Margaret Thatcher said, pay attention to your thoughts, because it will become words; pay attention to your words, because they will become actions; pay attention to your actions because they will become habits; pay attention to your habits, because they will become character; pay more attention to your character, because it will determine your destiny!
Read it carefully and think deeply.
Feeling in the heart, first of all, will be expressed from words and actions, and once the number of repetitions is more, it will become a habit, and habits determine a person's personality, and character will inevitably affect fate!
Reflection: Recent psychology is a bit unhealthy, always with resentment, the most direct manifestation is to speak very rushed, when I realize, sometimes I can use another sentence to ease up, but the next time is still unconsciously very impulsive.
Even today, when the child accidentally hit the root of her thigh, I couldn't help but want to lose my temper with her who was crying. I opened my mouth to say something accusatory, but I couldn't bear to see her crying.
Quickly ran to the window to take a few deep breaths, patiently suppressed his anger, hugged the tearful child, and talked to the child about the reason.
My son blamed me for pushing him, and he lay there angrily and stomped on his sister, so the sister stumbled to the edge of the bed unsteadily.
Although my son had a sophistry, I didn't want to worry about it at that moment, so I apologized. Then the son said it was okay and apologized. My daughter's pain gradually disappeared, so I was no longer angry, and everyone was no longer angry.
The idea of complaining should be put an end to, and it must not be allowed to develop, otherwise people will unconsciously utter evil words in their emotions. It is still the family that hurts the bad words, and I will become the biggest source of negative energy for the family, and I will also become a woman I hate the most, which is really not what I want.
I think that in addition to reflection, we should add daily gratitude, gratitude, let gratitude replace complaining, and embrace everything with love.
#育儿事务所 #
