In 1989, Zhang Yimou divorced Xiao Hua as he wished, and then openly entered into a double pair with Gong Li; Chen Kaige also married Hong Huang, who was born into a famous family.
Only Gu Changwei, the good brother of the two, was still alone.
So Zhang Yimou and Chen Kaige used the guise of holding a "Nortel alumni" exchange meeting to find a girlfriend for 32-year-old Gu Changwei.
Jiang Wenli, who studied at Nortel, naturally heard the names of Zhang Yimou and Chen Kaige, and heard that they were going to hold exchange meetings.
Jiang Wenli also rushed to join in the fun.
Gu Changwei, who was sitting in the corner, his eyes swept around like radar, when he saw the youthful and beautiful Jiang Wenli.
Gu Changwei's eyes lit up, and he fell in love with this girl who was 9 years younger than himself at first sight.
But at that time, Jiang Wenli already had a legitimate boyfriend Wang Quanan, who was later Yu Nan's boyfriend and Zhang Yuqi's ex-husband.
But as the saying goes, "a martyr is afraid of pestering a man", Gu Changwei ignored Jiang Wenli's famous flowers and began to launch a fierce attack on her.
Writing love letters and giving gifts is commonplace.
However, what impressed Jiang Wenli even more was that as long as Gu Changwei encountered a suitable script, he would think of Jiang Wenli for the first time.
Wang Quan'an has just graduated, whether it is financial strength, status, resources, fame and Gu Changwei are a big difference, the only advantage is that he looks more handsome than him.
But can a handsome man eat it as a meal?
The answer is obviously impossible!
In the subtle, Jiang Wenli's heart began to gradually move closer to Gu Changwei, and the feelings between her and Wang Quan'an were precarious.
In 1992, when Gu Changwei learned that Chen Kaige was preparing to prepare for the filming of "Farewell to the Overlord", he hurriedly won a role for Jiang Wenli.
After the film was made, Jiang Wenli and Wang Quan'an parted ways, the same man, Gu Changwei was so bright and upright to "pry the corner".
Wang Quan'an naturally said that he could not bear this humiliation.
After Jiang Wenli and Wang Quan'an broke up, Gu Changwei became even more unscrupulous, saying to Jiang Wenli: "If you don't agree, I will pestering you every day until you agree."
Under Gu Changwei's "poor pursuit and fierce beating", Jiang Wenli finally nodded and agreed to be his girlfriend.
But the love affair between the two was strongly opposed by Jiang Wenli's parents.
Jiang Wenli's mother was named Tang Suqin and her father was Jiang Peiji, both of whom were born in 1935 and first worked in the railway system.
Tang Suqin and Jiang Peiji had three daughters in total, the eldest daughter was named Jiang Wenjuan, the second daughter was called Jiang Wenyuan, and Jiang Wenli was old and young.
Tang Suqin's three daughters, one more beautiful than the other, especially the second sister Jiang Wenyuan, is the most beautiful of the three sisters.
Jiang Wenyuan's facial features are exquisite like dolls, not only looks like one in a hundred, but also a talented girl who graduated from Peking University.
The eldest sister Jiang Wenjuan is the mother of actress Ma Sichun, and later she gave up her job for Jiang Wenli's career.
Became Jiang Wenli's agent.
Tang Suqin regards her three daughters as treasures in the palm of her hand, and their lifelong events naturally cannot be ambiguous, not to mention that the door is right.
This external condition must also be matched.
Gu Changwei's cheeks were sunken and his eyelids were hunched, looking malnourished, while Jiang Wenli was young and beautiful.
The combination of the two is exactly the real-life version of "Beauty and the Beast".
Although Jiang Wenli's mother strongly opposed her being with Gu Changwei, Jiang Wenli was determined not to marry Gu Changwei.
Many people can't understand what kind of personality charm Gu Changwei has that can make Jiang Wenli so dead to him.
In fact, this has a lot to do with the environment in which Jiang Wenli grew up.
Jiang Wenli's mother Tang Suqin and father Jiang Peiji met at the Railway Games, Tang Suqin sprinted, and Jiang Peiji jumped high.
The two later participated in the choir competition together, and as soon as they came and went, Tang Suqin and Jiang Peiji developed a good feeling for each other.
Jiang Peiji wrote a note to Tang Suqin: "I want to be friends with you."
Tang Suqin responded crisply and neatly: "Agree."
In this way, the two began to exchange letters, and their feelings grew day by day.
But a year later, Jiang Peiji was transferred to Xinjiang, and the two who had just established a romantic relationship were about to face the test of their feelings.
How long will it take for Jiang Peiji to go, whether he will be transferred back, and what if he cannot be transferred back, all this is a real problem.
At that time, the carriage and horse were very slow, the letters were far away, and only one person could be loved in a lifetime.
Tang Suqin and Jiang Peiji did not break off contact because of "long-distance love", they stood the test of time and contacted by letter for 5 years.
Five years later, Tang Suqin and Jiang Peiji received a marriage license.
But this does not mean that the husband and wife can live together, and soon after the marriage, Jiang Peiji continued to return to Xinjiang.
Tang Suqin, on the other hand, stayed in her hometown in Anhui.
This separation of the two places lasted for 15 years, during which Tang Suqin gave birth to three sisters, Jiang Wenli.
Tang Suqin found out that she was very conflicted when she was pregnant with Jiang Wenli, because she already had two daughters, and she had to take care of the elderly and the children.
Tang Suqin really didn't have that much energy.
After some thought, Tang Suqin and Jiang Peiji planned to beat up the child.
I have to say that Jiang Wenli was lucky, and in that era, wanting to do this kind of surgery required various procedures, which was very troublesome.
Coupled with the fact that Jiang Peiji and Tang Suqin's work places are thousands of miles apart, the letters signed and sealed by the units have been a month or two since they came and gone.
In the past few months, Jiang Wenli in Tang Suqin's belly is not small, and under the nature of maternal love, she decided to give birth to this child.
In this way, Jiang Wenli was born safely without any danger.
After Jiang Wenli was born, Tang Suqin was not less blinded by her in-laws, and at that time, "son preference" was a common phenomenon.
After giving birth to three granddaughters in a row and the wish to hold their grandchildren was disappointed, Jiang Wenli's grandparents became more and more reluctant to see Tang Suqin.
Tang Suqin is also a spoiled child, unwilling to accept the anger of her in-laws, cleaned up, and sent 6-month-old Jiang Wenli to her grandfather's house.
Grandpa Jiang Wenli is not an ordinary person, he is the earliest train driver, he has pulled many big people, and he has also been rewarded.
After retirement, Grandpa was able to receive a monthly salary of 38 yuan, which was already very good in that era.
Grandpa married three wives successively, the first and third did not have children, and Jiang Wenli's grandmother was the second.
She had three daughters and a son.
Jiang Wenli's two aunts and uncles died of illness one after another, leaving only Jiang Wenli's mother a single seedling and her grandfather to rely on each other.
Jiang Wenli was sent to her grandfather by Tang Suqin, and lived for 6 years, during which she and her grandfather cultivated a deep relationship.
Jiang Wenli, who returned to her parents, became a waterworker after graduating from high school and was admitted to the Beijing Film Academy in 1988.
When Jiang Wenli was 20 years old, she officially debuted by starring in the TV series "Cliff Lily", and then met Gu Changwei in 1989.
After a period of contact, the two reached the point of talking about marriage, although the outside world did not look favorably on Gu Changwei and Jiang Wenli.
Even Jiang Wenli's mother, Tang Suqin, was firmly opposed.
But Jiang Wenli was not moved, because she grew up with her grandfather, although she had no worries about food and clothing, she still lacked a sense of security in her heart.
Gu Changwei is honest and generous, and he is attentive and considerate to himself, and Jiang Wenli has found a sense of "home" in him.
So in 1993, Jiang Wenli and Gu Changwei entered the palace of marriage, and Tang Suqin could not help her daughter, but could only bless her.
For a period of time after marriage, Jiang Wenli and Gu Changwei's career love double harvest, the two husband sang with the wife, and the life was quite sweet.
However, since 1998, Gu Changwei's career has fallen into a low period, and the burden of supporting his family has fallen on Jiang Wenli.
Jiang Wenli has no complaints, she believes that husband and wife must support each other in order to go further, she began to take the drama madly.
After several years of hard work, Jiang Wenli gradually gained a foothold in the show business circle, and Gu Changwei also became a well-known director by directing "Peacock".
It is reasonable to say that this is the time when Jiang Wenli and Gu Changwei and their husband and wife go hand in hand and enjoy flowers and applause together.
Unexpectedly, Gu Changwei just had some achievements, and he and the actress passed on the scandal.
His gossip object was Zhang Jingchu, the heroine of "Peacock", when some media took photos of the two shopping together.
The Internet is full of propaganda, and the marriage of Gu Changwei and Jiang Wenli has a crisis.
Jiang Wenli behaved calmly, took her son to Gu Changwei's crew, lived for more than a month, and showed affection from time to time.
But Jiang Wenli's mother couldn't hold her breath after hearing the scandal about her son-in-law.
At the beginning, Jiang Wenli suffered a lot in order to support her family, Tang Suqin could see it in her eyes, and now her daughter's marriage had problems.
Tang Suqin was upset with her daughter from the bottom of her heart.
She asked her acquaintances about Gu Changwei's "gossip", and then decided to move to her daughter's house to guard her marriage.
After Tang Suqin and Jiang Peiji lived at Jiang Wenli's house, they tapped Gu Changwei from time to time: "People must know how to be grateful, and don't forget the past if they have a career."
Gu Changwei listened quietly without saying a word.
However, Tang Suqin felt that her son-in-law did not take her words to heart, and she said bitterly to Gu Changwei: "Husband and wife are still the original match, and there are not many happy couples halfway."
Gu Changwei heard his mother-in-law's unspoken meaning, but unfortunately, although he had his own unique advantages and insights in filmmaking.
But his own personality is reticent and unkind.
Gu Changwei had the heart to explain his "gossip" to Tang Suqin, but when the words came to his mouth, he didn't know how to open his mouth, and could only be silent.
Tang Suqin looked at her son-in-law's attitude and thought that he was deliberately cold to himself, and his heart became more and more unhappy.
Jiang Wenli did not want to see her mother and Gu Changwei estranged, and could only act as a "peacemaker" in the middle, and she personally took her mother to visit the class.
Then let her mother see Gu Changwei's work attitude and how to deal with the world, Tang Suqin knew that it was not easy for her son-in-law.
I had to work more than ten hours a day.
Thinking about how her son-in-law returned home, he still had to listen to his own sneers and look at his own face, and Tang Suqin felt a little guilty in his heart.
Later, Tang Suqin heard from the people around Gu Changwei that the son-in-law treated people sincerely and was also very intimate with Jiang Wenli.
She slowly let go of her prejudice against Gu Changwei.
In 2013, Jiang Wenli was revealed to be drinking coffee abroad with xiaoxian meat, and for a while there was constant speculation about the relationship between the two.
In the end, it was The little fresh meat that stood up and clarified the matter.
The scandal between the two was over.
Of course, Gu Changwei believed in Jiang Wenli's personality, but he still complained to his mother-in-law "schadenfreude": "Wenli also has a scandal."
Tang Suqin listened to it and said plainly: "A gossip is a gossip, and a fake one can't be true."
However, after Jiang Wenli's "scandal incident", Gu Changwei was also a lot more honest, and there was no more messy news.
Tang Suqin saw that the marriage of her daughter and son-in-law had returned to its previous calm, so she completely relaxed her heart and returned to her hometown.
Poor parents in the world!
Tang Suqin really broke her heart for her daughter's marriage, but fortunately, her hard work was not in vain, as long as her daughter's marriage was happy.
For Tang Suqin, it was stronger than anything.