Tian Ge: After divorcing You Xiaogang, he agreed with his sister Tian Min not to marry and be infertile and accompany his mother to old age

preface

In 1994, when the married You Xiaogang was filming "Kyoto Chronicle", he fell in love with the heroine Wu Qianqian.

The two of them openly greeted me in the crew, completely ignoring the gossip in the sky, and soon after the matter reached the ears of his wife Tian Ge.

Tian Ge did not quarrel or make trouble, she had foreseen this ending long ago, and calmly divorced You Xiaogang to become Wu Qianqian, because she knew that this was not a revenge for Chengquan.

Sure enough, 18 years later, Wu Qianqian repeated the mistakes of Tian Ge, and You Xiaogang cheated on Zhou Tingyi, who was 30 years younger than him, in marriage, so he divorced Wu Qianqian.

After the divorce, Tian Ge and his sister Tian Min support each other, and their careers are getting better and better, and the two agreed to be unmarried and infertile for a lifetime, take care of their elderly mother, and accompany them until they are old.

01

In 1962, Tian Ge was born in Hefei, Anhui Province, as the eldest of the family, she was born with full of blessings, and she already had a name before she was born.

Because my parents are engaged in art, they often write songs together and sign them together, and their signatures are a word in each of the two names, Tian Ge.

At the same time, they also agreed that the first child born, whether it was a boy or a girl, would be named Tian Ge to witness their love.

After Tian Ge was born, they were very happy, but a little sorry that it was a girl, in order to have another boy, Tian's mother gave birth to the second daughter Tian Ran, the third daughter Tian Min, until she gave birth to the youngest son Tian Wen, until she gave birth to her younger son Tian Wen.

The four children have lived in the compound of Anhui Peking Opera Troupe, Huangmei Opera Troupe and Hui Opera Troupe since childhood, and they have heard about it since childhood, and they are also particularly talented in acting.

Every time they watch the rehearsal in the group, they will set up a stage at home, "Sha Jiabang" and "Red Lantern" will be performed in turn, and the sheets will always be held on the chair as a curtain.

And every time I rush to play a different role, "You finish playing Guo Jianguang, then I have to act, you finish playing Grandma Sha, then I also have to act",

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After the mother came home, the family was messed up by them, and the four children's faces were painted in a mess, and they all ran over to let the mother judge who acted well.

Mom never gets angry and says how you've made such a mess in the house, but sits down as an audience member, watches their childish performances, and gives encouragement to everyone.

And every time an important festival or festival, the mother will always try everything to get a few small snacks, sit on the balcony to tell the children about the origin of this festival, myths, fairy tales, domestic and foreign will tell,

These somewhat magical-sounding stories have taken root in the hearts of children and grown wings of fantasy,

So although the father died unfortunately because of the special period, the mother with their four children is very hard, life is also very difficult, but their spiritual world is very rich,

After growing up, the three sisters of the Tian family are out of the pavilion, in order to help their mother share some burdens, the eldest sister Tian Ge took the initiative to quit school, and was admitted to the Anhui Chuzhou Cultural and Labor Troupe at the age of 15.

At the beginning, Tian Ge only had a salary of 12 yuan per month, and she would send 10 yuan home to save money herself.

Here she met the person who changed her life, You Xiaogang,

You Xiaogang was 10 years older than her, and at that time she was already a well-known actor in the Chuzhou Literary troupe, and began the road of directing because of her outstanding talent.

As soon as Tian Ge entered the group, You Xiaogang was shocked, he felt that Tian Ge was too beautiful, it was simply the most beautiful woman in the whole Chuzhou,

So he quickly launched an offensive against her, usually booing and asking for warmth, and also gave her a lot of help in her career.

Although You Xiaogang is not handsome and his career has not yet improved, Tian Ge lacks fatherly love since he was a child, and he is very useful for such a father-like care, and soon the two fell into a hot love.

In 1979, You Xiaogang wrote and directed the drama "Captain Ye Ting", which was highly acclaimed and won the 30th Anniversary of the Founding of the People's Republic of China Creation Award and Performance Award.

So he turned to directing TV series, and successively directed TV series such as "Falcon", "Generation Tianjiao", "Emergency Takeoff" and so on, and Tian Ge also had a part to star because of his relationship with him.

The group saw You Xiaogang's talent, so he sent him to the Beijing Film Academy for further study, and when he was in love, he sent a telegram to Tian Ge, and each time there were only three words "I love you".

Tian Ge was very touched, and swore that he would not marry in this life, and he also worked hard to be admitted to the Beijing Broadcasting Institute and was able to reunite with him.

In 1985, the two people entered the palace of the wedding, but the day before the wedding, Tian Ge was worried, You Xiaogang found that she was in a bad mood, and Tian Ge only expressed his concerns under his careful questioning.

"Xiao Gang, you know that I still have three younger siblings, it is not easy for my mother to raise us hard, and in the future I may have to take up the burden of this family and be responsible for the lives of my younger siblings, I am afraid of causing a burden to you",

You Xiaogang smiled when he heard this: "What should I do?" What is this, this is what it should be, you can rest assured, in the care of your family, I do not have a word of hospital",

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Tian Ge was relieved to marry him, and after marriage, You Xiaogang became a well-known director in one fell swoop by directing "Triumph in the Midnight".

"Triumph in the Midnight" won three awards, including the Beijing TV Drama Brilliant Thirty Years Outstanding Director Award, the Golden Eagle Award, and the 7th China Excellent TV Drama Award.

At the same time, Tian Min also graduated from the Shanghai Theater Academy and came to Beijing to join her sister and brother-in-law, Tian Ge let her sister live in her own home, gave her the biggest and best room, and asked You Xiaogang to help her sister pave the way.

Under the introduction of You Xiaogang, Tian Min has filmed "Lu Binghua" and "The Story of the Editorial Department", and has gradually become well known to the public.

And Tian Ge gradually embarked on the road of hosting, under the influence of her husband, she was not only satisfied with being a small host, but created her own program.

So in 1990, she founded China's first TV talk show "Screen With Me and You" on Beijing Television Station, and became the founder of China's talk show.

At the same time, she also served as the host of the major evening parties in Beijing, for a time there was no difference, her generous and confident hosting method was very popular, and at the same time she could control the scheduling of the scene very well, which may be the habit she formed as a big sister.

She and You Xiaogang were one in front of the stage and one behind the scenes, and the partnership was very tacit, but as the two got older, bigger problems appeared.

You Xiaogang is 40 years old, the family is very much hoping that he can quickly have a child, You Xiaogang told Tian Ge about this idea,

But Tian Ge said: "When my career is at the most important time, how can I stop and have children, and then my younger brothers and sisters have not yet developed, I have to help them now."

Tian Ge's refusal disappointed You Xiaogang, and she became more and more busy, often flying around the world to interview important people, the two people gathered for a long time, and You Xiaogang soon cheated.

02

In 1994, when You Xiaogang filmed "Kyoto Chronicle", he met the actress Wu Qianqian, Who was 39 years old at the time, but had never been married, and had been tepid for many years.

In "Kyoto Chronicle", she only got a small role, but during the filming process, she quickly fell in love with You Xiaogang, who was 3 years older than herself.

She feels that this is the man she has been looking for, talented and attitude, meticulous in filming, strict requirements for actors, although often angry on the scene, but can feel his dedication to art, the so-called "serious man is the most attractive" is probably like this,

So she took the initiative to approach You Xiaogang, often asking him for advice, in the face of such a big beauty, You Xiaogang also messed up the square inches,

The two soon became an open secret in the crew, and the reason why You Xiaogang was so bold was that he thought that Tian Ge was abroad every day, and it was definitely impossible to know.

But he did not expect that there was no impermeable wall, Tian Ge soon knew, and immediately filed for divorce,

Tian Ge is a rational and wise person, although she is reluctant to do so, but she also understands that such a man is useless, it will only bring more pain to herself, so she generously proposed a divorce to complete them.

But You Xiaogang fell into pain, at this time he knew how important Tian Ge was to him, he did not want to divorce, these warblers and swallows outside and his relationship with Tian Ge were incomparable,

He repeatedly asked Tian Ge's forgiveness, but unfortunately Tian Ge would not turn back, and her career was getting busier and busier, and there was no time to entangle these things with his feelings.

After the two divorced, You Xiaogang soon married Wu Qianqian, while Tian Ge never remarried, focusing on work and taking care of younger siblings.

She also supported her younger brother Tian Wen and filmed the tourism propaganda film "Beauty in Guangxi", which won the "Pasars" International Film and Television Chairman Award.

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Sister Tian Min's career is getting better and better, but like her sister, she has never been married.

In fact, she once had a boyfriend who talked for 10 years, and she also had a scandal with Yingda, and it was rumored that she was a third party involved in Song Dandan's marriage.

In 2009, when filming "Beautiful Things", Tian Min revealed that after the crew finished work every day, he and Yingda walked on campus, talking about life, life, ideals, and even feelings.

And when they went on the show together, they also showed extraordinary intimacy, but later Tian Min denied this matter, saying that she and Yingda were just good friends, not only that, she and Li Chengru, Yang Yaya and other people had a very good personal relationship.

And Tian Min revealed that he had a boyfriend who had been in love for 10 years, but he had never been married, and later ended up breaking up.

After the breakup, she looked down on the matter of feelings a lot, felt that it was good to follow the fate, and her mother was very anxious to see that her two daughters were not married, and constantly arranged blind dates for Tian Min.

Tian Min did not want to go, but she was afraid that her mother would not be happy or would go to deal with it, but the more she kissed, the more disappointed she was with the man.

Some men especially cut the door, do not go to the checkout after eating, and finally Tian Min's mother pays the bill,

Some men eat and snore their mouths, and lick chopsticks, and after licking, they give Tian Min vegetables, and her face is green.

There are also men sitting there shaking their legs, shaking the table with them.

After a few times, she gave up, the affection thing can not be forced, or let it go with the flow,

Without feelings, she used filming to enrich her life, filming one after another,

Because in "Let's Get Married", she starred in the mother-in-law Lan Caiping, who was "made" and "fierce", Tian Min became a "mother-in-law mother-in-law professional household", whether it is a simple rural mother-in-law, or a fashionable and proud city mother-in-law, she can accurately grasp and handy,

And sister Tian Ge has also won many awards, not only the host award, the excellent column award has also won the soft hand, she is the only all-round TV person in China who has won the national awards for director, host and producer at the same time, and also served as a judge of the international television "Emmy Award".

The sisters accompany each other and support each other, two people will never bow to fate, will never find someone to marry, if there is no suitable would rather not marry and be infertile for a lifetime, the two will accompany the mother to old age.

And You Xiaogang also cheated again in 2012, divorced Wu Qianqian, and was with Zhou Tingyi, who was 30 years old.

After experiencing You Xiaogang's affairs, the sisters have clearly seen that men in the show business circle are unreliable, and only careers can bring them an eternal sense of security.

03

Now Tian Ge is 60 years old, and Tian Min is 57 years old.

Tian Min also bought a house in Beijing to settle down, close to Tian Ge's family, and the two people took their mother over to retire.

In the leisure time of filming, Tian Min and Tian Ge took their mothers to travel everywhere, near domestic travel, and sometimes went abroad.

Mother Tian is almost 90 years old, but under their care, she is still in good spirits and full of confidence in speaking.

She said: "My children are so good to me, every one of them is like this, like my son treats me like a child, walking with me, usually closing the window for me to flush is not bothered at all, so as long as I can be with them, I am very happy".

In order to make the mother out of touch with the times and know their news at any time when they go out to work, Tian Ge also specially set up a group, no matter where he goes, he must report to his mother.

If someone forgets, they will remind each other, when the mother celebrates the birthday, they will also carefully prepare gifts for the mother, no matter where everyone has to rush back to celebrate the mother's birthday,

Although they are all so old, their hearts are always together, and they are still a big family.

Tian Ge and Tian Min cooperate with tacit understanding, Tian Ge grasps the general direction, points the way for the whole family, Tian Min is responsible for practical operation, worries about small things, needs money and encounters difficulties, tell the eldest sister, the eldest sister can come up with a solution every time,

So their whole big family is very happy and down-to-earth, perhaps because of this, Tian Ge and Tian Min would rather not marry and be infertile.

As Tian Min said: "I am not married and it does not necessarily mean that I am miserable, and I am not necessarily happy when I am married, as long as I am happy and happy now, it is enough".

I have to say that these two sisters are the ones who really live and understand, not bound by the world, doing what they want to do and like to do, and at the same time, their filial piety to their mother is also touching.

The two sisters mirror each other and illuminate the life of another person, and it is a great fortune to have a sister like this.