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Xu Meizhu, Wang Xinling's mother: There is pain and bitterness after divorce, and she worries about her daughter's love

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Wang Xinling's "Love You" song in "Sister Lang 3" evokes the memories of a generation of killing.

40 years old, put on student clothes, suddenly rejuvenate.

Xu Meizhu, Wang Xinling's mother: There is pain and bitterness after divorce, and she worries about her daughter's love

In her body, not a trace of old age could be found.

Some netizens joked that she had "eaten preservatives."

A large part of Wang Xinling's beauty is inherited from her mother.

Xu Meizhu, the mother, had a failed marriage.

She tasted the pain and bitterness of divorce,

Now the 40-year-old daughter has become her heart disease...

Xu Meizhu, Wang Xinling's mother: There is pain and bitterness after divorce, and she worries about her daughter's love

01

In 1980, 21-year-old Xu Meizhu met Wang Jihui while singing in a Western restaurant.

The two soon fell in love and stole the forbidden fruit.

Soon after, Xu Meizhu found out that she was pregnant.

Xu Meizhu, Wang Xinling's mother: There is pain and bitterness after divorce, and she worries about her daughter's love

In the beginning, they didn't plan to give birth to the baby.

Because I feel that I am still too young, having a baby is a matter of later.

Moreover, pregnancy before marriage is not glorious.

Xu Meizhu, who is still in love, went to the hospital to prepare for surgery.

As a result, I changed my clothes, and as soon as I got on the operating table, a flash of thought crossed my mind:

"I have to keep this child!"

She got off the operating table and said hello to the doctor.

When I got home, I told my parents that I wanted to get married for my children.

In 1982, Xu Meizhu gave birth to a daughter.

With full of love, the couple named their daughter Wang Junru (later renamed Wang Xinling).

Xu Meizhu, Wang Xinling's mother: There is pain and bitterness after divorce, and she worries about her daughter's love

Although the family is average, Xu Meizhu still spent several years with Wang Jihui.

After that, she also gave birth to a son, a family of four sweet and sweet.

Wang Jihui loves a pair of children very much, and every time Xu Meizhu scolds the child, he will transform into a "shield" and protect the child behind him.

Although he was not rich, Wang Xinling was very sensible.

At the age of 5, he was able to help his parents take care of his younger brother.

Her parents were busy at work and were not at home, so she stared at her brother peeing his pants or going hungry.

But when his brother had a cry, he ran to the neighbors for help.

Xu Meizhu, Wang Xinling's mother: There is pain and bitterness after divorce, and she worries about her daughter's love

Every time I go home and see the two children having fun, Xu Meizhu is also full of happiness.

It was the most memorable time of her life.

Sadly, the marriage, after ten years, lit up with a red light.

02

This year, Wang Xinling was in the fourth grade.

Every day when I came home, I saw that my father was always frowning.

Until one day, my mother said that she was going to divorce my father.

Xu Meizhu knows very well that her failed marriage has caused her two children to suffer.

Xu Meizhu, Wang Xinling's mother: There is pain and bitterness after divorce, and she worries about her daughter's love

After the divorce, Wang Xinling followed Xu Meizhu, and his son followed his father Wang Jihui.

For some time, Wang Jihui always hid his son and did not let Xu Meizhu see him.

Xu Meizhu led her daughter and secretly ran to the kindergarten to see her son.

Later, the son also followed Xu Meizhu.

Sometimes, Wang Jihui would go to the kindergarten to see his son and give some pocket money by the way.

But a mother, with two babies, is particularly difficult.

When the family was strapped, he only had a hundred dollars on his body.

Life had to go on, so Xu Meizhu bought a bento and took it home to eat with her two children.

Wang Xinling was very well-behaved and asked her mother if she had eaten.

Xu Meizhu touched her daughter's head and said with tears that she had already eaten outside.

White lies, pouring out love for children.

Xu Meizhu, Wang Xinling's mother: There is pain and bitterness after divorce, and she worries about her daughter's love

Gradually, Xu Meizhu will lose her temper with her children because of a small matter.

Emotions are out of control and will suddenly act on their daughters.

The scolding for no reason made her daughter suffer a lot of grievances.

Wang Xinling hid in the house and turned the music to the maximum.

Xu Meizhu knew that her daughter was using this way to send a signal of anger.

At that time, Wang Xinling did not know that because of the divorce and the pressure of life, her mother suffered from depression.

Xu Meizhu, Wang Xinling's mother: There is pain and bitterness after divorce, and she worries about her daughter's love

Xu Meizhu's emotions fluctuate from time to time, and when they are serious, they will bring the scenes in the TV series into reality.

Sometimes I wake up in the middle of the night, stiff and unable to move.

Wang Xinling was worried, and several times asked the teacher for leave to take care of her mother at home.

When Xu Meizhu returned to her senses, she was full of guilt and self-blame.

She would cut several pieces of fruit and say sorry to her daughter.

The daughter was not angry, knowing that her mother was sick.

At that time, their family of three lived in a relative's house, only a small house of more than ten square meters.

Wang Xinling secretly vowed that in the future, he must make a good profit, let his mother and brother live in a big house, and let the family have a safe haven.

Xu Meizhu, Wang Xinling's mother: There is pain and bitterness after divorce, and she worries about her daughter's love

03

In 1998, 16-year-old Wang Xinling wanted to study at Huagang Art School.

Huagang Art School has trained many star artists, Lin Zhiying and Big and Small S, all of whom came out of there.

After Xu Meizhu knew, she did not agree to her daughter's decision.

Going to art school means you can only go home once a week.

The daughter has less time to accompany herself, and less time to protect her daughter.

But in order for her daughter to have a good future, she still sold the car.

Even if I ride a motorcycle out every day, I have collected tuition for my daughter.

It is also Xu Meizhu's efforts that led to Wang Xinling, who later stood in the spotlight.

Xu Meizhu, Wang Xinling's mother: There is pain and bitterness after divorce, and she worries about her daughter's love

After Wang Xinling started school, Xu Meizhu made an appointment with her for three chapters:

Must call home once a day;

Go home immediately after class on Fridays and back to school on weekend afternoons.

Xu Meizhu's restraint did not seem to work for Wang Xinling, who had just opened his heart.

In 2000, 18-year-old Wang Xinling met actor Fan Zhiwei for filming the short film "The Car is Chasing".

One is a lonely and nameless newcomer, and the other is a popular student.

One is not deeply involved in the world, and one is a prodigal son of love.

Xu Meizhu, Wang Xinling's mother: There is pain and bitterness after divorce, and she worries about her daughter's love

Wang Xinling paid his true feelings at the best age in his life, but a love affair was not complete.

Fan Zhiwei repeatedly exposed the scandal, and the two went around for six years, and finally went to break up.

On the day of the breakup, she canceled her job that day.

Wang Xinling cried and cried, Xu Meizhu saw it after returning home, afraid that her daughter could not open it, and often gave comfort.

But Wang Xinling did not sing like in his own song:

The second you lose love, your heart suddenly grows old.

She still believes in love and encourages her mother to remarry.

Xu Meizhu, Wang Xinling's mother: There is pain and bitterness after divorce, and she worries about her daughter's love

04

Xu Meizhu always influences her daughter.

And her daughter also has a great influence on herself.

When Wang Xinling was 19 years old, she went out with her mother in her forties and was often treated as a pair of sisters.

Once, Xu Meizhu went to PUB with her daughter to dance.

She drank a bottle of wine and then went to the dance floor to dance solo.

Suddenly, a young boy came over with 6 bottles of wine to talk.

She had to pull her daughter over, expose her age, and the other party was willing to leave.

Xu Meizhu, Wang Xinling's mother: There is pain and bitterness after divorce, and she worries about her daughter's love

Because of her daughter, Xu Meizhu became very avant-garde and dared to wear a unique style.

Xu Meizhu, Wang Xinling's mother: There is pain and bitterness after divorce, and she worries about her daughter's love

In terms of love, with the encouragement of her daughter, she met a new boyfriend and started a second marriage.

On the wedding day, the daughter has been busy at work and did not appear at the wedding scene.

Although there is also some awkwardness in the heart, as long as the mother is happy, it is enough.

Xu Meizhu remarried, but her daughter's feelings have not landed.

Xu Meizhu, Wang Xinling's mother: There is pain and bitterness after divorce, and she worries about her daughter's love

Perhaps it is the deep love of love, in the five years after breaking up with Fan Zhiwei, Wang Xinling has not been in love.

She put all her energy into work, first released "Cinderella's Tears", known as the "new boy killer";

The following year, he released "Love You" and became the singer who beat Jolin Tsai and won the G-music championship for four consecutive weeks.

She took advantage of the heat to develop, and a "Wedding Dress of Heaven" won the ratings championship of that year.

Xu Meizhu, Wang Xinling's mother: There is pain and bitterness after divorce, and she worries about her daughter's love

Fan Zhiwei, who watched his ex-girlfriend becoming more and more popular, was confused,

First of all, he revealed that he had beaten Wang Xinling twice;

Xu Meizhu, Wang Xinling's mother: There is pain and bitterness after divorce, and she worries about her daughter's love

He also exposed the private photos of his interaction with Wang Xinling,

Xu Meizhu, Wang Xinling's mother: There is pain and bitterness after divorce, and she worries about her daughter's love

Pointing straight to her first time, there was no room for herself.

Xu Meizhu, Wang Xinling's mother: There is pain and bitterness after divorce, and she worries about her daughter's love

This caused Wang Xinling, who was on the rise of his career, to collapse several times, and his work was repeatedly interrupted.

However, a wave of uneven waves has risen again, and an unknown actor has been exposed to have a close relationship with Wang Xinling.

05

In "Meteor Garden", he played the "Qinghe" of Shancai's class, calling himself Wang Xinling's first love;

And chatted with great interest about the topic of "first night" with Wang Xinling.

Xu Meizhu, Wang Xinling's mother: There is pain and bitterness after divorce, and she worries about her daughter's love

At the same time, after Wang Xinling's father disappeared for many years, he launched a product in the name of his daughter.

Xu Meizhu, Wang Xinling's mother: There is pain and bitterness after divorce, and she worries about her daughter's love

After learning that his father's products were full of "routines", Wang Xinling did not say much because of the father-daughter relationship.

And Xu Meizhu is reluctant to mention the past, and she avoids mentioning her ex-husband's affairs.

Originally, the mother and daughter were to leave a little dignity for Wang Jihui, but he did not expect that he did not know how to stop.

Later, the product went wrong, and Wang Xinling, as a daughter, was affected and lost a lot of passers-by.

For this reason, Xu Meizhu was angry while blaming herself for her unhappy marriage and tiring her daughter.

Xu Meizhu, Wang Xinling's mother: There is pain and bitterness after divorce, and she worries about her daughter's love

Wang Xinling still believes in love in his stumbling.

In 2011, Wang Xinling was photographed in the same frame as actor Yao Yuanhao, which was speculated to be a new love affair.

Unexpectedly, a beautiful beginning made Wang Xinling labeled as a "third party".

For a time, the love triangle of Wang Xinling, Wang Xinling, Yao Yuanhao, and Sui Tang was boiling over.

Xu Meizhu is opposed to this relationship.

No mother wants to see her daughter criticized by the media.

Xu Meizhu, Wang Xinling's mother: There is pain and bitterness after divorce, and she worries about her daughter's love

But Wang Xinling fell in love with his head, while clarifying that he was not a third party, while high-profile with Yao Yuanhao.

In order to defend himself, Wang Xinling and Sui Tang competed in the air, and Yao Yuanhao, who should have stepped forward, disappeared without a trace.

His career was hit again, and Wang Xinling, who was so devastated, was so thin that he was out of shape and locked in the house for a month and did not dare to come out.

Xu Meizhu, Wang Xinling's mother: There is pain and bitterness after divorce, and she worries about her daughter's love

This relationship has been maintained for 4 years, and in a sigh, one shot and two scatters.

After the breakup, the trouble that caused Xu Meizhu a headache came again.

06

After the breakup, private photos about my daughter once again spread across the Internet.

Tracing back to the source, Wang Xinling quickly found Yao Yuanhao, who took a photo.

Xu Meizhu, Wang Xinling's mother: There is pain and bitterness after divorce, and she worries about her daughter's love

But Yao Yuanhao denied everything, and there was no man's responsibility at all.

Under the scolding of his assistant, Yao Yuanhao reluctantly resembled a man and said that he wanted to face it with Wang Xinling.

He broke into trouble and wanted two people to face it together.

No wonder Xu Meizhu was not optimistic about Yao Yuanhao in the early morning.

Presumably, she saw through such a man with the eyes of a person who came over, and would not bring happiness to her daughter.

When the two met, Wang Xinling was nearly thirty years old, and he had already reached the age of talking about marriage.

If Yao Yuanhao is more reliable, Xu Meizhu cannot oppose it.

No one in the world wants their children to jump into the pit of fire.

Xu Meizhu, Wang Xinling's mother: There is pain and bitterness after divorce, and she worries about her daughter's love

After that, Wang Xinling did not have the popularity of that year.

In 2011, Wang Xinling's facial nerve cellulitis, red and swollen face was suspected of plastic surgery.

The sweetheart princess of the past seems to never go back to the past.

Xu Meizhu, Wang Xinling's mother: There is pain and bitterness after divorce, and she worries about her daughter's love

Her new albums have also been repeatedly cold.

In 2017, holding a concert in Chengdu, thousands of yuan tickets sold for 10 yuan without anyone asking, and passers-by were forced to block tickets.

Xu Meizhu, Wang Xinling's mother: There is pain and bitterness after divorce, and she worries about her daughter's love

The goddess who once carried the youth of a generation has gradually faded out of the public vision in people's busyness.

The work was relaxed, and Wang Xinling took photos with her mother from time to time.

Xu Meizhu in the photo is still so beautiful.

Xu Meizhu, Wang Xinling's mother: There is pain and bitterness after divorce, and she worries about her daughter's love

It is also Wang Xinling's fading out that has the memories of so many people to kill now.

18 years later, she sang with brisk dance steps, and she still felt the same way.

The media followed the trend, and Wang Xinling ushered in a turn of popularity after his passing.

Today, she is still single and has reached the age of confusion, and the problem of marriage and love has become her mother's heart disease.

As an artist, there may be many places where you can't help yourself.

But all mothers have the same hope for their children.

Xu Meizhu, Wang Xinling's mother: There is pain and bitterness after divorce, and she worries about her daughter's love

Epilogue:

Wang Xinling's love affair has undergone several twists and turns;

But she was lucky because she had a good mom.

Among the foods that Wang Xinling likes, there is soup cooked by her mother.

As long as you have drunk it, you will soon be able to be full of energy.

For her, her mother is the decoction in her life;

Every time I become confused, as long as my mother is there, everything can be solved.

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