In August 2019, Huang Yiqing was arrested.
At this point, Huang Yi and his seven-year-long dispute over women came to an end.
Speaking of Huang Yi, everyone's impression of her is, "a teenager becomes famous, retreats for love, and has a bumpy love road."
The two failed marriages that happened to her once made her the focus of discussion.
Zhang Yuqi said that in the future, the title of "looking at men's vision" can be transferred to Huang Yi.
However, recently, Huang Yi, who laughed at himself and could change his name to "Huang Lian", seemed to be on fire again, and there were hot searches on both heads for three days.
A sentence shouted gu juji, "Brother Five, can you reply to Xiao Yanzi's private message", quickly landed on the first hot search; the protagonists of "Huan Zhu Gege 3" collectively praised and called her on "Riding the Wind and Waves", and also liked the hot search.
On the first stage of "Sister Lang 3", Huang Yi sang rap in Shanghainese, sassy and cute;
When the camera shook her face, the 44-year-old her state was different from that of 34-year-old Zheng Xiuyan and 31-year-old Zhang Tianai.
Netizens wondered, how did the sister eat the "garbage" of life, turn it into sugar, and achieve reverse growth?
A gray childhood
Huang Yi is a native of Shanghai.
When she was a child, she often traveled with her friends to the old lanes and bungalows in Shanghai.
She is wild, does not like to read, and is mischievous like a boy, known as "bear child".
When he was a child, Huang Yi lived with his grandparents.
Mom and Dad were in Beijing and had been absent from her upbringing.
Little she remembers of her mother.
One of the most memorable times was when she was in second grade, one day, Grandma led a woman up to her and said, "This is your mother." ”
That day, her mother took her to the park for an afternoon and bought her a lot of balloons, which made her laugh.
It was the happiest and only day she felt her mother's love.
After that, there is no more after that.
Because, my mother came back this time to divorce her father.
After the divorce, Dad rarely came home, and even when he came home, he was a very stern look.
The most he said to Huang Yi was, you can't do this, you can't do that, you always blame.
Once, Huang Yi failed 6 courses in the exam, and he was too scared to go home, and he swung outside alone for an afternoon.
It was dark, and I found myself with nowhere to go, so I hardened my scalp and dared to make a phone call to Grandma.
Grandma said, come back, your father is crying.
At this moment, she felt a little bit of fatherly love.
Huang Yi's childhood color is gray, and there are children playing crazy together during the day, and they don't feel lonely.
But after dark, she was alone in her small room, looking at the lights outside, listening to the sounds of parents and children laughing and playing, her heart was full of longing, she always asked in her heart, when will my parents accompany me every day?
She felt like an outcast, envious of the reunion of others while growing up silently in this boundless loneliness.
"Hurry up and become an adult, so I can find happiness on my own."
Later, she finally grew up, she worked as a waiter, and she also sold clothes in specialty stores.
Finally, due to chance, Huang Yi was recommended to the teacher who played and filmed an advertisement.
Since then, "happiness" seems to have really come.
Emotional hurt
Huang Yi in adolescence is the darling of the advertising industry, after several advertisements were broadcast, Huang Yi gradually had a name in the advertising circle, more and more advertisers looking for her, and the price also soared from the initial 300 yuan to more than 100,000.
Subsequently, her agile and delicate appearance also attracted the attention of many crew directors.
Becoming an actress, which was not originally in her life plan, just happened naturally.
In 2000, Huang Yi, who had no acting experience at all, took over the role of Li Yuhu in "Marrying the Wrong Flower Car to the Lang".
After the drama was broadcast, Huang Yi became popular, and then her acting career began to soar, making movies, TV series, and releasing albums.
Everyone is optimistic about her, thinking that she will become a new generation of big flowers and become the mainstay of the show business circle.
Flowers and applause came to the face, but no matter how lively it was outside, there was always a lack of love in her heart, and the loneliness and lack of childhood had always been with her.
With the death of her grandparents one after another, Huang Yi's desire for home has become stronger, and she can hardly tolerate the state of being unaccompanied and uncared for.
She desperately wants to "find a man to marry", she is eager to enter the marriage, as long as there are men who show love and pity for her, she is like a drowning person who wants to desperately grasp a life-saving straw, too late to think carefully, she rushes over.
Treating feelings like this, hurt is inevitable.
She and Nie Yuan, Wang Yu, and Yang Yi have all had long or short love relationships.
With Jiang Kai, who has known each other for only 14 days, he flashed marriage and divorced in less than a year;
A year later, he and Shanghai Xiaokai Huang Yiqing went to the second marriage.
Not long after the birth of the daughter, the relationship between the two broke down, and then there was a protracted divorce and tearing war.
This time, the scumbag's bottomless entanglement completely destroyed her.
Contradictions abound, fights, and eventually turns from lover to enemy.
He blew up her private photos on the Internet, saying that she was cheating in marriage, irresponsible, and all kinds of things were not;
She hit back, saying that he was violent and that his forehead was sunken in;
He did not let Huang Yi meet with his daughter, and also induced her daughter to smear her together, and even scolded Huang Yi's friends around him; no principle, no bottom line, scolding until the end of the year, resting for a while, and continuing to scold.
Those unwarranted slanders, a steady stream of evil words, can not be overwhelmed by ordinary people.
Overnight, Huang Yi changed from a popular actress with unlimited scenery to a "scumbag" that no one cared about.
All her film contracts, advertisements, endorsements were stopped, and she had to pay a huge liquidated damages of 70 million yuan, and her career collapsed completely; she did not dare to go out, did not dare to look at her mobile phone, and did not dare to contact friends.
She is like a frightened bird, and she cannot sleep peacefully at night.
Many years later, although Huang Yi won the reputation rights lawsuit, the show business circle has already undergone earth-shaking changes, and she will never go back to the past.
Gorgeous turn
In those extremely dark and depressed days, Huang Yi closed herself off, she immersed herself in her own pain; sometimes, she held her daughter, but did not interact with her daughter the whole time, and her mind was scattered, as if she were a walking dead.
The child is very sensitive, and when she is not aware of her mother's love, she will become hysterical, she will lose her temper, and her personality will become more and more withdrawn. Huang Yi's daughter was also like this, once, in order to attract her mother's attention, she lay on the ground and screamed loudly.
The sound was harsh, and Huang Yi suddenly woke up.
"Isn't that exactly what I looked like when I was a kid?"
Because I want to be seen, I always do something out of the ordinary to attract the attention of adults.
"I can't let the pain reincarnate anymore", Huang Yi immediately made a decision, "I must start again, be a different person, a different mother." ”
After a period of time, she calmed down, reflected on herself, and looked back at the emotional experience of moths fighting fire in those years, and suddenly realized.
It turned out that all my previous efforts were just to make the people around me satisfied with me.
In order to win the love and care of others, I put myself into the mode and shackles of "desperately wanting others to love me".
Now that the song has finally dispersed, all that is left to them is the end of a chicken feather, and the good luck of the previous years has all been squandered, leaving only a vague face and a road that cannot be turned back.
Huang Yi finally understood that there was a little girl in her heart who had not grown up, and she could only reconcile with her childhood self in order to harvest true happiness and freedom.
She took the initiative to communicate with her parents, wrote letters to her father, and wrote out all the words she had not said or dared to say in those years; little by little, she repaired her relationship with her original family.
Then, every day, spend a lot of time with her daughter, play games with her, listen to her carefully, in such a loving interaction, slowly, the daughter changed, more and more cheerful, more and more happy, and Huang Yi also healed herself from it.
The acting career was completely shut down, so it turned to the mall; at first, because I didn't understand management and investment, I lost a lot of money. But failure is the mother of success, seeing the parents behind him who support him, Huang Yi has the motivation to continue to rush forward.
She invested in making creative cakes, and when she didn't have money to do publicity at the beginning, she brought the cake to her own door to sell;
Go to the crew, go to the office building, and ask handsome men and beautiful women to try it for free.
Put down your face, put down your body, run one by one, and finally use your sincerity and efforts to exchange more and more orders.
She also sells bird's nest.
With other actresses, do women's clothing together.
She runs a confinement clubhouse, and on the first day of the first day of the new year, she carries red envelopes and lucky bags and visits customers door to door.
Her career map is getting bigger and bigger.
A woman who lives seriously will eventually get the kindness of the world
A few years later, her cake brand became "Hermes of cake industry".
Zhang Ziyi, Wang Junkai and other celebrities have ordered birthday cakes from her.
Annual sales exceeded 30 million.
Sales of bird's nest and women's clothing are also rising.
Huang Yi became a strong woman in the mall.
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In 2021, Huang Yi participated in the "Spit Conference 5".
On this stage, she is bold and bold.
She used the past as a joke to complain, she said, "Men can't change it" and "sister hasn't seen anything."
Only people who have really experienced a bottoming out can be so strong.
Nowadays, Huang Yi participates in "Riding the Wind and Waves", and she has no advantage in singing and dancing, but she is not afraid.
She just wanted to break through herself, just to see if she had any other possibilities besides being an actor and a businessman.
Anyway, the big deal is to lose, anyway, not afraid of imperfection, not afraid of being scrutinized, hitting the south wall can also continue to look up and rush forward.
Huang Yi, she told us with practical actions:
Love and marriage are not the whole of life, they are all of themselves.
No matter what you've been through, don't give up on yourself.
If someone shows us a sinister face, don't be afraid, and use a more fierce face to scare you back.
Life is vast, live freely, don't just live in love and hate.
#乘风破浪 #
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【| Li Jinhua】
【Editing | Late】