"Where Did Daddy Go" introduced us to a group of cute children of star artists.
Now, after many years, great changes have taken place for their respective families, and these children themselves have gradually grown up.
Wang Shiling's paintings won the Gold Medal of the Little Maupassant Cup and qualified to participate in the touring exhibitions of the Louvre Museum and the Svan Castle in France. Father Wang Yuelun sent a text to celebrate.
Hu Haokang and Shi Shi also grew into big and small gangs.
And for example, today it is also rumored that it is in love.
As soon as it was exposed, it quickly appeared on the hot search, which attracted the discussion of the melon-eating masses, after all, today's tiantian is only 14 years old. For the love of minors, it is natural to encounter mixed praise and criticism from all sides, and even began an Internet storm, which brought certain harm to the two children.
As a father, Zhang Liang also issued an urgent article in response to this matter, and through this article, he really taught the public a good lesson, especially parents.
First of all, we must recognize the problem and define the scope.
Zhang Liang recalled his experience in junior high school, and through his own experience, he believed that it was normal for children of this age to have a good feeling for the opposite sex, but it needed a boundary range.
In fact, this also indirectly shows that his son is in love, but how to define such a love is naturally a matter for parents and children. In the face of problems, we cannot avoid them, first we must recognize the existence of problems, analyze problems, and then we can prescribe the right medicine. Children in adolescence have a good feeling for the opposite sex, which is indeed a normal phenomenon, whether it is physical or psychological, they are in the development stage, and eventually there will naturally be external performance.
Taking myself as an example, I actually tell everyone that each of us will go through this stage and will have this feeling, but in a different way. But the severity of this problem does not depend on the problem itself, but on how to deal with it. That is, a bounded range is required.
Secondly, as a parent, you must grasp it with both hands.
What is grasping with both hands, on the one hand is a healthy physique, on the other hand is a psychological problem.
Of course, there is also a premise, that is, children at this age, learning is still the first priority, and other things are secondary. With this focus clearly defined, it is much easier to deal with its problems. But it doesn't mean that it can be solved, after all, psychological problems are far more complicated than health problems.
Therefore, as a parent, we must first understand clearly, rather than generalize and indiscriminately deny it. For such a problem, what kind of range it is in, whether there is harm or not, it is necessary to understand and evaluate, and it is necessary to consider the problem from the perspective of the child, rather than thinking from the perspective of the adult. For children, they have to go through this stage, whether it is too relaxed or too strict, it is not conducive to the growth of children, so guidance has become quite important.
Finally, Internet violence should not be tolerated, and children should be educated to respect and understand guidance.
Cyberbullying is now becoming more and more unbridled. Since the beginning of this year, there have been a number of Internet riot incidents that have caused a huge sensational effect, and major platforms have also begun to strengthen management, which is obviously more difficult for the Internet violence against two minor children today. Such words and deeds must be condemned and opposed.
As an adult, it is important to protect children, not to hurt.
The premise of educating children is respect, understanding and guidance. As independent individuals, regardless of age, respect is the premise, only by respecting each other, it is possible to continue to negotiate and solve problems. Then also understand, after all, each age has its own words and deeds, put yourself in the shoes of the person, is the real respect and understanding. The various problems that arise in children, as parents, must be very concerned, but no matter how concerned, they must also analyze specific problems, deal with them in a guided way, and develop in a good direction, rather than developing in an extreme direction, and then the consequences are unimaginable.
The problem of early childhood love is a common phenomenon among adolescent children, of course, there are more problems, such as rebellion, etc. In the face of these problems, how to look at them, how to solve them, is an educational problem, not a standard answer like mathematics. Of course, as celebrities, children themselves are concerned by the public, but there will be many problems, but for the melon-eating masses, we are not only the melon-eating masses, and even most of them are big brothers, big sisters, or uncles and aunts, etc. For the problem of children, we must look at it rationally and calmly, rather than attacking it in a swarm.
As the parents of celebrities, they naturally know how to educate their children, they will also have their own ways and methods, and ordinary people can not take the past variety show content as an eternity, or blame them with their own standards of right and wrong.
In short, rational view, objective analysis, understanding and respect, after all, people still have parents, far from the need to eat melon masses to worry. As a parent and friend, Zhang Liang also gave everyone a good lesson.