In 2019, 92-year-old Ping Xintao, Qiong Yao's husband passed away.
Qiong Yao posted a thousand-word eulogy on social platforms.
There are a few sentences in the text, "Gathering is also yiyi, scattering is also yiyi!" Life is also dependent, and death is also dependent! Yiyi and Yiyi, goodbye is not expected! ”
It can be seen that this eulogy is very beautiful.
Qiong Yao also accompanied a photo of herself sprinkling flowers in her husband's cemetery.
Her actions did not attract sympathy, but rather caused a taunt, only because she belonged to a third party in the marriage with her husband.
In the 80s, there was a saying that was very popular, men looked at Jin Yong and women looked at Qiong Yao.
Qiong Yao has written countless lingering love stories, and her novels and remakes of film and television dramas have been extremely popular and are the favorites of countless young girls.
Qiong Yao likes to write her life experience and feelings about love into novels.
In "Crescent Moon Grid", the classic line that Crescent Moon said to Yan Ji, "I did not come to break up this family, I came to join this family", is a true portrayal of Qiong Yao's state of mind at that time.
At that time, she and Heping Xintao and his ex-wife were in a love triangle.
Qiong Yao's life is a wonderful and controversial "Qiong Yao love drama".
In 1938, Qiong Yao was born in Sichuan into a family of scholars, his father Chen Zhiping was erudite and talented, a university professor, and his mother was also a good girl.
In 1944, Japanese soldiers hit their doorstep.
In order to escape, 6-year-old Qiong Yao, her parents and 2 younger brothers defected to her grandfather who was far away in Hunan.
Within a few days, the war had reached Hunan again.
Qiong Yao's family once again began a career of escape.
On the way to escape, Qiong Yao's family encountered a Kuomintang team, the leader of the team knew Qiong Yao's father, and the family began to flee behind the troops.
Qiong Yao's two younger brothers were too young, and they were picked up by the porter to follow the family.
Walking along, Qiong Yao's parents found that the porter and the two sons were gone, and they panicked, no longer following the team forward, looking for traces of the two sons everywhere.
In that era, the soldiers were in chaos, and finding someone was like finding a needle in a haystack, and there was little hope.
Suddenly without 2 sons, Qiong Yao's parents were all gray and planned to take Xiao Qiong Yao to jump into the river and commit suicide together.
When they reached the water, Xiao Qiongyao's heart-rending cries re-aroused her parents' desire to survive.
After no longer looking for death, the family of 3 continued to flee, and had the honor of taking the free train of the Republic of China government on the road.
Halfway through, Qiong Yao's parents decided to take a day off and then leave, so they got off the train.
While they were walking down the street, they came across a wounded Soldier of the Kuomintang, one of the units they had fled with.
The wounded soldier recognized Qiong Yao's father and took the initiative to come to them and tell them that the two lost children had been found.
Qiong Yao's family of 5 was reunited again.
In that era of chaos, this was simply a miracle, an absolute refuge of fate.
Because of this incident, Qiong Yao believes in fate very much, which is also reflected in her novels.
Later, Qiong Yao came to Taiwan with her parents.
She loves literature and loves to write.
At the age of 9, he published a short article in the Shanghai Ta Kung Pao, and then there were novels and essays published in newspapers and periodicals, and he became famous for writing in middle school.
Qiong Yao's Chinese grades are very good, she writes well, but other subjects are a mess, and she is often criticized by teachers in school and often criticized by her parents at home.
Qiong Yao had 2 younger brothers and later 1 younger sister.
Her parents were busy taking care of their younger siblings all day, and Qiong Yao, who was the eldest, inevitably neglected to take care of her.
Qiong Yao is a particularly emotional person who likes to infinitely amplify happiness and sadness.
She thinks that her parents don't love her, thinks she is superfluous at home, can't think about it for a while, and commits suicide by taking sleeping pills.
Fortunately, he was found by his parents in time and rescued out of danger.
In 1957, Qiong Yao failed the college entrance examination.
During the time of re-reading, Qiong Yao was very stressed and had nightmares all day.
At this time, a new Chinese language teacher came to Qiong Yao's class, Jiang Ren.
Jiang Ren is 25 years older than Qiong Yao, and he is knowledgeable and elegant.
He was married and had children, but unfortunately all died in the war, and then came to Taiwan alone.
As a teacher, you will naturally pay more attention to those talented students.
Jiang Ren admired the talented Qiong Yao very much and often opened a small stove for her.
Slowly, Qiong Yao developed a strange affection for Jiang Ren and fell in love with him.
In the face of a 25-year-old student who is younger than himself, Jiang Ren also refused at first.
He has normal emotional needs, is a single man again, and eventually accepts Qiong Yao's love.
The two agreed to get married after Qiong Yao graduated from college.
Unfortunately, they could not wait for the day, and Qiong Yao failed the college entrance examination again.
After falling off the list, Qiong Yao once again chose to commit suicide, of course, this time she did not die.
Qiong Yao committed suicide again and again, almost driving her parents crazy.
It was at this time that Qiong Yao's mother learned of Qiong Yao's love affair with her teacher Jiang Ren.
She blamed all of Qiong Yao's problems on Jiang Ren and sued him to the police station for "seducing underage girls."
Qiong Yao and Jiang Ren did not act excessively, and the police department failed to accept it.
Qiong Yao's mother refused to give up and reported Jiang Ren to the Ministry of Education.
In the end, Jiang Ren was expelled from the school, lost his reputation, and ran away.
Qiong Yao's first relationship was forced to end.
After the end of the first relationship, Qiong Yao, who is empty in her heart, meets Ma Senqing, a high-caliber student in Taiwan's foreign language department.
Ma Senqing, like Qiong Yao, loves literature and loves to write.
Qiong Yao soon threw herself into the second relationship, and the two married in 1959.
After marriage, the two lived by writing, and Qiong Yao could not take care of the family, and her life was poor and messy.
In 1961, Qiong Yao gave birth to her son Chen Zhongwei and began to write while taking her son.
In 1963, Qiong Yao's novel "Outside the Window" was published by Crown Publishing House, which became famous in one fell swoop and improved her life.
The novel "Outside the Window" was created by Qiong Yao based on her relationship experience with Jiang Ren.
After the publication of this novel, everyone knew about Qiong Yao's teacher-student relationship.
Ma Senqing is not a generous person, very concerned about this past, coupled with jealousy of Qiong Yao's talent, began to borrow wine to pour sorrow, gambling, and sometimes domestic violence.
In 1964, Qiong Yao took the initiative to file for divorce, ending the first marriage.
Ping Xintao is the president of Crown Magazine.
He greatly admired Qiong Yao's talent, liked her writing, and liked her novels.
He published all of Qiong Yao's novels in Crown Magazine, and actively helped Qiong Yao adapt her works into movies and TV series.
In the beginning, the two only knew each other, but never met.
In 1964, invited by Ping Xintao, Qiong Yao came to Taipei to participate in a talk show, and the two met for the first time.
Ping Xintao had never seen Qiong Yao, but he recognized her at a glance in the bustling crowd of the train station.
Qiong Yao was very strange and asked him how he recognized himself.
Ping Xintao is like qiong yao's male protagonist, he replied romantically, "I know from "Outside the Window", I know from "Six Dreams", I know from "Smoke and Rain"! ”
People who are familiar with Qiong Yao's novel routines must be able to guess the ending of the two people when they read this passage.
At that time, Qiong Yao was also very much like the heroine of her pen, with a beautiful appearance, a pitiful chuchu, and a brilliant talent.
Two romantic people soon fell in love.
Qiong Yao knew that Ping Xintao already had a family and a child, but she was still unwilling to give up this relationship.
Ping Xintao is also very conflicted, and his wife Lin Wanzhen is his nobleman.
His wife's family paid for him to set up Crown Magazine. His wife worked hard to manage the housework and raised 3 excellent children for him.
During this love triangle, qiong yao's novels are mostly sympathetic to Xiao San, and Xiao San's ending is relatively happy in the end.
After Qiong Yao and Ping Xintao experienced a car accident together, they suddenly felt that their lives were short and decided not to suppress the emotions in their hearts.
In 1979, at the age of 52, Ping Xintao and Lin Wanzhen divorced and married Qiong Yao, 41.
Qiong Yao waited for 15 years and finally became Mrs. Ping.
After this, the little three in Qiong Yao's novel mostly did not have a good ending.
It seems that Qiong Yao is also a double standard person.
Qiong Yao is a person who is the supreme in love, because of a love word, she bears the name of a third party.
Because of a love word, he has created countless love stories and become a well-known writer.
Qiong Yao's life is complicated to say, but it is also very simple, she is a heroine who lives in the romance drama where love is supreme.