at 23:00, Wang Zijian will put on a suit and take the stage.
Wang Zijian spoke boldly and spoke pungently,
Skinning and ironing some things that are not accustomed to it, many things that others dare not say,
Wang Zijian dared to say,
They were also made up into funny passages.
As long as it is something that young people care about, Wang Zijian can always put forward a sharp point of view.
From late marriage and late childbearing, to high housing prices, the situation in the Middle East, and the Japanese nuclear leak,
Wang Zijian said that the head was the Tao,
The audience applauded thunderously,
At that time, Li Shi and Wang Jianguo were still the screenwriters behind the show.
Wang Zijian called these people "my friends",
Calling Li Shi "egg", slowly he also praised these people,
Wang Zijian can be said to have supported a program by himself, and he has also reached the peak of his life.
Probably because life is too smooth, Wang Zijian often has no mouth,
Speaking on the show is not in good proportions,
I also don't understand what modesty is, which offends many people in the circle,
They have all said that it is easy to fold, and Wang Zijian is no exception, at the peak of his career,
The Spring Festival Gala program team of the Year of the Dragon found him and planned to invite Wang Zijian to participate in the Spring Festival Gala.
However, he refused, and Wang Zijian "picked three or four", that is, he did not want to go to the stage.
Wang Zijian's statement is:
"I have some standards for going on the show, and you have to give me a 15-minute shot or I won't go."
How many stars at that time begged for the Spring Festival Gala,
However, Wang Zijian was always unwilling to change himself and directly rejected others.
How hot was Wang Zijian back then? How "arrogant" is it?
There is a saying in the cross-talk circle: "Listen to cross-talk, either listen to Guo Degang or listen to Wang Zijian." ”
Wang Zijian is known as the "little prince" of the cross-talk industry and the "first person of Chinese talk shows".
Wang Zijian once publicly ridiculed Zhou Libo:
"No matter when, I scolded Zhou Libo as it should be, because Zhou Libo scolded my master, did not beat him, and already gave him a lot of bodyguard face."
Wang Zijian and Guo Jingming also had a war of words,
Later, when I went to the "Dancing Forest Conference",
Wang Zijian served as a judge,
The whole time has been gaging jokes, showing a disdainful expression for the show, and "pinching" with Venus.
Venus told the contestants to dance with their hearts, and Wang Zijian said, "Shouldn't you jump with your feet?" ”
Venus retorted, "Your name is Self-Construction, and I hope you can build your own knowledge of dance, rather than self-abuse!" ”
Wang Zijian directly hit back: "Teacher Jin Xing's language level is really not good! ”
Not only that, as the core character of the show,
Wang Zijian even the general director Ye Feng dared to directly stifled,
Singer Mao Amin took the stage with him for the first time,
Wang Zijian also did not give face at all, teasing her: "Very stupid, can't catch the words." ”
It can be said that Wang Zijian at that time was too sharp,
Even he himself said:
"Society has never taught me any particularly big lessons, nor has I ever been a blow to the head, life is too smooth."
Perhaps it is precisely because of this that it has laid hidden dangers for him in the future.
In 2017, Wang Zijian's program "Tonight's Post-80s Talk Show" suddenly stopped broadcasting.
In fact, in 2014, two years after the show began,
Wang Zijian was in trouble, once saying to others:
"I told the people on our side that I couldn't do it, I was too tired, and the amount of creation was too large."
As early as before, Wang Zijian felt that he was about to "run out of Jiang Lang",
When the show first started, Wang Zijian and some friends were strung around the street.
You can come up with several paragraphs and then organize them into the copy of the program,
But by 2014, the talent seems to be about to "dry up", and there are fewer and fewer things that can be thought of.
After all, the program is 45 minutes long, and the amount of creation is too large.
But Wang Zijian is a perfectionist, and the requirements of each work are very high,
So in order to write good copywriting, he often stayed up until the early hours of the morning, and the pressure was too great.
Wang Zijian really couldn't stand it, so he said to the producer:
"I flew 68 times a year, and as soon as I entered the airport, I wanted to die, I couldn't stand it, I couldn't go on, I was too tired, too tired."
But others said to him:
"You are Wang Zijian, and it is nothing to you at all."
What's worse is that the rules for reviewing TV shows are getting stricter and stricter, and sometimes the programs are recorded.
Wang Zijian suddenly received a call from the director,
Say this doesn't work, that doesn't work, and sometimes says there are too few paragraphs,
Wang Zijian was naturally very depressed in his heart, but he still had to run around every day.
Not only did he suffer a major blow in his career, but emotionally, Wang Zijian also suffered a great setback.
Wang Zijian once boasted to the outside world that his wife could protect herself.
But I did not expect that after getting married, my wife not only did not protect him, but also spread the news of domestic violence.
Wang Zijian once cried in the program:
"It turned out that my wife beat me, I just ran, I just cried, I now write it down first and then run, then I have to get a lot of beatings, and then this thing will become addictive." 」
My wife beat me, I didn't feel any dissatisfaction, I just felt that she was such a kung fu woman, living in today, this era of peace is really not worth it. ”
Wang Zijian used the form of a paragraph on the show to tell the public that he was abused by his wife.
But no one believed him,
After all, how can a man be beaten by a woman,
They all thought he was saying something,
Until one day, Wang Zijian posted a photo of himself being beaten to a blue nose and swollen face.
Later, he cried and said that after getting married, his wife slapped him more than five hundred times and burned himself six times with a cigarette butt.
Eight times beaten into the hospital,
The audience knows,
It turned out that what he said might not be a paragraph.
After this matter was exposed, Wang Zijian's career began to decline, and a bigger blow was still to come.
After divorcing his wife,
Wang Zijian said that the company he worked so hard to found has undergone a change of legal person.
The shareholders and the chairman of the board of directors turned out to be the names of their ex-wives, and even the property was almost completely transferred.
In the end, he was clean, his wealth was empty, and his body was full of injuries.
Wang Zijian completely tore his face with his ex-wife on the Internet, and the two started a lawsuit.
In 2017, Wang Zijian couldn't bear it and posted on social platforms:
"After a year and a half of divorce, I am very kind to you, please don't hurt me again!"
Wang Zijian has come all the way, which can be described as a smooth sailing,
But at the age of 34, he encountered Waterloo,
Hit by the blow, he no longer has the pride of the past,
Depression is also getting worse,
Lost dozens of pounds,
Wang Zijian locked himself in the room, and people from the outside could hardly contact him.
In that year, Wang Zijian publicly accused his wife of domestic violence against him.
But his wife said that she was not a Sanda champion and had never beaten him, and both sides had their own opinions.
After all, people who have practiced sanda and often exercised may indeed be greater than men in strength.
(The picture comes from the network, only with pictures)
But as a big man, he will be abused by his wife, and domestic violence for such a long time,
Such a thing is said, and it is estimated that few people believe it.
(The picture comes from the network, only with pictures)
Therefore, if the two people say it, netizens do not know which one to believe.
At that time, almost no one helped him speak.
Even the official account of the Beijing Second Xiangsheng Conference, founded by Wang Zijian, posted that
The so-called domestic violence is a press release that he paid for, and the photos of the injuries he posted are just photos of the drama and makeup.
Wang Zijian said that everything is ridiculous to the extreme, but he can only temporarily withdraw from the entertainment circle.
In the two years since he disappeared, no one knows how Wang Zijian overcame depression.
And how to cheer up step by step,
In those two years, Wang Zijian posted on social platforms:
"Maybe I can't really hold on, I'll try harder, take a pill, not escape, don't worry about me, good night."
After that, Wang Zijian frantically deleted his friend's contact information,
At the same time rejected all activities and socializing.
In a self-deprecating tone, Wang Zijian admitted that he suffered from major depression and revealed to the outside world:
"There are only more than 30 people in my social circle, I will delete one a day, maybe deleted, I will ..."
Although the sentence was not finished, Wang Zijian's sadness was already self-evident,
At the height of depression,
Wang Zijian thought about taking his own life, and took the more than 30 friends in the address book as a countdown to life.
Fortunately, in the end, I survived and actively took medicine for treatment.
I also bought some to study, and then slowly walked out.
Later, Wang Zijian also recalled,
I have a very good relationship with Teacher Zhang Guoli, and I will come to his house every year to pay respects to the New Year.
But one year, Teacher Zhang Guoli ignored himself,
Wang Zijian felt very strange, so he asked the reason, and Zhang Guoli said with a displeased face:
"I don't like a set of people in front of me and a set of people behind my back, you have blocked me, deleted my contact information, and what are you doing to me to pay homage to the New Year?"
Wang Zijian suddenly realized this and was busy explaining to him,
I was originally depressed because of domestic violence by my wife.
That's why I delete someone else's contact information,
Plan to delete one friend a day,
Wait until all your friends have deleted them, and then you will make a conclusion.
2 years later, "Spit Conference" was on fire,
Li Shi, Wang Jianguo and others came to the front of the stage from behind the scenes.
In just two years, Wang Zijian was abandoned by the times.
Those former partners, careers have reached the peak,
But he has lived so bleakly,
Wang Zijian had laughed at countless people, but this time, he could no longer laugh.
In 2020, Wang Zijian suddenly posted:
"Guys, I'm still alive."
Many viewers know that after going through so many tribulations,
The confident Wang Zijian came back again,
But this time, he no longer said crosstalk, but became an actor.
Wang Zijian starred in the TV series "An Jia",
Although it is a supporting role in it, the good villain has also returned to the public's vision,
Back to the talk show again, Wang Zijian returned as an actor.
People who once refused the invitation to the Spring Festival Gala can only play a supporting role in "An Jia",
In the play, Wang Zijian nodded to others, and there was a scene of brushing the toilet.
Wang Zijian, who returned to the entertainment industry, no longer has the pride and pride of the past,
On the contrary, it is more modest,
Wang Zijian said that he did not plan to return to the stage of talk shows, saying:
"Talk shows, cross-talk, including the host, I can do it without doing it, but I will act more in the future."
Wang Zijian later participated in the third season of "I Am an Actor",
With superb acting skills, he restored some classic segments in "Yu Huan Shui",
During the performance, Wang Zijian cried,
Even the instructors in the audience cried,
At the end of the performance, Wang Zijian leaned against the wall and choked on his wife and children for a while.
Many people describe him as a performance wizard,
He conquered the judges and the audience,
Wang Zijian also suddenly found that in fact, there were still so many spectators waiting for him to return and return to the stage.
Wang Zijian no longer has the "arrogance" of the past, and in the face of flowers and applause, he just waved his hand:
"I don't have so much to say, so I won't say it."
In 2021, when henan was raining heavily, Wang Zijian donated 500,000 yuan,
In 2022, he starred in "Beyond", and it seems that he has found the direction of his life.
It seems that the past has been relieved, and it is inevitable that people will be distressed,
The glory and tribulations of the past, for Wang Zijian,
All have become the past, Wang Zijian's life,
It seems like a trip on a roller coaster, climbing to the top and falling into a deep valley,
But he never collapsed, and after Nirvana was reborn, he was still the spirited teenager.
No one can do a smooth life, victory is not proud, defeat is not discouraged, this is the wisdom of life.