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Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

author:Wen Shisan

Tengger once sold blood for money in order to drink.

"500ml for 70 pieces, two pounds of lamb and half a pound of white wine to eat a cool!"

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

From a young age, he was often drunk and unconscious until he was carried back to his dormitory by his classmates.

Also because of drinking, I have done a lot of wrong things, so that I regret my life.

Whenever he mentioned it in front of the camera, he couldn't help but wipe away tears.

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

But even so, Tengger couldn't help but stop drinking.

Now that he is sixty years old, he always eats seafood with liquor, 45 degrees of spirits, and drinks like water.

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

I just don't know if tengger will be nervous if he mentions the little daughter who left him at the age of 6.

There are also many people who wonder, after many years, has Tengger "repented"?

rebel

"Listening to Teacher Tengger's song is like riding a carriage on the prairie, but the wheels of the carriage are square!"

For the music scene, Tengger is a national treasure.

But in those years, he didn't care about the pranks of netizens on him, and personally sang popular songs such as "Calories", "The Sun Never Sets", and "Wild Wolf Disco" in his way.

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

It seems absurd, but it is actually advanced.

Asked in the interview, he only said that he could make the fans happy, and he was happy.

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

However, this "old naughty boy" who seems to be crazy and funny on the stage has a painful past in his life.

In 2000, the life of 40-year-old Tengger was a mess.

The house was gone, the car was gone, and his wife divorced him, he said:

At that time, my card was 200,000, and I regret it!

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

Although now looking at Tengger, he has a kind of temperament that has been quiet for many years.

But in fact, he was born in the grassland, rebelled from a young age, and at the age of 24, he was whipped by his mother with a horse whip for doing something wrong.

When I was in junior high school, Tengger said something very inappropriate in that special era.

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

At a young age, he did not realize the seriousness of the matter, but he did not expect to be directly called to the office by the principal and angrily reprimanded.

He then asked him to call his parents the next day to listen to him, which frightened Tengger.

When he thought of his mother's stern look, he didn't dare to say anything.

There was really no way, he only wrote a "suicide note" and handed it to the class leader.

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

Then he rode his bike to a four-story theater and was ready to jump a hundred times.

Fortunately, the squad leader was sensible and rushed to hug him with Tengger's brother.

His life was saved, but since then, he has completely lost interest in the school, either living passively or looking for various reasons to "skip class" for three days.

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

At that time, Tengger did not pursue in his heart, thinking that it would be good to live his life as a herdsman in the future.

Such thinking, in today's terms, is "pendulum" and "lying flat."

But perhaps it was the favor of Heaven, and a sentence from the eldest sister made him pursue:

"The Inner Mongolia Art School has come to Otoke to enroll students, and I heard that the requirements for cultural classes are not high."

Tengger's parents were local folk singers, and he was also interested in this aspect since he was a child, singing, playing the piano, and being good at everything.

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

At the recommendation of his sister, Tengger went to take the exam.

However, this is a handy and easy passage for Tengger, who has lived in the artistic atmosphere since childhood.

It was also from here that Tengger's life trajectory was radically changed.

This year, he was only 15 years old.

proud

In the beginning, Tengger studied dance.

But this was purely a helpless move, because at that time, dance was the best major to take, as long as the appearance conditions were good.

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

Learning to dance is really torturous for a rough man who grew up in the grassland.

Every morning he got up at five o'clock, pulled the tendons to practice, and soon he was tired of learning the three strings.

After changing to three strings, he did find the right direction, and it didn't take long to become the top student in the class, and he was famous in the school.

"After three years in art school, I didn't understand anything in the first year, and I basically mixed it up;

The second year picked up, and by the third year I was starting to make a name for myself. ”

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

After graduation, he stayed at the school as a teacher and conductor of the student band.

But he didn't like the job, and in his own words: "I don't know what command is. ”

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

After a few years of muddy nights, Tengger began to worry about lifelong events.

By chance, he went to a large literary evening, where he met his ex-wife Haskova.

Haskova is the host of the party and is a famous beauty in the local area, and Tengger fell in love with her at first sight.

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

In fact, according to the difference in their identities at that time, the chances of being together were very small.

But fate is sometimes so wonderful, two people have a common friend, under his introduction and matchmaking the two people successfully talked about love.

Someone once asked Haskova why she was able to look at Tengger, and she said:

"He's very talented, in fact, the first time we met he sang a song called 'The Mongols' at the party, and I already noticed him, and we were very good at talking, we were very suitable."

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

So in the beginning, although Tengger was still just an unknown little singer, Haskova admired him.

After less than a year of dating, the two people got married, and their lives were low-key and happy.

They also had a loving time.

What she didn't expect was that a few years later, Tengger's career was developing rapidly, but their lives were getting more and more miserable.

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

Once fortunate to be sent to the China Conservatory of Music for further study, Tengger simply opened the door to a new world and was determined to enter the university.

In 1980, Tengger entered the Composition Department of Tianjin Conservatory of Music.

Although the music career was approved, he delayed a lot because he loved to drink and eat meat.

Confused!

Tengger has been very fond of drinking since he was young, selling blood when he has no money, and more frequently when he has money.

Sometimes he helped the teacher buy roast chicken, and he would steal chicken legs and drink two or two on the road, so he was often carried back to the dormitory by his classmates.

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

Later, he got married, and he never changed this bad habit.

Since 1992, Tengger's career has gradually improved, and he has even held solo concerts in Taiwan.

Although there were only 20,000 spectators at the time, the national music with such a strong and powerful style shocked everyone.

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

Soon, Taiwan set off a "Tengger fever", and even the media highly praised: "There is a strong northwest wind blowing in the music world." ”

His masterpiece "Heaven" was written at this time, and this song also won the third place in China's highest music award, the first Chinese "Golden Bell Award".

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

After having a name and money, Tengger often met friends with songs, and whenever he met like-minded friends, he would get drunk and rest.

And he is very good-looking, sometimes drunk happy, he waved a big hand: "Drink casually today, I pay the bill!" ”

It is said that Tengger's first pot of gold was a reward of one thousand yuan, and this thousand pieces he did nothing.

Drinking all day with the "Wolf Band" formed by friends, less than half a month to squander.

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

His wife Haskova saw that it was really not a way to go on like this, so she thought of a way to suggest that he do some business, so that even if he could no longer sing, he could still earn some income.

So at the suggestion of his wife, he opened four restaurants in succession, called "Tengjia Restaurant".

But unexpectedly, his own restaurant provided convenience for him to drink.

He even founded a "beer association" with a few drinkers, with whom he served as president and held several drinking contests.

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

There are more and more friends, although the restaurant is full of doors, but they all come to eat and drink for free, and over time they can't make ends meet.

There was even a time in the liquor store where Tengger sent out hundreds of thousands of white jade horses worth hundreds of thousands of dollars in the hotel.

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

In just a few years, Tengger squandered five or six million, and several hotels closed their doors because of losses.

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

This made Haskova look in her eyes and be anxious in her heart.

When they first got married, they still had a house with a flat, but now many people around them who are not as good as them have moved out, and they still live here.

There is no heating, no running water, no toilets, and in winter, the temperature inside and outside the house is the same.

The long period of grievance and suffocation made Haskova no longer bear it, nor did she want to endure it.

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

Every time he tried to talk to Tengger, he looked drunk, and the next day he woke up and didn't remember anything.

In the end, Haskova could not stand it any longer and decisively chose to divorce.

Years later, she revealed that between herself and Tengger, it is not romantic when it needs to be romantic, it is not warm when it needs to be warm, and it is not communicative when it needs to be communicated.

But Tengger didn't realize it was his own problem:

"I just found out now that I was divorced because of drinking, but I didn't realize it at the time."
Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

Later, Tengger called Haskova six times to ask for a reunion, but all of them were ruthlessly rejected.

After the divorce, Haskova returned to show business.

He has participated in many popular dramas, and has a good performance in film and television dramas such as "Under the Gate of Zhengyang", "Perfect Relationship", "Hero Huo Yuanjia" and so on.

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

A few years later, she bought a house and a car in Beijing, and her whole person became radiant, as if she had found the meaning of life again.

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

Once, when she participated in the show, a reporter asked her if she would regret remembering the marriage experience with Tengger.

She said: "No regrets, it is all fate to experience things, it is good to experience it." ”

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

On the other hand, the second half of Tengger's life was not so smooth...

Wake up

At the age of nearly 40, Tengger found that all the money he earned had been squandered by him.

And with the emergence of a new generation of singers, the style of the music scene began to change.

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

As pop music flourished, the characteristics he once prided himself on were now barriers he could not break through.

This silenced him for a long time.

However, in 2001, Tengger recorded the ending song "Big Man" for the TV series "Kangxi Dynasty".

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

Later, after the TV series was broadcast, it received very impressive ratings in the mainland, Hong Kong and Taiwan, and Tengger also ushered in the second spring of his career.

Two years later, Tengger met his second wife, an 18-year-old cabaret actor named Hongel Jura.

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

History is always strikingly similar, and according to Tengger's description, he was fascinated by Hungel Jura when he first met her:

"I spotted her at a glance, young and pretty is one thing, but it certainly doesn't fully encapsulate her attraction to me"

And Honger Jura also has the freedom and crispness of a young man, and the two people are married after a period of love.

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

After learning the lessons of the first failed marriage, Tengger took the second marriage very seriously and matured a lot, no longer the wandering uncle who drank and played all day.

So in the second year after marriage, the 44-year-old Tengger had his first child.

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

In fact, he has always been very much looking forward to having a child, so he took the child's name ten years ago - Gagill, which means "earth" in Mongolian.

After the birth of his daughter, Tengger loved it even more, and wrote a song specifically in his daughter's name.

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?
Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

However, seeing that Tengger was about to become a winner in life, he suddenly came with bad news, shattering all the defenses of this middle-aged man.

In 2007, he and his wife's son were born, but their 3-year-old daughter was diagnosed with a congenital disease that left her legs paralyzed.

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

After learning the news, Tengger quit all performances and visited famous doctors, but still to no avail.

After several years of treatment, gagill left this beautiful world in 2010 at the age of 6.

Tengger has since collapsed.

He was heartbroken when he was old and widowed, and often cried alone with a headache, and he couldn't be interested in anything.

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

Some people say that it may be a congenital disease caused by Tengger's perennial alcoholism.

But what exactly is the reason, we are all just guessing, only know that his daughter is the pain of his life, and then many years later came out of the shadows.

In 2018, Tengger participated in a variety show, and on a whim, he sang the Mongolian folk song "Sending Relatives Song" at the dinner table.

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

This is a song that a girl's family will sing when she gets married.

Perhaps suddenly remembering his daughter, Tengger burst into tears and choked up and paused singing.

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

In our opinion, he has always been a rough and arrogant, casual and generous tough guy image, but as long as he mentions his daughter, he is always the most gentle father.

After experiencing the pain of losing his daughter, Tengger's whole person changed.

He stopped drinking, only had occasional drinks.

When he reappeared in the public eye, he was a completely new gesture.

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

By covering various popular songs, he became popular again and became the "cute uncle" in the minds of the audience.

Maybe the daughter of heaven will be happy for her father to see him now.

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

Also under the influence of his daughter, Tengger, in order to repent, would return to his hometown every year to plant trees.

His family has a 5,000-acre pasture known as "Tengeling".

In addition, he also donated funds to set up the Ordos Mongolian Secondary School Students Skills Competition, including horseback riding, archery, Mongolian chess, song and dance and other traditional Mongolian projects.

Tengger: Alcoholism leads to the scattering of family wealth, his wife is violent, and he regrets that he has lost his daughter in old age?

Some people say that his daughter's premature death paid for his young wandering skeleton, but fortunately he can wake up in time.

Understand that a person's true happiness is not friends all over the world, nor is it a career ride on the dust, but family happiness, wife and children are healthy, it is enough!

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