"The depth of the water is slow, and the people are expensive and late": the really powerful people, the rich do not show off, the poor do not cry bitter

■ Author: Uncle Nanshan

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01, preface.

Ancients cloud: the depth of the water is slow, and the language is late and expensive. The meaning of this sentence is that the deeper the water, the smoother the speed of the water flow; the more advanced the level, the slower the speed of speech, the more impatient. "Gentlemen are cautious in their words to cultivate their virtues", for people to deal with the world, really intelligent people, understand that in many cases, to "see through and not say broken", because "see through but do not say broken", in fact, is a kind of wisdom.

Around us, we often see some people who always like to be in the limelight, talk without thinking, and say whatever they want. In fact, such a person is a very stupid person, and such a person is also a person who can easily offend others. In life, if we do not understand the principle of "cautious speech", then we will hit nails everywhere in life, and we will not get good connections and resources. Therefore, "the depth of the water is slow, and the people are expensive and late": the really powerful people, rich do not show off, poor do not cry bitter.

02, really powerful people, do not like "brocade night walking".

Ancients Cloud: Rich and noble do not return to their hometown, such as brocade night walking. Yes, many people have the same mood as Xiang Yu after becoming rich and noble, that is, "anxious to return to the east". Perhaps, driving a luxury car, with a lot of gifts, back to the hometown in the countryside, will bring a lot of envious eyes, but we also need to know that there are also many people who envy the eyes, which will become "jealousy and hatred". Moreover, once our rich and eminent things are known to some people who like to borrow money, then our surroundings will be lively, and those people will rush to borrow money from us.

If we lend them money, there's a good chance that the money will never come back. And if we don't lend them money, then we will be the target of these people, and when we return to the countryside, we will be poked in the spine and scolded. This is the reality, so the really powerful people know this truth. Even if they are rich and noble, they still maintain their own low-key behavior. When they meet someone who really needs help, they will also silently give each other help without letting others know. The really powerful people are the people who really "keep their mouths and keep their hearts" and are people who deserve our respect.

03, really powerful people, like to fight silently.

When people live, they need to struggle. Some people, just come out to struggle, set a lofty life goal, and then talk to people everywhere about their life ideals and their own direction of struggle. In fact, such a person is a very stupid person, because before his goal is realized, it is actually a kind of empty talk. If we go around telling others about our goals in life, then even if such a thing is achieved, everyone will take it for granted. And once we can't achieve it, then we will become the object of ridicule and ridicule.

On the contrary, really powerful people will not easily reveal their goals in life. They know that if a person wants to achieve his goal in life to get ahead, he can't rely on his mouth alone. Therefore, they will silently formulate life goals for each step, and then rely on their own efforts to move forward step by step. Even if they encounter difficulties and obstacles, they will find ways to solve them silently. Such people are actually really powerful people, they like to struggle silently, they like not to give up until they reach the goal, and success, they also like people who struggle silently.

04, the really powerful people, the poor are alone.

Mencius said, "The poor are good for themselves, and the poor are good for the world." What does this sentence mean? The meaning of this sentence is that when a person is not ambitious, he must clean himself up and pay attention to improving his personal cultivation and morality; when a person is enlightened, he must think of carrying forward the good. However, when a person is rich, it is easy to be good. They will be happy in the process of doing good deeds. On the contrary, when a person is poor, it is difficult to be "alone".

Because people are in difficult situations, their hearts are always flustered, their actions are always panicked, and they will look around for a life-saving straw. And some bad behaviors and money confusion around them are very easy to let people in trouble go to the "thief ship" that they should not go on, and finally "people in the rivers and lakes, involuntarily". Therefore, if a person can keep his heart in the difficult situation, keep the bottom line of his own life, keep the bottom line of his emotions, and keep himself clean in the difficult situation. Such a person with peace of mind, even if he encounters a big wind and rain, he can not "hurt his bones" and can slowly get out of the predicament of life.

05, really powerful people, poor people do not cry bitter.

In people's predicament, the most terrible thing is not the lack of food and clothing. Because, in this society, as long as we are willing to put down our bodies and learn to accept some seemingly humble low-level jobs, with our efforts, we can get a salary to feed ourselves and our families. People are in a difficult situation, and what they are most afraid of is a Xianglin sister-in-law-style mouth. Such a person, deeply in trouble, the most favorite thing is to pull others to complain every day, pour out their own encounters, their own unsatisfactory, and the unfair treatment they have received.

You know, people like to listen to good words, for those words with negative emotions, listen to more, everyone will be bored, and when they meet again later, everyone will choose to avoid it, and even have a sense of disgust for each other. As a result, it is even more difficult for people who are in deep trouble to get help from others. And the really powerful people are well aware of this truth, when they are poor, they never cry bitterness, but choose to bear it slowly, they know, "suffering is not bitter, only they know best." And if you want to really counterattack in life, you can only rely on yourself. Therefore, such a person is often the person who can most realize the turning of the page of life, and such a person is the real and most powerful person.

06, Concluding Remarks.

Friends, "the depth of the water is slow, and the people are expensive and the language is late": the really powerful people, the rich do not show off, the poor do not cry bitter. Do you think it makes sense? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss. Thank you.

【About the author】:Uncle Nanshan, focusing on original emotional stories, folk stories and emotional beauty writing, has published 6 books on emotions, beautiful texts and stories. Major self-media platforms original plus V authors, major platforms accumulated millions of fan authors, major platforms cumulative clicks more than 500 million times. Uncle Nanshan aims to give everyone more small stories of positive energy through simple words, tell everyone some truths about being a person, and feel some beautiful little luck in life.