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In a show, Yi Nengjing said the small details of her daily relationship with her husband Qin Hao, she said that she and her husband are still physiologically different, so she will not change clothes in front of him, nor will she go to the bathroom in front of him...
After saying this, everyone at the scene was surprised, Huang Shengyi also opened his mouth and couldn't believe it after hearing it, needless to say, this expression showed that Huang Shengyi and his wife were definitely not like this at home, and then Yi Nengjing continued to say, saying that because he usually did this, Qin Hao would also deliberately go to the changing room when changing clothes
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In her words, she felt that even between husband and wife, it was important to maintain that bit of mystery. There is a saying that the minibus still quite agrees with Yi Nengjing's view, after all, it is two independent individuals, some space is still left to themselves, and many small partners have commented and agreed with this
Especially married people are more comfortable with this behavior
03
Some people say that couples have lived together for a long time without passion, and I want to say that people who stay together for a lifetime can't just have passion, if there is passion, it is not enough for two people to hold hands through decades of wind and rain, there must be an element of emotional affection in it, such as worrying and worrying about the other half
When not meeting, worry about whether the other party has enough to eat and wear warmly, and care about whether the other party is lonely and eager to accompany, which needs to be supported by the foundation of feelings. Of course, it is also important to maintain a proper sense of mystery. This kind of intimacy is naturally much more intimate than that of parents, but it cannot be completely as unrestrained as a person
04
I have watched a show called "Diary of a New Student", in which Li Ai and her agent husband have a habit, that is, after marriage, 2 people have been sleeping in separate rooms, once pregnant Li Ai slept downstairs with a big belly, and her husband went upstairs to sleep after kissing her goodbye
But Li Ai said that this is the habit of 2 people for many years, and he feels that there is no intimacy and does not feel that the feelings will be cold
05
I believe that there are still few couples like this, right? It is not excluded that some people have special habits or sensitive reasons, but I would like to say that the situation of sleeping in separate rooms is not only in Li Ai's body
And like Yi Nengjing, after living to a certain age, there is a lot of wisdom, some things she can deal with rationally and emotionally, just like Yi Nengjing said, she will never let her husband watch her makeup, even if there is not the whole scene, because when she is making up, she will make a very pompous expression
Maybe Qin Hao wouldn't mind, but Yi Nengjing would still deliberately leave this not-so-beautiful scene to her husband
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In addition, there is a female artist in the entertainment industry who is more exaggerated than Yi Nengjing, she is the big S, maybe some small partners already know, the big S is the kind of person who remains very mysterious in front of the boyfriend, for example, she said that she will never fart in front of the boyfriend, and even if she usually goes to the toilet, she will not be in front of the boyfriend
See here someone said, after all, is sleeping together people, how to avoid well, big S said that if you go to the toilet, then you will be very careful, absolutely will not make a sound for your boyfriend to hear, to be honest, maybe this mode of getting along, big S in front of the boyfriend is estimated to have always been the image of a fairy, right?
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Of course, this may be a bit strange, but it feels like Yi Nengjing and Qin Hao's mode of getting along is still quite good, trusting and cherishing each other, but appropriately and deliberately maintaining the image in front of the other half, life can not only be passionate, but also can not only be family affection, balance is the king, right?
I wish the world's husband and wife harmony and obedience, happiness and happiness