Nowadays, the high pace of stress has become the epitome of young people's lives, and young people are running for life but lack time to take care of their families.
The effort paid is directly proportional to the reward. Most of the time is spent on work, and the money is earned and the family is not taken care of, so many people have to ask a nanny to tidy up and help with laundry and cooking.
The way you get along with the nanny naturally becomes a topic of concern for everyone. From ancient times to the present, China has a tradition of benevolence and compassion for the weak.
It is believed that nannies, as the service industry of society, are more taken care of, but there are still some people who feel that employers and employees naturally draw a line between the two, and the two should naturally be different.
Not long ago, Chen Haomin's family did not let the nanny eat on the table and caused heated discussions, and some netizens took out other star homes to compare with this.
Don't eat leftovers on the table and domineeringly return to the fans
With the development of network technology, live broadcasting has become a popular profession now, and many ordinary people get traffic by shooting short videos, and finally achieve the purpose of making money through live broadcasting.
In addition to ordinary people, many celebrities have also joined the live broadcasting industry, some of them are making money and bringing goods, and some are just simply chatting with fans.
Not long ago, Chen Haomin and his wife opened a live broadcast at dinner, originally just live chat, but they would not have thought that it would cause a public opinion storm.
At first, the two were still chatting normally, but there was no nanny at the dinner table except for the two. At that time, netizens felt that there might be other meals to fry the nanny was still busy, and the two had already finished eating when they had not yet seen the nanny on the table, and netizens commented on how the nanny had not finished.
When the fans had not yet walked out of the doubt that the nanny was not on the table, Chen Haomin and his wife did an act that made netizens even more puzzled, only to see Chen Haomin's wife Jiang Lisha bring the leftover meals between the two to a bystander to eat, commenting on a frying pan in an instant.
It turned out that there was no nanny who did not finish the work, but they did not let the nanny come to the table, and the nanny had been eating alone on the side, "The nanny is also a person, and there is no first class for you, why not let you eat at the same table with you?" "You guys don't respect people too much, don't you?" "People make cattle and horses to serve you, don't let them go to the table, and give people leftovers to eat?" "All kinds of insults fill the entire comments section.
The two turned a blind eye at first, and slowly became more and more intense, helplessly Jiang Lisha responded, but this response did not extinguish the sympathy of netizens for the nanny, but made public opinion more influential.
Jiang Lisha said that she spent 20,000 yuan to hire her originally for a job, and if she wanted to enjoy happiness, she stayed at home and came out to work.
Their own family has hired nannies for so many years without the habit of nannies eating at the table, and they have a contract with the housekeeping company, then they belong to the employer and belong to the boss, where is the boss employee at the same table to eat?
In addition to these Jiang Lisha more excessively said that there is a distinction between superior and subordinate levels in society, no rules and no circles, no matter what other people's nannies are, their own homes are such rules.
Before some netizens exposed That Chen Haomin's family let the nanny take care of the four children and sleep on the sofa, they could not get enough rest, and now they are talking about not eating at the table.
Originally, Jiang Lisha could completely turn a blind eye, not to be biased by these parts of the comments with biased live content, or to respond with an affinity attitude, but she had to raise the bar with netizens who had many things, and her attitude was still tough and soft, so that netizens directly attacked Jiang Lisha and intensified the spread of public opinion.
In fact, as Chen Haomin's nanny, she knows best whether Chen Haomin's family is good or bad for herself, since she is still doing it, it shows that Jiang Lisha has no bad behavior towards the nanny, as a netizen, only through a brief one-sided live broadcast to make a conclusion that it is inevitable that it is too extreme.
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Some people see the nanny as a nanny, while some people already see the nanny as a family member.
Zhao Wenzhuo has two nannies at home, and every year Zhang Danlu will share a group photo of the whole family giving the nanny's birthday on social platforms.
Although the two nannies have a small birthday interval, they have always been separated, and in addition to preparing a sumptuous dinner, a birthday cake, and various birthday gifts such as necklaces.
Zhao Wenzhuo said that the nanny has been working at home for more than ten years, and the activity of giving the nanny a birthday has also been insisted on for more than ten years, in their hearts, the nanny has long been a family-like existence.
Not long ago, Zhao Wenzhuo's family just gave the nanny their 13th birthday. In the photos posted, Zhang Danlu and the nanny are face-to-face photos, the two children kiss the nanny's cheeks, and the nanny is in a photo with the whole family, and there is no hierarchical relationship between them, which is very close.
Unfamiliar passers-by looked at these photos and felt that it was even more solemn than some families celebrating their families' birthdays.
He Chaolian, as the daughter of the gambling king, is high and cold in the eyes of outsiders, but she has become a caring little granddaughter for the nanny in the family.
She shares her daily life with the nanny on social media accounts, shares photos of the nanny's birthday celebration, and she says that when she was ten years old, the nanny began to take care of herself, and she has long become a family in her heart. The nanny is her other mother.
In addition to He Chaolian, He Youjun and the nanny also have a very cordial relationship. The matter that the nanny had hidden because she was hit by crossing the road and was afraid that He Youjun was worried was later discovered by He Youjun.
He immediately put down his hands and rushed to the hospital, and blamed him for not telling him at the first time, which showed that the two of them were also very close on weekdays.
In fact, every family has a way to get along with the nanny, as a bystander we can not interfere, but no matter what the way of getting along, the employer must respect others.
You can't think that you have a sense of superiority when you pay for a nanny, and you think that you are superior to others and think that the nanny should be obedient in everything. There is no such thing as three, six, or nine in society, everyone is equal, and they must respect each other.
epilogue
Each of us longs to be respected by others, but only those who respect others can win the respect of others, so mutual respect is the basis of the bridge to get along, and it is also the premise for mutual trust.
Psychology says that what people think in their hearts will be shown through unintentional small actions, and in people-to-people interactions, sincerity or hypocrisy will actually be expressed in behavioral performance.
Compare the heart to the heart, and win the hearts of the people. No matter who it is, only by comparing heart to heart will there be the so-called empathy. Comparing heart to heart is a person's highest moral cultivation.
How to treat others, the same others will also return to themselves in the same way, with the heart for the heart to achieve a win-win state.