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Without suspense, "Sound and Endless" has become this year's "sound ceiling".
The strong singer lineup, familiar program texture and stage configuration once made people dream back to "I Am a Singer".
In particular, the "Double Li King Explosion" composed of Li Jian and Li Keqin.
A song "Hanabi" once again sang the classic "Hong Kong Music", which shocked people's hearts.
Li Keqin and Li Jian also met and hated each other.
After the performance, the two met to go to dinner.
As soon as I sat down, I talked for five hours, talking about everything in the south of the sea.
It is said that "wine is less than a thousand cups for confidants", and a meal can be eaten for 5 hours, which is enough to see the sympathy between them.
But the focus of netizens does not seem to be here.
As GaoZan commented on the ridicule:
"Eat dog food for five hours."
It turned out that at this dinner, Li Jian's wife Meng Xiaobei was also there.
As we all know, Li Jian and Meng Xiaobei are the most loving and sweetest couple in the entertainment industry.
Although Li Jian is in the festival, he rarely let Meng Xiaobei appear on camera, and even the photos rarely appear.
But in life, in fact, where to take each other, this is not a way to spread dog food.
Recently, a secret photo of the two people flowed out.
In the photo, Meng Xiaobei's exposed wrists and face are fleshy, and it can be seen that life is very happy.
Someone commented:
"There seems to be a feeling of special soul fit in the two of them, so happy."
Zhihu shang once had such a question: "How can I marry Li Jian?" ”
GaoZan replied:
"You have to be able to make tea, raise flowers, make coffee, know photography, play the piano and draw well, and cook well... I also want to become a doctor at Tsinghua University and be picked up by a star scout on the road.
On top of that, you'll also meet him when you're 5 years old. ”
This is not a strange standard of fantasy, but an objective description of Li Jian and his wife Meng Xiaobei.
Just because I looked at you more in the crowd,
Never forget your face again
When he was ten years old, Li Jian met Meng Xiaobei, who was five years old at the time.
Li Jian did not expect at that time that this little girl would follow in his footsteps into Tsinghua, and she had studied until her doctorate and become a partner in her life.
At that time, Li Jian looked at Meng Xiaobei and only remembered a sentence said by his father:
"This little girl looks good, like a Little Russian girl."
By the time we met for the second time, it was 7 years later.
It was at someone else's wedding, and the two recognized each other at a glance.
Although a face is still slightly childish, it is also out of the blue;
One is just a teenager, personable.
"Just because I looked at you more in the crowd, I never forgot your face again."
Many years later, when Li Jian wrote the song "Legend", what has been circling in his mind is this moment.
Meng Xiaobei childhood photo
Later, Li Jian was admitted to Tsinghua University and became a "scholar" in the eyes of others.
One summer vacation, dad asked him to help a friend's daughter with her homework.
Li Jian originally thought that it would be difficult to take the summer vacation, and he would practice the guitar well.
But when his father said that he was tutoring Meng Xiaobei, he immediately agreed.
Li Jian's lectures were very thorough, and Meng Xiaobei was also very clever, always giving one example after another, and soon the topic was finished.
The rest of the time, Meng Xiaobei pestered him, asking him to play the guitar for himself and tell interesting things about the school.
One holds the guitar and sings carefully, and the other holds his chin and listens quietly.
In this way, a sentiment called "love" took root.
Later, Meng Xiaobei was also admitted to Tsinghua University.
The longer and more beautiful she is, the white skin, good temperament, and gradually become a goddess of talent and beauty in other people.
Once walking on the street, she was also pulled by a star scout and asked her if she wanted to enter the entertainment industry to shoot a movie.
However, Meng Xiaobei refused without even thinking about it.
With a cold heart, she is not willing to enter the complex dyeing vat of the entertainment industry.
And there are many boys chasing her, but in her heart, there is always only one Li Jian.
Because they had more time together, the two also came to fruition and soon got together.
After watching their encounter, I have to sigh:
Human encounters and fates are sometimes so wonderful.
If there is each other in their hearts, there will always be a force that will make each other go in both directions.
"Choose a city to end up old, meet a person with a white head"
After graduating, Li Jian became a network engineer at the State Administration of Radio, Film and Television.
Such a stable job actually made many people envious at the time.
However, Li Jian himself did not like it very much.
Two years later, he was found by lu gengshu, an alumnus of the university.
Lu Gengji asked, "Do you still want to sing?" Li Jian replied, "I think."
His parents were very opposed to Li Jian going to be a singer, but Meng Xiaobei said to him:
"Do whatever you want."
In this way, Li Jian quit his job and formed Mizuki Nianhua with Lu Gengshu and became a singer.
5 months later, Mizuki Nianhua became popular all over the country with a song "A Lifetime with You".
But after the fire, the two had a disagreement, and Lu Gengzhi thought that he should follow the trend and sing pop music.
Li Jian said that music and life are the same, what is the attitude of a musician in life, then what attitude should be when singing.
On a return flight, Lu Gengzhi said to Li Jian, "If you always want to make your favorite music, then you just leave."
A few hours later, the plane landed, and Li Jian said his answer:
Voluntary withdrawal from Mizuki Nianhua.
After withdrawing from Mizuki Nianhua, Li Jian also cut off his income.
During that time, he was very depressed, first, because of the confusion on the road of music, and second, because he felt that he could not give his beloved a future.
He even considered whether he should give up the path of music and get a good job.
But Meng Xiaobei will always dispel this hesitation at the first time:
"You don't have to worry about me, just go the way you want."
With Li Jian, who was comforted by Meng Xiaobei, his heart slowly settled down.
He rented a remote courtyard and began composing music.
It was cold in the winter and there was no heating in the house.
In order to save money, Li Jian was reluctant to buy even the money for a pair of gloves.
Meng Xiaobei saw this, bought her own wool and knitted a pair of gloves for him.
In this courtyard, Li Jian lived for seven years and wrote a large number of music such as "Legend", "Shichahai", "Wind Blowing Wheat Waves" and so on.
During this period, Meng Xiaobei has been with him, never complaining once, never once asking Li Jian to go out to make money.
The two lived leisurely, playing and singing together in the wheat field, and sitting quietly under the eaves together to listen to the rain.
"Choose a city to grow old, and meet a person with a white head."
The days with you are called time, otherwise it is just a meaningless pendulum of the clock.
Seven years for one person is difficult, but seven years for two people can be spent hand in hand.
High and cold to the whole world, only to one person to sell cute
In 2010, Faye Wong sang "Legend" on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala.
Along with the fire, there is also the creator Li Jian behind it.
In 2015, Li Jian stepped on the stage of "I Am a Singer", which pushed his fame to the top.
With that, David TV scrambled to invite him to shows and interview him.
In the eyes of other stars, this is a great opportunity, and it is necessary to be on more programs.
But Li Jian behaved very "high and cold".
Once, When Li Jian refused a performance, when the organizer asked him why, Li Jianyun replied lightly:
"I was going to work out that afternoon."
A winery invited a song for a million dollars, and Li Jian also refused, for the simple reason:
"I don't drink liquor, and I don't have any feelings for liquor."
Later, more and more invitations were made, and Li Jian hurriedly greeted his friends and said:
"I'm going to the United States to 'take shelter.'"
However, the understanding of the world's "high cold" is only cute for one person.
"Meng Xiaobei, Meng Xiaobei, I'll call you Little Shell from now on."
When he was young, Li Jian gave Meng Xiaobei the nickname "Little Shell".
Originally just a whim, the name of "Little Shell" turned out to be more than thirty years.
In public, Li Jian rarely mentions his wife, and rarely exposes her to the media light.
But in Meng Xiaobei's Weibo, the happiness that occasionally exudes is enough to envy others.
Li Jian called her Xiao Shell, and Meng Xiaobei wrote Li Jian as her Mr. Vacation, Mr. Off Work, and Mr. Fitness.
Mr. Vacation leaned by the door and watched me tidy up the tea room, and said with a light smile:
"Let's make an idiom in this state now."
"What is it?"
"Stand by and watch."
"Did you play today?"
"Well, I practiced well today and fully understand the splitting and skateboarding movements"
Mr. Off Duty glanced at me: "Are you studying badminton?"
“……”
I was watering the garden, and the business traveler who came back last night said through the screen window:
"The days with you are called time, otherwise they are just meaningless blanks."
The wind blew over, and the little flowers and plants danced
Weak water three thousand, take only one scoop.
Li Jian's feelings for Meng Xiaobei are just like his music.
Never shouting loudly with teeth and claws, like a slowly flowing spring, always clean, always knowing where you are going.
That's good.
"Where did you spend your honeymoon?"
"I've been on my honeymoon all my life"
Once, when some netizens worked part-time in a coffee shop, they met Li Jian.
At that time, Li Jian was not yet red, and often wore slippers to go to breakfast with his wife.
The street in front of the coffee shop is only five meters wide, but Li Jian has to hold Meng Xiaobei's hand every time.
Even after becoming famous, Li Jian rarely socialized.
After finishing work, I stayed at home and enjoyed a slow time with my wife.
One makes music, one does academics, one is busy with housework, one loves to cook, runs around the Shichahai Sea under the sunset, sits quietly in the tea room with a pot and a lamp away from the worldly noise...
The two are like gods and immortals, turning chai rice oil and salt into poetry and cultivating love in qinqi calligraphy and painting tea.
A reporter once asked Li Jian: "Where did you spend your honeymoon?" ”
He smiled and replied, "I've been on my honeymoon all my life." ”
"Honeymoon all my life", this is the most beautiful love story I have ever heard.
Li Jian also wrote his feelings for Meng Xiaobei into his own songs.
On almost every album, Li Jian will write a song for his wife.
In the copy of the album, Li Jian also made no secret of his love for his wife.
Lover:
By the time I wrote this song, it was already the middle of the night.
With all my emotions focused on it, my little shell was moved to a pulp, but somehow the image of a swan always came to mind.
Later, I heard that if one of the swans died, the other would also go with it.
lover
Li Jian - Pick up the light
"The Little Bird Sleeps Next to Me":
One night, I looked out the window at the bird's nest in the tree and thought that the birds inside must have slept sweetly.
The little shell next to me also fell asleep silently, like a little bird...
The little bird slept beside me
Li Jian - Miss you
Today, the two have been married for 24 years, have not bought a house, and have not had children.
A lot of people don't understand.
But Li Jian said:
"I'm more enjoyable buying a guitar than I am buying a house."
"I don't think it's necessary to continue my genes."
Lin Qingxuan once said:
"Romance is a waste of time to eat slowly, a waste of time to drink tea slowly, a waste of time to walk slowly, a waste of time to slowly grow old."
Li Jian and Meng Xiaobei are such romantic people.
They move forward hand in hand, travel to time together, and extend the time into a leisurely life.
Death and life are broad, and the son is said; the hand of the son is old with the son.
Gao Xiaosong, Li Jian's Tsinghua senior, once said this:
"When we were young, we all wanted to wear white shirts all our lives and love only one person in our lives, but then we found out that we couldn't do it."
In fact, Li Jian did.
He was not blessed, not greasy, with a clean head and a white shirt;
Standing next to him was always the girl he had met when he was 10 years old.
Click "Watching" and bless Li Jian and Meng Xiaobei.
I also wish that all people, with that person with similar souls, can walk through the mountains and rivers of the Pinghu Lake and the smoke and rain years, and laugh and sing lightly in the autumn season.
*Author: Time Jun - Shuangmu, think seriously with reason, and live quietly with attitude.