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Du Yulu, a famous actor in China and a national first-class actor in the Harbin Drama Theatre, has participated in film and television works such as "Yongzheng Dynasty", "Prominent Siege", "Big Mansion Gate", "Provincial Party Secretary", "Dongfang Hong", "Dark War Before Dawn" and other film and television works, and won the Best Actor Award of the TV Drama Feitian Award.
In front of the screen, Du Yulu played a series of official images, whether it is a realistic theme or a costume, a clean official or a corrupt official can be vividly interpreted, in the face of each role, he is strictly required to perform brilliantly, and this also leaves an indelible impression on the audience.
On February 21, 2020, Du Yulu died of illness at home at the age of 79. His death has pushed his long-cherished wife, Zhu Yongjue, and her children into the abyss of grief.
Now that Du Yulu has been ill for more than 2 years, Zhu Yongjue and her husband's 2 daughters are married, and her son is a coach in the ping-pong provincial team, and Zhu Yongjue lives alone in Harbin.
What kind of life is Zhu Yongjue in the days without a husband? Has she come out of the grief of her widow?
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Du Yulu, born in 1941 to an ordinary family in Harbin, Heilongjiang, was admitted to the Harbin Art Institute after graduating from middle school, where he met his confidant Zhu Yongjue.
In 1960, Du Yulu and her lover Zhu Yongjue both graduated, Du Yulu entered the Harbin Drama Theatre and became a drama actor, and her lover Zhu Yongjue entered the Harbin Children's Palace and became the first generation of dance teachers.
At that time, Zhu Yongjue was a famous beauty, and there were many well-off suitors around her, but she had already set a life with Du Yulu in school.
Although Du Yulu was still a poor boy at that time, Zhu Yongjue was the talented Du Yulu, and she thought that Du Yulu would definitely succeed.
At that time, they were together, Zhu Yongjue's parents did not agree, but Zhu Yongjue said: "I will not marry Du Yulu in this life", she impressed her parents with persistence, and had to accept the love between her daughter and Du Yulu.
Two years later, Du Yulu and Zhu Yongjue entered the palace of marriage hand in hand and became a happy couple.
The happiness of the family has made Du Yulu also become the backbone of the drama theater, playing the main role in the stage plays "Songtao Qu", "Dead Ring" and "Harbin at Night".
But it is also because of this drama that he loves all his life, so du Yulu has suffered a lot for it.
In the special era, Du Yulu ushered in unfair treatment and became a porter who sold his physical strength, bearing the task of carrying 50 tons per day.
Those days can be described as miserable, even his own memories many years later, can not help but sigh: very tired, as long as he lies down, he will fall asleep immediately, no matter how dirty the place is, in the middle of the night when the train arrives at any time, he will immediately get up again to unload the goods.
It was such a hard life that did not make the young Du Yulu complain about the world, and completed an important accumulation and precipitation in this ups and downs.
When working as a porter, there are many three religions and nine streams with different origins, identities and personalities, and it is precisely because of this special era that they are gathered together in the same identity, and this also gives Du Yulu a wonderful opportunity to observe life, which also allows him to understand the lives and psychology of various people, laying a good foundation for his future acting career.
When the era ended, he returned to the stage of the drama again, created a classic role, and contributed his own strength to the drama performance, and it was this rich acting and stage experience that made Du Yulu treat the role extremely seriously.
It is said that as much as an actor pays, there will be as much return. Du Yulu is very serious about the work, as long as he enters the crew, he will not leave the film crew, and even never play a scene.
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Since 1979, Du Yulu has appeared on the screen for the first time, stepping into the film and television circle, and his superb acting skills have conquered the audience in front of the screen and the recognition of the industry.
Although the acting skills are superb, but at that time Du Yulu has entered middle age, the film is not lacking, but the important roles are almost not related to it, and Du Yulu, who treats acting seriously, never looks at the size of the role, only looks at the quality of the script.
For nearly 20 years, Du Yulu was running dragon sets and playing supporting roles in the play, until Zhang Tingyu, a loyal minister of the "Yongzheng Dynasty", made him famous.
Nevertheless, for the crew that came to the door, they basically set the role directly for the script and never discussed it with it.
One day in 1999, a crew approached Du Yulu and asked him to star in the TV series "Breaking the Siege", which surprised him, because in his memory, this was the first time that someone came to him for consultation on the script.
After visiting the script, Du Yulu was very excited, because he realized that this was a role that had been waiting for many years, and after 20 years of silence, he finally waited.
In the next few days, Du Yulu took out all the savings of the first half of his life, and even locked himself in a room to study the script, even if his wife and three children were outside stepping on the feet, he ignored it.
Three days later, Du Yulu called the director: I decided to take this scene.
Du Yulu, who has pondered the script, has full preparation and confidence, and he also knows that this play is also a challenge for himself, and his acting skills that have been precipitated for many years must not only be shown to the director, but also to the audience and industry insiders, and more worthy of his years of efforts.
Many years later, in recalling these days, Du Yulu seemed to have returned to that exciting moment: at that time, I really pressed my determination, and if I wanted to perform, I would have to perform!
Sure enough, as soon as the TV series "Highlight the Siege" was broadcast, it caused a great response, and Du Yulu also appeared on the stage of the TV Series Feitian Awards with this role, winning the Best Actor Award.
After that, Du Yulu can really be described as a hairless, "The Gate of the Great House", "The Secretary of the Provincial Party Committee", "The Granary of the World" and other popular dramas, there are Du Yulu's figures, that wonderful acting skills and moving image, has become the audience's deepest impression.
At the age of 20, he entered the Harbin Drama Theatre and embarked on the road of acting; at the age of 30, he was forced to leave the stage due to a special era; at the age of 40, he began to set foot in the film and television circle; he became famous at the age of 50; and became a hot first-line star at the age of 60.
It can be said that Du Yulu has experienced many ups and downs along the way, and behind this are hardships and tears.
Du Yulu, who is known as "the first old student in China's film and television industry", his fame is by no means lucky and accidental, but inevitable, because he has a footprint step by step, and the thick accumulation carries his fame.
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As an actor, the golden age is only a few years, and it passes in the blink of an eye.
But Du Yulu entered the film and television circle at the age of 40, and her life also entered an involuntary stage. Ever since he appeared in the 1979 film "The Spy", he has been approached to shoot scenes, and every time he has listened to the arrangement.
At that time, Du Yulu did not have any fame, only such treatment, to know that the crew he starred in, the script will not be shown to him, let him act, but Du Yulu has no complaints, still does not let go of every opportunity.
In Du Yulu's view, everyone has a stage of waiting in their lives, and only by accumulating and constantly improving in waiting can they get harvested.
Because he himself is, waiting for more than ten years to wait for "Highlight Revisited". During this period, he has been silently preparing, because he believes: the opportunity has come, you are not ready, that is your own problem, everyone has adversity, what is important is what mentality you use to look at it, persistence must have hope.
In the circle, Du Yulu's dedication is famous, life is very restrained, rarely drunk, but in order to reflect the drunkenness of the character, he took the initiative to drink half a bottle of two pots; he can forget the birthdays and mobile phone numbers of his family, but he can gush back lines in the play.
For the acting career, Du Yulu has always done his best to treat, even in the seventies and eighties, the actor's remuneration is pitifully small, but he still devotes himself to creation.
Even when he entered the age of Hua Jia, he still stuck to his job. After decades of acting, someone asked him if he felt tired?
Du Yulu answered truthfully: Sometimes it will be a little, but the family gives endless motivation.
When he said this, Du Yu appeared with some warmth. He has a happy family, his wife Zhu Yongjue is a dance teacher at the Harbin Children's Palace, and has cultivated many literary and artistic talents, such as Fu Yiwei, Wang Luyao and others, and even in the TV series "Dream of the Red Chamber", many of her students are her students.
Du Yulu and Zhu Yongjue are not only a loving couple, but also 3 very sensible children, both daughters are married and have children, they have not entered the show business, but have started a business, and a son Du Gang, who is the coach of the ping-pong team, even Kong Linghui, who is famous in the ping-pong world, was enlightened from him.
For his son Du Gang, Du Yulu said with great pride: He is the enlightenment coach of the world champion, and I am his enlightenment coach; teaching his son multi-ball serve method to keep him in the correct posture.
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Every time someone asks Du Yulu for an autograph, his wife Zhu Yongjue will quip on the side: Old, old, how did you become a star?
For this old partner who has accompanied the wind and rain for decades, Du Yulu's eyes are full of tenderness, so many years, Du Yulu can become famous and fire, all thanks to his wife Zhu Yongjue.
In 2002, after Zhu Yongjue retired from the Harbin Children's Palace, she was inseparable from her husband. There was no time to be together before, and when she was old, Zhu Yongjue chose to accompany him and take good care of him.
Whenever Du Yulu went to the crew to shoot a scene, Zhu Yongjue would accompany him, carefully prepare three meals a day for her husband, and even help her husband sort out the announcement, so that Du Yulu saved more than half of the time.
When Du Yulu was taking over the role, Zhu Yongjue became a pawnbroker, and under her careful selection, she left the good script to Du Yulu.
Du Yulu in the play is an old artist with superb acting skills; outside the play, he is an ordinary old man, and when he is fine, he follows his wife for a walk in the park and goes to the vegetable market to buy vegetables.
Neighbors and friends and relatives who know each other praise them, they are so old, and they are sweetly like a young couple.
For his own success, Du Yulu also said: I really want to thank my old partner Zhu Yongjue, who has taken care of me for so many years and helped me.
In Du Yulu's view, the happiness and peace of the family is more important than anything.
It's just that happiness is quickly broken by bad news.
In 2009, while filming the TV series "Dark War Before Dawn", Du Yulu suddenly developed a high fever, and after going to the hospital for examination, he found that he had been diagnosed with lung cancer.
After getting her husband's medical records, Zhu Yongjue almost fainted, her children were far away in Harbin, she felt that her heart was empty, and she did not know what to do.
After being seen by Du Yulu, Zhu Yongjue in grief also persuaded her that although he learned that he had lung cancer, he still maintained an optimistic and cheerful personality.
Despite being diagnosed with lung cancer, Du Yulu still insisted on going to the treatment after filming, and Zhu Yongjue, who was forced to be helpless, had to agree.
Then, Zhu Yongjue accompanied her husband Du Yulu to receive chemotherapy in the hospital, and under the torment of illness, Du Yulu was as thin as a bamboo pole, and the pain was unbearable. Looking at her painful husband, Zhu Yongjue couldn't help but cry, but she never cried in front of her husband, so she hid alone in the bamboo forest behind the hospital and wept.
In front of her husband, Zhu Yongjue collected her grief and showed a positive and optimistic side: the doctor said that your body is recovering well, if you insist on treatment, you can be cured, and we can go back to Harbin and shoot with the crew.
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Because it was detected early, the disease was also well controlled.
It is only with the older age, and the recurrence of the disease, resulting in Du Yulu being admitted to the hospital many times, knowing that her husband's appetite is not good, Zhu Yongjue can only spend her mind to make food, hoping that her husband can eat more bites.
During the Spring Festival of 2020, when night flooded the entire city, fireworks celebrating Chinese New Year's Eve sounded outside. The family is reunited and spending the Spring Festival together happily, while Zhu Yongjue looks at her weak husband, and the sadness in her heart is beyond reproach.
It was late at night, and through the dim light shining in from the window, Zhu Yongjue could only shed tears helplessly.
Yes, as long as one person in the family has a serious illness, then the whole family will no longer have happiness to speak of, and the kind of grief, anxiety, and worry cannot be described in words.
During the Spring Festival, the children were at home to accompany Du Yulu and Zhu Yongjue, seeing the emaciated and weak Du Yulu, the children could not help but cry bitterly, they hoped to send their father to the hospital for treatment again, but the arrival of the epidemic made Du Yulu refuse.
In February 2020, the cancer cells in Du Yulu's body spread wildly, and he often fell into a coma, and his life also entered the countdown. On February 21, Du Yulu died of lung cancer.
At the time of his death, he left the last words to the world: the universe is so big, we will still meet.
At the same time, I also said to my wife: After I leave, you must be strong and optimistic.
In the face of her husband's words, Zhu Yongjue burst into tears.
At his funeral, only 6 people were present, just because during the epidemic, everything was from Jane.
And because of this special situation, there was no obituary, but the family simply notified on the social platform.
After bidding farewell to her husband, Zhu Yongjue fell into a huge grief, washing her face with tears every day, and her spirit was even more trance-like. In just a few days, Zhu Yongjue had lost a lot of weight, as if she had aged 10 years.
Looking at the grief-stricken Zhu Yongjue, the children all want to take her to live together, hoping that the new living environment can erase the sadness of the mother.
It's just that Zhu Yongjue and her husband have been in the same boat for 58 years and have deep feelings, especially after 2002, Zhu Yongjue, who has been with her husband, those stormy years cannot be forgotten.
Whenever she went downstairs to the park for a walk, she could recall the scene when she sat in the park with her husband, and whenever she recalled this time, she couldn't help but cry.
Originally, Zhu Yongjue lived with her children for a while, but she took the initiative to return to Harbin, she said: I really can't let go of your father, back to Harbin, I am closer to him, I really don't have the heart to live here.
In desperation, the children could only obey their mothers.
Du Yulu's departure made Zhu Yongjue's feelings empty, but she was still attached to her husband, and even the furnishings at home were still the same as usual.
Zhu Yongjue, who lives at home, will also habitually call Du Yulu and ask him to help with things, but after the reaction, she will cry bitterly.
In the face of Zhu Yongjue's situation, the children will take turns to call her, and encourage her to come out of the shadows, otherwise if she sees you like this, her father will not rest in peace over there.
The words of the children touched Zhu Yongjue. In order to reassure her husband, Zhu Yongjue hid tears and grief in the deepest part of her heart, a strong life.
On her husband's death day, various festivals and anniversaries, Zhu Yongjue would cook his favorite dishes. Because her obsession with her husband has not diminished at all, but she chooses to bury this obsession in her heart.
In this way, Zhu Yongjue was strong in grief and missed her husband in strength.
In May 2022, Du Yulu has been dead for more than 2 years, Zhu Yongjue has behaved very strongly, and her life has returned to normal. Although Zhu Yongjue still has pain in her heart, she lives strongly.
She knew that this kind of pain would accompany her for the rest of her life, but no matter how many hardships and difficulties lie ahead, Zhu Yongjue would bravely face it!
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